I'll be as brief as possible!
we just started our HND programme, there's this girl I met always with an engagement ring and I inquired about it she said her husband to be gave her!

but she always love to be around me, calls at odd hours, I've tried all I could to stop her but she won't listen, her hostel is very close to my hostel, she'll come in the name of charging her phone and leave at odd hours as late as 1am, I don't want to have anything to do with her, anytime she's in my room, I always feel like a criminal trying to steal someone's wife!
fellow nairalanders what can I do, I don't want this to continue on resumption to school this year again!

I'm scared!

You wanted it !

Give her what she wants

Fvck the "P" outta her pvssy.

But make sure you don't use condom cos you wont enjoy it. Just skin-dive

Aren't you a man? Keep a rule or deceive yourself.

To avoid stories that touch and to avert this words from your mouth "how I wish"..

Bleep the living day light out of the lady..

Do that and thank me later yer

engage her again

its not too hard to cut her off.u still like the attention.

With the way you're sounding she'll still be coming again this semester to charge her phone and this time around she'll not just be inserting the cord into her phone's charging port but she'll also insert your own cord into the charging port in between her legs one night if care isn't taken

I remember one lekpa girl called Abigail always coming to my friend's room to iron her cloth and my guy would iron her pussycat too before she leaves. As in this happened almost everyday for months without her getting tired choi

Op you know you're both getting down this time but you just can't help it but seek for opinion, I understand she's cute and fresh so you're just confused but all I can tell you is to play safe bro... Was once in your shoes sha

Person Wey you Don nack already.

No come dey whine us for here

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OgunLaakaye:
Give her what she wants

Fvck the "P" outta her pvssy.

But make sure you don't use condom cos you wont enjoy it. Just skin-dive

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Hehehee.....
GHEN-GHEN!

DonFreshmoney:
To avoid stories that touch and to avert this words from your mouth "how I wish"..
Bleep the living day light out of the lady..
Do that and thank me later yer

@op
Do this and thank us later

Bad bad advice everywhere.

Guys, this is a new year o. Let us be morally upright at least for the first 3 weeks na. haba!



OP, Let me tell you one thing. There is no gentle way to reject a woman’s advances. If you like, tell her “no” with the car keys of a Benz, she will still cry and guilt-trip you.

Tell her straight. If you don’t, then you’re encouraging her.

Oga learn to friend zone them as well

I am sure she bought the ring for herself just to scare off unserious guys away, na audio engagement.

Get very close to her and she will eventually open up to you, that is a new way some ladies uses to find a husband, they will be like after showing this guy a ring he still stuck around he is worth keeping.

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itsme01:
Oga learn to friend zone them as well

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That's someone's fiancee tell her to Bleep off, she would only bring problem. why don't girls av sense,

Baba be a Sharp boy for once and do the needful .. someone else is probably doing your gf somewhere right now if u have one ...

vincentjk:
With the way you're sounding she'll still be coning again this semester to charge her phone and this time around she'll not just be inserting the cord into her phone's charging port but she'll also insert your own cord into the charging port in between her legs one night if care isn't taken

I remember one lekpa girl called Abigail always coming to my friend's room to iron her cloth and my guy would iron her pussycat too before she leaves. As in this happened almost everyday for months without her getting tired choi

Op you know you're both getting down this time but you just can't help it but seek for opinion, I understand she's cute and fresh so you're just confused but all I can tell you is to play safe bro... Was once in your shoes sha

u sure say no be u be that friend wey dey iron d gal pussycat

Riele:
You wanted it !

No. She wants it

OgunLaakaye:
Give her what she wants

Fvck the "P" outta her pvssy.

But make sure you don't use condom cos you wont enjoy it. Just skin-dive

I concur. Since it's not you eager to have it. So do her d favour she needs. Don't go to her house and don't get emotional about her. Just give her whenever she comes.

If she comes to the next life, she should count the cost of engagement before entering one!

gunners160:
u sure say no be u be that friend wey dey iron d gal pussycat

Na only daht one you see badguy

Oga this babe go end up hating you for life if you make her look like she's throwing herself at you. If you nt fict knack her then kip ur distance totally and if u fit knack let her know that nothing is attached to una knacking. A lady hated me thoughout my NYSC days cos I turned her advances down, this one even came to sleep over in my room and I didn't even near her. Since then, she stopped talking to me till we finished our service, the said lady eventually got an indigene who was servicing her steady trust Port Harcourt girls na, it's like she's a nympho. So if u wan do, do and if u no wan do keep ur distance and be prepared to any of her action.

lefulefu:
its not too hard to cut her off.u still like the attention.

Full stop.

Her engagement may also be audio. During my school days, almost every female student had a fiancé but no wedding bells until I graduated. Did the imaginary fiancé stop any of them from having school boyfriend(s)?

Would you want another guy taking advantage of your fiancée's vulnerability??

The question above would help you make your decision.

Dont fall for her tricks, must you sleep with any lady to prove your manliness. please stay away from her. It does not make you less of a man.

stanisbaratheon:
Would you want another guy taking advantage of your fiancée's vulnerability??

The question above would help you make your decision.

capital No!
one of the reasons I created this thread, ladies can be very funny, I know men can relate!

Untainted007:
Oga this babe go end up hating you for life if you make her look like she's throwing herself at you. If you nt fict knack her then kip ur distance totally and if u fit knack let her know that nothing is attached to una knacking. A lady hated me thoughout my NYSC days cos I turned her advances down, this one even came to sleep over in my room and I didn't even near her. Since then, she stopped talking to me till we finished our service, the said lady eventually got an indigene who was servicing her steady trust Port Harcourt girls na, it's like she's a nympho. So if u wan do, do and if u no wan do keep ur distance and be prepared to any of her action.

Something like this happened to me too. She wanted to thank me with sex for helping her at her point of need but I didn't understand it. She will come to my room,sit anyhow, change her clothes in front of me, sleep on my bed, go to school from my hostel n I was seeing n treating her as just a friend n it's not like she can see any other girl coming around. After some times in the middle of jokes n laughter she will drop words like "you be man?", "you be wood?". My mistake was thinking that sex would ruin the elder brother/younger sister relationship we had. So in her second semester 100L she started making more friends n stopped coming around n when I miss her company n call her she will be like "Wetin I dey come your hostel come do?". By the time I would understand what she wanted she had moved on.

Untainted007:
Oga this babe go end up hating you for life if you make her look like she's throwing herself at you. If you nt fict knack her then kip ur distance totally and if u fit knack let her know that nothing is attached to una knacking. A lady hated me thoughout my NYSC days cos I turned her advances down, this one even came to sleep over in my room and I didn't even near her. Since then, she stopped talking to me till we finished our service, the said lady eventually got an indigene who was servicing her steady trust Port Harcourt girls na, it's like she's a nympho. So if u wan do, do and if u no wan do keep ur distance and be prepared to any of her action.

I don't want to start this with 2020!
it's against my new year resolution sir!

Okoroawusa:

Something like this happened to me too. She wanted to thank me with sex for helping her at her point of need but I didn't understand it. She will come to my room,sit anyhow, change her clothes in front of me, sleep on my bed, go to school from my hostel n I was seeing n treating her as just a friend n it's not like she can see any other girl coming around. After some times in the middle of jokes n laughter she will drop words like "you be man?", "you be wood?". My mistake was thinking that sex would ruin the elder brother/younger sister relationship we had. So in her second semester 100L she started making more friends n stopped coming around n when I miss her company n call her she will be like "Wetin I dey come your hostel come do?". By the time I would understand what she wanted she had moved on.

I don't know why they're like that!
I want to keep distance at all cost but the more I'm moving away from her, the more closer she's coming!

Aplaudez:


I don't know why they're like that!
I want to keep distance at all cost but the more I'm moving away from her, the more closer she's coming!

Make a move n see her reaction. Women are not like men. The intricacies of their hearts run deep. Her reaction will show her intention n can only lead to two things--friends or foes