It's sad that the meaning of the phrase passed right over your head.

He was actually implying that women cannot be fully trusted.

Skepticus:


Nothing unique about them. Men just love placing those confused, ungrateful lots on a pedestal. You can't eat your cake and have it.

They are the same opportunistic sluts everywhere!

iRyan:

That is a very flimsy reason to kill someone. Jeez! Some of you guys don't deserve to be among humans

well its a flimsy reason, i agree, but atleast destroy her eye and pussy. is that more ok?

bukatyne:



And I prefer virgin lovers. Let us explore together. Don't bring thousands of demons to the matrimonial bed.

Lol

To end the story, let the woman pay back all the man spent in her matrimony, then they can go ahead to dissolve d marriage.

Kyom20:
I honestly dislike individuals who marry for selfish reasons. In this case, both the man and the woman married each other for their own selfish reasons. She married him for financial stability while he married her because she was "too" good in bed as well as having some other characters I am sure. This is unfair to both parties in the long run and can not be sustained, love is selfless and the sooner we learn to show selfless love the better for us all.
P.S. The man should have just found a way to up his sex game. Its not that hard, women need sexual love too.

It's not true. The man wasn't selfish when he got married to her. A certain woman said her husband had this very problem, but both of them sought a solution together. That's love; that's the true meaning of marriage - for better or worse. In this case, this woman has a very high libido, and she doesn't want to help her man to find a solution to his problem. And she used the sex exploits she had with some men in the past to judge her man. The man may even be ok in bed for other women.

This is a Joro news in reported speech!!!

If this Super Story were to be made into a movie, what title is most suitable for it??

Lol. If u get money n come good for bed too meh A1.

bukatyne:


It is so funny you think a virgin would put up with a poor sex performance.

You better up your game.

So after a lady keeps herself for marriage, you think she deserves poor sex all the rest of her life.

Imagine such selfishness.

I think the issue here is not poor sex life but sexual incompatibility,Talatu seems to have a more sexual desire than Audu and that happens because most Nigerian girls marry who is ready not whom they love because of over rating of marriage.I pity Talatu anyway because of her poor handling of the situation, she will loose at the end.

wristbangle:


Some women actually made the beast in some men. How can she exposed her husband's sexual weakness in public? It's like vice versa when a man announces to people his wife V. is wide like borehole. How do you want the public to perceive her?

Two incidents where I blame the man is his uncontrolled anger to have matcheted his wife and failure to solve his sexual weakness.

What women want in a man is good sex, money and attention. Others na jara.

What can they give in return? Must it be the men that will be givers all the time? She should have helped her man to seek a solution to his problem. A woman did it for her man who had the same problem, instead of being promiscuous.

bukatyne:
1. Husband was very selfish sexually. He knew he was not performing optimally yet was fine because he was satisfied. In his words, the wife was very good/sweet. He is also egoistic: instead of him to see how to improve their sex life if he was still interested in the marriage or walk away, he decided to kill his wife because 'she exposed him.'

2. Since the wife knew sex was important to her, she should have married the first guy. But no, she married a financially stable man who wasn't good in bed and started wailing aka having her cake and eating it. Since the husband is open to giving her mouth action, I believe with better engagement, she would have gotten him to be a better lover. But in her usual character, she is all about now and not willibg to invest in anybody. Guy 1 was good in bed but poor: dump him. Guy 2 was rich but poor in bed: dump him. Guy 3 now is good in bed and yet to determine him pockets. I am sure she would have dumped him if after a few years he was not rich or comfortable. She is a classic fair-weather wife. Something even tells me that it was the husband's money she was using to maintain the corper and corper shun was only singing marriage to eat aunt's money and body. She did not even tell him she was married, she said she was separated.

3. Corper Shun, not much to say. You were sent to serve your father's land, you decided to serve other men's wives. Keep wasting your strenght on a married woman. Your reward is coming soon.

An advise to virgins: As you already know, there are some very selfish men who hunt virgins because they are poor, selfish, inadequate lovers.

Please read up on sex. There are very good books on and offline.

The fact you have never had sex does not mean you wouldn't know when a man is bad or not.

I detest selfishness especially in marriage.

Inadequate Lovers= Not being good in bed!!!

Men ,pls kindly have sex with as many ladies as possible before you get married... I don't know how you will do it... Just play safe...

Being caring , responsible, helping someone's wife business and making provision to make the home and Children running is NOTHING . You are a bad lover if you observe the above including staying faithful to your wife!!!

The 2020 definition of being a good lover is to sex your wife very well..

How do you learn this, if you have not had sex with as many ladies as possible??

Have sex with ladies of different shapes today, so that you can become good LOVER by modern wives' standard!!!!

Never before have I read a more matured judgement on nairaland by a male on this subject of cheating, apportioning blame correctly to all parties involved. Thumbs up sir nobody would have written it better than u.

bukatyne:
1. Husband was very selfish sexually. He knew he was not performing optimally yet was fine because he was satisfied. In his words, the wife was very good/sweet. He is also egoistic: instead of him to see how to improve their sex life if he was still interested in the marriage or walk away, he decided to kill his wife because 'she exposed him.'

2. Since the wife knew sex was important to her, she should have married the first guy. But no, she married a financially stable man who wasn't good in bed and started wailing aka having her cake and eating it. Since the husband is open to giving her mouth action, I believe with better engagement, she would have gotten him to be a better lover. But in her usual character, she is all about now and not willibg to invest in anybody. Guy 1 was good in bed but poor: dump him. Guy 2 was rich but poor in bed: dump him. Guy 3 now is good in bed and yet to determine him pockets. I am sure she would have dumped him if after a few years he was not rich or comfortable. She is a classic fair-weather wife. Something even tells me that it was the husband's money she was using to maintain the corper and corper shun was only singing marriage to eat aunt's money and body. She did not even tell him she was married, she said she was separated.

3. Corper Shun, not much to say. You were sent to serve your father's land, you decided to serve other men's wives. Keep wasting your strenght on a married woman. Your reward is coming soon.

An advise to virgins: As you already know, there are some very selfish men who hunt virgins because they are poor, selfish, inadequate lovers.

Please read up on sex. There are very good books on and offline.

The fact you have never had sex does not mean you wouldn't know when a man is bad or not.

I detest selfishness especially in marriage.

That's a very big lie, being immoral doesn't ever n will never equate to being a good lover to ur wife.

eni4real:
Inadequate Lovers= Not being good in bed!!!

Men ,pls kindly have sex with as many ladies as possible before you get married... I don't know how you will do it... Just play safe...

Being caring , responsible, helping someone's wife business and making provision to make the home and Children running is NOTHING . You are a bad lover if you observe the above including staying faithful to your wife!!!

The 2020 definition of being a good lover is to sex your wife very well..

How do you learn this, if you have not had sex with as many ladies as possible??

Have sex with ladies of different shapes today, so that you can become good LOVER by modern wives' standard!!!!

bukatyne:


@bold:

Wetin Musa nor go read for gate?

Follow come strenght?

The artificial strenght is not sustainable so the guy would be weak in future.

So when peeps are nacking, the girls should ask: Is this your follow come strength?

It's important that they ask because artificial plenty these days oooo

pocohantas:


Bukatyne can you beat this?

So, the idea is to coverup their poor stroke games and small penis. Subjecting a daughter of Zion to a lifetime of poor sex.

Isn't this marriage built on false impressions?

You are right, very selfish entities. I wonder how many of them are out there.

A daughter of Zion isn't a sex pervert; a sex pervert is a daughter of Satan. Don't complain if your man satisfies you sexually without providing for you. When a man goes out to hustle for his family, he's already weak by the time he comes back. This also reduces his sexual performance. And that's why reasonable women make good homes. They study the mood of their husbands and help their men to treat them well, sexually. Remember that this very woman is a housewife, while the man provides everything. I'm sure if she were the one providing for the family, her sex libido would have reduced after the bustle and hustle of life. To be a man no easy.

Go back n read the story very well, the woman complained but I think the man was too proud to listen n find a solution. Though that doesn't justify the lady's immoral act in anyway.

Mandeyy:
It's not true. The man wasn't selfish when he got married to her. A certain woman said her husband had this very problem, but both of them sought a solution together. That's love; that's the true meaning of marriage - for better or worse. In this case, this woman has a very high libido, and she doesn't want to help her man to find a solution to his problem. And she used the sex exploits she had with some men in the past to judge her man. The man may even be ok in bed for other women.

Mandeyy:
What can they give in return? Must it be the men that will be givers all the time? She should have helped her man to seek a solution to his problem. A woman did it for her man who had the same problem, instead of being promiscuous.

I tire! Not like the man is impotent and infertile. His longevity in the sex act that is under siege.

Big lie woman like money pass.

madridguy:
“I have told him that no matter how he tries to make life comfortable for me and the kids, I won’t be happy until he finds a way of satisfying me sexually. I felt bad any time I engage my married friends in discussion and they tell me how strong their husbands are in bed.

This is the issue, many married men this days believe everything is all about leaving their house 5 AM and returned back by 12 AM, traveling from New York, to Taiwan, Japan to Paris, PH to Abuja looking for contract and have totally forgot their wives at home, some will even be saying for the past 2 months now have never open my wife wrapper believing all what their wife wants is money, expensive gift items, royal dinner forgetting body no be firewood and their wife no be robot.

While Mr. Audu Abaa neglected his health, he failed to attend to his 2 seconds issue on bed, wife stepped outside and someone else his giving her seriously.

The koko be say, women like that thing pass money. My brother, maintain your weapon of mass destruction with good exercise, good food, good fruit and water.

But I thought that according to the story she owns a provision store.

Mandeyy:
A daughter of Zion isn't a sex pervert; a sex pervert is a daughter of Satan. Don't complain if your man satisfies you sexually without providing for you. When a man goes out to hustle for his family, he's already weak by the time he comes back. This also reduces his performance. And that's why reasonable women make good homes. They study the mood of their husbands and help their men to treat them well sexually. Remember that this very woman is a housewife, while the man provides everything. I'm sure if she were the one providing for the family, her sex libido would have reduced after the bustle and hustle of life. To be a man no easy.

MissGodOwn:
That's a very big lie, being immoral doesn't ever n will never equate to being a good lover to ur wife.

I was interpreting Bukatyne submission on this topic!!!

According to her An inadequate lover= Being bad in sex...

Being responsible, helping your wife's business, providing for the home and Children , staying faithful to your wife etc is bland and nothing..

The only definition of being a good lover to Bukatyne is the ability of sexing your wife to heaves!!!

Modern wives are shallow-minded!!

Mandeyy:
A daughter of Zion isn't a sex pervert; a sex pervert is a daughter of Satan. Don't complain if your man satisfies you sexually without providing for you. When a man goes out to hustle for his family, he's already weak by the time he comes back. This also reduces his performance. And that's why reasonable women make good homes. They study the mood of their husbands and help their men to treat them well sexually. Remember that this very woman is a housewife, while the man provides everything. I'm sure if she were the one providing for the family, her sex libido would have reduced after the bustle and hustle of life. To be a man no easy.

Oh pls, there is nothing perverted about liking sex and enjoying it. It is human makeup and should be very allowed.

Good sex and providing for a home are not mutually exclusive. So, a man can fck well and hold down his financial end. Stop consoling yourself.

I know a hardworking man with a high libido. It has nothing to do with hardwork. If it does, most Naija men wouldn't be complaining of being starved of sex. After all, going by your theory, they should be more tired or as tired as their working wives.

There goes all your defence to the trash.

I wonder why some men love to make excuses for their poor sexual performance, but when the tables turn- they can rant for 20pages and even advise the man to cheat. Despicable elements.

No it's something but I think the man was too proud, he should have listened to his wife n both of them would have found a solution to the problem.

Being responsible, helping your wife's business, providing for the home and Children , staying faithful to your wife etc is bland and nothing..

MissGodOwn:
Go back n read the story very well, the woman complained but I think the man was too proud to listen n find a solution. Though that doesn't justify the lady's immoral act in anyway.

Can't the woman help her man to find a solution to his problem? That woman's mind was already made up ab initio, because she had been "shagged" in school and she wanted her man to meet that yardstick. She never believed in helping her man. She's selfish!

Sultannayef:



I married a virgin. Before then I had seen many ladies. Believe, my wife doesn't know what a very good sex is. She is happy with just a lil bit of this and that.

According to Bukatyne, you are selfish!!
What is Bukatyne business??

Did she help you pay the bride price or help you pay the price of finding a Virgin??

Why should modern ladies see everything in life as Men vs Ladies??

She was even advising Virgin to be reading about sex so that they will score their husband on performance and therefore determine if they are good Lovers..

Being very good in bed is the most important index of being a good lover according to modern wives..

It is so important that if your husband stay faithful and responsible you must score him low and divorce him... Really??


I think modern marriage is seriously pornified!!!!

donstan18:
A man who married a virgin don't have any business with such fvckery.


Marry a virgin and watch your marriage go smoothly without stress.

you're too naive. your first sentence might be true, if a lady haven't had any dick in her vagina before marriage, her sexual urge won't be much. my babe for years never give me Bj before even though i want it but she found it disgusting


but your second sentence is a gross naivety. how does Virginity makes marriage smooth? haven't you see many virgin Ladies with bad characters/attitude before?


virginity doesn't make marriage smooth, it just stand as a bridge of trust in the marriage. if a lady can keep herself till marriage day, then her emotions can be trusted to an extent

MissGodOwn:
But I thought that according to the story she owns a provision store.

That provision store of hers isn't the main source of income to the family. She even acknowledged that the man really provides for the family. That provision store even contributed to this, because that's where she gossiped with her fellow women that resulted in this. So, sensu stricto, she doesn't work; she's a housewife.

Like I said the woman's very wrong even selfish too, but since the woman has complained severally about it, even before she met the corner guy, he should have worked with her to get a solution instead of being adamant to it.

Mandeyy:
Can't the woman help her man to find a solution to his problem? That woman's mind was already made up ab initio, because she had been "shagged" in school and she wanted her man to meet that yardstick. She never believed in helping her man. She's selfish!

Ok

Mandeyy:
That provision store of hers isn't the main source of income to the family. She even acknowledged that the man really provides for the family. That provision store even contributed to this, because that's where she gossiped with her fellow women that resulted in this. So, sensu stricto, she doesn't work; she's a housewife.

Nothing Musa no go see for gate

pocohantas:


Oh pls, there is nothing perverted about liking sex and enjoying it. It is human makeup and should be very allowed.

Good sex and providing for a home are not mutually exclusive. So, a man can fck well and hold down his financial end. Stop consoling yourself.

I know a hardworking man with a high libido. It has nothing to do with hardwork. If it does, most Naija men wouldn't be complaining of being starved of sex. After all, going by your theory, they should be more tired or as tired as their working wives.

There goes all your defence to the trash.

I wonder why some men love to make excuses for their poor sexual performance, but when the tables turn- they can rant for 20pages and even advise the man to cheat. Despicable elements.

The thought of a woman being sexually liberated is nightmare to some men. If they don't bully and slut sham you they will lurk around reminding you of how you are cheated by nature and the edge they have over you as regards to sexuality. Whilst I doubt many will be enlightened, I believe they should leave ladies alone to make choices they themselves will live with it outcome. If you aren't gonna marry a sexually active woman that ain't ashamed of herself,then at least leave her alone,you aren't the one to bear the consequences(if at all they are any) for her.

fatymore:
Sex is bae.


But should be on a clean sheet

Sister fatimah how was mosque today.

eni4real:
According to Bukatyne, you are selfish!!
What is Bukatyne business??

Did she help you pay the bride price or help you pay the price of finding a Virgin??

Why should modern ladies see everything in life as Men vs Ladies??

She was even advising Virgin to be reading about sex so that they will score their husband on performance and therefore determine if they are good Lovers..

Being very good in bed is the most important index of being a good lover according to modern wives..

It is so important that if your husband stay faithful and responsible you must score him low and divorce him... Really??


I think modern marriage is seriously pornified!!!!

Is there any reason you are blowing up my mentions after constantly misinterpreting my stance on this matter?

Kindly leave me out of your conjuring. My posts are very clear for anyone WITHOUT an ulterior motive to understand.

In my first post, I clearly said the husband was selfish sexually and went on to apportion blames to everyone.

If men like, let them sleep with 500 girls, it is my business? Or you think the number of lovers determine your prowess?

Don't keep yourselves pure, get married and be open minded to apply yourselves sexually and explore.

Keep jumping about incurring spiritual sicknesses.

eni4real:
According to Bukatyne, you are selfish!!
What is Bukatyne business??

Did she help you pay the bride price or help you pay the price of finding a Virgin??

Why should modern ladies see everything in life as Men vs Ladies??

She was even advising Virgin to be reading about sex so that they will score their husband on performance and therefore determine if they are good Lovers..

Being very good in bed is the most important index of being a good lover according to modern wives..

It is so important that if your husband stay faithful and responsible you must score him low and divorce him... Really??


I think modern marriage is seriously pornified!!!!

@Bold:

Does it worry you that virgin ladies are advised to read on sex so they understand their bodies and know what they want?

Are you one of those who want to marry virgins because they don't know 'anything' and would be satisfied with the crumbs you give them?

That is witchcraft!

It is like saying I will cook water beans for you because you have not eaten porridge beans before.

It is even you that is seeing everything as men vs ladies.

Open your mind.

Michellekabod2:

The thought of a woman being sexually liberated is nightmare to some men. If they don't bully and slut sham you they will lurk around reminding you of how you are cheated by nature and the edge they have over you as regards to sexuality. Whilst I doubt many will be enlightened, I believe they should leave ladies alone to make choices they themselves will live with it outcome. If you aren't gonna marry a sexually active woman that ain't ashamed of herself,then at least leave her alone,you aren't the one to bear the consequences(if at all they are any) for her.

I don't know why they won't leave women and their vaginas alone. They spend ample time scheming to enter wet toto, some will even pay for it, beg to put only the tip, promise not to thrust- "let me just stay inside and feel your warmth" crew. After that, the insults will start rolling in.