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funmisticqueen:
I don't have a heart.

By the way, point out what is careless in my comment.

oh! u dnt have a heart too? cos last time i checked u didnt have a BRAIN...

simonlee:
simple trick....

use a strange number to forward a text to your phone that reads "i will give you N20million and an oil company job if you divorce your wife and marry me"...
then see if she wouldn't go back to factory settings!

Oboy... See yans!

Wisdom will not kill u

funmisticqueen:
fact of life, money changes both men and women because it comes with control. It's human nature

Your wife is not emasculating you, you are just losing control of the power and finances in the family. Do you know how much BS women tolerate from men in marriages because he earns more?

Uncle, go and hustle or give your pants over to your wife and stop complaining

So there's nothing wrong in all the guy said about his wife?

Well, good thing is, not all women. Secondly, I'd rather say you're unfortunate in your choice of spouse. Many times, it takes some sort of fortune or misfortune to discover the true colors of people.
Sadly, nature isn't always fair and until your status improves, this may linger on. So you'have to bubble your efforts. Good luck

galadima77:
So there's nothing wrong in all the guy said about his wife?

Well, good thing is, not all women. Secondly, I'd rather say you're unfortunate in your choice of spouse. Many times, it takes some sort of fortune or misfortune to discover the true colors of people.
Sadly, nature isn't always fair and until your status improves, this may linger on. So you'have to bubble your efforts. Good luck

Uncle, there's an update, the wife replied and it seems the story is not as Op painted it.

naijacentric:
oloriburuku anufia yeye woman may u not be destroyed

uncle don't direct your hate at me. The wife has replied already and turns out op is lying about some things. Go to page 30

funmisticqueen:
Lots of beautiful, single older women with children do not bother to remarry. Have you ever wondered why?

Peace of mind is more important than having some phallus around the house who thinks he's a 'good man' and God's gift to women.

Funmi, where's this bitterness coming from? Talk true

galadima77:
Funmi, where's this bitterness coming from? Talk true

uncle go and read the wife's post, it's on page 30

funmisticqueen:
please ma, create your thread in response to his thread, we all need to hear your side of the story.


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I just knew my instincts were right. You see all the men that cry foul? They're usually lying. They're pushing some male agenda. Nobody asked for the woman's side, they all began to tell him to leave.

I told him that his wife was not a bad person and that he had other issues with her that he was refusing to disclose. I told him that he was hallucinating everything which he denied. He even accused me of sounding like his wife. Lol


That MGTOW red pill acolyte that goes to any thread with men to condemn women had better retrace his steps because he and all male OPs are liars. Today we had a dose of the truth behind every emasculation.

Truthwillout:
I am Strungup79's wife and I have watched the drama here unfold in silence. Here is a copy of a message I just sent my husband on WhatsApp. I hope it will put things in clearer light.

I'll try to keep this brief. I started this year on a sour note, crying bitterly. Because of you total strangers called me bitch and all sorts of unprintable names. Some even went as far as saying I was diabolical and ¹reversed your fortunes with juju, and you basked in it all, all because of the lies you told them. You have repeatedly told your siblings the same lies. I emasculate you. Really? I emaaculate you yet i led my colleagues, our neighbours and practically everyone I know to believe that you are the breadwinner and doing a marvellous job. I emasculate you, yet when the rent needs to be paid, I pay it into your account first just so no one will know. I earn good money but no one knows it because everything goes into running this family. I don't save a dime. I NEVER complained about you not working these past 4 or 5 years. You complained about me spending a lot of time at my mum's place. I do that so that I can avoid the endless streams of alterations with you, and for other reasons I'll spare everyone here.

Every single time you bring this up, I reassure you that all I want is the best for you. I encourage you, fast and pray for you, yet I'm a bad wife. You actually called our daughter and told her I am a bad wife. She cried her eyes out when she told me all the nasty things you told her. I have never in the 10 years we've been married said anything disparaging to her about you despite your many short comings. You put me through hell and I just take in stride.

You also told your fans I had nothing when you married me. I had a job and I wasn't doing badly. In fact I practically funded our wedding with the help of my family. I could go on forever. Or is it the fact that you used to leave the house for days on end without communication, leaving me to wonder if you met with some misfortune or something. How many times did i show up at your office haggard and scared early in the morning just to confirm you are alright? I actually wear my younger sister's hand me downs just to save enough to keep this family going.

Your siblings all believe I am a bad person thanks to the endless lies you've told them and I've borne it all. During your last visit, you complained about the fact that I always seemed unhappy and heckled and I explained to you the stress I am under. Our rent is due. Our daughter's fees of over a hundred thousand needs to be paid. Utility bills, feeding...these are some of the burdens I have to deal with. I explained how burdened I felt. I also explained that having to clean up after you constantly worsens my stress. While you were here, I battled insomnia for almost two weeks straight, without compassion or help. I could fill a page with all that is wrong with this marriage. It's never you. You are perfect and righteous and I am a wicked woman. We quarrel like every husband and wife and regardless of whether it's my fault or not, I apologise so that peace will reign. I have suffered humiliation at your hands but you go around damaging my character so people will pity you. Guess what? The truth cannot be hidden. It may take time, but it will come out. I take solace in that.

I will beat my chest and tell you that no woman on this earth will bear what I bore at your hands or care for you like I have. Since you are so unhappy, I think you should take out time and find yourself. I also need time to pray and to heal from this emotional trauma, so please let's give ourselves a year at least to decide what to do next. I wish you the best.

And he told me I was sounding like you.

Thank you for coming out to debunk his claims of you turning the children against him. Some unstable boys here used that as an opportunity to tell him to leave you, they've probably misinterpreted all your actions with him for him. It's sad that his mind is telling him these things. Most men who aren't providing begin to see little things that don't even make sense and add so much meaning to it.

Be strong, because men can tell lies and people believe them just because they are men.

Continue to do a good job. And try to heal from the emotional abuse. It's not have people treat you badly because of unsubstantiated claims that they have heard about you.

Truthwillout:
By the way, we never operated a joint account. I do not have a parcel of land anywhere. All these were written to embellish the truth.

Thank you for clarifying.

I knew those parts sounded unbelievable. The negativity attached to the statements made it strange. He said there was so much disrespect. Whatever that meant.

You're a small minded and ignorant idiot


There are a lot of things you have said that are notable of reporting to the organization you work for, if you work at all.

If Invictus Obi can be outed with his nairaland account, then who are you. This is social media where people come to vent out their daily frustrations and nairaland is one of my coping mechanisms.

I have been here a long time without deactivating despite going through a lot and the secret to that is, If you take anything here seriously then you are on your own.


For example, If I take your silly topics seriously, then I am on my own.

If you want to take my satirical topic to the next level then that is on you.

Lots of people herethreaten to commit suicide, others have admitted to doing crimes and you did not report them like a law abiding citizen. Why?

You are just a hypocrite, a manipulative narcissist and control freak who can only feel relevant in life by having a woman lick his dirty feet. You need help.


Taking my picture down won't change anything. People already know me and many have my pictures. That I have views that aren't mainstream is not a crime.

Ilekokonit:
And Funmisticqueen is supposed to be a Medical Doctor ??

A Medical Doctor advocating poisoning fellow humans or going Diabolical

I pity her hapless patients.

It wouldn't surprise me since 20% or more of Medical Students cheated their way through Medical School Exams.

A Doctor that dares mention poisoning another human being on a public forum in a Western country will pay for it by having their licence suspended or revoked especially with the recent cases of medics in the West intentionally poisoning and killing patients in their care. Google Dr Harold Shipman.

And the hapless Funmisticqueen even has her photograph on her profile so she is easily identifiable as a Potential Killer Doctor who can start poisoning men in her medical care out of hatred.

She is lucky Nigerian's have too much on their plates to deal with 'cos if this were a Westernised country, their equivalent of the Nigerian Medical Association will have received loads of complaints about the potential killer Doctor on the loose.

Funmisticqueen if you are smart enough to value the 6 or more years you spent in Med school, take down your profile picture before you advocate cutting off men's willies or poisoning them 'cos someone who is entrusted to caring for and saving lives should not be spewing such physical harm of intentional poisoning of potential patients.

This is a public forum and with your face clearly showing on your profile, you don't want to be reported to the Nigerian Medical Association.

I would act fast in removing my picture from my profile if I were you. You are a medic for crying out loud.

Person wey dey cry still dey see road o. Don't put your job and career on the line. You are still very, very young.

BRATISLAVA:
And he told me I was sounding like you.

Thank you for coming out to debunk his claims of you turning the children against him. Some unstable boys here used that as an opportunity to tell him to leave you, they've probably misinterpreted all your actions with him for him. It's sad that his mind is telling him these things. Most men who aren't providing begin to see little things that don't even make sense and add so much meaning to it.

Be strong, because men can tell lies and people believe them just because they are men.

Continue to do a good job. And try to heal from the emotional abuse. It's not have people treat you badly because of unsubstantiated claims that they have heard about you.

I think she should boot him out. She is coddling a grown man. Nigga isn't loyal


He said the same thing about me too

funmisticqueen:
I think she should boot him out. She is coddling a grown man. Nigga isn't loyal

I'm not surprised to know he was lying. Most men lie about women, then support themselves. It's the reason I don't support deadbeats coming back into the life of a child they abandoned to tell them "their own side". It's a thing male children do blindly. This is the other side of the story that they never wanted to hear.

BRATISLAVA:
I'm not surprised to know he was lying. Most men lie about women, then support themselves. It's the reason I don't support deadbeats coming back into the life of a child they abandoned to tell them "their own side". It's a thing male children do blindly. This is the other side of the story that they never wanted to hear.

lol. Very true

otipoju:
Its like you just learned this new word " ego"...the way it is shakking you today.

It's like you hate the truth, and it's rattling your bones today.

funmisticqueen:
the wife has replied o! Seems like the husband added orishirishi to his story o. Let me quote you

We gave him the best advice based on his own assertions. Which one of them is lying or whether the response allegedly posted by 'his wife' is even authentic is best known to both of them. If it is and she is telling the truth, then we have given her less credit than she is entitled to and she deserves an apology. However, the authenticity of 'her' side of the story remains to be confirmed.

sassysure:
The guy is dancing around the major problem.
It's never about his wife earning more.
And I believe he never cared to address it either.
Sweeping it under the carpet as usual.

I wish them luck.

His wife has responded. It seems he was lying to gain pity and bad advice.

RisenPhoenix:
We gave him the best advice based on his own assertions. Which one of them is lying or whether the response allegedly posted by 'his wife' is even authentic is best known to both of them. If it is and she is telling the truth, then we have given her less credit than she is entitled to. However, the authenticity of 'her' side of the story remains to be confirmed.

I agree, but she seemed really hurt by the things her husband said behind her back to gain social media attention.

She seems wiser than him for wishing not continue to paint him bad and drag him out. He has also surprisingly gone silent.

BRATISLAVA:
I just knew my instincts were right. You see all the men that cry foul? They're usually lying. They're pushing some male agenda. Nobody asked for the woman's side, they all began to tell him to leave.

I told him that his wife was not a bad person and that he had other issues with her that he was refusing to disclose. I told him that he was hallucinating everything which he denied. He even accused me of sounding like his wife. Lol


That MGTOW red pill acolyte that goes to any thread with men to condemn women had better retrace his steps because he and all male OPs are liars. Today we had a dose of the truth behind every emasculation.

Lol Dafuq kinda buzzword is MGTOWN red pill acolyte? When was this released?

Besides, I have already apologised for jumping the gun earlier so you can relax. We still don’t know which one of em is telling the truth so that’s that.

funmisticqueen:
you owe me an apology.

Right now I am writing t the names of the over 200 people that owe me an apology for disturbing me since morning with insults. I will quote them today

You want apologies from vapid boys who probably will DM you for attention then come into threads to act macho?

uninspired07:
What kind of advice is this? Are they not supposed to be a team? Or do I have my understanding of marriage all mixed up cos I am confused with some of the advice I am seeing on this forum.

Op should settle his marital issue in house because we have different kind of people online whose advice will likely not bode well for his marriage.

Supposed you say. ideal and reality are two sides of a coin.

BRATISLAVA:
You want apologies from vapid boys who probably will DM you for attention then come into threads to act macho?

they did insult me. Even tho I know they won't, the right thing to do is call out their bullshit behavior.

MajorWarren:
Lol Dafuq kinda buzzword is MGTOWN red pill acolyte? When was this released?

Besides, I have already apologised for jumping the gun earlier so you can relax. We still don’t know which one of em is telling the truth so that’s that.

Before you quoted me, did I quote you?

And if the word acolyte is a bother, use dictionary. Buzzword indeed, when there's up to three words. The person it was meant for understands it. Not you.

funmisticqueen:
they did insult me. Even tho I know they won't, the right thing to do is call out their bullshit behavior.

Most local, daft and illiterate men feel you must be extraordinarily beautiful before you can give them a dose of truth. Information cannot reach their brains unless they can sexually objectify who is delivering it.

RisenPhoenix:
We gave him the best advice based on his own assertions. Which one of them is lying or whether the response allegedly posted by 'his wife' is even authentic is best known to both of them. If it is and she is telling the truth, then we have given her less credit than she is entitled to. However, the authenticity of 'her' side of the story remains to be confirmed.

exactly ,the advice I gave him was applicable for both husband and wife,it was from a neutral perspective that he should walk away or if she the woman is the victim she should walk away.

The authenticity of her side and his side is yet to be determined. Now we are aware that they are two sides we can't jump to say the woman side is the right side or the man side is the right side (like folks like bratislava,funmisticqueen,elder1,inspired7 are doing). Either of them are capable of diluting facts.
To some it seems that if one gender is crying foul over something, it must be a lie,he/she may be hiding something or there is more to it,and if another gender Crys foul over something,its automatically truth....that's prejudice!

For the Op wife,people acted on what was presented to them,if it turns out wrong and hubby lied,forgive the commenters.
For the Op himself,should it turn out you were right and your wife is lying forgive those who may say you were lying...

I personally think there is a victimhood playing between op and his wife,he is feeling cheated and she is feeling cheated,most times we don't look inward for our faults but rather look outward at others,presenting ourselves the angels and our partners demons...



@funmisticqueen ignore those shaming your looks and don't let it get to you,because the shaming is done by those not confident enough to post their pictures on their profiles... But that said I personally think there is a need for you to do some introspection and work on some aspects..lots of love

Strungup79, a woman just created a moniker claiming to be your wife. Despite the fact that your account is new, you have only few posts, and your identity is unknown, a new moniker somehow recognised that you are her husband Here is her reply, please respond.

https://www.nairaland.com/post/85414943

The girls on this thread have all jumped in, as expected, to support and believe your "wife" because they so much love their narrative that men are the abusive beasts while women are the angels and victims of oppression and abuse from men. I wouldn't be surprised if the account claiming to be your "wife" was cooked up by these silly bimbos. Guys, don't let this WILE deceive you, the red pill contribution from the red pill men like myself and others on this thread are very very valid.

Funny how they are projecting themselves on men saying we like crying victim and we have some male agenda.


Ilekokonit, Korllami007, uninspired07,

SMH. The man was lying. Accept it. It's suddenly a female narrative. The brainwashing has been completed in this one.
Continue the misogyny. Maybe when you're 50 you will change your mind and suddenly want to get married and have children in a sane relationship because, you know, sperm lives on forever.

cutefy:
Your story really touched me. The truth about this life is that, we hardly can tell the true nature of any friend until challenges set in. Money do make people behave like psycohpants in which case, their loyalty remains as long as the money is there. A woman who loves a man will not do this to him. I pray that I don't marry any of such women.

Anyways, I'm not here to judge ur wife nor say anything bad about her. But what I've got to tell u is this, focus on bouncing back. I'll suggest a biz you can do to bounce back with. You'll need to master the biz for like one month. Once you have mastered it, you can then start with at least $100 capital. If you can master this well, then your financial story will change for good. For the training process, I'll teach you for free without collecting any single dime. One love brother...

Hello, I'm in need of knowing about this business please. I'm more or less the first born in my family now. So much responsibilities on me

BRATISLAVA:
Most local and illiterate men feel you must be extraordinarily beautiful before you can give them a dose of truth. Information cannot reach their brains unless they can sexually objectify who is delivering it.

chai. Deep

Michellekabod2:
exactly ,the advice I gave him was applicable for both husband and wife,it was from a neutral perspective that he should walk away or if she the woman is the victim she should walk away.

The authenticity of her side and his side is yet to be determined. Now we are aware that they are two sides we can't jump to say the woman side is the right side or the man side is the right side (like folks like bratislava,funmisticqueen,elder1,inspired7 are doing). Either of them are capable of diluting facts.
To some it seems that if one gender is crying foul over something, it must be a lie,he/she may be hiding something or there is more to it,and if another gender Crys foul over something,its automatically truth....that's prejudice!

For the Op wife,people acted on what was presented to them,if it turns out wrong and hubby lied,forgive the commenters.
For the Op himself,should it turn out you were right and your wife is lying forgive those who may say you were lying...

I personally think there is a victimhood playing between op and his wife,he is feeling cheated and she is feeling cheated,most times we don't look inward for our faults but rather look outward at others,presenting ourselves the angels and our partners demons...



@funmisticqueen ignore those shaming your looks and don't let it get to you,because the shaming is done by those not confident enough to post their pictures on their profiles... But that said I personally think there is a need for you to do some introspection and work on some aspects..lots of love

You are doing exactly the same thing. You mentioned me but forgot to mention yourself, Phoenix and Martin. Forementioned have twisted this thread to make it that the man said the truth even when his wife gave her "own side of the story". Prejudice. From you. Not me.

Martinez39:
Strungup79, a woman just created a moniker claiming to be your wife. Despite the fact that your account is new, you have only few posts, and your identity is unknown, a new moniker somehow recognised that you are her husband Here is her reply, please respond.



The girls on this thread have all jumped in, as expected, to support and believe your "wife" because they so much love their narrative that men are the abusive beasts while women are the angels and victims of oppression and abuse from men. I would be surprised if the account claiming to be your "wife" was cooked up by these silly bimbos.

Funny how they are projecting themselves on men saying we like crying victim and we have some male agenda.


Ilekokonit, Korllami007, uninspired07,

it may be his wife,the possibility is 50%. Don't write it off as completely false so you are not guilty of prejudice displayed by bratislava and some others who have made her tale automatically true. So don't write the alleged wife tale as false

Michellekabod2:
exactly ,the advice I gave him was applicable for both husband and wife,it was from a neutral perspective that he should walk away or if she the woman is the victim she should walk away.

The authenticity of her side and his side is yet to be determined. Now we are aware that they are two sides we can't jump to say the woman side is the right side or the man side is the right side (like folks like bratislava,funmisticqueen,elder1,inspired7 are doing). Either of them are capable of diluting facts.
To some it seems that if one gender is crying foul over something, it must be a lie,he/she may be hiding something or there is more to it,and if another gender Crys foul over something,its automatically truth....that's prejudice!

For the Op wife,people acted on what was presented to them,if it turns out wrong and hubby lied,forgive the commenters.
For the Op himself,should it turn out you were right and your wife is lying forgive those who may say you were lying...

I personally think there is a victimhood playing between op and his wife,he is feeling cheated and she is feeling cheated,most times we don't look inward for our faults but rather look outward at others,presenting ourselves the angels and our partners demons...



@funmisticqueen ignore those shaming your looks and don't let it get to you,because the shaming is done by those not confident enough to post their pictures on their profiles... But that said I personally think there is a need for you to do some introspection and work on some aspects..lots of love

they have been bashing my looks for 5 years and the picture is still there. You kinda develop a thick skin to it over time.

The ones bashing still send me DMs later so there's that.

Thanks for everything though.