No body should give u options in love,buy trash cans and throw her in there

victorlake:
Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline?

Bro, I don't see the deadline as anything wrong. Women don't have time like we men do. You cannot continue to be dating perpetually till eternity without any commitment.

So if you are not serious, free her so another person will come into her life. I think that's the point of the supposed deadline. It's not the question of whether she loves u or not.

HardeyGold:



Na lie.... If she truly loves him.. she won't give him a deadline rather she will support him towards their future, so as to make things better and runs smoothly....

She given you a deadline perhaps she is dating someone else b dat.... Indirectly telling you YOU HAVE A TINY ROPE HOLDING THE RELATIONSHIP.. any moment in time... She gonna vamoot..

NEVER TRUST A LADY❌❌❌

and there's also such a thing as "never trust a man" she is going with that.

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In as much as we love, we also have to be considerate in our dealings in relationship.

Mr if you truly love that lady u will gladly let her go and wish her well when she finally brings you her wedding invite.

No hate at all,I had similar experience.I let her go wished her well.Because then I no even know when I go blow or get back on my feet.And believe me am not that selfish.

As God will have it all my deals clicked before the year ended.

So it's really a dangerous gamble for the female folk.Worst still you might still leave her when you blow.

victorlake:
Good morning to you all, have an issue that has been disturbing me for some days now. I happened to work in a reputable organization, sometime in 2018, I lost my job and I decided to go into business but lost everything in that business because I was duped, since then life has not been easy. Have searched for jobs since then till now and nothing seems to be happening. just two days back, my supposed fiance who has been so supportive called and told me that she's giving me this year that if nothing good happen and I get married to her, that she's quitting the relationship. the big question is if she really loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me, will she give me a deadline?

let her go, find your feet back you will get a better girl for sure

BigJoe19:
Have you gone through puberty? You talk like a little child, now go and read your books, tommorow is Monday.

lol.. ode! because you are on NL? see this rat

[quote author=xendra post=85523705] and there's also such a thing as "never trust a man" she is going with that.[/quote

Women are dangerous..... Even you xendra I don't trust you��

Now we dude know why we work

Yes it all for the women

Oga some ladies will not even give you deadline
You will just find out that you are dating yourself

Money is good mehh
Money answer all things

Fiance kwa?

Why have also been wasting her time all these while?
She's not wrong to have given you a deadline. Time may not be on her side any longer and who knows when youll get back on your feet again?

Free her.