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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Benwallt(m): 5:09pm On Dec 15, 2019
grin grin grin
Firstorderwizard:


Is this a joke?
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by themanderon: 5:11pm On Dec 15, 2019
Pray and ask God to deliver you from those demons responsible for the act, read your bible and most importantly stay busy and don't ever be alone so such thoughts do not overwhelm you and make you go back to it.
Its a powerful chain that only God can break. Ask him and believe, he will set you free.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Bizzyliss(m): 5:13pm On Dec 15, 2019
U neve see toto wey sweet if not masturbation go run leave u
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by olamariamjonez(m): 5:15pm On Dec 15, 2019
Bro, you have to stop watching porn, then get yourself busy.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by SMART9797: 5:18pm On Dec 15, 2019
Samfloxin:
Marry a wife,it will really really help your situation...it will reduce it drastically and then you will stop
Its a lie, marrying a wife will not stop it.
continous prayers to God will help you. Read prov 16:3. Anytime the urge comes knell down and begin to pray binding those demons responsible for it. Pray frequently and u will overcome. may God be with u. AMEN.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by benn94(m): 5:20pm On Dec 15, 2019
gregyboy:


I have a similar case as you i have finally quit it but first
What are the symptoms you're experiencing

Trust me quitting masturbation is the best exprience ever i could really help you i started mine at 12 ended this yr and i am 25 too
So tell me your symptoms

How can I stop it, I am 25 too
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by soludo555(m): 5:22pm On Dec 15, 2019
6 to 7 times a day cry cry cry? My brother by now I think your tank is already dried
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by belcom10(m): 5:23pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nobody is deceiving any here, if you attended the lord chosen as you claimed. Have you gone for deliverance, have you surrender totally to God. God see's the heart. Have you seek for counselling . You can't be in the river and soap enter your eyes.
My brother take the bold step talk to your pastor about it ,attend crusade God will heal you. Peace!


Olamilekxy:


and who told you that those attending Lords chosen church don't masturbate ?
let stop deceiving ourselves.

for your info, I attend lord chosen church and yet I masturbate ��

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by aimuan(m): 5:24pm On Dec 15, 2019
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?
The fact that science has not really proven the side effects of masturbation shows that science has flaws.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by InvertedHammer: 5:24pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.
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Anything worth doing is worth doing well.

You got to pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aSn1g-6h1OQ




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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by byinks(f): 5:25pm On Dec 15, 2019
Get a girlfriend who gives great BJ.
And masturbation will instantly become boring to you.

Pls. Don't PM me.
I'm not available.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tonididdy(m): 5:27pm On Dec 15, 2019
Yikes shocked

Do you still release cum @the 5th time... � go be like spit. Pfff.....
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Meomonla: 5:29pm On Dec 15, 2019
Any form of addiction is a serious problem. I feel and understand your pain. I am also a masturbation addict but not as bad as yours. Every addition needs time to ease away. Now I can do days or weeks without masturbating. I feel your pains bro..but I am sorry to disappoint you,only you can help yourself. Occupy yourself with positive work and avoid been alone whenever you think of sex

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ledaman: 5:35pm On Dec 15, 2019
You need to get married or fast daily to reduce the urge!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Elioandrew: 5:37pm On Dec 15, 2019
Seriously, you don't need nairaland. Yes it's good to talk to people, but at this point, you need to talk to your pastor. You need Jesus to step in at this point.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by luluosas(m): 5:38pm On Dec 15, 2019
Please, do all it will take you to visit Jesus Christ Temple Ministry, Warri, Delta State, this Wednesday. Please, don't fail. Jesus will set you free. Amen

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 5:38pm On Dec 15, 2019
Continue.............
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by studentofTruth: 5:39pm On Dec 15, 2019
0monnak0da:
Masturbating that many times a day is what is described as "compulsive" behaviour.

It is not driven by high libido necessarily but by deeper psychological problems like anxiety, depression ,low self esteem or PTSD

Basically you are using that activity as a form of MOOD REGULATION to manage feelings of dysphoria

This could also be seen with social media/internet addiction, smoking, drugs etc.
For some people it is not masturbation but actual sex with real partners with a compulsive pattern
Many people are addicted to their phones/internet and do not know.
For some it is eating FOOD. Compulsive eating is also a common and related problem but quite hidden
It really makes little difference
Masturbation is not good or bad just like eating .... it depends . When it becomes compulsive or is used to regulate mood or "feel better" then you have a problem

So the activity is a SYMPTOM of the problem and not the real problem. If you stop it without dealing with the real problem a different set of symptoms would emerge.

Life is a journey and problems are there to teach us lessons
Giving up the breast is painful for the child but is necessary to progress to the next level
Try reading up on Attachment Theory
You will be fine when the time comes


The only reasonable comment here!
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Finestbae1(f): 5:40pm On Dec 15, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.


I don't know what is wrong with Nigerians. Masturbating is normal thing. As a Lady, I touch myself sometimes when my bf is out of the country.. no biggie!

OP, you can not stop masturbating, but can reduce it.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Innobee99(m): 5:42pm On Dec 15, 2019
ghettokid1:
i wan learn too
Don't pray for this bro
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by dividebyone(m): 5:43pm On Dec 15, 2019
My advice to you young man is that, just get a wives or be involving in
fasting. It will surely help you. May God deliver us.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Sammyblack87: 5:44pm On Dec 15, 2019
Pls try nd visit synagogue church in Lagos, TB Joshua, you be free... There is a spirit behind it
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by OcMichaels(m): 5:46pm On Dec 15, 2019
Gofwane:
. . . In the name of the right hand, I charge you to be soft to your preek.

In the name of the vaseline, I charge you to be slippery.

And in the name of more pleasure, I charge you to visit xvideos.com


Arise and jo soapy till you burst a nut grin

I actually scrolled down to see a comment liky this...alas
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Finestbae1(f): 5:47pm On Dec 15, 2019
dividebyone:
My advice to you young man is that, just get a wives or be involving in
fasting. It will surely help you. May God deliver us.

pls correct your English
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Okemmuo(m): 5:47pm On Dec 15, 2019
First of all. Whats your financial status? If its good fine...secondly,get a girlfriend you really love and the feeling is mutual. Thirdly,get her pregnant and take up the responsibility. The problem will vamose by itself. A stubborn dick only learns when it has commited
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by OcMichaels(m): 5:48pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible
The major General of the masturbation batallion has spoken, he found this to be impossible with respect to his many years of experience in this field.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by smileyoo: 5:49pm On Dec 15, 2019
bros, its very easy
to stop. 1. make-up your mind to stop it. 2. believe its not difficult to stop. 3. listen to sound christain music constantly, especially during those tempting moments. 4. always listen to great preachers of the word. 5 be a great lover of quality books, read good spiritual books daily. 6. daily embark on beneficial physical activities. if you daily occupy your mind, with positive physical & spiritual activities, each day 'll elapse without you remembering what's called masturbation. 7. see masturbation as a debasement of your manhood, instead of seeing it as a pleasure, because when you programme your mind to hate it as a vice, you may not go back to it easily.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Brightergrammer: 5:50pm On Dec 15, 2019
SkinnyNigga:
6 times a day kill you there.. who you think you fooling? e no even dey possible
no mind am, else heart attack go kill am.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by studentofTruth: 5:51pm On Dec 15, 2019
ceeroh:
If you're not in Lagos, move there. Get a job in a toxic work environment that takes 12hours of your day. Then coupled with traffic. By the time you get home, you no go even remember where you keep your vaseline.

Stress, in itself, is one of the major factors that lead to masturbation addiction. People don't get addicted to masturbation because they love it. No, most masturbation addicts use as a way to release stress — to ease off. For some, it's become a compulsive act, without which they can't concentrate on what they're doing or even fall asleep at night!

It baffles me that people think that masturbation is all about using hands, Vaseline, soap, etc. Real masturbation addicts can stimulate themselves and ejaculate by simply lying and moving their genitals against any firm surface — mattress, pillow, floor, chairs, table, wall, and all have you!

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by fortunechy(m): 5:51pm On Dec 15, 2019
Be more closer to God. Avoid staying alone. When the urge comes,read ur Bible or move out. Force urself to stop watching porn..... Most of it all, ask God for directions
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by DMerciful(m): 5:55pm On Dec 15, 2019
OP created this to get comments and possibly front page. He is not telling us the truth.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by OcMichaels(m): 5:56pm On Dec 15, 2019
We are many on this street ...
I used to feel this way some years ago, then I got a girlfriend who understands everything,
She helped me get over the urge most times.....


Just find something doing, don't stay alone.....
Get a girl friend (a wild and matured one like mine).

It may take time, but eventually it will no longer be an addiction.

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