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|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:15am On Jan 08, 2020|
If the house is the ONLY house built by ur Father, and the other siblings want to sell it.
You guys should sell it out at once
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by EgunMogaji2: 11:17am On Jan 08, 2020|
Ogbeni you better agree to sell and everybody moves on. Before they kill your enemy.
No need for too much talk.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by AreaFada2: 11:17am On Jan 08, 2020|
Coldie:Dude I did not get the bolded information from Starboytwo/OP's original post. Where did you get this info from?
If each wife has a house, why would they want to sell just the house of one wife? And one of the last wife's son will also gradually agree? I doubt it.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Ogaonos(m): 11:17am On Jan 08, 2020|
Starboytwo:jux b wise because is polygamous family.their mama fit posion their mind bro.u need God directions in d mata.na moni Mata Nd u knw hw pple behave Wen it comes to property Nd moni.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Coldie(m): 11:20am On Jan 08, 2020|
Starboytwo:If that's the only house ur father built and didn't build for others then u have to sell it
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Saintmary(f): 11:25am On Jan 08, 2020|
Your statement about decent siblings got me cracking. Nigerians have a default reaction to inherited properties. Ownership and control. Only the weaklings and the down trodden look away because they can't fight.
I have yet to see smart parents who put their house in order before death. (I mean those whose properties are up for inheritance presently.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by SIR0: 11:25am On Jan 08, 2020|
@OP, I know how painful this might be, having the only property left behind by your father sold.
Seeing the building, which was once yours, becoming another's would probably cause one some heartache, but don't worry, God knows you have done all you could to avoid selling it.
Meanwhile, the property belongs to all & not yours only. So I will advise you let go of the house & focus on becoming a person who matters in the future. Then, you will have enough ego to talk sense into their skull.
That is if you aren't insisting due to the fact that you too are one lazy guy.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by nlPoster: 11:27am On Jan 08, 2020|
In polygamous settings, every outsider and passerby inputs in family issues.
In monogamous settings, the family has more control over who does. At least, there is less random publicity.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:28am On Jan 08, 2020|
Coldie:I mean, I don't know, people already calling me selfish etc, thats my father's house, when everyone came to Lagos, they had nowhere to .go for meetings or reunion except the place...
Beside how much are they trying to sell for, how much go reach me and my bro...
I'm for renovating or renting or whatever, but outright sale is not good... It's also situated on the best part of that area, azin the house na number 1 for the street...
Azin I tire, sell house for lag, not inside one bush ooo, for a developing community in lag...
Any amount they sell for will be pittance compare to how much it will worth in 5 10 years from now. ..
I still insist selling is a very bad deal
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by LabDNA: 11:31am On Jan 08, 2020|
Ndigbo say ' Ofodu ndi na ru ulo nruka si ebe nile, na-amuta ndi na ere re' ( Some Big men who specialize in bulding and buying properties all over the place when they are alive, usual give birth to property sellers).
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:31am On Jan 08, 2020|
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by nlPoster: 11:32am On Jan 08, 2020|
From your post history, it's obvious why there is this problem as mentioned by you.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by LabDNA: 11:34am On Jan 08, 2020|
Why the yelling?!
Are you one of the siblings who wants to sell Baba shade's property?
Why you sef never build your own?
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by livebyday(m): 11:35am On Jan 08, 2020|
Smh you have turned this to a joke abeg free me
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:37am On Jan 08, 2020|
Coldie:the main force for pro selling is the eldest female, she is way older and I know for a fact her husbands got a house in ibadan, she would never consent to selling her husband house cuz of hard times, to cater for her children... She has been here once, just once after the funeral and was never there when pop man got sick...
The only people around when pop got incapacitated was my little brother and me, and my eldest bro and one other bro... No one else...
When she was gonna come, i had to go pick her from the bustop, she didn't know I was her brother, she didnt know the said house until I drove her in... But she wants it's sold...
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:39am On Jan 08, 2020|
jmichael259:I'm all for anything but outright sale... Thanks for this, I will talk to those I relate with...
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by mechanics(m): 11:40am On Jan 08, 2020|
Starboytwo:If they sale the house without your permission and you take them to court, you will win but the highest is for them to compensate you.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:46am On Jan 08, 2020|
Coldie:to be honest I don't deal with the rent and shit, after my dad passed, our apartment was vacant for a year or two before me and my brother decided to come stay last 2 years October 24 2018 to be precise...
I don't like wahala as we have our own thing going for us, we don't know who collect rent or anything, if you asked they'd say an agent blah blah, agent says my dad younger bro, dad younger bro said it's one uncle blah blah, so I left that side since the money they talking about gan self for all of us no reach me and my bro...
So as not to upset any balance of power we left things as he be and not ask questions...
I can tell you for a fact, if you come here and see us, we don't look like landlord or spread influence around, only older people knew who we were, we are just two young fresh boys hustling..
The only benefit I've got here is rent free for a year or so, I swear to God almighty ...
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 11:55am On Jan 08, 2020|
eazriel09:well in some way it's my house, or you think it's my pops junior brothers house? It's my father's house first of all, legally, and my father is no more, so it's my house...
Or if something happened and police come, who do you think they would carry, my distant siblings not in Lagos or me and my brother?
Kindly answer me...
Also this is not some funny scenario, it's just that I think we should not think of selling the house cuz we scrap for cash, I need cash too, don't I? You too... It's in everyones best interest in the long term if it's not sold but leased or whatever, outright sale cuz you temporary need money is stupid... Even p man go vex...
And if you think I have some privileges by not paying rent for 1 year, well there's nothing I can do about that, I'm my father's son after all, I'm not some snow or a bastard, I'm my father's SON... And nobody is stopping any other sons or daughters from having any privileges..
Besides they are only selling cuz of the money, which is good for them, but very bad for us... It's only normal I fight for myself and my brother, selling is bad for us, bad for our family name, bad for my rep, and bad for my father's legacy...
I'm not being selfish or anything, if anything they are the selfish one...
I'm up for renovation
Any other situation, but outright sale...
Is my reasoning bad?
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by LKO(m): 11:56am On Jan 08, 2020|
Thank God you eventually find your missing sense. Next time read carefully before commenting on an issue of this magnitude. All your previous comments were totally off point and baseless.No where did the OP mentioned that his dad built four different houses for the four different wives. OP's dad has only a house in Lagos and all the eleven biological children have a stake in that house, whether the other children has an emotional attachment to the house or not, is irrelevant. The best decision is to sell that house and share the proceed to them all with the eldest son having the lion share. OP do not have that house more than others. Even if OP and his mother were the one living in that house with their dad before his demise, it still do not confer on them any right or privilege .
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by thatigboman: 12:02pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Op, u are u lucky u are not igbo. Father's house belongs to the 1st son in igbo culture
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by thatigboman: 12:03pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Coldie:did u read the story at all?
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 12:03pm On Jan 08, 2020|
nlPoster:kindly summarize my post history pls, I'd like to know...
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Satibah: 12:04pm On Jan 08, 2020|
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by nlPoster: 12:07pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Why should I?
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 12:13pm On Jan 08, 2020|
nlPoster:cuz I'd like to, is all... No bad intention... You inferred something from my post history right? So what have you seen in my post to make you think I'm one selfish nigga, or you just typing normal as usual
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 12:13pm On Jan 08, 2020|
thatigboman:thank God I'm yoruba
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by carbon1224(m): 12:16pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Sincerely they cannot sell it without your consent and if you glance fraud on this issue then you should issue a Calver emptor on news paper declaring you are not selling and paste if on the house and more so my piece of advise.you are still young and you are a lot of things to do in life but if you think the share of the money can get you to buy a house in Lagos of your own please kindly take the money and let them do it cos there are lot of things attached to it.those family member will see you as threat and they would want to use other means spiritual to battle you and if you get your self killed in the means of it then they would sell without you getting any kobo so please use your head and run your calculations right .
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|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by TheMostComplex1: 12:17pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Your are on point
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by dangoteinlaw: 12:18pm On Jan 08, 2020|
polygamous family too get wahala. my brother u have no right here infact when they are talking just shut up coz ur momsy is even d last one. the house has been theirs even b4 u were born so you have to move on with your life. our property no be anybody own ol
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Nobody: 12:19pm On Jan 08, 2020|
Who carry the house documents?
Who was the house willed to by ur father?
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