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|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:20am On Jan 08, 2020|
adebaba5:I don't intend to collect otumokpo bro, and I'm not averse to selling, just that people I haven't met physically, had voted for sale already, they don't even know the place... Na wa...
I'm for everybody go fine him way this buhari era, besides who sells a home in the heart of Lagos anyway?
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:21am On Jan 08, 2020|
momove4real25:thank you very much ma... God bless you
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:22am On Jan 08, 2020|
Cti28:nice one, thanks
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:23am On Jan 08, 2020|
sisisioge:yeah you are right, selling is not entirely a bad thing, we don't collect rent, people working beside and outside our house were surprised we were the landlord, me and my bro be Og's mehn, we live our life and bother nobody, only privilege is rent free and you'd think we are just another student...
It's one of the siblings dropped account number for tenants, that's how rent is collected, I never collect rent etc.. .
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by eRex(m): 9:25am On Jan 08, 2020|
Let me drop my little epistle.
Look at it Logically and not emotional.
- Everyone is entitled to the house.
- if your dad had 10 car stashed away in a different state aside were u reside.. u haven't seen the cars, you have even used any of them.. and u are cash strapped, won't you consider selling some or all of the cars to raise money (now you may not have considered who might have been emotional attached to the car.
- you obviously are at disadvantage being amongst the least siblings. Next of kin will be far from you so you decisions may be rarely consider in grave circumstances.
- money is the root of evil... No you still feel there is no contention... When they are truly pressed for money and the see you as an obstacle... The game will change..
* my 2 cent if they want to sell the house, it purely because they do not have any emotional attachment to it like you do.
Sell it take you share and help yourself
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by chillex8(m): 9:27am On Jan 08, 2020|
I think your elder siblings are even too nice.
If they wanted that property sold, it would have been, long long ago.
That you grew up in your fathers house doesn't make it your home.
You are the last born of the last wife, puts you in a very disadvantaged position.
Again, your elder siblings are too nice.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by praiseneo(m): 9:27am On Jan 08, 2020|
I told my mom to sell one of our lands and i wanna use the money to japa out of naija. She havent respond i dont know if that request makes sense.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:27am On Jan 08, 2020|
Kekereekun123:your father and grandfather are useless
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Lordmajor31: 9:28am On Jan 08, 2020|
You have the link to work Abroad and you are still in Nigeria �����
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by extremelygolden: 9:28am On Jan 08, 2020|
You better listen to majority advise given to you up there already and allow your siblings do whatever they like with the property.
The issue of property or land dispute in Nigeria is always a delicate one and oftentimes leaves a trail of blood, tears and sorrow.
Now that your siblings are asking nicely, you better cooperate and allow them sell the house. Work hard, build your own house and avoid the mistake your father made by not leaving a Will.
Just thread cautiously to avoid story that touches the heart.
And believe me that in some culture, as the children of the last wife, you have little or no say regarding your father's inheritance.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:29am On Jan 08, 2020|
Quincykay:I get it now, and we are super civil, no discord anything... We live far apart and mostly don't know one another but we all good...
I just want to know what's up, and know where me and my bro stands. .. Thanks for the input
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by prekumohtim(m): 9:30am On Jan 08, 2020|
This is not yet your inheritance till the properties are shared . I think the headline should change . Your dad's tradition and the legal system will help to solve this. By the way , what's ERYTHANE ??
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Fundamentalist: 9:31am On Jan 08, 2020|
For me.I would believe that this is a Muslim family. According to Islamic law, once a decease dies, properties he/she leaves behind should be shared to the legitimate inheritors. You and your siblings all have same claim to the property. Saying they don't know the place or other emotional issues doesn't come to life. You are all entitled to the property and its should be shared SIMPLE. Even it means selling the property. I'm quite happy that all of you are very civil in this case. No threats, harassment or intimidation.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:32am On Jan 08, 2020|
eyinjuege:they don't feel anything, we have always lived rent free before pops died, I have yet to see anyone pay rents in his father's house...
And if we talking about benefits, then me and my brother are the aggrieved ones, believe that. .. not cuz am the op, but the real Donald trump truth
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by DrHighchief(m): 9:32am On Jan 08, 2020|
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by NaMeAboki: 9:34am On Jan 08, 2020|
You are reasoning with your emotions not logic and therefore being selfish.
All your siblings and your late father's wives are entitled to their their legitimate share of their inheritance.
You are apparently living and benefitting rent free from the house and therefore reluctant to let go - alongside your emotional attachment to it.
You have 3 basic options:
If the property is large enough, then it can be physically divided so that every heir may inherit and do as he/she pleases with his/her share.
If you have enough money, then you can offer to buy the rest out - subject to their consent.
Otherwise, the majority interest should prevail over your minority rights; most courts would uphold their right to sell the property and give you your legitimate share of the proceeds.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:35am On Jan 08, 2020|
tropaz:this is a very sensitive issue for me, next time you see a thread like this, use ur brain mostly, dont just talk trash.. .
Again the question is can I be legally forced to sell even if I say No?
No other bullshit, but your dumb imagination
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by zed7: 9:36am On Jan 08, 2020|
Parents should sell their properties when getting old, put the money in trust for each of their kids. This helps to eliminate bad blood between siblings fighting over properties.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by TaiKuun(m): 9:37am On Jan 08, 2020|
Yes, if you live in Nigeria.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:37am On Jan 08, 2020|
FreebiesGRAM:wish I could, I swear to God
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by sisisioge: 9:37am On Jan 08, 2020|
I understand. They could share it such that your present apartment goes to you and you can chose not to sell while someone else buys the rest. I once lived in a house owned by three landlords. One lives there, the second rented his out while the third sold his. Issue resolved.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by olaeffect(m): 9:38am On Jan 08, 2020|
That word "My" in your comment is even my concern. Even a woman married to a man with 2 wives cannot not call the man "my husband" without issues, the right thing to say is "our husband ".
But thank God in your comment you noted and agreed that the inheritance is not yours alone, you even agreed that if the property is to be sold it should not be now (maybe in the next 5yrs) which I believe is a period you selfishly believe you and your younger brother will be able to survive without the house.
Bro, you are simply being selfish. My answer to your question is yes, the inheritance can be sold without your consent, because the inheritance is not yours alone but the family. And it is not mandatory for every single member of a family to agree before a family can take a decision, unless you want to go against the family and make the simple issue messy.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by frozen70(f): 9:38am On Jan 08, 2020|
Is that the only property of your dad
Was there a will indicating it belongs to you and your siblings
Where is the documents to the building, is it with your mum or another person or unknown
Your mum is the last wife, so it's possible he married her after those acquisition
You said the whole family lives peacefully, I doubt, there are underlying issues which will start prompting up, the house for sale is one of them
My advice is, find out the formula for sharing, which is supposed to be shared among the four wives, irrespective of how many kids they have for him
So sharing ought to be done in fours not number of children
What about other properties are the going to share those ones too or just the one you are occupying
Well for your own life and peace of mind
Give up, let the share it
It will make you struggle to have yours
Polygamous family is the worst place family politics are played
They target the stubborn one's to eliminate them or render them useless while those who behaves like mumu are set free because they don't interfare in their dubious act
Finally, join them because you can't fight them
This will teach men a big lesson to keep just one wife
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|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by emmanuelewumi(m): 9:40am On Jan 08, 2020|
Especially when you have children from multiple wives
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by lifenajeje(m): 9:43am On Jan 08, 2020|
Children sell houses built by their parents despite the house been occupied by the owners ,
People sell other person's properties ,
Op it's only a matter of time before that house is sold ...buyer never come ,
when the new owner makes payment don't be caught unaware with a notice of ejection ..
Family sweet ,, family sweet but wait make money matter come up na that time you go truly know ur family ..
Least I forgot ..
My friends mum twin sister sold their parents properties and vanished into thin air with her husband and kids from 2009- date .
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Malawian(m): 9:43am On Jan 08, 2020|
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by agrowell: 9:43am On Jan 08, 2020|
Forget decency when it comes to money. You better yield to his advice so that life not be a waste
Just assume if your father did not build s house, won't you live your life
Go out there and struggle to build yours. God bless your hustling.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:43am On Jan 08, 2020|
eRex:I get it, you hit the nail, I'm not against people selling, I don't blame them, they are not attached here.. they just need Cash...
And I have watched and seen a lot of movies where things turn crazy, like village people shit, I'm not cut out for that...
To be honest, I don't really give 5 fu.vks about it, but my brother is different, he is the last born, born here, knew everyone here, schooled here, friends here, it's hard for him... Also he puts in a lotta work here also,
I will tell him like I have told him earlier that we really can't do shiiit, we never gave a fucc in the beginning, so we shouldn't catch feelings now... We we be G, and don't have the time for family crap...
Now we siddon look... Thanks
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:44am On Jan 08, 2020|
chillex8:like I said, we are cool folks, mostly educated...
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Ndipe(m): 9:45am On Jan 08, 2020|
Dont sell, otherwise where will you reside at when the house is sold? Invite the elders or talk to a lawyer about your right.
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by Starboytwo(m): 9:46am On Jan 08, 2020|
NaMeAboki:well I think that's sumps it up... Majority always win in all situation I guess, the more reason I brought it public.. . Thanks again
|Re: Can I Be Forced To Sell My Inheritance? by kodix(m): 9:47am On Jan 08, 2020|
What are you even saying! Are you trying to make us believe that house is yours or what! Remember you and your bros are last children from even the last wife, (bitter truth) so you don't have much say self and even when is sold your share of money will be smaller though. Remember the house is not will to you or your bros either and you said others are not residing in Lagos where the house is and you want them to allow you continue staying there, no no no.the house has to be sold because the 11people can't be maintaining a single house it will diapulate, beside it might start causing problems in future through lent collection and economy is bad.[color=#990000][/color]
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