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Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:39am On Jan 08, 2020 |
If u sell that land since your family is the youngest you will get the smallest share. The share u would get, it won't be long till u become homeless. And that's not a smart move. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:42am On Jan 08, 2020 |
livebyday:Just as they too have no rights too when it comes to there own various estates. If his own estate is to be sold and money given to everyone, because there's no will, the estates of the other wives must be sold too, cause there's no will naming them sole beneficiary too. I too have experienced something like this |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by dustydee: 10:44am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo:Does that mean they can use it for whatever they wish? Are you comfortable for them to rent out "their" rooms in the property or have them send strangers to stay over? I doubt you will like that. If you can, just buy them out and keep the house. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 10:44am On Jan 08, 2020 |
DisGuy:infact I'm now ready, but it should be in record that we never consented for future purposes |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by extremelygolden: 10:45am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: My dear, you don't need all this. Just pray that God will bless you so you can build your own house(s) in the choicest part of the city. At that time, you can even come back to repurchase the house from the current buyers and renovate it to your taste. Or buy another close to it's current location and convert it to an edifice. But until then, be alive for us and your loved ones. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by dawnomike(m): 10:46am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie:well, please kindly give him a significant comment |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:48am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo:If u sell it once money enters there hand, ur family share will be the smallest, apart from that you guys are plenty, u would be surprised when they give u just 1m as ur family share. What can that 1m do for u as accommodation in Lagos. Even if the sharing option was to come up, they can rent out the other flats while the entire extended family share d rent but selling out ur family house is a Big NO. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:50am On Jan 08, 2020 |
extremelygolden:Why all of una too dae reason slow. What is the benefit of this your comment to his predicament. A 25years old guy is about to loose his family house and u are advising him to loose it and pray that one day God gives him money to buy a better house, which kind of thinking is this 3 Likes |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by tropaz(m): 10:50am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: Kid 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by AreaFada2: 10:53am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: Since your dad had no will, in many cultures the house would even belong to the eldest male child. He can then allocate rooms to other siblings who need accommodation there. Not sure what your culture says about it. If at all possible, start seeking alternative accommodation. Don't be wedded to "a public" property belonging to 11 children. Sadly, attachment, sentiments and emotions are irrelevant in a polygamous situation without a will. Why things may not be going messy right now, it only takes one or two of the siblings falling on hard times to ramp up the pressure to sell. As you admitted, some of you do not even know each other that well. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by churchee: 10:54am On Jan 08, 2020 |
munex007: You are the first fool whose words will come to pass. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:55am On Jan 08, 2020 |
tropaz:This is a very ignorant statement. Why must it be only his own family house, why can't the other siblings sell there own too so they will all be even. And no one will be selfish |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by elijahozzy(m): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2020 |
If you don’t have or have the document, that’s COO of the house, just write Beware of 419, this house is not for sale. Thank me later. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 10:58am On Jan 08, 2020 |
AreaFada2:Why must they sell only his family house when the other siblings have family houses too, If they want to sell anything and share it so everyone can go there separate ways then everything must be sold both the family house of the other siblings. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:00am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Kaeboy:But the dad built houses for others too, y must they sell only his own family house, if they are to sell it cause there's no will they must sell the one his dad built for them too |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by jmichael259(m): 11:01am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: My dear forget sentimental attachment. For your own safety, stop saying no when you have been so outnumbered. The elder ones from first, second and third wives have more rights than you. 1)Can your own share (or maybe with your brother's share) reach like 3-4mill at least? So that you get yourself maybe a plot or half and site something to substain you and run from polygamous brouhaha before it starts turning messy!! 2) If they're such decent or learned folks, then you should implore them to come together so 11 of you enter a legal partnership agreement as a consortium or cooperative and then lease the land and/or property. Depending on the location, banks, hotel, school, plaza might be situated on it. Outright sale is loss. Lawyer, bank manager can advise you better on this. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by extremelygolden: 11:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie: Are you expecting my response on this? Unfortunately I have none to give. Thank you. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Lion101: 11:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Inside life! Follow your heart bruv. May the Lord see you through. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:03am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo: Guy stop being an OG and wise up o... U are not a kid again if u are above 30. How would ur dad just die, a house that u lived all ur life, ur far away siblings would come and drop account Number for rent. They couldn't even delegate things to u 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by livebyday(m): 11:05am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie:Who made it his own estate ? Or are you speaking for the sake of it? State facts not emotional rants . Who made it solely his own estate legally? Or are you a land grabber who thinks all estates are first live first own? This is not a movie |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:05am On Jan 08, 2020 |
jmichael259:This kind of situation, 4wives for that matter and d youngest I assure u if these boys see 2m make them thank God. Except they sell it for over 50m 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Fairview1(f): 11:05am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Lion101: My brother, this goes beyond following the heart. They need do sth about this. Seriously!!! 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by eazriel09: 11:06am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Starboytwo:Your constant use of My house sold you out bro.. and as regards the work I ain't crying fowl over my fathers property |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:07am On Jan 08, 2020 |
livebyday: Its not his estate. We are not arguing that, just as the one the other siblings stay too are not there's, if they sell out the one he occupies when time comes will they easily sell out there own, even if they do will they give him a share? |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by AreaFada2: 11:08am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie: Remember these are siblings where some do not even know each other. For OP, it's family house. For others who only called their father 'Baba Shade'. it's not a family house. They have no attachment to the house. But are entitled to a share of the house/asset. When polygamy and many kids come into play, selling the house is the best option. That's why writing a will and testament is crucial. Unless those who consider it family house and attached to it can buy out the others to retain the house. Like I pointed out, when it comes to inheritance, sentiments hardly matter. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:09am On Jan 08, 2020 |
eazriel09:But other family members live in houses built by there father why must only his own family house be brought up to be sold? |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by livebyday(m): 11:11am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie: You are saying nothing.. I established facts 1. He doesn't own the estate as there is no legal document stating him as sole custodian or beneficiary 2. Since number 1 is established he has no final say it prevention in the sake of said estate since all biological children of his late father have equal stake in the estate being due to number 1 3 he is basically a tenant who can live for free there but when it comes to sale.of the estate he can't stop it legally unfortunately he can just push to make sure he gets his own share which cannot be more than what others are entitled to. 4. These are the facts , he doesn't own the house , they own the house being all biological children You made no point just argued for the sake of it. My facts are irrefutable |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by AreaFada2: 11:11am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Coldie: The other siblings did not inherit other houses from their father if I understand OP correctly. Just the one house in Lagos which all siblings have a share in. Remember these are siblings where some do not even know each other. For OP, it's family house. For others who only called their father 'Baba Shade'. it's not a family house. They have no attachment to the house. But are entitled to a share of the house/asset. When polygamy and many kids come into play, selling the house is the best option. That's why writing a will and testament is crucial. Unless those who consider it family house and attached to it can buy out the others to retain the house. Like I pointed out, when it comes to inheritance, sentiments hardly matter. 1 Like |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Nobody: 11:11am On Jan 08, 2020 |
History has taught me to be careful concerning any property matter. Though I don't want you to show them your weak side. To really tell you the truth, the other siblings want to sell the house for either cash recuperation or to free themselves from extended family wahala It favor you most not to sell the house than to sell it because you are still living there. The fear of being once a landlord son to a tenant is one of it.. Though I don't subscribe to selling my inheritance except for a rare and unredeemable situation.... Thank God my father has only one wife. And he's being telling all his children that we shouldn't sell any of his property and that the biggest legacy he has given to each and everyone of us is our education. So nobody amongs us can come with the idea of selling any of my father's property either now or later. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:11am On Jan 08, 2020 |
AreaFada2:This is not a matter of sentiment its a matter of logic. Baba get 4wives build 4houses for all the wives. Then baba die they locate last wife house for sale, for wetin now, what of the ones baba build for una? |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by nlPoster: 11:12am On Jan 08, 2020 |
olaeffect: It depends on how accepting the woman is of other wives. Those who are ok with the situation say our husband. Those who dislike sharing with other women say my husband. |
Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by nlPoster: 11:14am On Jan 08, 2020 |
Prettiedame: Not a good thing. I wonder if the kids are doing well or not? They're supposed to aspire to have their own property if they consider it important. https://www.nairaland.com/5541026/anyone-here-really-waiting-inheritance https://www.nairaland.com/5616651/why-bloggers-nlers-all-over https://www.nairaland.com/5422947/male-female-nler-hacker-stalks |
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