Yes I know that too , we lives at home with parents but she was suffocating me as if I'm living in her house , the house doesn't belongs to both of us so she should have respect herself and mind her business and if she couldn't stand seeing me in the same house as her , all she could do was to park and move to her fiance or rent a house for herself and let me stay in my parents house in peace until my guy is ready to pay my pride price.

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85620626]Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly. [/quote]

Ifyjos:
Yes I know that too , we lives at home with parents but she was suffocating me as if I'm living in her house , the house doesn't belongs to both of us so she should have respect herself and mind her business and if she couldn't stand seeing me in the same house as her , all she could do was to park and move to her fiance or rent a house for herself and let me stay in my parents house in peace until my guy is ready to pay my pride price.

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85620626]Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly.

you are not sorry,u r still running ur mouth

I’m in no way supporting the lady and her actions. My point is the elder sis should have not antagonized her younger sis to the point of acting foolishly. Hey there’s a child involved,doesn’t it count for something? Seeing that she has the means to make a difference in their lives. Look at it from that angle

PerseDew:


She has a duty to take him off the street??
This only supports OP and her entitled and unremorseful self. So as she did not perform this duty is that the reason why he does not have anything tangible to his name in this space of 5 years after getting a 15 year old pregnant?

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

You are a very wicked soul,that your stupid idiot senseless ghost bf Wont marry you .If you don't apologize to your sis,your life will remain miserable...A devil is better than you cos at 20 you can be this evil..tueh

Hmmm

ojun50:
what you did is very bad but if you want to make amends you should start with yr sister fiance, by opening up every tin to him and what lead to yr action..

seriously you wen too far

Her sister also went too far, sometimes eye for eye is just good. The couple were not complaining yet she kept insulting her guy uptill showing them financial power by arresting them. I no dey pity that kind woman.

Ifyjos:
yes I’m not evil I’m kid hearted more nicer than my sister . I’m not at home right now but maybe I will confess later but am scared

Nicer than her? Did I just read that?

this one is loud oo. You shouldn’t have gone that far.

Ifyjos:
Yes I know that too , we lives at home with parents but she was suffocating me as if I'm living in her house , the house doesn't belongs to both of us so she should have respect herself and mind her business and if she couldn't stand seeing me in the same house as her , all she could do was to park and move to her fiance or rent a house for herself and let me stay in my parents house in peace until my guy is ready to pay my pride price.

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85620626]Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly.

You are not even remorse from your comments, I doubt if you are even ready to make amend, you sound bitter and toxic

blujoi:
I’m in no way supporting the lady and her actions. My point is the elder sis should have not antagonized her younger sis to the point of acting foolishly. Hey there’s a child involved,doesn’t it count for something? Seeing that she has the means to make a difference in their lives. Look at it from that angle

Does she not help even with the insults when asked?

What if the means was not there and it is not even there now, so he will continue his street life forever?

Is that how he arranges with the OP to beat and frame up his own family member(s) when they antagonize him? Or no one has mind to antagonize him in his family? Perhaps they are just indifferent which is even worse. If she confesses and her parents probably start abusing and even cursing him per second or per hour, shey she will plan with him to ruin them too na. So that he can finish what is left of her family kpatakpata.

Whether she likes it or not, the guy just used her to disgrace her family for nothing. Only him got one sis pregnant at 15 and only him slapped elder sis, framed and destroyed the elder sis relationship. If she has sense she will know that this one has passed see finish and it is only a matter of time before he uses everything against her. Then and only then she will understand cos from her responses, you can tell she is still floating.

I will share a common quote with you; "the only person stopping you is you". OP and her baby daddy were the ones stopping and are still the ones stopping themselves from making something out of their lives not her elder sis.

Ifyjos:
Yes I know that too , we lives at home with parents but she was suffocating me as if I'm living in her house , the house doesn't belongs to both of us so she should have respect herself and mind her business and if she couldn't stand seeing me in the same house as her , all she could do was to park and move to her fiance or rent a house for herself and let me stay in my parents house in peace until my guy is ready to pay my pride price.

quote author=LilMissFavvy post=85620626]Your upbringing must have been very bad and your morals are totally flawed, otherwise you should know that a lady moves into her husband's house after marriage is properly conducted, your sister knows this, she is responsible. I have sisters, I know this as well. You that began opening your legs in young age and have a child should have gone to live with a man, try and change for the better, hope with this poor mindset you will bring up your child properly.

You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all.

I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word.

Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life.

For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists.

blujoi:
I’m in no way supporting the lady and her actions. My point is the elder sis should have not antagonized her younger sis to the point of acting foolishly. Hey there’s a child involved,doesn’t it count for something? Seeing that she has the means to make a difference in their lives. Look at it from that angle

Look at how the OP has been talking here. She's insufferable. She'll do whatever the hell she wants and damn the consequences. I'm very sure it didn't start now...she has been like that from the beginning.
I'm sure her elder sister warned her over and over and she still went ahead to get pregnant.
When you warned someone repeatedly and the person refuses to hear word, you owe the person absolutely nothing when the consequences hit.
You're blaming the elder sister for antagonizing her, but when you tell someone something over and over, but the persons' overflowing stupidity won't allow the person reason, what else will you do? It's either you beat sense into her or your insult her till she begins to think for herself.
Unfortunately, the elder sister underestimated her younger sister.

Ok I will tell him but its not easy doing for me to do it face to face , but am thinking of doing it anonymous with a new number without mentioning it is me.

quote author=DrayZee post=85623100]

You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all.

I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word.

Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life.

For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists.[/quote]

@ifyjos, [/b]you are evil[b] and seeing how you supposed fiancé supported you in this rubbish shows your sister was right, he isn’t a good guy and he is as evil as you are. How could you do this to your own sister because of man. You scare me. I hope she never forgives you . At 20, you are as evil as the word evil, I can’t imagine how you will be when you become older. Go and confess your sins so you can have peace because of your sister gets depressed to the point where she loses it and gives up on life, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Ifyjos:
My story is long but I will cut short. I’m 20 years old and I have a 5 years old daughter , I’m still with her father but we are not living together. I’m still at home with my parents.

My elder sister is a banker she is engaged and her fiancé is a doctor, they were supposed to get married this February 2020. My elder sister Hates my guy a lot just because he is not educated, has no money, he drinks and Smokes but he is a good guy, he doesn’t beat or cheat on me , he gives money for our daughter upkeeps and she goes to school he is paying her school fees but sometime when he doesn’t have my sister will be paying but she will insult the hell out of me that I ruined my life by giving birth at a young age , I should have closed my legs she just says many things that really hurting me sometimes I cried and Whenever she sees my guy she will insulting him threatening to pour him hot water.

So it happened in July , our parents traveled to the village because my dad was very sick so my guy visited me at home and she came and saw him , she got angry and started raining insult at him as usual and I got angry and slapped her which lead to a very serious fight and she arrested me and my fiancé and we came out after 3 days my guy had to sign undertaken that he should not step his foot in our house again.

So he promised to deal with her in a way she will regret and I supported him, so we have decided to destroyed her relationship with her fiancé by arranging lots of boys and girls who are my guys friends to start calling her fiancé and threatening him to leave their girlfriends alone or they will kill him, so we had 7 boys and 2 girls also called him claiming that my sister is dating their husbands so he should warned her or they will do worse. Everything went according to our plans and we have succeed in destroying her relationship that her fiancé dumped her and cancelled the marriage in October.

She hasn’t been well since, she lost her job , she is totally depressed and all she does is crying and she lost so much weigh. I was so happy seeing her like that because she deserved it but I pretend like I care when I didn’t but now I just feel so bad because her condition is getting worsened.

Seeing her going to the hospital today really broke my heart and made me regretting what I and my guy did to her but I don’t know how to help her again. I wish I could talk to her and tell her everything we did and beg for her forgiveness but I’m scared because everybody in the family will hate me, they will disown me and throw me out of the house and I have nowhere else to go with my child. My guy stays with friends in a one room house.

I’m Feeling helpless

turn the scenario to a prank

Use the same means..let those people call the fiance back to let him know they are group of concerned friends whom must not be named but wanted to be sure the love he has for her is genuine but he failed but if he intend to do better he should go back and be.

Then as for you,.no one in this forken planet owes you a forken thing except your parents (to a certain age)

if the man that has been forken you to make you preg at 15 has not married you then thats what he is "the man that has been 4kn you"..you should keep him away from the house and take the kid to see him when he gets an apartment. dnt turn your parents house to a harlot home

In all your stories you v not said what you do or is beign 21 a skill or occupation...if you cant keep whats yours and in between you legs safe how can you keep a business from another persons sweat safe and running if entrusted to you or your eazy-E of a boyfriend

Dnt ever make marriage your last bustop,have a dream and work towards achieving it gradually and stop coursing nuisance....Your parents traveled and you brought your isi-okuko of a boyfriend to come and play tango in your house and you expect your elder to be happy..hotels don finish?

you know nothing,you are just a jealous kid

Just make sure you comeback and giveus feedback okay?

Ifyjos:
Ok I will tell him but its not easy doing for me to do it face to face , but am thinking of doing it anonymous with a new number without mentioning it is me.

quote author=DrayZee post=85623100]

You are still defending yourself..na the one wey dey vex me pass. It's as if you see no wrong in what you did at all.

I'm sure it's this insufferable behavior that made you get with a 24 year old at the age of 15. I'm very very sure you were warned, but your strong head did not allow you to hear word.

Now they are telling you to go and tell the fiancé what you did, and you're here talking about being scared. You were not scared when you were using days and gathering people to destroy your sisters life.

For once in your life think...just this once. Stop defending all your rubbish and go sort things out. I can't believe someone like you really exists.

Guy I swear I still they wonder self wetin I go reply am so, I no one insult am need no day make I no vex too much on top person headache

NevetsIbot:


Baba reason this girl better curse na... Just download one hot curse give her!!!!!!!!!



The way I'm angry eh.. her sister hasn't even done shit to her o!!!! She didn't even face real abuse.. the hot kind of abuse!!!

showafrica:


Her sister also went too far, sometimes eye for eye is just good. The couple were not complaining yet she kept insulting her guy uptill showing them financial power by arresting them. I no dey pity that kind woman.

An eye for an eye makes the world go blind.
If it were to be your sister who was impregnated by a drunkard and a smoker at a very tender age, you won't be typing this.

She's only angry that her sister is yet to learn her lessons after the previous encounter.

Ifyjos:
Ok I will tell him but its not easy doing for me to do it face to face , but am thinking of doing it anonymous with a new number without mentioning it is me.

You want to do it without mentioning that it's you. So who will you say did it? A random stranger?

You MUST own up to what you did. Go and apologize to your sisters' fiancé, tell him THE WHOLE TRUTH. What you did, how you went about it, how you knew that he'd leave your sister because of how insecure he was...tell him EVERYTHING. That's the only way he'll believe your sister is innocent.

After doing that, you can then probably beg him not to tell your sister. Whether he tells her or not, you have to take what come.

That's the only way. Anything other than this is just a big joke.

I can't lie, the parents have a big ass share of the blame. How did they manage to raise someone like this?

Abcruz:


An eye for an eye makes the world go blind.
If it were to be your sister you won't be typing this.

If they were my sisters, I wont allow the elder sister continue to insult the guy. Nobody is above mistakes, if you dont want to help, allow them sort there problems. My point is the girl is 20yrs now and still love his man, let them be for christ sake the deed is done already, help if you wish to or quit simple.

Foolish ingrate Confess to ur sister afterwards, go hang ursef and just die u are a demon.

I do.make people hair at home and my goal is to learn tailoring and become a professional fashion designer. I cannot and will never turn my parents house to an hostel, if we want to do that thing we know where to go and he only came to visit us we were outside of the house, she should have mind her business and let us be. Whenever her fiance used to visit her at home , I mind my business and I had never complains about him coming to our house so why does she have to complains about mine ?


quote author=Xmen149 post=85623415]

turn the scenario to a prank

Use the same means..let those people call the fiance back to let him know they are group of concerned friends whom must not be named but wanted to be sure the love he has for her is genuine but he failed but if he intend to do better he should go back and be.

Then as for you,.no one in this forken planet owes you a forken thing except your parents (to a certain age)

if the man that has been forken you to make you preg at 15 has not married you then thats what he is "the man that has been 4kn you"..you should keep him away from the house and take the kid to see him when he gets an apartment. dnt turn your parents house to a harlot home

In all your stories you v not said what you do or is beign 21 a skill or occupation...if you cant keep whats yours and in between you legs safe how can you keep a business from another persons sweat safe and running if entrusted to you or your eazy-E of a boyfriend

Dnt ever make marriage your last bustop,have a dream and work towards achieving it gradually and stop coursing nuisance....Your parents traveled and you brought your isi-okuko of a boyfriend to come and play tango in your house and you expect your elder to be happy..hotels don finish?

you know nothing,you are just a jealous kid[/quote]

showafrica:


If they were my sisters, I wont allow the elder sister continue to insult the guy. Nobody is above mistakes, if you dont want to help, allow them sort there problems. My point is the girl is 20yrs now and still love his man, let them be for christ sake the deed is done already, help if you wish to or quit simple.

I get your point. But still the little girl went too far and from her comments she sounds naive, inexperienced and remorselessly justifying her acts.

Don't ever imagine that you're a good person. Don't ever imagine it.

Ifyjos:
Yes I choose to have sex before marriage , it's my body and choice

ote author=Ehibiggirl post=85620098]but you can have sex with him when he hasn’t paid your bride price abi?
Even if they donate your brain for research it will still be useless

then you are too cheap de doesn’t need to pay your bride price you both can camp under a bridge in port harcourt.
What does a 14 year old know about sex and having an illiterate boyfriend tori oloun?
You started having sex at that age tells about you and that you even pride yourself in it is another level of irresponsibility
Continue having the sex life will soon hit you hard.

am proud to be cheap and happy to be with him, he is my crown and the best man ever

quote author=Ehibiggirl post=85624099]then you are too cheap de doesn’t need to pay your bride price you both can camp under a bridge in port harcourt.
What does a 14 year old know about sex and having an illiterate boyfriend tori oloun?
You started having sex at that age tells about you and that you even pride yourself in it is another level of irresponsibility
Continue having the sex life will soon hit you hard.[/quote]

Ifyjos:
I do.make people hair at home and my goal is to learn tailoring and become a professional fashion designer. I cannot and will never turn my parents house to an hostel, if we want to do that thing we know where to go and he only came to visit us we were outside of the house, she should have mind her business and let us be. Whenever her fiance used to visit her at home , I mind my business and I had never complains about him coming to our house so why does she have to complains about mine ?


quote author=Xmen149 post=85623415]

turn the scenario to a prank

Use the same means..let those people call the fiance back to let him know they are group of concerned friends whom must not be named but wanted to be sure the love he has for her is genuine but he failed but if he intend to do better he should go back and be.

Then as for you,.no one in this forken planet owes you a forken thing except your parents (to a certain age)

if the man that has been forken you to make you preg at 15 has not married you then thats what he is "the man that has been 4kn you"..you should keep him away from the house and take the kid to see him when he gets an apartment. dnt turn your parents house to a harlot home

In all your stories you v not said what you do or is beign 21 a skill or occupation...if you cant keep whats yours and in between you legs safe how can you keep a business from another persons sweat safe and running if entrusted to you or your eazy-E of a boyfriend

Dnt ever make marriage your last bustop,have a dream and work towards achieving it gradually and stop coursing nuisance....Your parents traveled and you brought your isi-okuko of a boyfriend to come and play tango in your house and you expect your elder to be happy..hotels don finish?

you know nothing,you are just a jealous kid

fiance or not why do guys even come to visit you girls at home..jeez ...your parents no try at all

And men fiance,impregnator etc that visit the girls at home how the heck do they feel,. if your daughter starts entertaining men/man at home even at this kind of age you are in will you allow it, ...u na get wahala for there

just do the correction.... do your hair stuff save enough money and start school (even open university dey) or go into tailoring.. take your eyes away from peoples money.

make that correction b4 its late

Prettiepearlz:
@ifyjos, [/b]you are evil[b] and seeing how you supposed fiancé supported you in this rubbish shows your sister was right, he isn’t a good guy and he is as evil as you are. How could you do this to your own sister because of man. You scare me. I hope she never forgives you . At 20, you are as evil as the word evil, I can’t imagine how you will be when you become older. Go and confess your sins so you can have peace because of your sister gets depressed to the point where she loses it and gives up on life, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

Your eyes are beautiful.

I don't know why people keep commenting on this trash... This story can't be true na, after all she did, she still get mind to dey defend herself. What the heck

I dey vex olohun.

Ifyjos:
She was beating me so My guy beat her up for self defence. he beat her with respect so it wasn’t that bad. She arrested us to proof that she has the money and can do whatever she like

Are you for real? This is serious.

I don't want to believe this story again cos your response self get as e be.
Seems you are here to just wine people.