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I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 8:32pm On May 03
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by searchng4love: 8:36pm On May 03
Ndeoma:
Their is this lady maynationI have come to develop feelings for. She is a working class nairalander... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.

Before you recompose

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by dukeprince50: 8:36pm On May 03
she told you she's engaged, Oga move on with ur life, u will be glad u did.
no be say next year January, u go come create a thread explaining how ur long time crush send u a wedding invitation card and disturbing lalasticla.la to move it to front page. Just move on, If things with her guy goes south and u are worthy to replace him, she will come for u if otherwise u will be glad ur not hurt.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ekakamba: 8:36pm On May 03






It'll end in tears man. grin tongue

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by dingbang(m): 8:42pm On May 03
Fashi the babe bro..

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by ojun50(m): 8:47pm On May 03
dukeprince50:
she told you she's engaged, Oga move on with ur life, u will be glad u did.
no be say next year January, u go come create a thread explaining how ur long time crush send u a wedding invitation card and disturbing lalasticlala to move it to front page. Just move on, If things with her guy goes south and u are worthy to replace him, she will come for u if otherwise u will be glad ur not hurt.
Let him create the thread I will read and pass

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by omoiyamayor(m): 8:47pm On May 03
Dont ruin others happiness for your feelings,that's bein selfish.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by VicM6: 8:50pm On May 03
once lady fine na marraige b d next tin... after marriage now, Op go say him don tire. bro marry a girl full of wisdom nd not the beautiful types...na dem dem o

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 8:54pm On May 03
dukeprince50:
she told you she's engaged, Oga move on with ur life, u will be glad u did.
no be say next year January, u go come create a thread explaining how ur long time crush send u a wedding invitation card and disturbing lalasticlala to move it to front page. Just move on, If things with her guy goes south and u are worthy to replace him, she will come for u if otherwise u will be glad ur not hurt.

See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by xendra: 8:56pm On May 03
She wants to check if you are a better option.

Afterall she is engaged not married, So......

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 8:57pm On May 03
omoiyamayor:
Dont ruin others happiness for your feelings,that's bein selfish.

I haven't ruined anybody's happiness neither do I intend to do so. Try and read my post well and my reply to other comments.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Nobody: 8:58pm On May 03
woman matter ehh sad

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 8:59pm On May 03
xendra:
She wants to check if you are a better option.

Afterall she is engaged not married, So......

Are you saying there a possibility she might still be interested in my proposal? You are a lady you'd be in a better position to tell me how you guys operate because am not understanding again. Lol

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 9:01pm On May 03
VicM6:
once lady fine na marraige b d next tin... after marriage now, Op go say him don tire. bro marry a girl full of wisdom nd not the beautiful types...na dem dem o

She seems sensible bro... She is also a graduate and I know it might sound weird but I love fair pretty ladies.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by FirmTR(m): 9:03pm On May 03
She told you the stand of things in the beginning, you should be happy about that for not letting you waste your resources.
Maybe you should move on, you definitely ll meet someone you like much more than her..

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by dukeprince50: 9:05pm On May 03
Ndeoma:


See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move on church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And not the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.
U don't need a sorcerer to tell u she thought about what u told her and she's now into u, I think u should try ur luck one more time, if she's truly engaged and love the other guy,she will give u the red light again, this time move on for good, find another girl but biko do not be a second guy and have a secret affair with her, cos there's only two things that could happen if u do that. 1. U will destroy someone's else relationship or u will regret at the end wen u are already into her and then still loose her to her fiancee, I've been in such situation where I loved the babe but didn't know she was engaged and pregnant for her fiancee.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 9:12pm On May 03
dukeprince50:
U don't need a sorcerer to tell u she thought about what u told her and she's now into u, I think u should try ur luck one more time, if she's truly engaged and love the other guy,she will give u the red light again, this time move on for good, find another girl but biko do not be a second guy and have a secret affair with her, cos there's only two things that could happen if u do that. 1. U will destroy someone's else relationship or u will regret at the end wen u are already into her and then still loose her to her fiancee, I've been in such situation where I loved the babe but didn't know she was engaged and pregnant for her fiancee.

Bro you don't know how much your advise means to me since you've been in the same situation before. Even to try again sef my mind dey shake. Getting the red light twice from a lady is a no no for me ooo

I know women can be very cunning that's why I threw this to the house so you guys can shed more light on it for me. My head is full right now

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by dukeprince50: 9:22pm On May 03
Ndeoma:


Bro you don't know how much your advise means to me since you've been in the same situation before. Even to try again sef my mind dey shake. Getting the red light twice from a lady is a no no for me ooo

I know women can be very cunning that's why I threw this to the house so you guys can shed more light on it for me. My head is full right now
If u truly love the babe and want something with her u shouldn't have any problem trying the second time but with a different approach. If u feel embarrassed asking the second time, U can just ask her how about her fiancee in a friendly manner, if she replied with "he's cool, he's fine etc" then u should just give up but if she doesn't have any fiancee, she will tell u the truth this time cos she also want something with u. Women always use this strategy to find out if their male crush has a gf. They will be like "how ur babe na" or "Abeg free me o, I no want ur babe to come break my head,i no get strength", u should use this method to start, from there I think u can take things on all by urself

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 9:31pm On May 03
dukeprince50:
If u truly love the babe and want something with her u shouldn't have any problem trying the second time but with a different approach. If u feel embarrassed asking the second time, U can just ask her how about her fiancee in a friendly manner, if she replied with "he's cool, he's fine etc" then u should just give up but if she doesn't have any fiancee, she will tell u the truth this time cos she also want something with u. Women always use this strategy to find out if their male crush has a gf. They will be like "how ur babe na" or "Abeg free me o, I no want ur babe to come break my head,i no get strength", u should use this method to start, from there I think u can take things on all by urself

Thanks bro... I'd do as you said and see how it plays out.
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by omoiyamayor(m): 12:22am On May 04
Ndeoma:


I haven't ruined anybody's happiness neither do I intend to do so. Try and read my post well and my reply to other comments.
I'm sure my comment will stop you from intruding into their lives
Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by gamapoy539: 1:02am On May 04
Ndeoma:
Their is this lady I have come to develop feelings for. She is a graduate and intending to go for service before November... it's just this pandemic
that is delaying things. She is also a member of my church and serving in one of the service units. I have been observing her for a while and in the course of time grew feelings for her.

I took courage and approached her and she told me she is engaged to be married this December but the problem is that after that our chat she has been tailing me. She always comes around me to sit close to me during service meetings. Some times she'd be starring so much at me that you'd wonder. I'm beginning to think wether she actually told me the truth about her relationship status earlier or she is just trying to hold on to me as alternative just incase here marriage plans with the other guy goes south.

Please friends I need your sincere advice on what to do as am confused. I really love the lady and would like to marry her.
Sò whàt do you want us to do? steal her engagement ring?

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Frankicent(m): 1:04am On May 04
Ndeoma:


See bro am not the one going after her again. After she told me she is engaged I immediately withdrew myself but the situation here now is that she is the one coming for me. I don't even look at her face in church but one way or the other she will try to come around me. She watches my every move in church just in case I want to try out another lady in church. Most times when am smiling and chatting with my phone you'd clearly see this frown on her face. I've been observing this trend for a while now.

And you know once you love someone, definitely you'd fell like trying your luck once again to see whether their is a chance something could be established between you both. That's the state of dilemma I am in now. And also the lady too fine bro.

I value your advice bro and I will try to restrain myself from her at all cost. Funny enough I don't even call her on phone.


Bro, bro, broooo. Calm down I know how love feel.. It's difficult letting out on love... You just have to smart to make wise choice. Since she told you she's engaged it's not your fault. Even though she's joking. Over move on.. Don't because of her stop chatting with other ladies.

Because you will later regret .. Trust me.. No matter how close she comes. Keep searching for other ladies and ask others out. She's having a wonderful time at home with her fiance. While, you go home sober, single and no lady to comfort you.. Bro move on .. If she like she should remold her face with anger... It's none of your biz.


Incase she comes around tell her you can't continue because she's engaged and you might get really close to her and you don't want that because it's addicting and such attention could destroy her relationship. That you don't want..

Bros flow with other ladies, or you'll later regret you didn't. She's getting D* from her fiance.


She's using you bro.. Don't be her puppet.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Frankicent(m): 1:08am On May 04
xendra:
She wants to check if you are a better option.

Afterall she is engaged not married, So......

A lady that's engage haba

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Ndeoma: 9:19am On May 04
Frankicent:



Bro, bro, broooo. Calm down I know how love feel.. It's difficult letting out on love... You just have to smart to make wise choice. Since she told you she's engaged it's not your fault. Even though she's joking. Over move on.. Don't because of her stop chatting with other ladies.

Because you will later regret .. Trust me.. No matter how close she comes. Keep searching for other ladies and ask others out. She's having a wonderful time at home with her fiance. While, you go home sober, single and no lady to comfort you.. Bro move on .. If she like she should remold her face with anger... It's none of your biz.


Incase she comes around tell her you can't continue because she's engaged and you might get really close to her and you don't want that because it's addicting and such attention could destroy her relationship. That you don't want..

Bros flow with other ladies, or you'll later regret you didn't. She's getting D* from her fiance.


She's using you bro.. Don't be her puppet.

That's the same thing that's been going through my mind. This set of people called women can be manipulative. I will just shun her straight and try out other ladies. I think its better that way than to allow her hold me ransom. Thanks bro

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by AsEnemali(m): 10:13am On May 04
Bros lockup, if she want a relationship with you she'll tell you by her self as a matter of fact stop acting like you still have feelings for her even if you do.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Frankicent(m): 10:17am On May 04
Ndeoma:


That's the same thing that's been going through my mind. This set of people called women can be manipulative. I will just shun her straight and try out other ladies. I think its better that way than to allow her hold me ransom. Thanks bro


Am telling you bro... Free her except she want to flirt with you.. Flirt with her and woo other ladies make you no lose

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Starcrest1: 12:01pm On May 04
If you want something serious, tell her you do. If she refuses, make love to her and move on life is not that hard.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by ArmaniUhuru: 11:44am On May 09
Oga go and make your feelings known to her. Just try your luck. Na so BankyW own pass.

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Chijeep(m): 11:45am On May 09
make true friendship with her.
if it works out to become a relationship then that your luck. else you've nothing to lose because in friendship it always a win win

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Re: I Have Feelings For Her But She's Engaged by Pandev(m): 11:45am On May 09
undecided
oga let her go and move on. Forget about how she stares at you, women can be so strange in behaviour sometimes. Use your 6 before 7. No talk say I no tell you. Peace cool

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