safarigirl:
When a decent partner comes.

There is no regulated age for marriage. When the time comes, the stars will align and marriage will happen, no dey tension people abeg

MrBrownJay1:


what works for me does not have to automatically work for you (and vice versa)... and thats ok so long as each and everyone of us are fulfilled with our life choices.

all the best to you too.

thatthing111:


Lol! I am in the same shoes. But for like a year now, I have stopped talking about religion with women. I'm willing to go to church once in a while with my woman even though I am an atheist. Trust me, it is very hard to find a free thinking woman in this Naija. I know, cos I searched for like 5 years. Now that I am in my late 30s, I have switched tactics. Lol. I can go to morning service (1 hour 30 minutes service)...it won't kill me.

Saintly01:

I am happy for you, your girlfriend has graduated, less worries, especially financial issues. Mine still has a full year to stay in school, I contribute financially, but my biggest cause for worry is Loyalty, I can never be too sure of what she is doing in school. Every action of hers spikes suspicion. I am fed up of this "Monitoring Spirit" kind of lifestyle. When she posts a picture with another guy, Even if there is nothing going on between them, I get all worked up. I am that jealous, this is exactly the cause of our quarrel this evening. This whole thing is driving me nuts.

golddeejay:
be real ooo. Looking for non religious woman means you will be single for life. Even the oloshos are so damn religious. I am an atheist, my girl just thinks I don't go to church because I am lazy, unserious and don't like the fact that pastor are exploiting people.

She knows she is with a good man, but unserious in term of religious. It is okay to leave with the Thought of praying or changing you. You are likely to see a lot of closed door in relationship, employment etc if you are claiming to be anything other than a Christian or a Muslim. Wisdom is profitable o.

eni4real:
Secondary Daddy!!! Does she call you 'Saddy' ??

safarigirl:
When a decent partner comes.

There is no regulated age for marriage. When the time comes, the stars will align and marriage will happen, no dey tension people abeg

Bleiz:


You've waivered in your own belief

Bleiz:


You've waivered in your own belief

saasala:


I have decided to adopt that tactics too. If she complains too much I will go to church, then slowly drum my ideas into her ears.

Riele:

Godsonjolly:


Hmm, I'm not yet married o

soleexx:



How much is olosho now in ur area

eni4real:
Trouble dey sleep, Ay04z go wake am up..
Wetin he dey find? palava he dey find..

Palava he go geti o ooooooo

adetunjioludami:


What's the assurance that ud v made it by 35
The probability is low statistically.

Riele:

Married when ?

MrBrownJay1:
NEVER WILL.... there is nothing valuable that marriage can bring to my life. you certainly dont need to be married to "live happily ever after".

Biglittlelois:



I was actually looking at his opinion objectively, and in a way, it make sense, if one wants to be selfish anyway, and if we should look at life generally, it is always all man to himself at the end of the day, even after raising kids and they are all grown, they go out to be on their own and do things for themselves, it's more like going round in circles, so it's better for one to be happy, whether married or single.

Riele:


Whenever Seun propose to me

CsRockefeller:
I said 27 and seems the stars are already aligning for me, if it doesn't happen next year, then definitely 2021 when I'm 28.



Quick question guys.

Between a lady within the ages of 24 to 26 not employed and a young girl of 20 in school, which is best suited for a guy of 27 to plan his life with?

Let's assume the factors of character and love is positive.

saasala:
Now 32, will be 33 in few months.

The only thing holding me: No woman to marry.

Every woman who is close to what I want is marred by her religious beliefs. Once I tell them I am non religious or a deist, they zoom off.

Do we have free thinking ladies in this part of the world?

saasala:
Now 32, will be 33 in few months.

The only thing holding me: No woman to marry.

Every woman who is close to what I want is marred by her religious beliefs. Once I tell them I am non religious or a deist, they zoom off.

Do we have free thinking ladies in this part of the world?

Zeinymira:


Like it's so easy to meet a soul mate

Saintly01:


As a guy, if you fall in love with a student I pity your life, I am in exactly this same university school girl relationship shit. My eye don see something, no jokes.

ValCon888:
Marriage is not compulsory.
There's nothing better than waking up in the morning knowing you have all the house to yourself. Watch your movies and football, no woman dragging remote with you to watch BBN or Telemundo.
Go out and come back whenever you want and with whoever you want.

Marriage is a scam created by women to put real men in chains.

Powersurge:
I feel from 22-30 is ideal if you have the money. But for me 35 is what on my mind. The street is not smiling.


I don't want one woman to come and give me high BP because of some financial needs.

Whenever you feel you have a stable financial stance, you should go for it.

Meanwhile, I don't even have girlfriend now. If e hold me too much, I order for olosho. I don't want to say Nigerian girls are liabilities. Because I am sure there are still few ones with brains. Until then, olosho will do.

Mcslize:
One of my friends just got married at 25. Any way ,I I look forward to tying the knot at 35. But one of the problems is seeing the right person.

It is not easy to meet the right girl these days when women sleep around any how. Infidelity is the problem that hindered meeting the right person. We are not even talking about other bogus qualities we looking for in a partner. Promiscuity is the major issue right now. Most girls don't know what they want.

When a guy chooses to get serious that's when you will discover she is opening her legs for another guy some where. The whole thing becomes a hard nut to crack. Some even still run back to collect prick from their ex when their marriage is just few days.

all of these kind of stories we hear every day makes one think if there is still any good girl out there for the innocent guys who want to settle down.