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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Badlimo(m): 11:54am On Dec 25, 2019
I miss the good old Christmas spirit
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Minjim: 11:54am On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come the 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,

If I were you, I would confront her.
Let her know she was privileged to get the chicken among others and if she doesn't want it she could simply rejected it and you would have given it to someone much more deserving and appreciative.
It's better you let her know how you feel about her action than bottling it in ur mind to poison u.
Let her know, plain and square

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by alaira(m): 11:58am On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,
OGA,
WHICH CHICKEN CAN YOU SELL FOR N7000; NA GOAT grin

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Minjim: 12:00pm On Dec 25, 2019
Bahddo:
It's because everyone is pressured to do stuff they really don't want to. You know how many times I reject gifts and get weird looks? Some get upset that others didn't eat their food. Why would you get angry someone (especially someone you haven't really been close to) doesn't want to eat your food? Na by force? Abi you put something?

For someone else who cares deeply what others think of them, it's just easier to take it (to please the giver) and throw it away (because of fear or whatever).

It's the same culture that makes it a taboo to reject gifts that also raised people to fear the unknown.

Stop pressuring people to take your gifts and this would happen less.

Let ur no be no
And ur yes be yes

You don't want something, kindly turn it down. You can give polite reasons like,
"oh, I already have enough and so and so person is still bringing more. Why not give it to this person, she really needs it more than I do now. "

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by yusluvad(m): 12:00pm On Dec 25, 2019
Izabel:
When me i did not see chicken,someone rebuffed a benevolent gesture that's very bad of her
You don talk well.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nobody: 12:03pm On Dec 25, 2019
edoairways:

It is pure wickedness no doubt but he shouldn't avoid her or cut ties with her

of what use is this woman to the man?

so how will look the woman in the face after what she has done, stuff like that can be kept under the carpet

basically what she did have already ruin any relationship present or in the future

if you dont trust your neigbour, you reject and throw away their gift, why acting like you like them when you see them.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by LordAzubuike(f): 12:06pm On Dec 25, 2019
SaintAlbert53:
Please my home is dry and there's nothing for the family to feed on today,i feel ashamed but i am not going to hide my face for help to come.I am still happy I and my families are alive.
Please put a smile on the face of i and my family today,God bless you..

0085510899
Diamond bank/Access bank
What's really happening and going on in your family?

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Charleys: 12:07pm On Dec 25, 2019
nairalee:
I smell lies.

Small poultry big enough to sell and remain enough to SHARE for neighbors

7000 chicken. How much is small goat?

I don't know what I'm seeing o. But it smells like lies


Guy na just small place where I dey do small poultry, the poultry had only 19 chickens. I had booked them up for sale I just say make I no do wickedness make I share some make them feel me for compound

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Depressed101: 12:09pm On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I don't know if this is the right place to complain. I need advice on what to do.

I wanted to ask her
i i were you i would ask her, since we live in the same compound, if she was afraid of the unknown, i am not sure she would have had an unhappy face when accepting the gift.. She could be deeply jealous of you.. Yeah, any little thing can make neighbors jealous these days...

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Charleys: 12:09pm On Dec 25, 2019
alaira:
OGA,
WHICH CHICKEN CAN YOU SELL FOR N7000; NA GOAT grin


Maybe I exaggerated the price but it's quite expensive here. I sold 6000 for one.(the highest) and it's very big. They can't walk for two steps without squatting.

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by desthan(m): 12:10pm On Dec 25, 2019
@OP

Do not confront her, she will bear her judgement for wasting.

She would have given it out to people who need it.

As a single man till now that I am married, people keep given us food, even Muslim give us meats, but we give them to people around us, security men, labourers etc. There is always someone that needs food.

That chicken would have made someone's day but she arrogantly wastes it because she can afford it.

Time will come, she will confess later trust me.

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Depressed101: 12:12pm On Dec 25, 2019
alaira:
OGA,
WHICH CHICKEN CAN YOU SELL FOR N7000; NA GOAT grin
depending on the location, yes he can, in my location a very big chicken can go for 5.5k
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by alfasexy: 12:13pm On Dec 25, 2019
So you want to control your neighbour's christmas?

You won't mind your own business snooping into people lives. Did she beg you for chicken?

No be you carry your chicken go meet am for house? And here you are crying and other fools are consoling you.

Next your carry goat go give am. By the time you graduate to cow maybe she'll give you that which you really want.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by saintruky(m): 12:17pm On Dec 25, 2019
Op I suggest u approach d hediat n find out why she killed n thrashed d chicken rather than hold grudge.

Wetin dey worry some pipo sef
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by authenticman(m): 12:19pm On Dec 25, 2019
StrikeBack:
Op where is your location

What do you want to do?

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by chinedi7(m): 12:22pm On Dec 25, 2019
PointZerom:
The moment you gave out the chicken it is no longer yours and the new owner (your neighbor) has every right to do whatever he wants with the chicken.


He may be a babalawo and has decided to sacrifice the animal to the gods.


this reply cracked me up.... e cure me from hangover make i get sef
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by GamalNasser: 12:22pm On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,

Shebi u want to steal her destiny grin grin grin

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by DavSagacity(m): 12:25pm On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:


If she's afraid why didn't she reject the gift... After all the poultry is in the compound... What will she think i did to the chicken.. it's a normal chicken that I fed with my hard earned money. She knows it too.
Maybe she has been hoping and expecting you to date her..,instead u dey bring one "yeye" chicken. just wondering though !!!
But really I think you should approach her and find out what could be wrong. she may be going through one problem or probably depressed at the moment.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Aladdin1(m): 12:27pm On Dec 25, 2019
This is christmas.your name is now "kinsman redeemer" abeg go redeem your chicken from the dustbin.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by adelumolo(m): 12:27pm On Dec 25, 2019
Very difficult to arrive at a conclusion on this matter but you yourself should be able to know where things went wrong between you and your neighbour....

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by DavSagacity(m): 12:28pm On Dec 25, 2019
Jonas11:
Christmas culture is dying in Nigeria
Hello house. This data seller is a fraud and a thief. beware. don't fall victim.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by uboma(m): 12:31pm On Dec 25, 2019
Myself2:


That's one solution

On the other hand, to avoid wasting that chicken, you should have taken it from the dustbin, make sure that evil neighbour or somebody else sees you, then go prepare kit, marinate , season and fry it into delicious pieces and go give them out to appreciative beggars or even cops and traffic controllers out there, they will appreciate and pray for you and you will have a deep sense of satisfaction



Hmmmmm!

With what you wrote, I will not accept to eat meals at your home.


You claim to be a Christian but choose to ignore the part of the Bible where it commands that animals, after slaughtering, should be properly bled before cooking and eating.

You prefer to give a dead chicken to unsuspecting less previleged ones just to receive praises. You are worse than an unbeliever.

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by cybriz82(m): 12:31pm On Dec 25, 2019
Ooh, I am so angry right now.



Angry for what U dn hear or see any father xmas wey get angry N beside since na dash u dash her forget it e no concern u again atlis. God will bless u for dat.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nobody: 12:32pm On Dec 25, 2019
You don’t have to be angry all you can you is to give it out to the other neighbors..Maybe he/she is a vegetarian
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Ay04z(m): 12:35pm On Dec 25, 2019
grin
sunshineV:
You've done your part and your creator will appreciate your kind gesture.



Just credit my bet9ja account
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Acehart: 12:41pm On Dec 25, 2019
Lukenitheooo6:
the only neighbour that will reject Christmas chicken are the Jehovah witness they claimed we are celebrating paganism that Christ never told us to celebrate his birth

Rather his death that is why they celebrate nixxan 14 late march early April

Not so. Many Pentecostal churches preach against Christmas too. Muslims who used to eat “Christmas” food from Christian neighbours have stopped eating because many Pentecostal churches teach that Sallah meat is offered to idols; and many have lost their destiny because of Sallah meat. Many Christians (Inspired by this teaching) outrightly reject their food at their doors or throw their gifts into the dustbin.

It is also offensive to raise chickens in a compound where other families stay. The Neighbour May have seen the gift as a bribe (Rather than a sincere gift) to keep bearing with the offensive odour from the chickens. (The Neighbour is a coward though).

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by GMbuharii: 12:42pm On Dec 25, 2019
LegendaryLover:
some years back, that's how a neighbor gave my aunt fried rice and meat on a christmas day. My aunt threw the food away. The neighbor later found it in the bin and took offence. Lol...
This is someone that the children will come to our house then and play with us ooo. But fear no allow my aunt eat the food.

OP no vex. I'm sure it's nothing personal. It's just the times we're living in.

Just learn say that one no dey accept gifts. Then next time don't give am, unless she change towards u.

We are in real horrible time in naija, everyone seem to be a suspect.....

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Nobody: 12:43pm On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,

Bone. Let her be cos if you go and ask her she might change it on you and claim you prolly did something with the chicken that is why you're monitoring her to know if she ate it or not.

Secondly, she maybe a Jehovah's witness. Those people dont collect, birthday and Christmas gift o. So bone.

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Juliearth(f): 12:44pm On Dec 25, 2019
Charleys:
I have a small poultry,
My chicken had grown to an enormous size because I fed them well.

Come 24th of December. I sold some and decided to give some to my neighbour because I thought I will be a greedy person if I don't do so.

I felt something when I gave a particular neighbour. She accepted but the happiness wasn't genuine because I saw it in her eyes.

Fast forward to the afternoon, I suspected.

Later went to the dustbin to see my lovely chicken dead and thrown in the dustbin. My mind just told me.

At least she should have thrown it elsewhere not the general dustbin

The chicken that I would have sold for #7000 and make money from it.

Why didn't she kindly reject it, rather than take my Christmas chicken, kill and throw it into the dustbin.

Ooh, I am so angry right now.

I don't know what to do if I should confront her or I should just foam in anger just like that.

If I knew I would have sold it and take my girl out this Christmas,





I can relate with this story of yours and I feel your pain. Trust me, God knows your heart and your reward is sure.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Bahddo(m): 12:44pm On Dec 25, 2019
Minjim:


Let ur no be no
And ur yes be yes

You don't want something, kindly turn it down. You can give reasons like,
"oh, I already have enough and so and so person is still bringing more. Why not give it to this person, she really needs it more than I do now. "
not everyone can handle pressure. I don't give a damn what you think of me when I say no, but the next person might. Same way not everyone can stand being turned down. There's plenty space under the sky for us all.

If you want people to be comfortable saying no, don't make their 'no' seem an offence. Humans are creatures of the herd, and only a few dare to walk away from the herd. There would always be those who would say 'yes' just so you don't get offended. If you let them know you wouldn't be offended regardless of their answer, they would be free to be themselves and 'let their no be no'.

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Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Juliearth(f): 12:45pm On Dec 25, 2019
hisgrace090:
There are so many people that does that this days.

And their reason is nothing but fear and its not so good to me.


Fear? Can the op poison a life chicken?

These people are feeling too holy to mingle with an "unbeliever". I wonder who made them judge.
Re: When A Neighbour Rejects That Christmas Chicken by Juliearth(f): 12:46pm On Dec 25, 2019
LegendaryLover:




Maybe she feels it'll look bad if she reject ur gift



I guess it looks better now that the op has seen the dead and disposed chicken.

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