prettysassygirl:

I pity your future or present partner,hope you know if u want it this way then no financial contribution from we female folks as well,if u want us to go back in time then we have to go there fully,you would go out,go do all the work and get all the money, enough money for the family why the woman performs all the chores at home.

if I'm going into a marriage , my wife is never working

Kingsteve:
I'm a domestic guy.
I love to cook...a good cook for that matter.
I see absolutely nothing wrong helping your woman once in a while in the kitchen, or doing other domestic chores.
It's all part of the bonding.

yeah once in a while

ubunja:
what do you think?

How should I know when there's always a variation in your gender

ubunja:
what do you think?

How should I know when there's always a variation in your gender


Your works are phenomenal. Keep exposing these ladies until they give in.

GraGra247:

I didn't see reasons with anybody

Actually you did

Pridestorm:


How should I know when there's always a variation in your gender




Your works are phenomenal. Keep exposing these ladies until they give in.

lmfao.

I see you sent me an email a while back. Can't remember if I responded or not. Cause my email is always acting up. In any case whatsapp my guy.

Kennedyiheme:
if I'm going into a marriage , my wife is never working

I wish and pray never to meet your type,you are part of the ancient men

Kennedyiheme:
In this age and time... if you are gonna get married and go true the usual ritual of getting a wife, then this is for you... in this age and time modern wifes now expect to share chores in the house with thier husbands.. what disrespect, you come home the wife would say he should cook if he's hungry or they cook together.. happens in the western world all the time and its creeping into our society... on rare occasions its okay to help your wife just for bonding .. but its not your place.. these feminists have started poisoning traditional marriages... the day your wife asks you to share chores with her... KICk HER OUT....

Good you are not totally against it. Sometimes issues like pregnancy, sickness or her well being can make a man assist

Kennedyiheme:
with women they think like fishes.. yhe day you stop doing it, there would be chaos

You were obviously raised to see women as beneath you and to disrespect them. That's why you can open your mouth to say women think like fishes.

Men will still do chores. It's not a big deal to them as it is to you. So relax and stop trying to turn them to your side.

prettysassygirl:

And how do you know that some Igbo ladies pay their brideprice

some women not only igbo

JONNYSPUTE:
.. I have to disagree with on some of Ur points.
If one can cook as a bachelor and enjoys doing it, there's nothing wrong if as a married man he still does it. I'm only against a situation whereby the wife sits and orders the husband to do the cooking .
In my house for example there are some delicacies I love cooking by myself and most times on weekends if my wife is out shopping for foodstuffs,I can prepare something for myself and my kids to eat before she gets back and they love me for that.Or if she is not feeling fine.
So bro, does that make me a simp?

No you ain't. The bold says it all ... Once it's not the bolded , No harm . Nothing is wrong assisting sometimes

Kennedyiheme:
if I'm going into a marriage , my wife is never working

then when u suddenly die, lose ur job or get incapacitated. What will happen. Smh

Kennedyiheme:
no thats an exception, I'm saying some women would take that for granted

This is true . Some women have little brains.

ednut1:
some women not only igbo

Thats Berra,

ubunja:
men must protect and defend. That role is non negotiable. Providing though can be worked out. I have my sights on a lady with moola. Wanna gold dig these independent women.

providing is non negotiable.

ednut1:
u clearly know nothing

It's not hard to decipher that.

Kennedyiheme:
if I'm going into a marriage , my wife is never working

Because you brought her into this world or created her? And so you decide her future because you think you bought her because you paid an inconsequential amount for bride price. You think that is enough for a human life?

So you kill her dreams and aspirations because she is unfortunate enough to be your wife. I see.

ImaIma1:


Because you brought her into this world or created her? And so you decide her future because you think you bought her because you paid an inconsequential amount for bride price. You think that is enough for a human life?

So you kill her dreams and aspirations because she is unfortunate enough to be your wife. I see.

the duty of a wife is to be a wife and perform her duties with pride while the husband performs his .. that is what the traditional marriage is all about. If you cant follow the rules, you have no business getting married, stay unmarried

Peacefullove:


Good you are not totally against it. Sometimes issues like pregnancy, sickness or her well being can make a man assist

yes i agree thats an exception.. but a situation where the wife would start saying you both have to share chores is appauling

Kennedyiheme:
yes i agree thats an exception.. but a situation where the wife would start saying you both have to share chores is appauling

That's a No!

Kennedyiheme:
you're a simp man, they are plenty on nairaland

everybody na simp for this one...lol

ednut1:
In the traditional setting man provides while the woman takes care of the home. Today more woman are working and are breadwinners. You cant expect her to come from work lets say from a far place like lekki to iyana ipaja daily and still expect her to cook. Get a maid biko. If she is an housewife yes she should cook for u. Times have changed people should change too. It used to be an abomination to marry non virgin today it aint , human sacrifice used to be a norm today its a crime

Times can change ,the world can evolve and every thing it can change as well buh humans can't change,becos we ddnt decide our roles nature did. we all are programmed to run in a certain ways.
God wasnt stupid or dumb when he shared the roles ... he ask us to be of help to each other, literally when necessary. one of the many reasons i respect God is he gave each gender distinctive strength that compliment our roles.so
A man can help if she is sick or travelled, once in awhile buh it must not be consistent or on regular basis.
How can you be livin in iyana ipaja n yu let ur wife work in lekki, a competent man won't even allow that, we either relocate to lekki she pays d rent or she looks 4 another job in mainland n i keep payin d rent.

Tough men create good times, good times create weak men, weak men create tough times...

ericsmith:



Times can change ,the world can evolve and every thing it can change as well buh humans can't change,becos we ddnt decide our roles nature did. we all are programmed to run in a certain ways.
God wasnt stupid or dumb when he shared the roles ... he ask us to be of help to each other, literally when necessary. one of the many reasons i respect God is he gave each gender distinctive strength that compliment our roles.so
A man can help if she is sick or travelled, once in awhile buh it must not be consistent or on regular basis.
How can you be livin in iyana ipaja n yu let ur wife work in lekki, a competent man won't even allow that, we either relocate to lekki she pays d rent or she looks 4 another job in mainland n i keep payin d rent.

thats what i say, people think because there's civilisation then gender roles have to change... haven't we tried to change gender roles?.. what's the result... high divorce rate.. you cant cheat nature

Kennedyiheme:
the duty of a wife is to be a wife and perform her duties with pride while the husband performs his .. that is what the traditional marriage is all about. If you cant follow the rules, you have no business getting married, stay unmarried

What about her duty as a human being? Or her own dreams and ambitions? You think being a wife is a woman's only duty?

Is being a husband your only duty? Don't you pursue your own ambitions? Why do you now think you can suppress a woman's dreams because of marriage? Isn't that slavery?

ericsmith:



Times can change ,the world can evolve and every thing it can change as well buh humans can't change,becos we ddnt decide our roles nature did. we all are programmed to run in a certain ways.
God wasnt stupid or dumb when he shared the roles ... he ask us to be of help to each other, literally when necessary. one of the many reasons i respect God is he gave each gender distinctive strength that compliment our roles.so
A man can help if she is sick or travelled, once in awhile buh it must not be consistent or on regular basis.
How can you be livin in iyana ipaja n yu let ur wife work in lekki, a competent man won't even allow that, we either relocate to lekki she pays d rent or she looks 4 another job in mainland n i keep payin d rent.

so women should not be empowered or strive to get better jobs When the man loses his job or dies no be god for pay bills

ImaIma1:


What about her duty as a human being? Or her own dreams and ambitions? You think being a wife is a woman's only duty?

Is being a husband your only duty? Don't you pursue your own ambitions? Why do you now think you can suppress a woman's dreams because of marriage? Isn't that slavery?

then dont get married, the moment you go into marriage you become part of the man... I'm sorry its just the way nature has programmed life to be... men and women aren't the same.. if you cant drop everything then don't get married as thats the sacrifice women have to take if they ever want to get married...

I'm not a religious person but there is wisdom in the bible.... take the story of Samson, do you think delilah would defeat samson physically... you can't find joy in the eyes of a man with gra gra.. why don't women act as women, why do you want to compete with men... (a race you obviously cant win).. the only way you can get to a man is acting like "women"

pocohantas:


Lmao. Honestly, whenever a Nigerian guy tells me he can cook, I always prepare for the worst. Fortunately, they always prove me right

You have been meeting the terrible ones.

Hence I am concern, many of our ladies doesn't know how to cook. The ones that even make noise, use all those chemicals called spices to cook Sh1t.

Check my posts to see my hand work.

Kennedyiheme:
then dont get married, the moment you go into marriage you become part of the man... I'm sorry its just the way nature has programmed life to be... men and women aren't the same.. if you cant drop everything then don't get married as thats the sacrifice women have to take if they ever want to get married...

Which nature? Or you mean it's your own idea of marriage? You think all the couples you see practise this archaic idea of marriage? It is peculiar to you and some few other that happen to think like you..

You think marriage is supposed to be a disadvantage for women and an advantage for men?

You obviously don't know what marriage is about. You are just using some traditional mumbo jumbo to make an excuse for you to intimidate and suppress an unfortunate woman

Youngzedd:


You have been meeting the terrible ones.

Hence I am concern, many of our ladies doesn't know how to cook. The ones that even make noise, use all those chemicals called spices to cook Sh1t.

Check my posts to see my hand work.

Most are terribly terrible.

ImaIma1:


Which nature? Or you mean it's your own idea of marriage? You think all the couples you see practise this archaic idea of marriage? It is peculiar to you and some few other that happen to think like you..

You think marriage is supposed to be a disadvantage for women and an advantage for men?

You obviously don't know what marriage is about. You are just using some traditional mumbo jumbo to make an excuse for you to intimidate and suppress an unfortunate woman

yes you are not in support of the archaic style of marriage but the modern style of marriage... the same modern stylenof marriage with high divorce rate... wow