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Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mayten(m): 12:48am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: Op...the cat would soon be let out of the bag and you would regret not making amends when you can......you still think you and you baby Daddy would be absolved of your evil deeds?.......naaaaaa it doesn't work that way. .........and like i said earlier if anything happens to your sister, her blood would be on your hands.. make amends before it's too late...... |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 12:49am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:check the meaning again, now check the connection with aloofness and read again. Super Olodo. I didn’t say she sulked alone, I said she became aloof. Check the connection and read again. By the way, you are the worst adviser ever. You are not waiting for a boyfriend to build your own life for you but you were advising her to wait for one to build hers. 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:50am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian: You're just an idiot Trying to form diplomatic...but no, you making yourself sound so dumb 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:51am On Jan 08, 2020 |
spayor: Don't mind the idiot |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by mayten(m): 12:52am On Jan 08, 2020 |
midnighter: Very very insensitive......someone with a cold heart.... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 12:52am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:Now I agree you are olodo. Where did I tell her she needs her bf? Exactly what I’ve been telling her. She doesn’t need her boyfriend. You should be the one to keep quiet, olodo oshi. Misleading people up and down. For someone who types so well, it’s a pity it’s so difficult for you to comprehend the language. Supporting her doesn’t mean he had to give her money, encouragement doesn’t necessarily mean money. Olodo. And it’s necessary her boyfriend gives her pep talk and encourage her to become better. Because if he isn’t encouraging her to be better, he would definitely encourage her to be stagnant. They plan on building a future together, they should help one another grow, olodo 7 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:52am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: What makes you think your husband loves you and your daughter by always taking care of you. If he loves you he won't impregnate you and he won't persuade you to open your legs for him either. If he loves you he will respect your family and will not convince you to scatter it no matter the situation. You have a lot to learn about love because you are still very naive, gullible and easily deceived. Your Immaturity, senselessness, and dullness is what he saw in you that made him impregnate you. If he sees that you are smart, brilliant and intelligent he will never try it and will not conspire with you to destroy the life of your sister. You failed to tell us the job of your thuggish uneducated father of your daughter. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by H2ho(m): 12:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:I understand how feel...your sister loves but she got disappointed with the news of your baby at a tender age '15' please find an elderly person and go beg your sister. Blood is thicker than water. 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by brandmix: 12:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos:Sorry you are a witch. Whether you know it or not 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:54am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: EVIL DERANGED SLOWPOKE!!! that's what you are You deserve a place among pigs...not humans 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by ceeceeuwa: 12:54am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I just wish your sister's fiancé is a Nairalander so he can read this for himself. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 12:57am On Jan 08, 2020 |
[quote author=1Sharon post=85600160][/quote] A wealthy olamide who had the means to cater for a child told his babymama to commit abortion,till today she fends for the baby alone.... And a "broke" guy here still fends for his babymama and child,and he is hated for being "broke".... 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 12:58am On Jan 08, 2020 |
NoSidonLook:Honestly, so dumb 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 1Sharon(f): 1:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
PerseDew: They have a child together for goodness sake, why shouldn't he be allowed in to see his child? This isnt just a boyfriend and girlfriend seeing each other, they are parents. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
My dad was very strict and when he found out about my pregnancy that day he gave me the worst beating of my life even myself I taught I will miscarriage the baby because beating was too much oo, but after that he didn’t talk to me , I become his worst enemy but as soon as my baby was born , he forgive and forget . My parents didn’t hate him anymore for the sake of our daughter , they let him come and visit us in the house but he is shy and doesn’t come often and my dad told my sister to stop insulting him but she wouldn’t listen. So if my parents could forgive and forget and why can’t she ?quote author=PerseDew post=85600058] Your parents travelled and he took the opportunity to come to your house, you sis has been insulting him steady long before now, pls what was he expecting?? If your parents were at home, would they have welcomed him with open arms? He knew he was not welcomed in that house but went ahead to visit..if this is not looking for trouble then tell me what it is. Like I said, she may be faulted but you and even him started it.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by OgbeniOja1: 1:02am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Bro if I'm d guy I won't do again. Who want to come into a family where siblings have such bitterness for each other blujoi: 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by fk001(m): 1:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: How comes your sister is responsible and educated while you are NFA Marlian? 5 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Back to the sender Smilebukkieman: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:04am On Jan 08, 2020 |
PerseDew: But they're sisters now? You get? Ok let me ask you this, is there any provocation that can lead you to call the police on your sibling? Come to think of it. Didn't the elder sister think about their parents? Now I'm not saying op was right, just saying as much as we're calling out the op, her sister too should be blamed. And trust me, if op's bf had absconded when he got her pregnant, it's this same sinister elder sister that would remind op everyday that "you see, you gave birth to a bastard". She would have reminded op everyday that her child is a bastard without a moment's hesitation. The thing about most of us is that, we've not yet fully grasped the concept of unconditional love. Unconditional love looks beyond past mistakes, forgives, and helps the other person grow. It guides them for as long as they need guidance and support. This is what I expect of the sister. If you must reprimand, do it once and move past it, not rip the other person of what's left of their self-confidence. 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by tosyne2much(m): 1:06am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Acidosis:Bro, this story is probably a tale jawe 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by fk001(m): 1:06am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: As someone rightly said, your sister underestimated your foolishnes. 4 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by umarshehu58(m): 1:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
blesskewe: She be tout just like her guy 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 1:08am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:The only sensible comment you’ve made ever since. No no one was saying the sister was right, in fact, most have moved past that. Now everyone is talking about how the Op hasn’t seen reason why should be in charge of her life and stop revolving her life round her boyfriend. Yes he’s the father of her child but she’s a person of her own. What if anything happens tomorrow? Won’t she move on or she wants her sister to keep feeding her for life? This is all we have been telling her but you were hell bent on misleading her into thinking her life has to revolve round her boyfriend because she has a child for him. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 1Sharon(f): 1:08am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: Thank you. That's the thing about this NL forum, they're ever ready to judge and dish out insults with no real answers or solution 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
OgbeniOja1: My point exactly! I don't understand people's way of thinking. Quick to judge without taking an objective view of both sides. Op's foundation is clearly faulty. They both need counselling. 3 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Ifyjos(f): 1:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
after Getting pregnant everybody treated me bad , nobody wanted to send me back to school And my sister and other siblings are all graduated fk001: |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by blujoi(m): 1:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
I understand your point, it’s a lot to deal with for any guy. Unfortunately you are not the guy. She has made a mistake which she has accepted and she has shown remorse. There’s nothing impossible. It’s possible when the guy hears her story he will have a change of heart. Life is not black & white. OgbeniOja1: 2 Likes |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Nobody: 1:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: So you destroyed her life...Your own blood WITCH and you think you'll prosper, after you've destroyed someone's life and you not even remorseful about it 1 Like |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by 1Sharon(f): 1:10am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Ifyjos: How old is ur BF? |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by Meliian(f): 1:11am On Jan 08, 2020 |
queenitee: It's the other way around actually. Clearly, something woke your dead brain up. |
Re: I Destroyed My Sister Relationship With Her Fiancé And She Lost Her Job by queenitee(f): 1:12am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Meliian:No, your brain was deceiving you or you clearly do not comprehend the language you type so well. You are actually the one with a dead brain. And you would agree with me because everyone thinks you give dumb advice but by the way, it’s not you, it’s your lack of comprehension of the language. You meant something entirely different from all you’ve been typing. Good night Lady. 6 Likes |
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