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I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by SwhtJesusbaby: 5:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
I got married in 2015. The problem started in 2016 when I had to resign from my job in Uyo and move in with my husband in Lagos. He most times won't sleep at home and blame it on his work. Sometimes I'll call more than two weeks and he won't pick up. Even while at home, he wants to be alone with his phone.

Going through his phone one day, I discovered he's been keeping affairs with lots of women, I also found out that he has a child before he met me of which his family members were not aware of. I had to inform his family members when he started maltreating me at home because of what I found out on his phone.

Just when I planned to leave the marriage in 2016, I became pregnant. I gave birth to my baby in 2017 and ever since then, it's been war. He'll leave home for several weeks without informing me where he is, if I call, he won't pick and any time I report him to his sister, she'll shout at me that I cannot endure.

I lived off my friends and relatives during the period I was nursing and sick and couldn't find a job. He won't provide for the baby and yet won't bother to call to know how we're fairing. If I call, he won't pick and when I complained to his people, I still get blamed.

This morning I got tired of everything, cried to God that he should make him deserted to the extent that even his seeds would flee from him. Told God that since he's decided to abandon me with his child, God should also abandon him when he needed him most. Even while he's alive, God should replace him in my life and my child's life.

I wouldn't know if my actions were wrong but since I made the prayers, my heart became hardened.
Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by daddytime(m): 5:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
Dem don come again oh.

This part of your tori funny sha...

Just when I planned to leave the marriage in 2016, I became pregnant. I gave birth to my baby in 2017 and ever since then, it's been war.

You dey plan to leave person but konji no gree you ignore to nack akpako abi?

Na the pikin wey you allow enter this your okiri marriage I dey feel for.

As you know say you dey plan leave the marriage, you for jejely zip and lock up the under.

Abi you never hear say meat wey person dey forbid e no dey use teeth share am?

All these una tori don turn Nairaland to fableland laslas

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by faithfull18(f): 5:52pm On Dec 29, 2019
Well, if most married people were to come on media to rate their relationships, most won't rate it good.

It is well.
@OP, start up a business or something, take care of yourself and your child. You can keep praying for your husband from a distance since you said he has many women in his life.

Don't give up on yourself because of another human like you.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by skentelelady(f): 5:53pm On Dec 29, 2019
I can feel your pain. You shouldn't have laid those curses. You should have just walk out and let God be the judge.

Most time we are pushed to this extent but we should try to control ourselves

I laid curses on someone many years and it manifested and he's still battling with it till now. I vowed never to do that again no matter how bad the case. Please ask God to forgive you and cancel the curses wholeheartedly

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by johnkey: 5:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
You above me Weldone o

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by daddytime(m): 5:56pm On Dec 29, 2019
skentelelady:


I can feel your pain. You shouldn't have laid those curses. You should have just walk out and let God be the judge.

Most time we are pushed to this extent but we should try to control ourselves

I laid curses on someone many years and it manifested and he's still battling with it till now. I vowed never to do that again no matter how bad the case. Please ask God to forgive you and cancel the curses wholeheartedly

Abeg we need to rent una to help us lay curses on the people wey dey destroy we and our children country and future.

Why una go dey waste these kind potent curses?

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by pocohantas(f): 5:57pm On Dec 29, 2019
daddytime:
Dem don come again oh.

This part of your tori funny sha...



You dey plan to leave person but konji no gree you ignore to nack akpako abi?

Na she and the horseband dey at war na.

Toto and prick are oblivious of the ongoing war... grin grin

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by daddytime(m): 5:59pm On Dec 29, 2019
pocohantas:


Na she and the horseband dey at war na.

Toto and prick are oblivious of the ongoing war... grin grin

I dey tell you...

Those two somebodies (t4t4 and pee pee) no get time for malice at all.

I wished we humans can be as tolerant as they are, we for no get much wahala for this small life..

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by crackhaus: 6:06pm On Dec 29, 2019
I don't know who told some of these so-called Christians that the name of God can be invoked to lay curses anyhow.

How can you even think you can curse someone you share a roof with, have a child with, share bodily fluids with during sex, and still think it will not affect you.

Your head correct at all?

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Twoclans(f): 6:08pm On Dec 29, 2019
This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue .

Anyway make sure you get something doing and make your money ,this generation of men do not want to shoulder any form of liabilities .They are ballers .They are not like our fathers .You cannot sit at home and keep calling a man for your upkeep ,not this generation of men.Even erection dey hard them sef .

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by BeStroNG(m): 6:13pm On Dec 29, 2019
Issues arising
Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Omihanifa: 6:16pm On Dec 29, 2019
For the sake of the child kindly reverse the curse else you will live to regret it undecided angry

Next time when you are angry with him, always remember the good times you guys shared together angry

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:16pm On Dec 29, 2019
Twoclans:
This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue .

Anyway make sure you get something doing and make your money ,this generation of men do not want to shoulder any form of liabilities .They are ballers .They are not like our fathers .You cannot sit at home and keep calling a man for your upkeep ,not this generation of men.Even erection dey hard them sef .
Twoclans cheesy kee me grin grin

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by crackhaus: 6:16pm On Dec 29, 2019
Twoclans:

This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue.

BullshiiĆ­t!
Stories like this are what some of you women are using to deceive yourselves.

The only people who have the power to lay curses sanctioned by God are those consecrated under the prophetic ministry, not just anyone- not even pastors.
How can someone who herself is not consecrated & completely free from a life of sin be using God to lay curse on another person? cheesy

All the curses una don dey curse Nigerian government and politicians for many years no dey ever work, is only boyfriends and husbands own that is working.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Cutehector(m): 6:18pm On Dec 29, 2019
Oya na as you have cursed your husband, Carey your cross alone. Because if you have sex again with a cursed husband, the curse will affect you too.. Have sense eh

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Ladyhippolyta88(f): 6:18pm On Dec 29, 2019
Op curse nor good ooo. To curse person nor good oo. Remember say una two get pikin together.
If karma dey e go handle am


Just divorce him and be sane. Don't allow marriage frustrate and kill you walk away.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Twoclans(f): 6:21pm On Dec 29, 2019
crackhaus:

BullshiiĆ­t!
Stories like this are what some of you women are using to deceive yourselves.

The only people who have the power to lay curses sanctioned by God are those consecrated under the prophetic ministry, not just anyone- not even pastors.
How can someone who herself is not consecrated & completely free from a life of sin be using God to lay curse on another person? cheesy

All the curses una don dey curse Nigerian government and politicians for many years no dey ever work, is only boyfriends and husbands own that is working.

LOL

Abeg shift

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Nobody: 6:22pm On Dec 29, 2019
You are only human. And a person can only take so much. But please cancel the curses and ask God to fight for you. By laying curses you have removed God from the equation. Please go back and cancel the curses, ask God for forgiveness and leave everything in his hands, stand on Exodus 14:14.

My Ex did a lot of things that could have made me go naked to curse him but I didn't. I know God is fighting for me, He knows best.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Nobody: 6:30pm On Dec 29, 2019
You didn't have to go that far. If you wanted to leave in 2016 and have managed to endure for four more years, then you've really tried. You're, unfortunately, even more unhappy now, since it has gotten to the stage where you're placing a curse on him. You don't have to stay in a marriage where you're this miserable. It's time for you to seek your happiness elsewhere.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Kestolove(m): 6:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
Useless wife cursing her husband

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:37pm On Dec 29, 2019
You made a conscious decision to marry him and only you can decide whether to stay with him or not.

Your curse will hold no water! Christ has said severally that we should pray not curse! You should leave his case for God to handle if you believe in God!

Meanwhile, file for divorce if you can't remain with him! Simple

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by crackhaus: 6:40pm On Dec 29, 2019
Twoclans:

LOL

Abeg shift
Rubbish

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by crackhaus: 6:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
SBL28:
You are only human. And a person can only take so much. But please cancel the curses and ask God to fight for you. By laying curses you have removed God from the equation. Please go back and cancel the curses, ask God for forgiveness and leave everything in his hands, stand on Exodus 14:14.

My Ex did a lot of things that could have made me go naked to curse him but I didn't. I know God is fighting for me, He knows best.
This nonsense is always too funny cheesy

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Twoclans(f): 6:43pm On Dec 29, 2019
crackhaus:

Rubbish

Don't take your character into 2020 tongue tongue

You are dismissed undecided

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:44pm On Dec 29, 2019
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Twoclans:
This is a strong one ,I had a colleague who laid such a curse on her husband and the guy lost a well paying oil and gas job then and things went under for him for years .That guy was jobless for almost ten years Until recently when she by her self went out and found solution for him and he got another job.Their is power in the tongue .

Anyway make sure you get something doing and make your money ,this generation of men do not want to shoulder any form of liabilities .They are ballers .They are not like our fathers .You cannot sit at home and keep calling a man for your upkeep ,not this generation of men.Even erection dey hard them sef .
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Bullshit!

Maybe your colleague used African science on the said man or fate befell him.

Stop deceiving yourself!

We are in the new covenant and placing curse is a SIN AGAINST God!

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by Twoclans(f): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
TonyeBarcanista:
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Bullshit!

Maybe your colleague used African science on the said man or fate befell him.

Stop deceiving yourself!

We are in the new covenant and placing curse is a SIN AGAINST God!

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
SBL28:
You are only human. And a person can only take so much. But please cancel the curses and ask God to fight for you. By laying curses you have removed God from the equation. Please go back and cancel the curses, ask God for forgiveness and leave everything in his hands, stand on Exodus 14:14.

My Ex did a lot of things that could have made me go naked to curse him but I didn't. I know God is fighting for me, He knows best.
Good step you took! But your curse would have been ineffective if you had placed it! It is only sensible to leave people to their fate

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by healthserve(m): 7:11pm On Dec 29, 2019
Do you know the implications of cursing a man. And do you think there won't be domino effects that would turn around to affect you and your child? I'm sorry for you. Very very sorry


Please when that child begins to experience problems as time goes, remember that you're the one that cursed the child, and not the fathers misdeeds


Peace out

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by KevinDein: 7:13pm On Dec 29, 2019
Too bad curses don't work...

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by fineboynl(m): 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
Any wife that can lay causes to her husband can kill him or sell him out.

If she is a witch or has magical power she will bewitched him. It's the reason why mans problem will only be from his own house.

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Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by bukatyne(f): 7:40pm On Dec 29, 2019
crackhaus:

This nonsense is always too funny cheesy

It works.

Unfortunately, blessings don't work as fast or as potent.
Re: I Placed A Curse On My Husband. by bukatyne(f): 7:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
SwhtJesusbaby:
I got married in 2015. The problem started in 2016 when I had to resign from my job in Uyo and move in with my husband in Lagos. He most times won't sleep at home and blame it on his work. Sometimes I'll call more than two weeks and he won't pick up. Even while at home, he wants to be alone with his phone.

Going through his phone one day, I discovered he's been keeping affairs with lots of women, I also found out that he has a child before he met me of which his family members were not aware of. I had to inform his family members when he started maltreating me at home because of what I found out on his phone.

Just when I planned to leave the marriage in 2016, I became pregnant. I gave birth to my baby in 2017 and ever since then, it's been war. He'll leave home for several weeks without informing me where he is, if I call, he won't pick and any time I report him to his sister, she'll shout at me that I cannot endure.

I lived off my friends and relatives during the period I was nursing and sick and couldn't find a job. He won't provide for the baby and yet won't bother to call to know how we're fairing. If I call, he won't pick and when I complained to his people, I still get blamed.

This morning I got tired of everything, cried to God that he should make him deserted to the extent that even his seeds would flee from him. Told God that since he's decided to abandon me with his child, God should also abandon him when he needed him most. Even while he's alive, God should replace him in my life and my child's life.

I wouldn't know if my actions were wrong but since I made the prayers, my heart became hardened.

His seeds are your kids I presume?

Reverse the curses so they don't affect and your kids in future and move on.

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