Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men brings a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

Moralgladiator:
Nigerian women are really trashy. I have also given up on any possibility of marriage with them.

Madlov3:
I broke up with my EX some 2 weeks ago, But I feel like sharing my story with y’all guys so y’all will learn and be careful especially with Nigerian girls.
So i dated this girl for roughly 1 year and 10months. She appeared as a wife material but i never knew she was a devil incarnate.
Am a young guy living very well, own a nice ride and have my own apartment and work in a very noble profession. Am relocating to Canada very soon and my plan was to get married to her before traveling abroad then send for her after settling down.
There was this guy in her former lodge I was always warning her about. According to her they were just friends but my instinct wasn’t comfortable with him.
Before now, say like 7months into the relationship, I bumped into her whatsapp messages and i read her chat with a guy where they were discussing different sex positions and our sex life.
I drew her attention to it and she cried all night begging me for forgiveness. I told her point blank that i forgave her because it was only whatsapp chat and there was NO SEX Involved and i would never have accept her back if Sex was involved Because i met her as a virgin.

Fast forward to few weeks ago, I discovered from my sources that she was actually having Sex with the guy in her lodge i warned her about.
I Initially confronted her but she denied but after showing her sufficient evidences, she confessed it was true because she knew i was already well informed and she said they had sex multiple times.

I asked her what i did wrong to her! According to her, she said this particular guy “Tries Childish stuffs with her and am too matured! Am senior to her with over 5years so am too matured to relate childish things with her. I asked her if that was a ticket to open her legs for the guy she said she actually did what she did because SHE WANTED TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE TO HAVE SEX WITH ANOTHER GUY.
Honestly i felt disrespected and betrayed. This was someone that I was planning to get married to in 2020 and take to Canada o!
She begged and begged and begged but i told her i will never accept her back even though i forgave her, i just can’t accept her back again.

I will be relocating to Canada in 2020 so i have officially closed my door against Nigerian Girls! I know there are good ppl and bad ppl everywhere but i want to open my mind now to other persons. To Canadians, Americans, Britons etc.
I used to have this mentality that an African man is not complete if he doesn’t marry an African woman but hey, that has changed now! Am now open to love from any continent.
My deal breaker in any relationship is Cheating! We can work other things out but you see cheating?? NO NO NO

So my fellow Guys shine your eyes o! That soft spoken and calm looking wife material girl may not be what she seems to be. She may jus be a devil incarnate

Ishilove:
These ones just come online to write rubbish. They have one bad experience and suddenly all Nigerian women are terrible, meanwhile ask them how many Nigerian women they have interacted with and they won't be able to give you any reasonable answer. Arrant nonsense.

ubunja:
what? That Netherlands story is inter rest ing.

Martinez39:
The women filed for divorce hoping to finalise everything in 2019 so that they can get alimony for 12 years. They did not want to wait for 2020 or beyond it because it would mean alimony for 5 years.

As expected, the main stream media never reported this but it begs the question, how did the women, in great numbers, get to know of this change in law? Seems they have secret WhatsApp groups or some secret communication networks hidden from men. #sisterhood

ubunja:
wow. The mainstream media is really shitty. Also I blame men. They're too stuck in this utopian love fantasy. They need to wake up ASAP. The game has changed.

Ishilove:

My warm regards to your mother and sisters.

Obodo999:


Agreed. Generalisation is bad and � evil

Ishilove:
These ones just come online to write rubbish. They have one bad experience and suddenly all Nigerian women are terrible, meanwhile ask them how many Nigerian women they have interacted with and they won't be able to give you any reasonable answer. Arrant nonsense.

Obodo999:
Instead of bitterly complaining, you should be thanking the Heavenly GOD for the revelation, before you married her. Most men are not as lucky as you.

Moralgladiator:
Personal opinion can never be taken away madam morality.

Ishilove:

And who is taking it away, Mr Know All?

uruba23:
Don't take this as an insult ,but if you want to play the moral game you should have waited before marriage to divide her red sea. More so you noticed tendencies you didn't address it properly,worst of is to think sex is the basis of the relationship. Tell me apart from sex and the fact you meant her as a virgin are there no other qualities you cherish.. Anyway congratulations at least you don chop clean mouth, and you do be expecting someone else to start where you finish... Well your life your decision and her body she isn't married to you yet,so technically she is a free bird.

Moralgladiator:
well said...just a bit concerned about the passion in your responses. I have been with more than enough Nigerian women to start with and they all end in the same things,control, pettiness, unguarded entitlements.

uruba23:

Unfortunately I am not one,but don't come and demonize Nigeria Girls simply because your Eve feel for the Apple again. Just man up and move on ...no offense intended.

Martinez39:
Don't kid yourself. Female nature is universal. Foreign women over there are worse than Nigerian women here even both are brutal, ungrateful, and greedy vultures. The divorce story you mentioned happens so frequently with foreign women. All women will capitalise on the system when it suits them. It so often happens that when men brings a supposed well cultured and traditional lady from his place of origin as his wife to developed countries, the women change when they become familiar with the system and feminism. There is no unicorn anyway. Stop watching Hollywood. All girls are the same.

In the Netherlands, there was a bill passed that divorced men were going to pay alimony for 5 years instead of the usual 12 years being from 2020. Guess what? Netherlands witnessed a record breaking number of divorce cases in December 2019. (Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED, JONNYSPUTE, Omar09, healthserve, AstroG) Tell me again how foreign girls are different. The reason why I said Nigerian girls are better even though all girls are the same is because, unlike foreign girls, they don't have the tools to wreck you the way foreign girls would and feminism is not yet political in Nigeria.

We can agree to disagree. As long as you are committing your heart to women and entering into relationships and marriage, there is a limit to which you can be careful with women. Besides, you can never know which is a good girl, even if they existed, because you are not a mind reader and women are capable of great chameleon acts.

Meeyankee:

Idiot is not a must to comment,you are not making any sense here. Leave the guy alone he has the right to complain. So that people like you can learn.

Ishilove:

You wrote that 'Nigerian women are trashy'. You have a mum and I'm pretty sure you have sisters. Are they trashy? Is your daughter, if you have any, trashy? Are your cousins and nieces trashy? Your statement is very unguarded.

Have you thought about the very strong possibility that you are the problem? How come they all ended the same way? Are you blameless?

There's a saying that a mad man thinks the whole world is mad. No offense intended.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. It's very good stuffs like these are happening
When you tell them to be careful,open their eyes and make use of their brains,they tag you a woman hater. I don comot my hand for their matter. Girls please deal with the white knights until their brains start working.

Martinez39:
Abi. I don't hate women, I don't want to see marriages crash or become toxic. However, every man will do well to understand women.

Trex4:
Martinez please advice me. I'm going to delete this post soon but I have a girl I've been looking at since July. She told me she was single and wanted me just as a friend when I asked her out. Since then I still hanged on and helped her in some ways that made both of us close. Then I tried asking her out again in December and she said she already has a boy friend, that she accepted him recently and hopes our friendship isn't strained. Please what do I do Now? As I'm really down

Vicboy1:
Martinez39 but the truth about women is so painful that is why some men start hating women after knowing the redpill

Trex4:
Martinez please advice me. I'm going to delete this post soon but I have a girl I've been looking at since July. She told me she was single and wanted me just as a friend when I asked her out. Since then I still hanged on and helped her in some ways that made both of us close. Then I tried asking her out again in December and she said she already has a boy friend, that she accepted him recently and hopes our friendship isn't strained. Please what do I do Now? As I'm really down