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Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by yankison(m): 4:47pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: Please I beg you the in the name of God don't send the girl back continue to send her to school and cater for her , as far as I'm concerned she is doing a great job keeping your kids company and helping you people in all .. Your wife is just a wicked woman I pray God forgives man ... Lastly you wouldn't know how much blessing you attract from God by taking care of that little girl Please ask your wife to pray for forgiveness if sin it's a wicked act ..does she know what the girl may become tommorow and where her won daughter would be .. bye |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by StaffofOrayan(m): 4:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
It's amazing how people have the nerve to maltreat someone looking after ur kids The person get liver 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by diplomat058(m): 4:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Blindersoff:Sir, You are under arrest for being too intelligent and possessive of problem-solving skills Lolz, thanks for the psychosocial enlightenment up there Sir 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Ryan03(f): 4:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
STENON:he shouldn't try it, she will reaffirm her suspicion of him sleeping with the house help. Let him threaten to report her to her family and also to return the girl if she doesn't change. Dont he surprised, she can't do without the girls help, las las, she go maintain |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Ryan03(f): 4:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
highcurrent:no, na wickedness dey worry her |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Immature reasoning. Definitely not for adult. TonyeBarcanista: |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by geosegun(m): 4:49pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: You did nothing wrong. Let her cry and be sober and apologise for her greed. Otherwise, send the girl away and help her with her education in her parents house. If your supposed wife can't treat another person's child well, then She can aswell start to do house chores and all, by herself. Such an ingrate. I will do close to what you did if I were to be in your shoes. I can't stand maltreatment of househelps. It is uncultured and ungodly. You are a very good man with great wisdom. You are also buying good future for your kids indirectly. For whatever measure you used for another man's child, such will be used for yours too even in 10 folds. It is the law of nature. Some women are like that... For whatever reason, I dont know why they behave that way. It still amazes me continuously. Your wife lacks wisdom. She should earnestly pray for one. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Jeffersonagain(m): 4:49pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Madam is simply seeing the sign of caution in her crystal ball even though I don't support her action. Your house help is like a second mother to your kids now and your wife is wanting to ensure that she doesn't become a step-mother to them. I don't think that her concerns are unfounded; they may not be about you but about stories of other people that she has heard. My opinion is that if she has any insecurities, she should return the girl home rather than maltreat her. Such attitude may actually conspire to bring oga and ómódô together.. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Mutemenot(m): 4:50pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Women get wahala, op, your action is not bad, let her invite her family if she feels cheated or maltreated.... |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 4:50pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
No, you did not overreact. I can't for the life of me understand how any person born of a woman would be so wicked and callous to treat another person's child as a slave. Not to be sexist, but Nigerian women are notorious and are the purveyors of these inhumane treatments of their maids. I do not understand the reasons behind such wickedness. How can one be so evil to neglect and maltreat the child of another person that was entrusted into your care? To me, your wife needs to get a check on herself and understand that when she decided to take a minor child into her home to take care of her children, the welfare (feeding, housing, clothing, health) of that minor child is her responsibility. I still can't understand why some Nigerian women are bereft of milk of human kindness and are rather filled with "gall" when it comes to the treatment of their housemaids. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Ryan03(f): 4:50pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Graxie:are you serious? Probably she will be engaged in farm work at the village, no school etc. If not for the woman's wickedness, I don't see anything wrong there. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by wonder233: 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Men are just marrying women they shouldn't marry nowadays. It's either the woman is a cheat, lacks manners or is a wicked person. But what makes me sad is the mob reaction when some of us recommend divorce for these classes of women. There is a utopian view to marriage this new generation is foisting on themselves - nowadays, if a woman sleeps around, they tell you to "forgive" or "talk about it" or "work things out" , some even blame you for her infidelity. In saner climes, this woman's behaviour is enough to fall out of love with her and subsequently divorce her. To the average Nigerian, what I'm saying is so farfetched. But do we marry for love here in Nigeria? Marriage here is just a mechanical process here. 4 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by dayorich: 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
So, why would your wife's relative be your househelp This sounds awkward!!! Can't your wife ask you guys to assist her relative to stay with you without dehumanizing her status as a househelp Unique357: |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by jbcul4ril(m): 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Note that the law of Nigeria does permit you to have a house help. In the eyes of the law it called HUMAN TRAFIKING AND VIOLATION. If your family does not have the maturity and capacity to accommodate another person child please return the Girl back. Note that, even if you treat the child well it still against the law of Nigeria. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by lexxwiz(m): 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Bros! I don't know how long you've been married for but I'll still advice you anyways.. 1st. I really don't understand why a supposedly man of the house can't handle this lil issue, you go dey tell people your marital issues well well. Stop it! Be a man, control your household. 2. The money you gave to your wife, did she tell you at any point that it's not enough for everyone? Cause you be like 2 loafs of bread and 5fisn miracle man. 3. Go back to number one and handle your problems. Give her some more money to buy her clothes. Lastly; do not in any circumstance but those clothes yourself. Apologize to your wife make peace reign. I've been married for 4years and bet you, my state of mind is worth more than any marital quarrel. Ps: see as people don dey insult your wife anyhow.. shouldn't you be protecting her at all cost? Dude give your wife some more money to buy clothes for herself and house help. See where you go from badguy you dey report give the whole world. Please shift. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Baamm(m): 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Send the girl back to her parent but don’t stop the little support |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by MissYusraah: 4:51pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
This our useless culture sef! Why do you even need house help, is your wife and children too lazy to help themselves? 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Patojargz: 4:52pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Bad woman! No doubt 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Halo22: 4:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Bros if I will advice, sit down with ur wife and then try finding out why she behaved in that manner. If she was suspecting you of having affairs with her, try clearing her doubts. Pls don't have issues with ur wife this season, even as u have to play ur role as a man. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Stmiceel(m): 4:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
As for me you overreacted. Just ask her to send the house girl back to where she collected her. You need not to use abusive words for your wife. Her mistake doesn't change her from being your wife. Try to make her forgive you for those words you use for her. But don't forget to do the above. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Nobody: 4:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Buy gift items for the house help and honorable take her back to her parents in one piece before your wife kills someone's else child. You don't need a soothsayer to reveal to you what you are already witnessing with your own eye's. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by IfeanyiOpara5698(m): 4:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
You didn't overreact sir. Women are naturally wicked when it comes to other people's children. Take the house help to the market and get her clothes by yourself. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Blindersoff: 4:53pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
diplomat058: Life is easy but self pride would always want to make us assert rights even in situations when it is not necessary especially since we are already seen as the head and being in charge in those situations. The OP did an overkill when he shouted and insulted his wife. It was so unnecessary. Thank you for the appraisal. Blessed holidays to you 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by MissYusraah: 4:54pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: I never see you made sense before Not surprised 6 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by MissYusraah: 4:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by yankison(m): 4:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
EricBloodAxe: I wouldn't say more .. how can a man be saying that kind of rubbish ...some people no just get sense come to think of it this guy is active in politics session ... The guy is daft jor 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by luminouz(m): 4:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TemmyT002: Are u for real? Read what you wrote again and slap yourself. Seems you grew up on a diet of Bollywood/Filipino romantic movie nonsense! To think you be guy dey fear me oh. 3 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by YoungBlackRico(m): 4:55pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista:There's no sense in this crap you just typed, but hey! Na ur opinion. Btw, stick to politics sections. |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Purifychy(f): 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: Forget that thing, the woman is naturally wicked. What stops her from buying that cloth for the poor girl if not wickedness. 1 Like |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Kirinwa: 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
Unique357: Shr overreacted instead: how dare she accuse you of sleeping with the house maid, is it the level of degradation and disrespect she has lowered you to. Most Nigerian women are like that. Very selfish. You didn't overreact. In fact she challenged your authority as the man of the house thus apologizing would strengthen the behavior as a precedent has been set. Nevertheless find a way to mend fences with her since she's your wife. Not greeting you or serving your breakfast is what I don't understand though. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by Blindersoff: 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
TonyeBarcanista: How old are you? This is the worst advice i have seen by a long shot. You only ended up insulting the woman, the OP and your own intelligence with this thing you call words. smh 6 Likes |
Re: My Wicked Wife Didn't Buy Christmas Clothes For Our House Help by KIDfurniture(m): 4:56pm On Dec 20, 2019 |
How did you end up with a wicked woman Unique357: 1 Like |
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