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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by QuickStandard: 2:52pm On Jan 02, 2020
No matter how expensive your fendi, vasace or Gucci might be, after a couple of months the interest in wearing it dies down.

No matter how luxerous a 2019 Rolls-Royce is, give it some year, it will turn to a kabu-kabu.

Go to lekki axis, you will see some abandoned limousines along the road.

To everything, there's a time and a season. So the Bible said.


I remember there was a time I could do overnight getting down with my babe.

But you shouldn't expect that now that we are married....

However that doesn't mean I don't still perform my duties in Za Oza room.

Am not called the youngest baba beji in my hood for nothing. grin grin grin

Anyways ten years is a decade.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by hohafrank(m): 2:53pm On Jan 02, 2020
thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.
the law of marginal utility.The more you consume,the less satisfaction you derive from it.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by northvietnam(m): 2:53pm On Jan 02, 2020
I’m even tired in a relationship sef, How marriage own wan be.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Imstrong2(m): 2:53pm On Jan 02, 2020
Nothing last forever

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by y3mi(m): 2:54pm On Jan 02, 2020
It's called the six year itch!

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.
How you take dey renew am, alomo or viagra? Lol just kidding.

THUNDER4real:
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..
No truer word, just marry your friend. But e easy?

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I just came across them too.

Strictly for adults and married folks!

PS.
If that's really you on your DP, then why the hell would your hubby get tired of you? Lots of places to conquer.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Afospecialk: 2:54pm On Jan 02, 2020
After 10 years the rest is for the children and start practicing the true meaning of partnership

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by superlanny(m): 2:55pm On Jan 02, 2020
Don't you know that puna too has shock absorber. The kpekus don weak

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 2:55pm On Jan 02, 2020
grin
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Xerum(m): 2:55pm On Jan 02, 2020
Same way all living things die off slowly? cheesy

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by xynerise: 2:56pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Exactly. The sex drive doesn't die generally, rather it dies with their wives/husbands.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Sofistcatdmoron: 2:56pm On Jan 02, 2020
because sex is overrated

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by oloriooko(m): 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
Says who?
IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by SarakiBukola: 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
omamush:
Dunno, I'm not married..

You aren't but wetin you dey chop, some married folks sef never see grin

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by EcoBrick: 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.

I'm sorry but this isn't making sense to me. undecided

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by AvalonSpace(m): 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
In a bid to evade fornication, they went rushed into marriage to legalise intercourse.. When Martial problem strikes, they get tired if the reason they went in.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Godsonkemz(m): 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
Law of diminishing return as economist will call it. It becomes less pleasurable than it used to be after many child births.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by CopaMike(m): 2:57pm On Jan 02, 2020
Ten years is much considering the fact that diminishing return sets in within one year of sticking to one partner. No matter how much am attracted to a girl at the initial moment, once I start having sex with her, within a month I get tired of her and desire another girl. I do wonder how I will be able to remain faithful to my future wife...

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 2:58pm On Jan 02, 2020
xynerise:


Exactly. The sex drive doesn't die generally, rather it dies with their wives/husbands.
Husband.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 02, 2020
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Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk
pussy is now slack after 5 kids. Boobs now slippers. And many hungry small gals with tight jaruma laced pussy dey

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by KennieKingOba(m): 2:58pm On Jan 02, 2020
nothing except responsibilities, my brothers here will understand better...

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by GOFRONT(m): 2:58pm On Jan 02, 2020
I cant come and be chopping Ogbono all d time

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by OnyesomJ(m): 2:59pm On Jan 02, 2020
Na Because there’s Time for Everything

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nwaonyishi69: 2:59pm On Jan 02, 2020
It is a psychological problem. When there is love and sharing the drive to enjoy yourselves never die. But when it is plotting and counter plottings sex becomes difficult to arise.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by xynerise: 2:59pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Husband.

I was speaking to women in general and not to a particular woman

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Biglittlelois(f): 2:59pm On Jan 02, 2020
mysticwarrior:
White couples remain sexually active until they die, Oyibo no dey play with sex even 90 years old couples still dey enjoy themselves with the thing jare.


Race and colour has nothing to do with sex, black people should really stop with this bs stereotypes and generalisation, it's demeaning.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 3:00pm On Jan 02, 2020
Kekereekun123:
Xpussy is now slack after 5 kids. Boobs now slippers. And many hungry small gals with tight jaruma laced pussy dey
When jaruma is here to stay and omoshola is here to boos boobs no pussy will be slack even after ten kids

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Hugo55(m): 3:00pm On Jan 02, 2020
Eating same food for over ten years plus... dam!, one will get tired. Also been used to sex, seen the in and out of it....it really don't get so exciting and crazy as when one was 20 years plus old.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by atimadesign(m): 3:00pm On Jan 02, 2020
Marry your BEST FRIEND to avoid Diminishing Sexual returns due to Age and children responsibilities. grin embarassed undecided

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by adedayourt(m): 3:00pm On Jan 02, 2020
The bisybgwta tired of things no matter how sweet it is.

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by adexdloverboy(m): 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2020
2_5years kasala don already dey burst

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Thegeneralqueen(f): 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2020
xynerise:


I was speaking to women in general and not to a particular woman
Stop speaking about women

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