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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Westernlove: 7:56pm On Dec 16, 2019
Ravenbeast1:



How can you say masturbation is harmless?
Do you know the amount of nutrients you waste!?
Do you know how long it takes to replace nutrients after one Nutting!

Do you knw that masturbation is self sexual gratification and that's considered Immoral!

Are you aware that masturbation comes with depression and guilt!
Are you aware it affects your sexual life!

Are you aware it drains you physically and emotionally?

Have you seen that he's suffering?
Now how can you say masturbation is ok!

That we do some bad things don't mean it's not

Idi.ot shut your stinky smelly mouth

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Zimazee(m): 8:29pm On Dec 16, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

I feel your agony bro..
I was in your position before and these words works like miracle to me each time demons seems to whisper the thought to masturbate to my mind..
I simply read "psalm 23"
Note: Try to know and recite these verses of-head it help mostly.
Then end it with " Our lords Prayer" which is
"My Father whom art in heaven, Hello be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven, give me this day, my daily bread, forgive me my trespasses as I forgive those whom trespasses against me, lead me not into temptation, but deliver me of all evil... Amen

Note: try as much as possible to recite (the "Psalms" b4 the *Lord's Prayer"wink each time the whisperers or the urge to masturbate comes

May God guild you more as you find your path back to his Grace.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by goldenfrosh(m): 9:14pm On Dec 16, 2019
Vick4rill:
you don't get it bro, masturbation is not all about using hand and Vaseline, just lieing down pressing my genital on the carpet or floor with sexual image makes me release. if it is issue of hand and Vaseline it would have been easier



Once did this but you can stop.....
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by debraleey: 11:16pm On Dec 16, 2019

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J9GHmBWU_p4


Watch this video

You can be free from it
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Akuruoulo(m): 11:38pm On Dec 16, 2019
horpigee1:
and that was y I gave him an advise
That's a Sicky advise
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by James4424: 2:56am On Dec 17, 2019
Vick4rill:
This all started right from my primary school days when l was barely 10yrs Old. Am now through with my university and l am still battling with this addiction.

The minimum time l masturbate in a day is four times. A times six or seven. l look so lean and weak, am always tired due to this habit, l find it hard to relate with girls despite being an extrovert.

I Am a porn addict. Most times l try to stop this habit by deleting all the porn in my phone but l keep going back, the force is just too strong. l can barely keep an erection when having sex with a woman, barely 25yrs old.

l most a times take Viagra when meeting a girl. l need help Nairalnders, this thing is killing me.

bro you just have high sex drive . no big deal.
and for the short time. it is natural for a man to last 2 to 6 minute
s to be satisfied . it is women that needs more time.
and for the masturbation . it is because of the high sex drive i said earlier . just find something to take your time away. you will forget porn
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ejiro20192109(m): 8:48am On Dec 17, 2019
after carefully reading the comment I must say some are really informative while some are destructive and have no meaning or whatsoever. I'm so sorry you are struggling with this. Believe me I know how you are feeling, all the hurt, the anger, the pain, the tears and the promises you make after each relapsing only to see yourself in it again. There are times the thought of coming suicide becomes the only thing that makes sense. I'm happy that you have taken the first step towards recovery which is coming out and asking for help. You are not alone in this fight and I have seen some comment that seem promising towards healing of this addiction. Forgive yourself please this is the second phase of healing and you need an accountability partner one who will always hold you in account. it not easy cause once you have an accountability partner you lose control. they disturb the hell out of you. but its for a good cause this kind of addiction demands strict and consistent follow up so that you can be free. I'm also an addict of porn and masturbation and I can tell you my recovering its better than last year. We have a Truecaller group called FAPAM - Fight Against Porn And Masturbation Group. you can chat me up on Truecaller on 08160796095. Im looking forward to helping you get the healing you deserve together we can experience freedom over porn and masturbation.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Greyman11(m): 10:24am On Dec 17, 2019
mechanics:
I was not quick to quote bro, because his case requires real deliverance by genuine men of God.
Then you should have asked me who I am before asking whether the step is godly, all the same we are not quarrelling, to free people from the bondage of sexual addiction is one of the things God called me to do, and he also called you and every other person that devotes time to fellowship and commune with the holy spirit, this is something that mere children of God can do if they apply spiritual principles, it is not assigned to men of God only, you just need to discipline yourself spiritually and avoid all occasions of presumptuous sins, walk in the spirit of Christ, know your God, receive impartation of the holy spirit, believe and you will obtain the signs that Jesus promised will follow them that believe. There are laws to everything on Earth, the laws is just what genuine men of God and Children of God follow and you see them work wonders, it is obtainable, but it requires separation, and that is what many believers don't want to do because they are still listing after worldly things and trying to please people and so the light of God is far from them and the devil so deals mightily with them even when they claim to be christians.
Lust and all manifestation of it's form are interlinked, when you start one, there is no certainty that you will not try another one,
Some homosexuals and lesbians today started with sleeping with opposite sex and maybe after a long party and too many alcohol, they slept with the same sex and little by little, they started loving the same sex than opposite sex, those same people can sleep with the same sex who are their relations, a girl can sleep with her Anty if you starve her an opportunity of sleeping with a guy, masturbation sets in when you have fed this sexual urge to a point that it grows that you must have it daily, this is one spirit manifesting in various forms, a boy or a gal that is fornicating can also masturbate and also sleep with someone's husband or wife, it is the same spirit at work.. And it requires total surrender to Jesus Christ and following up the steps for an effective deliverance and discipleship, man is a tripartite being (spirit, soul and body) surrendering to Jesus conquers your spirit man, deliverance and discipleship conquers your soul because you now replace those evil habits with godly habit, it might seem tough at first and one might fall out once or twice in the process, but it requires diligence and focus on Jesus to win over this process, and that is why Paul said that we must work out our salvation with fear and trembling.
If you have this masturbation issue, call or WhatsApp me again on this number
07063236391
You must end this year a new man, forget the season, I sort for my deliverance on my birthday, I was In an isolated place for three days with the retreats and the prayers and laying of hands by men of God that God saved from the same bondage of lust and all manner of sin, I got back ever since and after obeying all I was taught, I have never ever yearned for sex in a long while, and my focus and my purpose in life has been clear and I will not go into details of my testimonies since I started doing the work of God, it is available for all, Jesus has paid the price, you just need to grow in the knowledge of him that has called us into glory and virtue and then through his divine power, obtain all that pertains to life and godliness, God bless u and all that reads this, and y'all have a wonderful day.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by mechanics(m): 12:20pm On Dec 17, 2019
Greyman11:

Then you should have asked me who I am before asking whether the step is godly, all the same we are not quarrelling, to free people from the bondage of sexual addiction is one of the things God called me to do, and he also called you and every other person that devotes time to fellowship and commune with the holy spirit, this is something that mere children of God can do if they apply spiritual principles, it is not assigned to men of God only, you just need to discipline yourself spiritually and avoid all occasions of presumptuous sins, walk in the spirit of Christ, know your God, receive impartation of the holy spirit, believe and you will obtain the signs that Jesus promised will follow them that believe. There are laws to everything on Earth, the laws is just what genuine men of God and Children of God follow and you see them work wonders, it is obtainable, but it requires separation, and that is what many believers don't want to do because they are still listing after worldly things and trying to please people and so the light of God is far from them and the devil so deals mightily with them even when they claim to be christians.
Lust and all manifestation of it's form are interlinked, when you start one, there is no certainty that you will not try another one,
Some homosexuals and lesbians today started with sleeping with opposite sex and maybe after a long party and too many alcohol, they slept with the same sex and little by little, they started loving the same sex than opposite sex, those same people can sleep with the same sex who are their relations, a girl can sleep with her Anty if you starve her an opportunity of sleeping with a guy, masturbation sets in when you have fed this sexual urge to a point that it grows that you must have it daily, this is one spirit manifesting in various forms, a boy or a gal that is fornicating can also masturbate and also sleep with someone's husband or wife, it is the same spirit at work.. And it requires total surrender to Jesus Christ and following up the steps for an effective deliverance and discipleship, man is a tripartite being (spirit, soul and body) surrendering to Jesus conquers your spirit man, deliverance and discipleship conquers your soul because you now replace those evil habits with godly habit, it might seem tough at first and one might fall out once or twice in the process, but it requires diligence and focus on Jesus to win over this process, and that is why Paul said that we must work out our salvation with fear and trembling.
If you have this masturbation issue, call or WhatsApp me again on this number
07063236391
You must end this year a new man, forget the season, I sort for my deliverance on my birthday, I was In an isolated place for three days with the retreats and the prayers and laying of hands by men of God that God saved from the same bondage of lust and all manner of sin, I got back ever since and after obeying all I was taught, I have never ever yearned for sex in a long while, and my focus and my purpose in life has been clear and I will not go into details of my testimonies since I started doing the work of God, it is available for all, Jesus has paid the price, you just need to grow in the knowledge of him that has called us into glory and virtue and then through his divine power, obtain all that pertains to life and godliness, God bless u and all that reads this, and y'all have a wonderful day.
it does not matter, if you felt what I said was wrong, live it that way, I was just asking to be sure, that's all, from your testimony and with faith, I believe he will be delivered.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 1:03pm On Dec 17, 2019
olushowunm:
You have developed what we called Porn induce Erectile dysfunction. Check my threads on it. You will need to have a stable gf that you will share Ur story with and is able to help you through this phase to become normal again. The porn addiction is now making u soft when real action beckons. U will need to be more free with this girl. Both of you enjoying companionship of each other.. Then before u know it u start getting Ur groove back and u must resolve to keep to this routine and no more porn.
You don't have a thread on it na , just checked
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 1:05pm On Dec 17, 2019
Arlec:

I'd help you out of this, but I would with only money grin
What would u do , �
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 1:09pm On Dec 17, 2019
But OP with your small dick like flashdrive , how u dey self-service
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 9:36pm On Dec 17, 2019
tobby20:

What would u do , �
I had marathon s*x today,, I only took a shot of something mixed with dry gin....

If you wanna know show some seriousness and readiness... Would help your in active s*x life, and help you quit masturbation...

Truth be told everyone masturbates but not like the way you do...

Like once in 3 three days, or once a week..
Twice a month, don't want you feeling awkward! Everyone masturbates but not the way you do embarassed
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 10:19pm On Dec 17, 2019
Arlec:

I had marathon s*x today,, I only took a shot of something mixed with dry gin....

If you wanna know show some seriousness and readiness... Would help your in active s*x life, and help you quit masturbation...

Truth be told everyone masturbates but not like the way you do...

Like once in 3 three days, or once a week..
Twice a month, don't want you feeling awkward! Everyone masturbates but not the way you do embarassed
Who told u I mastubate , i cant do that shit , I even tried it one day , no pleasure ,cos my sick wasn't even erecting
Annoying
But sha tell me wetin u use for marathon sex
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by olushowunm(m): 10:23pm On Dec 17, 2019
tobby20:

You don't have a thread on it na , just checked
so sorry I thought I posted it on nairaland but was posted on another forum... I will post the thread here so it can benefit you and others.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 17, 2019
Vick4rill:
bro lost of weight no matter how l eat, tiredness, unnecessary nervousness while in means of opposite sex, anger and depression after l am through.
go an get a girlfriend or friend of benefit
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by olushowunm(m): 10:49pm On Dec 17, 2019
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 6:21am On Dec 18, 2019
tobby20:

Who told u I mastubate , i cant do that shit , I even tried it one day , no pleasure ,cos my sick wasn't even erecting
Annoying
But sha tell me wetin u use for marathon sex
For marathon s*x?? grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 6:29am On Dec 18, 2019
tobby20:

Who told u I mastubate , i cant do that shit , I even tried it one day , no pleasure ,cos my sick wasn't even erecting
Annoying
But sha tell me wetin u use for marathon sex

Okay then it very simple

You go the people who sells herb tell em to give you malaria herb,, Note : not the one prepared oh!!! I mean the stick, then you put it up in a container then get ginger as much as possible slice it so it be able to enter the container mouth.. Actually I used a Pepsi container, kiss then soak with baba apari dry gin (elders schinapp) just let it soak for 15 - 18 mins first... If you going to have sex tomorrow drink it early as 9-10am, this solution would definitely Purge you, wash out all dirties in the body then you be feeling light, then next day comes the day you be having sex just take half shot or full shot!!! My man your dick would be errect even after first round,, all you need to do is hit your dick well after cumming in first round then apply saliva to the dick and pussay then go back in cheesy

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 10:05am On Dec 18, 2019
Arlec:


Okay then it very simple

You go the people who sells herb tell em to give you malaria herb,, Note : not the one prepared oh!!! I mean the stick, then you put it up in a container then get ginger as much as possible slice it so it be able to enter the container mouth.. Actually I used a Pepsi container, kiss then soak with baba apari dry gin (elders schinapp) just let it soak for 15 - 18 mins first... If you going to have sex tomorrow drink it early as 9-10am, this solution would definitely Purge you, wash out all dirties in the body then you be feeling light, then next day comes the day you be having sex just take half shot or full shot!!! My man your dick would be errect even after first round,, all you need to do is hit your dick well after cumming in first round then apply saliva to the dick and pussay then go back in cheesy
But there are different malaria root na
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 1:32pm On Dec 18, 2019
tobby20:

But there are different malaria root na
This one isn't root, it pako oh
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 3:50pm On Dec 18, 2019
Arlec:

This one isn't root, it pako oh
Pako , okay na no foh
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by EM123: 11:26pm On Dec 18, 2019
Noted
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 5:22am On Dec 19, 2019
tobby20:

Pako , okay na no foh
Me o foh grin
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Nobody: 7:50am On Dec 19, 2019

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by tobby20: 8:42am On Dec 19, 2019
Arlec:

Me o foh grin
Oya no foh I got try am this month
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by ImaIma1(f): 10:33am On Dec 19, 2019
Nwodosis:
Don't bother yourself about looking for solution on how to quit masturbation, it never works!
It is only ageing, regular sex or denying youself the privacy of being alone when the urge comes that can put an end to masturbation.
Masturbation is harmless unless from the religious angle. Even when it comes to religion, if you can masturbate without thinking about sex, it is not a sin.
How you can achieve that fit of masturbating without thinking about sex is left for you.
Finally, think about this before self guilt kills you that nature is in support of masturbation, have you ever wondered why you can't tickle youself but you can excite your sexual organs?


The bolded is a fallacy. Something that makes one deteriorate in health is not harmless.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by Arlec(m): 11:36pm On Dec 19, 2019
tobby20:

Oya no foh I got try am this month
Gbayi �
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MizzPhoney(f): 4:34pm On Dec 20, 2019
MrMacinterchi1:


I laugh when you said you don't believe he did 4 times a day.

Lol lol.

Do I sense a compatriot in this? Talk to me Bro.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by MrMacinterchi1: 8:32pm On Dec 20, 2019
MizzPhoney:


Do I sense a compatriot in this? Talk to me Bro.

compatriot lol.

There's nothing to be proud of here. but, 4 times is not too exaggerated not to have believed.

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Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by qubie(m): 3:16am On Dec 21, 2019
Zimazee:


I feel your agony bro..
I was in your position before and these words works like miracle to me each time demons seems to whisper the thought to masturbate to my mind..
I simply read "psalm 23"
Note: Try to know and recite these verses of-head it help mostly.
Then end it with " Our lords Prayer" which is
"My Father whom art in heaven, Hello be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth, as it is in heaven, give me this day, my daily bread, forgive me my trespasses as I forgive those whom trespasses against me, lead me not into temptation, but deliver me of all evil... Amen

Note: try as much as possible to recite (the "Psalms" b4 the *Lord's Prayer"wink each time the whisperers or the urge to masturbate comes

May God guild you more as you find your path back to his Grace.

Nice one.
Prayer indeed works.
Re: Masturbation Is Killing Me!! by qubie(m): 3:34am On Dec 21, 2019
Greyman11:

Then you should have asked me who I am before asking whether the step is godly, all the same we are not quarrelling, to free people from the bondage of sexual addiction is one of the things God called me to do, and he also called you and every other person that devotes time to fellowship and commune with the holy spirit, this is something that mere children of God can do if they apply spiritual principles, it is not assigned to men of God only, you just need to discipline yourself spiritually and avoid all occasions of presumptuous sins, walk in the spirit of Christ, know your God, receive impartation of the holy spirit, believe and you will obtain the signs that Jesus promised will follow them that believe. There are laws to everything on Earth, the laws is just what genuine men of God and Children of God follow and you see them work wonders, it is obtainable, but it requires separation, and that is what many believers don't want to do because they are still listing after worldly things and trying to please people and so the light of God is far from them and the devil so deals mightily with them even when they claim to be christians.
Lust and all manifestation of it's form are interlinked, when you start one, there is no certainty that you will not try another one,
Some homosexuals and lesbians today started with sleeping with opposite sex and maybe after a long party and too many alcohol, they slept with the same sex and little by little, they started loving the same sex than opposite sex, those same people can sleep with the same sex who are their relations, a girl can sleep with her Anty if you starve her an opportunity of sleeping with a guy, masturbation sets in when you have fed this sexual urge to a point that it grows that you must have it daily, this is one spirit manifesting in various forms, a boy or a gal that is fornicating can also masturbate and also sleep with someone's husband or wife, it is the same spirit at work.. And it requires total surrender to Jesus Christ and following up the steps for an effective deliverance and discipleship, man is a tripartite being (spirit, soul and body) surrendering to Jesus conquers your spirit man, deliverance and discipleship conquers your soul because you now replace those evil habits with godly habit, it might seem tough at first and one might fall out once or twice in the process, but it requires diligence and focus on Jesus to win over this process, and that is why Paul said that we must work out our salvation with fear and trembling.
If you have this masturbation issue, call or WhatsApp me again on this number
07063236391
You must end this year a new man, forget the season, I sort for my deliverance on my birthday, I was In an isolated place for three days with the retreats and the prayers and laying of hands by men of God that God saved from the same bondage of lust and all manner of sin, I got back ever since and after obeying all I was taught, I have never ever yearned for sex in a long while, and my focus and my purpose in life has been clear and I will not go into details of my testimonies since I started doing the work of God, it is available for all, Jesus has paid the price, you just need to grow in the knowledge of him that has called us into glory and virtue and then through his divine power, obtain all that pertains to life and godliness, God bless u and all that reads this, and y'all have a wonderful day.
Same here brother.
The Lord deliver me this year

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