So I met this girl recently.....we became friends. I kinda notice that she is an introvert but we are good Sha


I recently caught her crying....according to her she is tired of being an introvert she really wants to make friends but she can't just help it......
It feels impossible for her to really mingle with people.

She feels she is the one with a problem but sincerely I tried talking to her that she should be herself and not Pressure herself into something she won't be comfortable with but she does not seem convinced instead she was asking questions like "am I a bad person"...etc
I really want to help this girl.....any advice on what I can do to help me


Introverts in the house pls I need ur help....how do u guys cope?

thatfinegirl:
So I met this girl recently.....we became friends. I kinda notice that she is an introvert but we are good Sha


I recently caught her crying....according to her she is tired of being an introvert she really wants to make friends but she can't just help it......
It feels impossible for her to really mingle with people.

She feels she is the one with a problem but sincerely I tried talking to her that she should be herself and not Pressure herself into something she won't be comfortable with but she does not seem convinced instead she was asking questions like "am I a bad person"...etc
I really want to help this girl.....any advice on what I can do to help me


Introverts in the house pls I need ur help....how do u guys cope?

we cope nooni

Take her out often. She should join social groups. She can go on eventbrite. Com and search out cool events to attend.

She should smile more

After fvcking her Sha, I hope you will still stay behind and walk her through the process of conversion from an Introvert to an extrovert Sha.

Remember, there is ways a stage of excitement Sha.

That's the stage you Currently rocking Sha.


A time will come when she will make alot of friends and many mistakes (Excitement Stage).

Would you still hang around?

You want to help her, please what do you want to do for her

tyup:


we cope nooni

Ok but how can I help this friend of mine?

AwkaetitiBabe:
Take her out often. She should join social groups. She can go on eventbrite. Com and search out cool events to attend.

She should smile more

Thanks a lot�

KingSatan:
After fvcking her Sha, I hope you will still stay behind and walk her through the process of conversion from an Introvert to an extrovert Sha.

Remember, there is ways a stage of excitement Sha.

That's the stage you Currently rocking Sha.


A time will come when she will make alot of friends and many mistakes (Excitement Stage).

Would you still hang around?

Hmm...so what do u want me to do?

For the first paragraph.... I'm not a lesbian

Agricaddict:
You want to help her, please what do you want to do for her

I want her to make "some" friends if that's what is going to make her better and love herself

Tell her she's good like that and should not try to make friends cos she'll regret it.

I'm an introvert while my twin is the outgoing type that has friends and all that. So There was a time I tried to force myself to be friends with her friends. So after she got married and left I found it difficult keeping them as I began to see them as a disturbance and practically began to avoid them. One of them even went as far as contacting my guy on Facebook just because I disclosed to her that my guy works in Chevron .

Sometimes they'll come just to drag me out of the house and I found that so disturbing. Afterwards they'll accuse me of not looking for them. Hmm not my style. I prefer to just be indoors when I'm not at work or even go to the library and browse. so they observed and that was how they stopped coming.

Truth is we dont have the strength for all that friends ish.
Its tiring, draining and annoying.
So let her forget it. It won't work.

Jewessgratitude:
Tell her she's good like that and should not try to make friends cos she'll regret it.

I'm an introvert while my twin is the outgoing type that has friends and all that. So There was a time I tried to force myself to be friends with her friends. So after she got married and left I found it difficult keeping them as I began to see them as a disturbance and practically began to avoid them. One of them even went as far as contacting my guy on Facebook just because I disclosed to her that my guy works in Chevron .

Sometimes they'll come just to drag me out of the house and I found that so disturbing. Afterwards they'll accuse me of not looking for them. Hmm not my style. I prefer to just be indoors when I'm not at work or even go to the library and browse. so they observed and that was how they stopped coming.

Truth is we dont have the strength for all that friends ish.
Its tiring, draining and annoying.
So let her forget it. It won't work.

Very true

Being an introvert is not a disability it's actually quite amazing once you understand yourself.

But I suggest that you shouldn't jump into conclusions because she might not be an introvert if she's so adamant on becoming an extrovert.
It's possible that she's a shy extrovert.

Yes. Being shy doesnt exactly mean your introverted. She could be shy but want more than anything to socialize and mingle with lots of people.

Check your friend well. If she's introverted then she should dicover herself more. She might like what she finds and if she doesn't she can always work to improve herself.

If she's shy but extroverted then she should work on her confidence.

Over time you can change form being introverted to extroverted or even ambiverted, it's all about discovering yourself.