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Riele:
TRASH !

Are you a pervert?

No, I'm actually trying to help you take out that spirit of pervert that wants to start finding a space in you

Get out of here now before I lose my temper and call your daddy

IAmStrange:
No, I'm actually trying to help you take out that spirit of pervert that wants to start finding a space in you

Get out of here now before I lose my temper and call your daddy

HRHQueenPhil:
how old are u?
i ask cos if both of u are in love, then put a ring on it
that will help her feel more secure...
more money spending, dosent she work?

A ring? To feel secured? Why not?! That explains why most ladies turn 'lord of the ring'. From the his writeup, does he come across like someone that is ready to settle down. It will do you a lot good to actually understand a post before commenting.

2dice01:
Should i focus on my Business or my Girlfriend

Bros please focus on your Girlfriend

Spend all your money on Her even your Business Capital

She deserve to be Pampered




Well she also spending your awoof money on some other niggga who knows his worth


Continue my G
Your reward is in Heaven

Damnnnnnnnnnnn nigga!
If you smell heaven make I know wetin cause am

Anything or anyone working against your dreams should be cut off.




For being a leech alone is enough reason to dump her. But then, know you what's best for you.

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother. Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.
I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;
First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.
I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.
P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.
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You are very stupid..

Pls no moderator shud push this to the front page...

Imagine asking us if u shud concentrate on ur business or on a woman... Are you so sick to that extent... What is the essence of woman when there is no business? You are stupid for that question.. Imagine, business or woman

and it will do you a lot of good to comment and stop quoting me! u are very entitled to ur own opinion..he is old enof to choose which advise he tinks its best..pls respect urself and stay away from me

SirMichael1:
A ring? To feel secured? Why not?! That explains why most ladies turn 'lord of the ring'. From the his writeup, does he come across like someone that is ready to settle down. It will do you a lot good to actually understand a post before commenting.

okay..i now grab..merry christmas

JustMe407:
We both just graduated lol. She finished top of her class with distinctions. We always talk about marriage though. 2023 is the goal.

That small mod wey give me 12 hours ban, If I CATCH u eh

Back to buzness. You wey say u be man, why u dey ask us wetin u and ashawo go do? Na we and u dey chop the pkomo?

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

hmm

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

Be like say your brain dey pain you, until you ready for marriage, focus on your life and build yourself, she just made you understand that you are dispensable. Dey there dey do good face, because na you be that brother when get Ecobank but they pay GT staff salary, wise up

If your Business is around lekki, Ajah and environs pls check my signature

Zornes123:
but some persons have guts. like how can you ask a guy you have been with for 2 months for 20k for hair, if its that easy I won't even work. and her reply shows how stupid she is.

Have given her more than that in terms of gift and birth day celebration but that reply got me thinking! Is this the type of low life woman have been going out with

Sigh. I really need matured people like this around me

IAmStrange:
Hmmm!

I've always been an advocate of this method...

Work hard until you are financially capable to cater for a family. Build your character until you become a personage that can qualify as a potential good husband, father and in law...

And then look for a good woman... try all possible means to know her and everything you need to know about her to decide if she's right for you... Engage her and marry her!

All these love, dating, boyfriend and girlfriend issues, most times, are "robbing" tactics...

And it falls on both sides...

many times, the females do it to "rob" the males of their money...

while on the other hand, the males do it to "rob" the female of their vagina.

Na the two genders dey suffer that "scam" they call relationship.

Well, as for the first issue, I don't know how the spending process goes.. is she the one that asks or you are the one that's just too generous and you give her without her asking or because you think she needs it and will likely ask?

If You are the one that's just too generous, then you limit your generosity. That will not only help you save more but will also be giving her message that she should adjust her expectations from you.

If she's the one that asks, Oga, limit what you give her and reject some of her requests.

It's during trying or difficult times that we know true friends. It may be when you start limiting your spending on her that you will know if she truly loves you or not.

As for the second issue... What your girlfriend did is a sign of what may happen or might have happened if the matter becomes more complicated than that.

Someone who easily gives in to seeking attention elsewhere when the two of you are not talking? That's dangerous.

I'm not saying that it will happen for sure but it's dangerous.

Have you not heard stories of women who had misunderstanding with their spouses and then they sought solace in another man until that other man capitalised on her emotional state and slept with her?

There were even cases where it did not happen once. The first time it happened, the woman began to enjoy the "company" of that other man and they ended up having sex several or many more times.

And in a marriage, misunderstandings will most likely happen every now and then. It's not something that can easily be avoided. So if it happens at a time when there's another man in the picture, only God knows where it'll eventually end.

It doesn't certainly define her but your girlfriend seems to have such weakness.

Therefore, I'm asking you now - not to just break up with her - but to use your sense and open your eyes very well. Try as much as possible to study her and ask wise people for advise concerning her so you will not have problems in your marriage.

By the way, Imes is coming

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

Mr man you need to define what you want from the relationship and stop wasting the girl's time

Lover boy, Note dat dis girl doesn't love u. Just go with the flow, concentrate in making alot of money and if she's for u fine, if not, that's real life. Someone beta will come in ur life, eventually.

Before we beat this discussion further, I'd like to know the age of you both. It seems both of you are still young, especially your girl. She's still being distracted by guys and also flirting with them. You should focus on your business for now cos she's one way or the other distracting you.

You saw all this sign and you still dey ask questions? Kick the prostitute out immediately, you have no future with such woman. She is only being nice to you because of the Cash and material things she is looting from you. Who knows, she may be lavishing all the money you are giving to her to one weed smoking ogidiga tout. Dump her fuc.king ass ASAP.

E tu ti de oo, my gf blah blah, my gf Bleep anoda dick , my gf say e no do again ahhh blah blah
E no dey tire una nii. Well I don't have any advice to give, but I trust my fellow Nairalanders, they will have so many things to say. Even those wey no get level for their gf side go cum here now dey form De Rock.

Move on with your business. Invest more time and money. As for her don't give up yet. Watch her closely until she gives you more reasons to quit. In my opinion she's free to flirt with anybody you guys are not married. But she should know her boundaries. I hope you don't get me wrong here...
However, your future is more important, don't forget that

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

Mtchewwww.... See as this one dey sound like baby he-goat? So devoid of manliness and guts.

Is the solution to your problem not evident from your post?

Anyways,I know say na troll post.

Dude was even asking us to be concise and serious with our replies.
Really? Dude?

There's nothing more disgusting than a man in love.
The truth is that no matter how real it looks like no woman I repeat no woman loves a man. People change when they meet new people. My guy focus on your future. Love no dey pay Bill's

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.

Be objective and consise please. It is a long narrative.

I have a girlfriend whom I have been dating for up to 10 months now. She has all the qualities of wife, friend and a partner. I mean, she prays for me, supports me and do many things that places her above average.

I've two issues that are bugging me;

First is, I just graduated from the University and started to follow the road map I designed for my life. I am hardworking, so I started doing business immediately after my defense. Interstate exports of perishables. While I was in school, I made a lot of money doing designs for students; I am a UI/UX designer. The problem here is that I can't account for all those monies I made. A lot of expenses especially for my girlfriend. Even till now, I am supposed to send her some money but will I continue like this? I need stability in my business and need to save more and need capital for the last mile logistics company I want to set up next year.

Second issue is; I recently returned from an event I attended in Lagos some days ago, I came back very late and was grossly tired. While we were chatting, she asked me some questions which I told her I was very tired and eventually, I slept off. My phone beside me till the next morning. Fast forward to yesterday, I told her of my intentions to concentrate more in building for the future - it doesn't mean our relationship would be off. She started asking questions like "do you need some space?" "Am I bugging you?" She also said I don't "speak her language enough" language here is bonding, intimacy and closure. I was surprised at her response.

I noticed she'd be online for a long time and won't reply me on time, so I asked her who she was chatting with and she replied someone. I ignored her. This morning she called, while we got talking I asked her about the person she was chatting with. She told me the guys name. And asked if I will forgive her of anything, I said yes. She now said, she was introduced to the guy and they got flirting from the day I came back from my journey and told her I was tired and needed to rest. Her excuse was that, I pushed her to and she just wanted someone to speak/talk to.

Now, my question is, Should I move on with my business and focus, or, should I continue with the relationship? I don't want to be with someone that gives up on me easily.

P.S I love her so much. And she does too. We've through a lot together.

Please moderators, help move this to front page for more contributions.

guy I think she is cheating on u.a demon who will suck u dry and dump u.if u want to be happy seprate from her and find a new love.dats why I have issues wit girls.u will love dem but dey will never love u back but bring pains.if u get a girl who love u whether u have money or not marry her quickly

JustMe407:
Dear nairalanders, I need you honest advice on what to do. I am still a young man and any mistake now will have a grave effect on my future. So please, help a brother.
........

I'd be blunt and straightforward.

Your girlfriend already SLEPT with the guy, and that will continue until the guy dump her when he's tired of fcking her.

Then, she will come back to you because of your potential.

Don't take her bullshit of nothing has happened between then when the time comes.

Mafo oo!

IAmStrange:
Heeey!!!

I will deal with this girl oo ... Instead of you to be watching Spongebob Squarepants and what have you on Nickelodeon, you are here on Romance section

Oya, Afira! Get away from here now!

Otherwise, I will call for someone to sew up that vagina of yours that's just itching you anyhow

Jesus Christ of Nazareth you're savage lemme add up to what you said.. Advise her to go and buy candle for her supposed itching vagina by you

My late dad always told me if i want to succeed in life then I've to do away with women. Most especially married ones

from are excused it is crystal clear she's manipulative...
i hate manipulative ladies...
always trying to justify their shortcoming with flemzy excuses...
Try talking sense into her tell her ur plans and how u if and if she doesn't change... just japA

Riele:


I feel annoyed when i read stories about weaklings .

Smh .

You already know

Oga u no need native doctor or jesus to tell u, my dear, ur business need more of ur attention..
I no say make u forget her but bros use ur head, she go ghost u once everywhere rough
Remember say she hook up at anoda guy just because say u talk say u tire, imaging wetin she go do if u broke. SO USE UR HEAD MY NIGGUR