https://www.nairaland.com/5625022/just-ended-marriage-single-mum

streetsoldier1:


I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regular

I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

[posted January 10, 2020]

Lol..


What a very shallow perspective.. Definitely the op's observation is only based on what he see in his village..

#JustSayin'

QueenSuccubus:
Lol..


What a very shallow perspective.. Definitely the op's observation is only based on what he see in his village..

#JustSayin'

Before nko? We no expect you to gree na

ubunja:
most guys I know are still sleeping with the women they have kids with. Nevermind these women are now dating other people.

EazyLifeForAll:
Well, am going to make this simple and straight forward.

Guys, DONT ever try to get married to single moms. Most of these single mothers got pregnant through their promiscuous ways (except DIVORCED ones and those whose husbands are dead).

Apart from our Nairaland brother that just walked out of his marriage with same mistake of getting married to a single mother, I have different cases up to 4.

Yes any marriage can crash but it is very true that at least, 80% of single mothers still get in touch with their exs and most times, sex is always involved.

No good match start from 1-0...the best bet is to start from 0-0.

I hope our guys learn....


Ire ooo!!!!

not in all cases,

QueenSuccubus:
Lol..


What a very shallow perspective.. Definitely the op's observation is only based on what he see in his village..

#JustSayin'

Are you a single mom?

Hmmm

Gina2019:
Are you a single mom?

Not at all..But i will speak for those single moms who doesn't know that someone out here was juz blubbering & painting negative about them... I feel them especially those single mothers who hustle so hard to give their children a better future..

QueenSuccubus:



Not at all..But i will speak for those single moms who doesn't know that someone out here was juz blubbering & painting negative about them... I feel them especially those single mothers who hustle so hard to give their children a better future..

Yinmu

People aren't the same.

https://www.nairaland.com/5625022/just-ended-marriage-single-mum

streetsoldier1:


I Just Ended My Marriage! Single Mum I Married Still Contacts Her Ex Regular

I tried all I could to save face, just have to end it all after discovering that the single mother I married still contacts her ex regularly...

Despite forgiving her several errors even while we got engaged, she still has the guts under my roof to mess up.

Warning guys, never ever marry a single mother that has been messed up!!!
6 years was messed up!!!

[posted January 10, 2020]

ubunja:


https://www.nairaland.com/5625022/just-ended-marriage-single-mum




[posted January 10, 2020]

And from OP's last statement, he advised that guys should "never ever man a single mother"

EazyLifeForAll:


And from OP's last statement, he advised that guys should "never ever man a single mother"

once a man gives a woman a baby, that bond is unbreakable. Even if she marries another man. The father of the child and the woman are linked for life.

ubunja:
once a man gives a woman a baby, that bond is unbreakable. Even if she marries another man. The father of the child and the woman are linked for life.

God bless you for that statement !!!!

Only losers and men with low self esteem will end up with single mothers.


I wonder why a reasonable man will waste his money by marrying a damaged goods and a worthless crumb with baggages?


If you must marry as a man, go for women without children, you should never begin your marriage by cleaning up the mess of another man.

SOFTDRINK:
Only losers and men with low self esteem will end up with single mothers.


I wonder why a reasonable man will waste his money by marrying a damaged goods and a worthless crumb with baggages?


If you must marry as a man, go for women without children, you should never begin your marriage by cleaning up the mess of another man.

My nigga!!! Bless You

Unless the single mum get blue or red passport to offer me, any other one na just bunch of baggage.

yomi007k:
Unless the single mum get blue or red passport to offer me, any other one na just bunch of baggage.

agreed. As long as its "love" or only sex a guy is after, the guy is losing big time. It must be a business transaction not a relationship for it to be even tolerate. A single mother who comes bearing gifts will be accepted any day.

ubunja:
agreed. As long as its "love" or only sex a guy is after, the guy is losing big time. It must be a business transaction not a relationship for it to be even tolerate. A single mother who comes bearing gifts will be accepted any day.

Yes oo

I can marry a white single mom with 4 kids for green card

QueenSuccubus:
Lol..


What a very shallow perspective.. Definitely the op's observation is only based on what he see in his village..

#JustSayin'

my sister why vexing? Are you one?

i always said it, marry virgin or fresh 18 to 22 yrs

EazyLifeForAll:
No good match start from 1-0...the best bet is to start from 0-0.

...

iLegendd:


...

You feel am abi

Op ur head get oil.... I concur...
Only men with low self esteem do this.... Or 4 d money

Some of these single mum's are here listening to you. But it wouldnt stop them from throwing their bodies at any available gullible.Guys be decent!

But Not Everyone Are The Same , Yinnmu

All I see is a thread encouraging young ladies to commit abortion.

Shebi na the one we your eye see una fit talk. Can the eyes see multiple abortions? No.

Truly, many guys here will end up with women like that.


The stigmatization against single mothers in Nigeria ehn...

May God bless every single mother hustling to take care of her kid(s) by herself in this harsh economy.

generationz:
All I see is a thread encouraging young ladies to commit abortion.

Shebi na the one we your eye see una fit talk. Can the eyes see multiple abortions? No.

Truly, many guys here will end up with women like that.


The stigmatization against single mothers in Nigeria ehn...
May God bless every single mother hustling to take care of her kid(s) by herself in this harsh economy.

Haven't they been ABORTING...?
Who Stopped them before..?
In Fact, the matter reigning now is INABILITY OF LADIES to distinguish who got them pregnant.

generationz:
All I see is a thread encouraging young ladies to commit abortion.

Shebi na the one we your eye see una fit talk. Can the eyes see multiple abortions? No.

Truly, many guys here will end up with women like that.


The stigmatization against single mothers in Nigeria ehn...

May God bless every single mother hustling to take care of her kid(s) by herself in this harsh economy.

As if most of the single mothers sef never abort before..many of them were out of options which include abortion which landed them as single mothers.