Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

... You only find what you seek.. And you've been seeking after dumb girls.. Look inwards

tstx:



Look inwards...

I don't get.

tstx:



... You only find what you seek.. And you've been seeking after dumb girls.. Look inwards

do you mean 90% if naija girls are dumb because most of 9 out of 10 girls chat this way.

tstx:



... You only find what you seek.. And you've been seeking after dumb girls.. Look inwards

Then you mean 90% of naija girls are dumb because 9 out of 10 girls are guilty of this even you yourself know this.

kollinzgee:


Then you mean 90% of naija girls are dumb because 9 out of 10 girls are guilty of this even you yourself know this.

I don't know. I have never dated a dumb girl.... Never have never will. Wetin we Wan dey discuss kwanu

Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

Modified

If you don't want boring answers, stop asking dumb questions.

Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

kollinzgee:


do you mean 90% if naija girls are dumb because most of 9 out of 10 girls chat this way.

Guy I respect you oooh, u still dey chat girls for this century follow ladies chat and see better outcome....


I dont know how u strike conversation with ur woman but try pressing her mumu button deeper she will respond beyond the way u expected....

Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.

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Jewessgratitude:
Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.

What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.

It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.

Don’t settle for less man. Cheers.

No hardworking man deserves a dumb woman. The best or nothing.

Jewessgratitude:
Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

.. hey
sorry about yesterday..

Mine is simple, reply me with
Lol
K. Etc
Na their my response dey end until u say sth meaningful..

Some will even type LOl wen their face in reality is like a egusi soup way don sawaa....

So how should a man chat with her to make her reply interestingly?

That should be what to discuss. Let women tell us what they want us to talk about or how to open a healthy conversation.

Or are we saying that women don't know what they want?

Stillthebest:


So how should a man chat with her to make her reply interestingly?

That should be what to discuss. Let women tell us what they want us to talk about or how to open a healthy conversation.

Or are we saying that women don't know what they want?

you will never get a logical answer for this question they will just leave you more confused.

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

...we don't want them to change I beg .....
Bro if u can't aford women..STAY AWAY!!!(No oofeense)

MrCork:


...we don't want them to change I beg .....
Bro if u can't aford women..STAY AWAY!!!(No oofeense)

so women are now goods ok.

@iLegendd

Tony142:
@iLegendd

bros don't bring illegend here abeg .

kollinzgee:
Am not here to bash women as it is always done here but I want to address an issue which is becoming a problem amongst our women.
In the past I used to believe when you are chatting with a girl and she replies you with monosyllables like k,lol,hmm, and the rest it means she isn't into you just let her be but now i am even more confused than ever because even all my girlfriends who i am sure loves me even do the same and the I was forced to ask them why but I never got a straight logical answer..i keep hearing things like I am the boring one I adhered to this advice I improved my chatting skills yet I still got the same result I laughed..when a girl replies with the k or lol I just burst into laughter.

If you are a Nigerian lady reading this writeup and your communicating this way then you are literally shooting yourself in the leg..if you are in a relationship and you do this your are sitting on a time bomb even if your boyfriend is not complaining just wait and see.if you think it's a mind Game you are playing it will not benefit you because there are many women available this days .
I have broken up with many girls in the past I never told them it was because of this because to me when the communication is poor I loose interest gradually.
A man is first attracted to a woman's looks but this attraction will fade away with time.It is now her personality traits that will keep the relationship going.if good communication skills are not including in those traits the men will subconsciously assume you have nothing to offer and move on.
change or prepare for the worst.

the point of online chatting is to try to take the discussion offline as soon as possible. Especially if you are interested. The exception is long distance. Girls relate better to someone they can see, no some unknown online ?creep who keeps asking 'have you eaten' 'where are you' 'WYD'

The truth is many girls see you as a time waster if you don't make a move to want to meet her offline, except long distance.

I have said my own, take it or leave it. I have no time to exchange words abeg

Ardar:
Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

lol that's bcus u seat back and let most of those mehn do all the talking, while all u do is answer, have chat with some girls for the first time and conversations just click cus she is fun, but when i get one word response to my first two questions then I know the girl is most likely boring or forming yeye hard to get, what girls don't know is not every guy that tries to make conversation wants to get into ur pant.. I broke up with an ex I dated for 6minths cus of this boring attitude and inability to make conversation...

No matter how u fine, if we can't talk at length and play on phone or chat. Aunty then dey ur dey... Marriage is a far too long time for u to bore me..

Even the guys that ask something different do u girls give them the attention or respond well? Abegi na 9ja girl mentality

Jewessgratitude:
Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

list of worries u say? That is even the greatest of worry. A partner that can't make conversation? That u can't joke with? U are my gf I try to make exciting conversation with u tell u abt how amazing my day was and here u tell me abt URS and all I get is, fine, yes, ok, yes.

Lol someone I wanna spend the rest of my life with, what is the bed rock of a good and lasting relationship? Friendship, communication and trust. Love is the least of them all..

Lol flimsy she calls it. Try dating a guy who can't make u smile or laff

A lot of these ladies cannot hold interesting convos hence the Ks and thumbs up you see. Invite them out to eat fish and see how fast they type their phone numbers.

kollinzgee:


bros don't bring illegend here abeg .

Don't worry, I won't even read the topic — I only read the title and I'm out.

kollinzgee:


bros don't bring illegend here abeg .

Lol, why?

AfroKnight:
Bro, once a girl starts to chat with you like she’s doing you a favour, just pull the damn plug. You should not be involved with entitled dumbass girls like this one.

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They go about with an air of self importance, and that attracts you cos they appear confident and men find that attractive, but they are really just shiny baubles. When you scratch the surface, you’d discover the unimpressive core.

What’s worse, they defend this shît, thinking the classy women they hope to emulate are unintelligent bores too. They couldn’t be any further from the truth. They want us to accept them with their bullshît, saying it’s reality. Thats just simplistic nonsense.

It’s a let down, but some guys need to wade through tons of garbage to get to gold.

Don’t settle for less man. Cheers.

as in ehen just pull the plug and move ahead, 200million Nigerians more than half are ladies to pick from. Why kill urslf on a boring person.

Though some guys too can't really make conversation,

Tony142:




Lol, why?

him to turn This place no be online bookshop

iLegendd:




Don't worry, I won't even read the topic — I only read the title and I'm out.

Ardar:
Most Nigerian men I chat with always ask me the same boring dumb questions like,
" did you eat today"
"What did you eat this afternoon"
"How was your night"
"I hope you dreamt good dreams"

The annoying thing is not the questions itself but the number of times am been asked the same thing by one person.

Now, you don't see women opening threads and whining about Nigerian Men because of this.

I know you are lying, but I won't talk

kollinzgee:


him to turn This place no be online bookshop

Lol

Jewessgratitude:
Reality neva strike you. So because of this flimsy thing, you dump a girl? What has that got to do with anything? I mean... I dont get it. Like how does it affect you? Mere letters missing in a word is what is making you to lose a lifetime opportunity?

To each his own sha.

That should be the least of your worries in a relationship of all the issues therein if you ask me though.

Don't be naive