He's not a bad person but has a history of making bad decisions, including going after a minor and grooming you to do his every wish . What effort has he made towards you acquiring a skill or getting you to live with him as a family. This is 2020... shine ya eye!

Ifyjos:


Thank you so much . He is not a bad person but I just don’t know how to tell him about this but I promise when the right time come I will tell him

SlimBrawnie:

It's a good thing you've done. Please don't delete them. You are a strong lady and will definitely withstand whatever result will come out of it. Just remember to also pray for God to touch her heart also so that things don't escalate. All the best.

I can see you're taking it easy on her unlike other girls cursing her already like the dumbo below

funmisticqueen:
Ha,


It is obvious that you deserve to be poor and miserable. All 12 levels of hell will wait for you. Thunder fire you. To harm your blood sister, benefactor and fellow woman.

You did all you did due to jealousy. You deserve to be ostracized from your family.


May I never meet people like you. Better confess you wretched fool.

Your sister is right, no wonder you got pregnant at an early age.

Well is only the beginning of 2020 we are still in January
I have more time to learn a skill and do better , right now all I want is to make peace with my family first the rest will come later

Gloriagee:
He's not a bad person but has a history of making bad decisions, including going after a minor and grooming you to do his every wish . What effort has he made towards you acquiring a skill or getting you to live with him as a family. This is 2020... shine ya eye!

Ifyjos:
Thank you so much for your advice , I really appreciate it, I had this in mind too I want to go and beg my mom with all my heart to forgive me and I was thinking to do it with the help of her pastor , I will go to her church on Sunday morning to plead with her pastor to go with me to beg my mom. I know that I have hurt her a lot and she supported me many times but for her to hate and abandon me this time I just pray she will be able to forgive me. Right now I know she is angry for her to block my number means she don’t want anything to do with me , plus my cousin that lives with us chatted me on WhatsApp telling me she heard my mom pleading with my brother from Lagos if she can come and leave my child there but my cousin say the way my mum was pleading a lot it seemed like he didn’t want to have my child with him I’m so happy he didn’t agree but I will act fast before anything happened to her. I told my cousin to keep informing me about the situation in the house in a secret way because I don’t want her to end up like me

U're welcome. Don't worry about your mum, she'll surely come around. As for her trying to send ur daughter to ur brother in Lagos, I don't support that because u can never tell how they'll treat her there, so u have to act quickly, Sunday is too far, go on a weekday when u're sure she's the only one at home and apologize, even if she tries to chase u out, maintain ur stance and beg, she can do anything to you but she'll never kill u.
As for ur bf, don't tell him that u've confessed to ur family, he might get really angry and may kick u out(guys can be really unpredictable), just stylishly tell him that u're considering telling the truth to ur family and know what his reaction will be. If he gets really angry, just know that its not yet time to tell him, so just concentrate on your family forgiving you first before u even consider telling him

Jayae:

U're welcome. Don't worry about your mum, she'll surely come around. As for her trying to send ur daughter to ur brother in Lagos, I don't support that because u can never tell how they'll treat her there, so u have to act quickly, Sunday is too far, go on a weekday when u're sure she's the only one at home and apologize, even if she tries to chase u out, maintain ur stance and beg, she can do anything to you but she'll never kill u.
As for ur bf, don't tell him that u've confessed to ur family, he might get really angry and may kick u out(guys can be really unpredictable), just stylishly tell him that u're considering telling the truth to ur family and know what his reaction will be. If he gets really angry, just know that its not yet time to tell him, so just concentrate on your family forgiving you first before u even consider telling him

guys can be unpredictable? Are you serious?
So she should stay with some man that is unpredictable? Some unstable man with a flawed character?

Is that the advice you give to your 21 year old sister as a man? Keep indulging her o.
Unpredictable Adviser of the century

Ok thanks I will tell my cousin anytime during this weekdays to let me know when mom is home alone so I can go over to beg her which is impossible for her to be alone because my dad is home all the time ( he’s sick doesn’t do much , spend most of his days in the bedroom) and since my sister hasn’t been working she is always home apart from going to the hospital and if I cannot do it weekday only Sunday will be best. Yes I will not tell him anything as long I haven’t sort out my problem with my family and I don’t want to add another problem. As long he has welcomed me in his ghetto that means a lot to me I’m proud to know that I’m his only woman and I know our future will be brighter

Jayae:

U're welcome. Don't worry about your mum, she'll surely come around. As for her trying to send ur daughter to ur brother in Lagos, I don't support that because u can never tell how they'll treat her there, so u have to act quickly, Sunday is too far, go on a weekday when u're sure she's the only one at home and apologize, even if she tries to chase u out, maintain ur stance and beg, she can do anything to you but she'll never kill u.
As for ur bf, don't tell him that u've confessed to ur family, he might get really angry and may kick u out(guys can be really unpredictable), just stylishly tell him that u're considering telling the truth to ur family and know what his reaction will be. If he gets really angry, just know that its not yet time to tell him, so just concentrate on your family forgiving you first before u even consider telling him

Ehibiggirl:
guys can be unpredictable? Are you serious?
So she should stay with some man that is unpredictable? Some unstable man with a flawed character?

Is that the advice you give to your 21 year old sister as a man? Keep indulging her o.
Unpredictable Adviser of the century

Sister please, , I was not talking to you

Ifyjos:
No comment about sex because we are a couple and it can happen anytime.

Ifyjos:
As long he has welcomed me in his ghetto that means a lot to me I’m proud to know that I’m his only woman and I know our future will be brighter

Prick is worrying this girl! Did you read " men can be unpredictable"?

You are a couple. Really? Are you married to him or you are his baby mama? Don't get it twisted.

AdedoyinO:




Prick is worrying this girl! Did you read " men can be unpredictable"?

You are a couple. Really? Are you married to him or you are his baby mama? Don't get it twisted.

She need someone that will teach her how life works . Like empower herself to fetch for herself in order to make end means so that in the nearest future she will be able to stand upright on her own when she realises that her baby daddy got no plan for better tomorrow than using her to achieve his own purpose

funmisticqueen:
Ha,


It is obvious that you deserve to be poor and miserable. All 12 levels of hell will wait for you. Thunder fire you. To harm your blood sister, benefactor and fellow woman.

You did all you did due to jealousy. You deserve to be ostracized from your family.


May I never meet people like you. Better confess you wretched fool.

Your sister is right, no wonder you got pregnant at an early age.

just look at you? If you can attack your fellow female like this how do you expect men to attack her?


Abeg lemme keep quiet before you say am silencing your truth/ obstructing your freedom of speech

Style007:
Shut up your mouth there! Comments really shows how people reason for real mehn

funmisticqueen:
let me tell you the truth. You guys will soak kpokpo garri and allow it to swell for the rest of your life. That's a fact. Let's even leave what you did to your sister aside.

1. You are twenty with a child, so most likely you haven't finished school, so you're uneducate making you 10 times more likely to be useless to society.

2. You are still suffering and smiling with a useless tout and you are calling him your husband. Even if he makes it which I doubt, he will still dump you and get a better woman. Also he is most likely uneducated.

3. The man has no vision for his life, no plan. but to drink and smoke his liver and lungs away. It is only a while before you start downloading his blows like etisalat data.

4. God grace is not going to make you rich. Hardwork and diligence will. He seems to be doing neither because he had time to plot your sisters demise.

5. You are both small minded and petty, plus you are swimming in the pond of poverty mentality.

Michellekabod2

Let me guess to mentioned me because you assumed I will applaud you for castigating her. That means you dont know what I stand for. I have made my post on this issue already,we should not throw a baby along with the bath water. She made an err and regrets it and you still spill vile on her?
Take it easy on her she is young and naive.

CeterisXVII:

Abeg, if na play make you just stop am.

The girl got pregnant at 14, gave birth at 15 which truncated her education, and made nonsense of all their parent's efforts, and the money spent to send her to school.

Did she expect her family or her sister to pat her on the back, applaud her misdemeanor and give her an award, for it? Or was she expecting a chieftaincy title, for her waywardness?

Please, even if she was insulted on a daily basis, she brought it upon herself as she did NOT do anything in 5 years, to improve herself or better her lot.

I repeat: she was NOT justified in anyway, to beat up her sister, especially when that sister has helped to pay her bills, on more than one occasion.

If she did not want to be insulted, then she should NOT have gotten pregnant, in the first place!! Or she could have moved out of the house to live with the boyfriend who impregnated her, after marrying him!

This is no play and I mean every word I type...
She had a baby because she decided to keep it... So many persons throwing stones here have had more than 5 abortion's...

But the society sees who ever keeps hers as a wayward human... I don't see them as such...

She made her mistakes and such mistake should not be rubbed on her face continuously get that...

Genevieve Nnaji had her daughter at same age and Is doing better than a lot of people...

Her family, her mother should have taken custody of the child while she continue with her education but no they want her to carter for the child with her jobless boyfriend and keep insulting them...

They are lucky I am not a member of that family... What nonsense...

Ignoring her future isn't enough, that they had to always insult her...

Her sister deserve exactly what she got...

Ginaruby:


This is no play and I mean every word I type...
She had a baby because she decided to keep it... So many persons throwing stones here have had more than 5 abortion's...

But the society sees who ever keeps hers as a wayward human... I don't see them as such...

She made her mistakes and such mistake should not be rubbed on her face continuously get that...

Genevieve Nnaji had her daughter at same age and Is doing better than a lot of people...

Her family, her mother should have taken custody of the child while she continue with her education but no they want her to carter for the child with her jobless boyfriend and keep insulting them...

They are lucky I am not a member of that family... What nonsense...

Ignoring her future isn't enough, that they had to always insult her...

Her sister deserve exactly what she got...

see your life?
You would have killed everything body in the family na abi chairman of anger.
They would have taken custody? did you not read that it’s the sister that is the bread winner of the family?
The girl made her choice and if she was repentant and saw what she did as a mistake she would have been better than where she is now by trying hard to fix it rather than plot evil and pride herself in premarital sex.
You make reference to Genevive did she stay back to defend her mistake at the detriment of her family? Did she not go back to school forgetting about jobless pricks with dirty crowns?
In life you help people who want to be helped, if she really wanted to better herself from the moment she made that mistake she would have her family would have saw to it, her sister would have helped her In Fact she made reference to a cousin the sister is currently setting up a biz for.
Oga talk with wisdom settle down analyze things first before you jump.

Ifyjos:
No comment about sex because we are a couple and it can happen anytime. My guy doesn’t know i confess and coming to stay with him I gave him other reasons. my family disowns me and he is the only one I have now on this world and I don’t want him to leave me because I don’t have anywhere else to go. I just pray that my family will be able to have a place in their heart to forgive me for all the pains I have caused them so things can go back to normal again

Have been following your thread,I feel for you how you have passed all these at a young age,You have learnt from your mistakes, its good you confessed,so that ur soul can be free,don't worry about your daughter,she is still their daughter.

Ehibiggirl:
see your life?
You would have killed everything body in the family na abi chairman of anger.
They would have taken custody? did you not read that it’s the sister that is the bread winner of the family?
The girl made her choice and if she was repentant and saw what she did as a mistake she would have been better than where she is now by trying hard to fix it rather than plot evil and pride herself in premarital sex.
You make reference to Genevive did she stay back to defend her mistake at the detriment of her family? Did she not go back to school forgetting about jobless pricks with dirty crowns?
In life you help people who want to be helped, if she really wanted to better herself from the moment she made that mistake she would have her family would have saw to it, her sister would have helped her In Fact she made reference to a cousin the sister is currently setting up a biz for.
Oga talk with wisdom settle down analyze things first before you jump.

I reserve my comment on this.
Go and read the post again in between lines I will reply you then...

Ifyjos:
Ok thanks I will tell my cousin anytime during this weekdays to let me know when mom is home alone so I can go over to beg her which is impossible for her to be alone because my dad is home all the time ( he’s sick doesn’t do much , spend most of his days in the bedroom) and since my sister hasn’t been working she is always home apart from going to the hospital and if I cannot do it weekday only Sunday will be best. Yes I will not tell him anything as long I haven’t sort out my problem with my family and I don’t want to add another problem. As long he has welcomed me in his ghetto that means a lot to me I’m proud to know that I’m his only woman and I know our future will be brighter

Going to beg them with ur moms pastor would be better than going alone

Ehibiggirl:
see your life?
You would have killed everything body in the family na abi chairman of anger.
They would have taken custody? did you not read that it’s the sister that is the bread winner of the family?
The girl made her choice and if she was repentant and saw what she did as a mistake she would have been better than where she is now by trying hard to fix it rather than plot evil and pride herself in premarital sex.
You make reference to Genevive did she stay back to defend her mistake at the detriment of her family? Did she not go back to school forgetting about jobless pricks with dirty crowns?
In life you help people who want to be helped, if she really wanted to better herself from the moment she made that mistake she would have her family would have saw to it, her sister would have helped her In Fact she made reference to a cousin the sister is currently setting up a biz for.
Oga talk with wisdom settle down analyze things first before you jump.

MADAM WISDOM

'Her guy takes care of their daughters school fees and all' sense of responsibility... but whenever he doesn't have my sister will assist and she will insult the hell...
I'm sorry to ask but how do you understand and judge things?

There was never a place in this post her elder sister tried to fix her up all she does was remind her of her mistakes...

No good woman will have you insult her husband to her face and keep calm...
But this girl did until her elder sister pushed her so hard...

I still stand my ground her elder sisters actions are wrong...

If I am a family member I will have to tell the elder sister to her face how wrong she was...
You hate the guy just because he is not educated and wealthy...

Least I forget her sister is no bread winner...

Thank you sir , this is the only option I have which can work and I will do it on Sunday morning

HIGHESTPOPORI:
Going to beg them with ur moms pastor would be better than going alone

Ginaruby:
This is no play and I mean every word I type...
She had a baby because she decided to keep it... So many persons throwing stones here have had more than 5 abortion's...

But the society sees who ever keeps hers as a wayward human... I don't see them as such...

She made her mistakes and such mistake should not be rubbed on her face continuously get that...

Genevieve Nnaji had her daughter at same age and Is doing better than a lot of people...

Her family, her mother should have taken custody of the child while she continue with her education but no they want her to carter for the child with her jobless boyfriend and keep insulting them...

They are lucky I am not a member of that family... What nonsense...

Ignoring her future isn't enough, that they had to always insult her...

Her sister deserve exactly what she got...

Really? Anybody who has a sibling like you needs help. Because it shows that you too can do the same evil act, to your own sister.

Genevieve Nnaji may have had a kid outside wedlock, but her own mistake happened when she was 17.

It is not on record anywhere, that Genevieve exhibited any sense of entitlement.

Neither is it written anywhere that she plotted any evil against her siblings, or she beat them up.

In Genevieve's case, it was said that she had to leave her parents house, and go to stay with an aunt in Lagos.

So please stop comparing apples with cocoyam.

CeterisXVII:

Really? Anybody who has a sibling like you needs help. Because it shows that you too can do the same evil act, to your own sister.

Genevieve Nnaji may have had a kid outside wedlock, but her own mistake happened when she was 17.

It is not on record anywhere, that Genevieve exhibited any sense of entitlement.

Neither is it written anywhere that she plotted any evil against her siblings, or she beat them up.

In Genevieve's case, it was said that she had to leave her parents house, and go to stay with an aunt in Lagos.

So please stop comparing apples with cocoyam.

Anyone who has a sibling like you needs to be careful of your evil act for supporting evil...

A 15 and 17 years old child is rated in same age group...

You don't know Genevieve's story so shut up...

"Genevieve Nnaji may have had a kid outside wedlock, but her own mistake happened when she was 17. "

You see the respect in your comment as regards Genevieve, just because she made it in life...

People like you back then talked down on her insulted her and all... But today where are they...

Most of our parents got married at 14...

Please learn to respect everyone equally and not taking sides because your emotions say so...

Do you know the psychological and emotional pains the girl and her boy friend have been through in the hands of the so called sister and family...

I will have to pause here...

Ginaruby:

Anyone who has a sibling like you needs to be careful of your evil act for supporting evil...

A 15 and 17 years old child is rated in same age group...

You don't know Genevieve's story so shut up...

"Genevieve Nnaji may have had a kid outside wedlock, but her own mistake happened when she was 17. "

You see the respect in your comment as regards Genevieve, just because she made it in life...

People like you back then talked down on her insulted her and all... But today where are they...

Most of our parents got married at 14...

Please learn to respect everyone equally and not taking sides because your emotions say so...

Do you know the psychological and emotional pains the girl and her boy friend have been through in the hands of the so called sister and family...

I will have to pause here...

Whose parents got married at 14? Oga, maybe your own parents did, but mine certainly did NOT. So you cannot speak for everybody's parents.

And for your information, Genevieve's story is freely available on the internet. Google it.

If condemning an evil act, is taking sides in your own view....then I have no apologies for doing so.

Beating up your older sister because she scolds you for your mistakes, and for repeatedly hanging out with the same deadbeat smoker and drunkard, who got you pregnant in the first place, is a sign that you are evil.

If you cannot see that, then it means you support the evil actions of Ifyjos and her weird mentality of entitlement.

Now that she has confessed and has been chased out of her house, please go and offer her accomodation, a pat on the head and a lifetime award for all what she did, since you are in support of her actions. Nansense!

Please don't mind their cheap talk it doesn't affect me at all because nothing will reduce my love for my darling guy I love him the way he is poor , alcoholic , smoker , car washer , uneducated he still my proud and joy and I dont regret having him as a boyfriend and a father to my daughter and in my next world i would like to have him again and again and having my daughter was the best thing I did which I dont regret.

Ginaruby:


Anyone who has a sibling like you needs to be careful of your evil act for supporting evil...

A 15 and 17 years old child is rated in same age group...

You don't know Genevieve's story so shut up...

"Genevieve Nnaji may have had a kid outside wedlock, but her own mistake happened when she was 17. "

You see the respect in your comment as regards Genevieve, just because she made it in life...

People like you back then talked down on her insulted her and all... But today where are they...

Most of our parents got married at 14...

Please learn to respect everyone equally and not taking sides because your emotions say so...

Do you know the psychological and emotional pains the girl and her boy friend have been through in the hands of the so called sister and family...

I will have to pause here...

For your information I'm not homeless I'm staying with my guy and the best thing ever sharing the same bed with a hot night sex and waking up with him with another hot morning sex, I'm very happy where I am and I cant wait to have my daughter with me to complete our family. Whether u like or not nothing will change my mind about my guy if u dont like it go hug transformer

quote author=CeterisXVII post=85823617]

Whose parents got married at 14? Oga, maybe your own parents did, but mine certainly did NOT. So you cannot speak for everybody's parents.

And for your information, Genevieve's story is freely available on the internet. Google it.

If condemning an evil act, is taking sides in your own view....then I have no apologies for doing so.

Beating up your older sister because she scolds you for your mistakes, and for repeatedly hanging out with the same deadbeat smoker and drunkard, who got you pregnant in the first place, is a sign that you are evil.

If you cannot see that, then it means you support the evil actions of Ifyjos and her weird mentality of entitlement.

Now that she has confessed and has been chased out of her house, please go and offer her accomodation, a pat on the head and a lifetime award for all what she did, since you are in support of her actions. Nansense! [/quote]

Babe(Ifyjos) I feel at this point you should talk/reply less. If you keep running your mouth ,you will paint a bad picture of how you live at home. If this is the way you act at home then I wonder why your sister won't constantly be at war with you. Please zip the replying biko.

As for your daughter, my sister listen to me, the best place for her to be in now is with your people. She will have access to a decent roof over her head and food. Please whatever happens, always think of her future. Don't expose that child to that place your guy is presently squatting.

Find a way and redeem your sister's image before her ex fiancee. Find something doing immediately,save up and learn a skill with it. The era of living in denial is over. You have a lot of work to do if truly you want to live a good life. Dont ever do something negative again for this your guy. May God be with you

CeterisXVII:


Whose parents got married at 14? Oga, maybe your own parents did, but mine certainly did NOT. So you cannot speak for everybody's parents.

And for your information, Genevieve's story is freely available on the internet. Google it.

If condemning an evil act, is taking sides in your own view....then I have no apologies for doing so.

Beating up your older sister because she scolds you for your mistakes, and for repeatedly hanging out with the same deadbeat smoker and drunkard, who got you pregnant in the first place, is a sign that you are evil.

If you cannot see that, then it means you support the evil actions of Ifyjos and her weird mentality of entitlement.

Now that she has confessed and has been chased out of her house, please go and offer her accomodation, a pat on the head and a lifetime award for all what she did, since you are in support of her actions. Nansense!

Oga please take census or you can ask your parents...
Most of our parents and grand parents got married so early... 14 years a girl child was already ripe for marriage...
That aside...

Genevieve's story is readily available on the internet as you said do yourself little good by reading it...
So you stop quoting wrongly...
Her life almost got shattered at the age of 17 as a result of pregnancy but her parents accepted her and took care of the child as she continued her education...

Genevieve had issues with the father of her baby may be he denied her showing high level of irresponsibility and that is why Genevieve decided to stay alone even till now...
If he was responsible you think she will leave him...

This young man is not doing well but has shown high level of responsibility by accepting his child and taking care as little as he can...

If she had a good family support then there will be no limit for her...

But because of a bad sister and family who feels her life ended in getting pregnant they are still struggling to survive...

Some one made mention of education in one of the post...

Most of the world know men are either not educated or school dropouts yet they achieved much more than the so called educated and even employ them...
What we should encourage is entrepreneurship spirit amongst our youth and a source for capital...

Beating up your elder sister for continually assaulting and insulting you is no crime for me... Her parents should have talked to the elder sister but because they failed to she had to take laws into her hands...

Is he a dead beat because he smokes and drinks or because he has no money...

If it's former I hope you can tell Wizkid, Davido, Olamide, Lil Wayne, etc the list is endless to their face that they are all dead beats...
I would have said someone's brain is a dead beat but NO I still love you...

Thanks dear, I dont care about what they are saying or thinks about me as long as no body in here feed me or take care of my bill it wont bother me at all not even a bit , It makes me much stronger , I did the best part which is confessing to my sister of my bad doing, even God in heaven has forgiven me and I dont need any of them to keep reminding me about what I did , because I'm not the first neither I will be the last and they are many people that did worse than me and they are forgiven, if God forgive and who are they to judge me ? Some of them here men are insulting my guy to be honest my guy is doing better than some of them has left all their responsibilities for their wives they are still living in face me I face you house , one room with plenty children , they cant even afford to pay rent ,feed their children 3 square meals neither school fees but they will come here and talk as if they are doing well like they are landlords or own car and has made it in life instead they have nothing some are even jobless and married and you should come and see in this Facebook group that I belongs how they wives and so called married woman as turned into beggars begging for money to feed their kids and to pay school fees and they are married but they are here talking bad on a guy who is doing better than them , he doesn't have much but me his girlfriend and our child are his number 1 priority shame on them because if you are waiting for me to leave my guy you will twist for eternity. As for my child I would rather suffer with my child than leaving her with my family I choose to have her and I will keep her anywhere with me

jendell:
Babe(Ifyjos) I feel at this point you should talk/reply less. If you keep running your mouth ,you will paint a bad picture of how you live at home. If this is the way you act at home then I wonder why your sister won't constantly be at war with you. Please zip the replying biko.

As for your daughter, my sister listen to me, the best place for her to be in now is with your people. She will have access to a decent roof over her head and food. Please whatever happens, always think of her future. Don't expose that child to that place your guy is presently squatting.

Find a way and redeem your sister's image before her ex fiancee. Find something doing immediately,save up and learn a skill with it. The era of living in denial is over. You have a lot of work to do if truly you want to live a good life. Dont ever do something negative again for this your guy. May God be with you

Ifyjos:
For your information I'm not homeless I'm staying with my guy and the best thing ever sharing the same bed with a hot night sex and waking up with him with another hot morning sex, I'm very happy where I am and I cant wait to have my daughter with me to complete our family. Whether u like or not nothing will change my mind about my guy if u dont like it go hug transformer

Madam, you talk too much!!! Your being too defensive is probably what got you into this situation in the first instance.

You need to learn to be calm and more reflective

I dont care

quote author=Resurgent2016 post=85826014]

Madam, you talk too much!!! Your being too defensive is probably what got you into this situation in the first instance.

You need to learn to be calm and more reflective[/quote]

Ifyjos:
I dont care

quote author=Resurgent2016 post=85826014]

Madam, you talk too much!!! Your being too defensive is probably what got you into this situation in the first instance.

You need to learn to be calm and more reflective

A guy that loves you would have at least paid your bride price or taken you to a court registry for marriage or would have taken you to a church for blessing of marriage.

Whatever you are doing now may seem right to you. When I was your age, I thought I was the smartest person in the world but now when I look back at things I did, I only shake my head.

I can see you love this guy. I mean, he doesn't cheat on you and provides for you. Now, you need some security, ask him to go and pay your bride price, even if it's 5000 naira. At least you can proudly answer wife and stop engaging in premarital sex. Let him prove his love once more by doing it. Start from there.

Then when that is settled, think of learning a skill. It's not a must to go to school, you can always do that later. Learning a skill is important. It could be hair dressing, tailoring, etc. At least to ensure the future of your daughter is secured. So that if your man doesn't have money you can support him. That way nobody will insult you guys.

Ifyjos:
For your information I'm not homeless I'm staying with my guy and the best thing ever sharing the same bed with a hot night sex and waking up with him with another hot morning sex, I'm very happy where I am and I cant wait to have my daughter with me to complete our family. Whether u like or not nothing will change my mind about my guy if u dont like it go hug transformer

quote author=CeterisXVII post=85823617]

Whose parents got married at 14? Oga, maybe your own parents did, but mine certainly did NOT. So you cannot speak for everybody's parents.

And for your information, Genevieve's story is freely available on the internet. Google it.

If condemning an evil act, is taking sides in your own view....then I have no apologies for doing so.

Beating up your older sister because she scolds you for your mistakes, and for repeatedly hanging out with the same deadbeat smoker and drunkard, who got you pregnant in the first place, is a sign that you are evil.

If you cannot see that, then it means you support the evil actions of Ifyjos and her weird mentality of entitlement.

Now that she has confessed and has been chased out of her house, please go and offer her accomodation, a pat on the head and a lifetime award for all what she did, since you are in support of her actions. Nansense!

still young and naive.
Anyway best of luck in your endeavor and choice