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Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? - Family (3) - Nairaland

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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by PointZerom: 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk
Your last line depicts how unreasonable one can be.

Insult not intended.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by ogundeleai(m): 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2020
10yrs? When such things now worst within a year of marriage.... 80% of mariage dissolution now trace to sex issue and 70% of the problem laid in doorstep of women... If a woman is too holy before marriage she will be showing apathy towards sex when finally married... Likewise if a girl is wayward in her spinster period, Sex will be last option when she eventually married.. Only adequate education prior to marriage can safe the 'day:
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by xynerise: 3:02pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
Stop speaking about women
I believe you are not blind to see I was addressing both sexes.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Biodun1929(m): 3:02pm On Jan 02, 2020
After 10 years ke. Abi after 2 years.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by ibechris(m): 3:02pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk
See how u think about Nigerian men and as if u came directly from heaven. If care is not taken u are a product of the same thing u hated today.

Lady sorry to disappoint u,I am a typical igbo /Yoruba brought up and I can say with fact that I am the best husband based on knowledge of myself. I have never been involved in adultery and hardly keep friends cos that is the breeding ground for sex outside marriage.

So,with this,marry a Nigerian man for ur own good.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Prymestrr(m): 3:03pm On Jan 02, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.
your logic is as messed up as absolute nonsense. Most ppl get bored with routine sex simple. Doing the same thing over and over again till it becomes a strenuous exercise says it all. Reason why most partners seek for adventures outside their marriage.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Biodun1929(m): 3:03pm On Jan 02, 2020
ogundeleai:
10yrs? When such things now worst within a year of marriage.... 80% of mariage dissolution now trace to sex issue and 70% of the problem laid in doorstep of women... If a woman is too holy before marriage she will be showing apathy towards sex when finally married... Likewise if a girl is wayward in her spinster period, Sex will be last option when she eventually married.. Only adequate education prior to marriage can safe the 'day:
Perfect analysis. You have said it all.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by miclil: 3:03pm On Jan 02, 2020
One reason they don't love each other enough
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by abdullkabar(m): 3:04pm On Jan 02, 2020
AroOkigbo:
Simply because you are getting older.
This is the perfect answer
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Stillthebest: 3:04pm On Jan 02, 2020
kiss

Woman becomes too busy and less sexy with I-don't-care attitude towards the man(her first child)and diverts attentions to kids while the man(first child) looks else wherr to get pleasure and attention. Men are like children lol.

Any woman who understands this and work on it always, wil naturally call for the man to come no matter the number of gfs he has.

Has Op noticed why a lady while being a student at a higher institution been so neat, sexy, clean their pots and gas cookers like every 2 hours but when they get married, they(many) become the opposite just within two yrs of marriage except if they r lucky to find a man who puts them under check?
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by dalass(f): 3:05pm On Jan 02, 2020
Really?

Tell us the whole sordid story behind this conclusion grin grin grin

I think it has to the man getting older and surely potbellied with his manhood shrinking and the woman getting disappointed over and over..certainly not getting there.. The man uncaring as long as his 1 minute is complete..

As Tonto Dike gringrin
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 3:05pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
When jaruma is here to stay and omoshola is here to boos boobs no pussy will be slack even after ten kids
younger girls are sweeter deal with it. U dont expect a 39 year old fat mama to give u mindblowing sex. But a 21 year old unilag b1tch would
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Liposure: 3:06pm On Jan 02, 2020
Inactive Sex life is caused by any of d following. 1.Lack of adrenalin 2.weak sex hormones 3.low sex drive 4.erectile dysfunction
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Biodun1929(m): 3:08pm On Jan 02, 2020
CopaMike:
Ten years is much considering the fact that diminishing return sets in within one year of sticking to one partner. No matter how much am attracted to a girl at the initial moment, once I start having sex with her, within a month I get tired of her and desire another girl. I do wonder how I will be able to remain faithful to my future wife...
That's how a man is naturally wired. The way to handle that is to marry your friend, so that you can last longer after the sexual desire for her dies off.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by donbachi(m): 3:08pm On Jan 02, 2020
y3mi:
How you take dey renew am, alomo or viagra? Lol just kidding.
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Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by GeneralPula: 3:09pm On Jan 02, 2020
IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Starz825(m): 3:09pm On Jan 02, 2020
middlebelter:
Diminishing Marginal Utility.
Saturation point cheesy
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Blecoble(m): 3:09pm On Jan 02, 2020
Because, reality now set in

Responsibilities take over your life tongue
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Gforce2019: 3:10pm On Jan 02, 2020
Because after 10 years, the Toto could have opened beyond the preeq of a man. The better of a woman is not more than 2 years.the rest of it is endurance
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Temibold: 3:11pm On Jan 02, 2020
No vibe again
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Liposure: 3:11pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk
with all due respect, u are being biased and unfair 2 nigerian men
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Danzazzausambo(m): 3:12pm On Jan 02, 2020
See finish.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by darlenese(f): 3:13pm On Jan 02, 2020
thank God mine hasn't reduced .
our sexual life is as good as new .
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Biodun1929(m):
dalass:
Really?

Tell us the whole sordid story behind this conclusion grin grin grin

I think it has to the man getting older and surely potbellied with his manhood shrinking and the woman getting disappointed over and over..certainly not getting there.. The man uncaring as long as his 1 minute is complete..

As Tonto Dike gringrin
Or it could be that the woman has stopped taking care of herself... unattractive rims of fat on her belly and other areas, pot bellied, out of shape, fallen slippers breasts, dull and wrinkle skin, not smelling nice, not dressing nice, not taking hygeine serious anymore (smelly mouth), etc.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody:
EcoBrick:
I'm sorry but this isn't making sense to me. undecided
This might be a wrong interpretation but it sounds like the poster is hinting that, the woman is only giving sex so she can secure a healthy lifestyle and once she knows that the provider will always play his role, that she no longer feels the need to appease him with sex, since he will always take care of her regardless unlike the scenario where she feels in order to be secured she needs to give it to him. It won't make sense to us because as Africans this type of mentality is not for us, if you are on reddit and read the DeadBedrooms you will see such also it is a mindset that exists in something called the Red Pill Philosophy ( Dangerous Philosophy )
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Ryocaj(m): 3:14pm On Jan 02, 2020
If u dey chop rice everyday e go tire u.. even those dating for long sef.. Variety is d spice of life.. so at a point u get tired of something..
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by harrend(m): 3:15pm On Jan 02, 2020
i think its because every human naturally gets tired of what he's been used to, except if after then they still give themselves chances of futher knowing each other.thats because humans tend to gain excitement from getting knowledge about things they relate with..
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Nobody: 3:17pm On Jan 02, 2020
10 years is too much. Give it 5 years, you'll become siblings. You'll sleep together naked every night cuddling and still won't have the urge. Sex is just overrated, the lies porn sold to us!
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by darlenese(f):
Gforce2019:
Because after 10 years, the Toto could have opened beyond the preeq of a man. The better of a woman is not more than 2 years.the rest of it is endurance
theory of a man with miniature peniiis
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by newdawn2017(f): 3:18pm On Jan 02, 2020
Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk
Hence I belong to the #teampurewhitemen gang o cool
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by Newguyhere: 3:18pm On Jan 02, 2020
sense no go kill you grin
You are right tho tongue
Making women feel insecure in a relationship with you is a sure way to keep them in check.
RisenPhoenix:
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.
Re: Why Does Sex Slowly Die Off In A Marriage After 10+ Years?? by OyinO: 3:19pm On Jan 02, 2020
RisenPhoenix:
Because the frequency of marital sex is inversely proportional to the woman's certainty in her relationship and future financial stability. The more she is confident of her husband's willingness to maintain her financially, physically and emotionally as the only sugar in his tea, the less sex he gets.

Unsure women give out the most sex. Remember that.
This is epic! I think this can be developed into a theory.
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