darlenese:
thank God mine hasn't reduced .

our sexual life is as good as new .

marriage that is just few months hold. Abeg wait it rich at least 5 years before you put mouth for this matter

Thanks

y3mi:
It's called the six year itch!

How you take dey renew am, alomo or viagra? Lol just kidding.

No truer word, just marry your friend. But e easy?

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I just came across them too.

Strictly for adults and married folks!

PS.
If that's really you on your DP, then why the hell would your hubby get tired of you? Lots of places to conquer.

middlebelter:


Diminishing Marginal Utility.

thorpido:
Economists call it the law of diminishing returns.

make una come explain yaselves o

Oyindidi:
Face front, I lie?

I yinmu you again.

hmmmmm

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

lie

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Well its not only Nigerian men. Its marry men at ur own risk. Cus u know women grow older and not attractive anymore. The guy can pretend but biology can not. U know most Nigerian women will forget and eat anything, ride in cars to show their self all the while getting fat and unfuckable

Mianky:
When i get there i will know what to answer

Well, we are learning here so that when we marry to that our future wife... it will not fade off in 10 years or above..

Me, I have already plan when I gat marry... my kids will senior each other 2 to 3 years gap.......

EngrMarve:
You bought blackberry 10years ago, why are you not using it now?
All these things we dey rush we go definitely get tired of it.

. U nail it Jare ,I don't know the fuss about one getting tired of sex after 10 years ,that amount of years is even too much self ,its natural one get tired of something no matter the Level of love .For example I love beans so much ,In the morning it's beans , afternoon beans night beans ,even if u made it into Akara or Moi moi,Beans na still beans .Men you will be tired Jare let's not deceive ourself .Whether it's the man or woman ,Person will get tired .

xynerise:


I believe you are not blind to see I was addressing both sexes.

Ovoko......Ovoko LMAO

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Abeg this is a New yr. just carry your woman wahala to one side

sex is super sweet. our relationship is 10 years plus .

it only was rubbish when i left my well paying job.
but now, its all areas and all styles...u can bet.
it depends on the two people if they see them selves as lovers and if the age range is very close.

age gap between my wife and I is 4 months so we kinda tango.

don't call me on Saturday morning oh but if u do, u will have to call again later in da evening cos i didn't understand all u said on phone..

Oyindidi:
Men are too weak to perform their duties, simple!

AwkaetitiBabe:
Stress

proberly want something new, eating cake all the time is tiring

Bbbwings:

make una come explain yaselves o

Return is on Investment why Utility is on Consumption.
Diminishing return is different from Diminishing Marginal Utility (satisfaction)

HIV and other sexually transmitted disease go dey look the person dey laugh. When he get am,
he go value he wife

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

marimaar:

Exactly! I'm tired already..

Thanks dear, you be correct man

I was gisting with one of my colleague who is an Alfa and he said for some months now,he has not even attempted making love to his wife,even as they both sleep on the same bed.when u're getting the kind of salary he is getting and u have to pay rent,utilities and u have about two children in the university at once with the third one about gaining admission.tge last thing you will be thinking of is sex
But u do envy the man a lot.he us about 38-40 and already has two kids in university.
It pays to get married early

middlebelter:


Return is on Investment why Utility is on Consumption.
Diminishing return is different from Diminishing Marginal Utility (satisfaction)

thanks

Enemyofpeace:
you sure got it right

Thanks

THUNDER4real:
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..

Apt

This should not really be so. Unfortunately, it becomes monotonous and boring for some people.

frozen70:


Thanks

you're welcome mum

How can you eat rice for 10 years non stop?

WuraSerano:
This should not really be so. Unfortunately, it becomes monotonous and boring for some people.

me I love sex o

Because the present of God is not in that family

Nna meeen.!! You guys are scaring me with these comments. I'm yet to settle down,but I hope to find one that can match my sexual prowess. . . marriage is increasingly looking almost like prison

If you get marriage right

It gets sweeter after 10 years

The sex even get sweeter

If you know you know

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

Talk for yourself. Some marriages of over 30 years are still kicking it frequently.

May be, those who married without being in love with their partners. But when you are married for love, no matter how situation bends them, they will still have feelings for each other. They will still have time to make love.

My things is, whatever you are doing to look sexy before you get married, make sure you maintain that after you are married. Workout, eat healthy, look sexy for your man/woman. Even after child birth( woman), please hit the gym and eat healthy foods. Women/Men should not have a protruding bellies. Spend money on lingerie and sexy boxers, smell good at all time. Women, wash your hair/weaves at least once a week please! Living with a sexy partner is a plus. It put you in the mood.

Women, be driven in life. Support your husband financially. In other words, your husband should not be the only provider in the family in case of any unforeseen circumstances. Your husband should bring in at least 60% and you should bring in 40% to alleviate family burdens from both of you. If you are not educated to work a white-collar job have him help you get into petty trading or learn a hand work.

Husband, help your wife with house chores. Your manhood will not deteriorate if you help her out with cleaning the house, taking the trash out, doing laundry, and making sure that your kids are okay. As a matter of fact, doing this with her once in a while will make her love you forever. This would make her give you sex whenever and however you want it.

Women above all, remember that no matter how sexy, educated, and hard working you seem, men crave respect more than food and your body. So, worship the ground that he walks and he would love you forever.

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Na so...so the oyibo man you want to get married to will not get tired of sleeping with you? Make all these hot babes notice the guy first ,you will know what's up.

WeRblessed:


Talk for yourself. Some marriages over 30 years are still kicking it frequently.

It is not the "kicking" that is the question .It is the sex .The relationship can be strong without sex .The question is, do they have sex like when they were young ?