Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline?

Y'all should try and be less selfish in yhur decisions...

Yhu skillfully excluded the years she's been together with yhu. ....how old is she?....

I'm sure yhu gave her signal that say yhure not serious with her...

Women do not have time to waste...try and understand

yimu! why will she not give you a deadline? with all that happens these days you'll have a stupid woman if she doesn't. women's clock are different from men, and she has every right.

she even loves you that's why she's giving you a deadline like she still wants you to try some men didn't even have any idea when their own take follow another person go

[quote author=Jodha post=85513664]Y'all should try and be less selfish in yhur decisions...

Yhu skillfully excluded the years she's been together with yhu. ....how old is she?....

I'm sure yhu gave her signal that say yhure not serious with her...

Women do not have time to waste...try and understand

Actually when we met 2018, then I was still OK and I told her we should do the needful but she said at the right time she will let me know not until I started facing some challenges.

Love they say "is unconditional"..all u need from her is encouragement...if she's not ready to continue supporting and encouraging u,i will advice u let her go..."man propose and GOD dispose".

xendra:
yimu! why will she not give you a deadline? with all that happens these days you'll have a stupid woman if she doesn't. women's clock are different from men, and she has every right.

she even loves you that's why she's giving you a deadline like she still wants you to try some men didn't even have any idea when their own take follow another person go

xendra calm down... E be like say na you be the woman

You too Try and if she insist let her go, prepare your mind for such. Women too are under pressure. She may date only you all this while, you are not married to her yet, her parent don't know you, so allow her make her choices and don't be sentimental. If she doesn't go now, maybe definitely when married and that would be worse.
In today's world there is no more unconditional love what we have is sentimental love: love based on physical attributes.

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Oh i get now....

If that's the case i think she found some one that's promising her marriage....that might be the reason why she's sprewing trash...

Just talk to her ...and explain everything to her...if she's still adamant..then my brother yhu just dodged a bullet... avoid her and move on..

God will surprise yhu...

Jodha:


Oh i get now....

If that's the case i think she found some one that's promising her marriage....that might be the reason why she's sprewing trash...

Just talk to her ...and explain everything to her...if she's still adamant..then my brother yhu just dodged a bullet... avoid her and move on..

God will surprise yhu...

Hey you, I like you

zexy2030:

Hey you, I like you

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Good morning....thanks i guess

Nigerian gals marry because of child or children

They claim time is not on their side

Some use this to have sex with multiple lads all in the name of marrying already made lad ....

Anyways me I can't talk much but if someone love you that person will stay ...

If your job pays some or you don't have any why can't she just help with whatever she have ...

Have seen some married couples that started with 15 - 20k ..

Anyways good luck to you shaa

victorlake:
Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline?

Jodha:
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Good morning....thanks i guess

How was your night.

xendra:
yimu! why will she not give you a deadline? with all that happens these days you'll have a stupid woman if she doesn't. women's clock are different from men, and she has every right.

she even loves you that's why she's giving you a deadline like she still wants you to try some men didn't even have any idea when their own take follow another person go

All this stupid talk yet you are unmarried and have no man in your life.

Op search yourself if you've that intend mind to marry her then convince her with that confidence, she may endure if she has understanding

Do an introduction if possible or engage her..........Good woman are hard to find, if you find one, do everything to keep her.

The ball is at your court, you know what you want but do not delay her out of your selfishness...remember you'll still have daughters and will want them to marry at the proper age...

zexy2030:

How was your night.

Cold...

Pls let's not derail op's thread...

Jodha:


Cold...

Pls let's not derail op's thread...

See my profile let's WhatsApp.

She’s a joker.

Dump her àss. Shebi they say marriage is not an achievement? Why TF is she hounding you for it?

Send her àss packing.

You need positive vibes only.

BigJoe19:
All this stupid talk yet you are unmarried and have no man in your life.

are you the OP? so because them give your mama belle run, come born big head like you now, you think every woman is stupid and lonely

Free the girl and sort ya life

MJBOLT:

she only gave you that deadline because money no dey,the only thing women love is money and nothing else.

my brother logically No. I believe she just likes the guy.

xendra:
are you the OP? so because them give your mama belle run, come born big head like you now, you think every woman is stupid and lonely

Have you gone through puberty? You talk like a little child, now go and read your books, tommorow is Monday.

Guys hustle oh, make una babes no give una deadline.

weak men evrywhr, thanks 2 nigeria today 4 breeding weak men evryday. bro just make sure u nack dat girl, i said u must make sure u nack her well, be nackin her in season and out of season. nack her well ooo nd dats ur only gain so dat wen she leaves, she leaves 4 good nd u wont regret anytin. pls i beg u wit d name of almighty God 2 make sure u nack dat girl evrytime she visits u.

Don't allow anyone push you oo.... Make sure you fix up your business first... Abi how will you take care of her after marriage...

xendra:
yimu! why will she not give you a deadline? with all that happens these days you'll have a stupid woman if she doesn't. women's clock are different from men, and she has every right.

she even loves you that's why she's giving you a deadline like she still wants you to try some men didn't even have any idea when their own take follow another person go

Na lie.... If she truly loves him.. she won't give him a deadline rather she will support him towards their future, so as to make things better and runs smoothly....

She given you a deadline perhaps she is dating someone else b dat.... Indirectly telling you YOU HAVE A TINY ROPE HOLDING THE RELATIONSHIP.. any moment in time... She gonna vamoot..

NEVER TRUST A LADY❌❌❌

I think you should let her go immediately
Don't put pressure on yourself by working with a deadline. Funny thing is after she leaves you're going to get back on track and she'll be back saying she still loves you. I've seen it a million times.

Best thing is be nakking her and don’t stress yourself checking her calls or phone. Don’t spend money on her again. I bet you have been d one spending and you haven’t seen her 10kobo

Make I no lie you once you remove your mind and focus on developing yourself. You will make headway and she will be d one begging for your attention.

But why are there so many mu.mu men why na

Na wa o.
And this life get too many paths.
Each man and woman with his own problem.

[quote author=victorlake post=85513563]Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline? [/quote]
This question not suppose to be ur paramount concern now, try to find something doing no matter how small it is. Teaching or anything.
Remember Age is not on her side

Jodha:
Y'all should try and be less selfish in yhur decisions...

Yhu skillfully excluded the years she's been together with yhu. ....how old is she?....

I'm sure yhu gave her signal that say yhure not serious with her...

Women do not have time to waste...try and understand

Pls can you learn how to type 'you" the right way. Whsts up with the yhu?

Lamanii22:
Don't allow anyone push you oo.... Make sure you fix up your business first... Abi how will you take care of her after marriage...

Your comments are always very sensible, without sentiments, and concise. Just thought I should commend you for that