I sincerely need to know our views about getting married at the age of 35 for men. Is it late to marry at 35?

Mbkite:
I sincerely need to know our views about getting married at the age of 35 for men. Is it late to marry at 35?

c to me,i feel its wen ur ready u get married.

No. It is not
One needs to secure one's future before marriage.

I will not reason marriage till am 35 no matter how rich I may be.

Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

Mbkite:
I sincerely need to know our views about getting married at the age of 35 for men. Is it late to marry at 35?

it's not too late but it's better to Marry earlier, except you want your kids to still be in primary school when you are 50.

But come all these ppl that are marryig at 35 will not want to marry a woman that has reached 30
What if the woman was also securing her future all this time

If Yo Making Money, Is Nt Too Late. Tho Marry Wen Its Time.

ToriBlue:
Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

And since when was marriage and/or childbirth a competition or achievement?

still need more opinion on this

Whenever u feel ready.

Yes its late, your mate's children by then should be 5 years old or even 6.

some 10

chikk:
Whenever u feel ready.

Yea. it isn't competition.

Kokaine:
some 10

some none.

Mbkite:
some none.

so true.

At 35 to me is somewhat late but if money no uko? Wetin you go do?

35 yrs is okay. Its all about when you are ready.

Mbkite:

Yea. it isn't competition.

Mbkite:

some none.

So you know?? Its not about how far/fast, its how well. When you rush in you may rush out. Just Work towards developing yourself and building your future, while you search. Every other thing will fall into place.

Good luck

some men will say "life starts at 40". if you're not under any pressure, then 35 isn't late.

swithrt its nt, infct its far from late

i dont think it is too late. But notwithstanding, anything above 35yrs benchmark is unreasonalble except you are not financially buoyant.

toastedbread:
some men will say "life starts at 40". if you're not under any pressure, then 35 isn't late.

hmmmm...even the society alone(like some responses on this thread) is enough to mount pressure on him. What matters is how reasonably he handles things regardless.

Amarabae:
35 yrs is okay.
Its all about when you are ready.

OP take a married womans advice.

I'll marry between 30 and 35 years. I don't know of others

Marriage is never a competition Nd besides who told u that if u marry early let's say 25 or 30 that its a guarantee that u will ve babies so early? I know of a guy that got married earlier than his elder brother because he said he wants his kids to be all grown by the time he gets to 50, he is about 48 now no issue. The elder bros that married 4yrs after,is now 52 with grown boys Nd girls. Also even if u starts having issue immediately,is it a guarantee that they will grow to become successful people in life? Just pray to ur God to always lead u in everything u do,so pls don't try to compete with anybody in life especially in marriage.Also marrying at 35 should not be ur worry,u should ask urself if u re ready,mentally,emotionally spiritual Nd even financially.

Stellie:
swithrt its nt, infct its far from late

thanks for giving me hope.

Plan na marry at 59y

The answer is not a one shoe fits all size. If you are a Yoruba man, 35 is late. If you are an Igbo man, 35 is on point. If you are the first Son first issue especially in Igbo land, 35 is on point, but if you are the last born, 35 is late. If you are a broke dude, 35 is on point; but if you were born into a wealthy home, 35 is late..........I could go on and on but the truth is: No Time is Late!!!

Hmm

Marriage has nothing to do with age. Marry when u feel responsible enough to take care of a woman and kids. Don't marry and continue to cheat around or starve some innocent kids. Don't marry if your life still revolves around Ponzi schemes.

Innovate!

Ponzi Hater

Yes or no. Yes, because of early bird advantage. You get to start building your family and raise your children on time, because no time.

No because, in Nigeria, the economy and other factors have made it almost impossible for young men to think of marriage. So, some guys even get into their fourties and fifties waiting for the perfect time and chance.