eni4real:
I was interpreting Bukatyne submission on this topic!!!

According to her An inadequate lover= Being bad in sex...

Being responsible, helping your wife's business, providing for the home and Children , staying faithful to your wife etc is bland and nothing..

The only definition of being a good lover to Bukatyne is the ability of sexing your wife to heaves!!!

Modern wives are shallow-minded!!

bukatyne:


Another one again.

pocohantas:


Bukatyne can you beat this?

So, the idea is to coverup their poor stroke games and small penis. Subjecting a daughter of Zion to a lifetime of poor sex.

Isn't this marriage built on false impressions?

You are right, very selfish entities. I wonder how many of them are out there.

Mandeyy:
A daughter of Zion isn't a sex pervert; a sex pervert is a daughter of Satan. Don't complain if your man satisfies you sexually without providing for you. When a man goes out to hustle for his family, he's already weak by the time he comes back. This also reduces his sexual performance. And that's why reasonable women make good homes. They study the mood of their husbands and help their men to treat them well, sexually. Remember that this very woman is a housewife, while the man provides everything. I'm sure if she were the one providing for the family, her sex libido would have reduced after the bustle and hustle of life. To be a man no easy.

Lleigh:


I agree, but sex before marriage is frowned upon�

eni4real:

Surrogate Mother is better ..

Modern wives have turned Marriage to a glorified Prison...with hard labour of sex...


Single guys, I will advise you to prepare for the future now, if you want marriage

Ensure you have sex with as many as Ladies as possible now...
Modern wives have pornified Marriage already!!!

MissGodOwn:
Go back n read the story very well, the woman complained but I think the man was too proud to listen n find a solution. Though that doesn't justify the lady's immoral act in anyway.

Obynolee:


It's important that they ask because artificial plenty these days oooo

MissGodOwn:
Never before have I read a more matured judgement on nairaland by a male on this subject of cheating, apportioning blame correctly to all parties involved. Thumbs up sir nobody would have written it better than u.

Obynolee:


I think the issue here is not poor sex life but sexual incompatibility,Talatu seems to have a more sexual desire than Audu and that happens because most Nigerian girls marry who is ready not whom they love because of over rating of marriage.I pity Talatu anyway because of her poor handling of the situation, she will loose at the end.

eni4real:
So because the woman complained , that is the reason why she should carry her body to have sex with a corper...??

Is that how a mother of 3 should act.. She is completely immature and stupid!!!

If she have health issues, will her husband divorce her and go and marry a healthy lady . That man as described by the wife will never do anything like that..

And, sex issue should be a problem they solve together.. Not something you tell your busy husband to solve by himself!!!

I am beginning to believe that love is fake in most Marriage!!!!

pocohantas:


Bukatyne can you beat this?

So, the idea is to coverup their poor stroke games and small penis. Subjecting a daughter of Zion to a lifetime of poor sex.

Isn't this marriage built on false impressions?

You are right, very selfish entities. I wonder how many of them are out there.

bukatyne:


Male ke?

Abeg, every spirit of transgender, I rebuke and reject!

MissGodOwn:
I'm sorry, I thought u were a male.

Dayodragon:



So you read that the wife just saw the corper and without sleeping with him? and she had d gut to tell a man who paid her dowry?? What disrespect, irrational and stupidity is greater than that?
To absurd you tried to cover her in the incident. She received what she wanted.. nonsense

bukatyne:


Why?

Mandeyy:
That woman has a high libido. Besides, she should have sought a solution to her man's problem with him. That's love. Some women complain that their husbands don't provide for their families, but this man does. I don't blame the guy who said that it's good to marry a virgin. The problem with this woman isn't totally her man, but the previous relationship she had while in school, where the guy hit her hard. So, she used that yardstick to judge her husband, not knowing that all fingers aren't equal. When it comes to virgins, both of you will learn together, because she hasn't been exposed to big dicks. But in the case of women who have done it with several men, if their husbands don't match up their games, it becomes a serious problem.

bukatyne:


And they were not having it before?

And when did multiple sex partners make husbands good in bed? It is NOT of previous partners that makes a husband a good lover; it is the attention to detail, thoughfulness, love for his wife, unselfishness, creativity and open mind that makes him one.

A virgin husband with the above characteristics would make a better lover than a used up man who is bringing not but the baggage from his numerous previous lovers to the table.

And I prefer virgin lovers. Let us explore together. Don't bring thousands of demons to the matrimonial bed.

Was the husband in the OP a virgin to say it was because he lacked experience?

Go and read the book of Solomon in the Bible and come back to me.

MissGodOwn:
Ur moniker for starters n u really wrote like one.

bukatyne:


I have a bright big F in front of my moniker. I guess you are not Yoruba else you can easily guess one of my names.

I write like a man how?

MissGodOwn:
I would never support adultery no matter the reasons, the woman was wrong, very very very wrong.
All I'm saying is that the man shouldn't have being adamant about the whole issue, money isn't just enough to make a happy marriage.

eni4real:
I am afraid, a sexually a inexperienced man will be too "inadequate" for this type of lady..

She was sent to school for education but she spent all of her time sleeping with guys who have successfully discovered different erogenous Zone in her Vagina. . She can never be satisfied by a man who does the basic sexing!!!

She has successfully turned marriage to a glorified Prison where the husband is sentenced to hard labour of satisfying all the erogenous zones created by her student boyfriend....

She even have the audacity to leave her 3 children to pursue an irresponsible Corper..

She is a shame to womanhood!!!!


Sex issue is a couple thing... You don't tell your busy husband to fix it alone... You solve it together unless there was love lost between the 2 of them!!!

Love is a scam!!!

MissGodOwn:
Don't worry, can't start explaining, but I loved ur analysis. Keep it up. Goodnight.

Michellekabod2:

The thought of a woman being sexually liberated is nightmare to some men. If they don't bully and slut sham you they will lurk around reminding you of how you are cheated by nature and the edge they have over you as regards to sexuality. Whilst I doubt many will be enlightened, I believe they should leave ladies alone to make choices they themselves will live with it outcome. If you aren't gonna marry a sexually active woman that ain't ashamed of herself,then at least leave her alone,you aren't the one to bear the consequences(if at all they are any) for her.

bukatyne:


Ki ni mo ra nigba e Eniola?

So you agree that sex is a couple's thing?

Do you know these people because you are taking it P?

From the story, she slept with only one guy in school , she did not spend her time sleeping about and why should the husband be content with basic sex? The woman he wants to marry forever?

You see, this is the classic behaviour of the natural human. We put our best foot forward in temporal things and begin to slack in more permanent things.

Why should ex-boyfriends see the best of a woman's youth, attentiveness, beauty etc? Why should ex-girlfriends see the best of a man's care, sexual prowess and love?

Wouldn't it make more sense if we keep these things for our spouses whom we intend to spend forever with?

eni4real:
Sex issues should be solved by both of them!! It should be seen as a problem to solve together!!
The lady aft immature and irresponsible to the point of comparing his husband to her irresponsible student boyfriend and an idle Corper!!!

She is a stupid woman afterall!!!

If she has sex organ problems, do you think the husband will leave her alone to marry a new wife??

The husband when described there will not do that!!!

That woman has misplaced priorities in this marriage!!!

Michellekabod2:

The thought of a woman being sexually liberated is nightmare to some men. If they don't bully and slut sham you they will lurk around reminding you of how you are cheated by nature and the edge they have over you as regards to sexuality. Whilst I doubt many will be enlightened, I believe they should leave ladies alone to make choices they themselves will live with it outcome. If you aren't gonna marry a sexually active woman that ain't ashamed of herself,then at least leave her alone,you aren't the one to bear the consequences(if at all they are any) for her.

eni4real:
Ex Boyfriends have no responsibility of providing for a wife and 3 Children.. He may not be a serious student sef.. Idling around taking Horse Power, Marijuana and Tramadol to explore different erogenous Zone in the Lady..
Have time to watch porn and practice all the sex style he learnt on the lady while the lady was enjoying the pleasures the bring!!!

The lady was supposed to marry him... But she knows that the guy is only good for sex.. He has nothing else to offer as far being a real man is concerned!!!

Such lady will not settle for those that have increased their sexual appetite to a very high level..

They want hardworking men who are responsible in all front and still expect him to have the same sexual prowess as the student Boyfriend and the idle more youthful Corper??

How about that!?

That husband is trying, he was even giving her MouthAction, what else does she want... Stroke game??

I hope that man does not die of stroke in an attempt to add stroke games to all his routine daily activities to keep wealth up!!!

Solution: Both of them should fix the sex issue.. They should seek help.. It is their problems.. The woman has no marital right to leave the husband alone on an issue like this!!!

The selfish one here is the Woman , trust me...

She relegate her husband and 3 Children just because she want the erogenous zones (created by his student Boyfriend) satisfied!!!

Shame on her!!!!