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Hello please I need advice.

There is this guy I met on Facebook and we became friends. Just casual friends tho. He started developing feelings for me along the line. He's been on my neck for marriage since 2 years now. He's ok with my physical challenge no doubt but I'm scared cos of my past experience. I had decided that I'm done with relationship/marriage. There is nothing I've not done to discourage him from me but he wouldn't give up on me. He even sent his brother and sister to talk to me.

I noticed since the beginning of this year I started developing feelings and felt I should give him a chance but I'm still scared.

Please I don't know if my feelings is based on his persistence or love. I am scared of making mistake cos I'm too emotional. I don't like to be hurt by anyone cos it affects me badly.

Please what are the signs to look out for to know it will end well.

Begging a girl for TWO years to be your responsibility and she’s still asking questions to reject you.
The woman I must beg for 2 years to marry me must have golds adorned round her waist.

just give him a chance maybe he is really interested that is why he even send her brother and sister to beg u

have u too already have sex before?

Iluvlife:
Hello please I need advice.

There is this guy I met on Facebook and we became friends. Just casual friends tho. He started developing feelings for me along the line. He's been on my neck for marriage since 2 years now. He's ok with my physical challenge no doubt but I'm scared cos of my past experience. I had decided that I'm done with relationship/marriage. There is nothing I've not done to discourage him from me but he wouldn't give up on me. He even sent his brother and sister to talk to me.

I noticed since the beginning of this year I started developing feelings and felt I should give him a chance but I'm still scared.

Please I don't know if my feelings is based on his persistence or love. I am scared of making mistake cos I'm too emotional. I don't like to be hurt by anyone cos it affects me badly.

Please what are the signs to look out for to know it will end well.

since you begin to have feelings for him, it will be healthy for you to give him a chance

annolomy:
have u too already have sex before?

No

Iluvlife:
No

Nawao. Some men dey mumu o.

2 years!

The guy must have high expectations by now. He has set himself up for disappointment.

AfroKnight:
2 years!

The guy must have high expectations by now. He has set himself up for disappointment.

I pity his disappointment in advance.

no risk no fun

Iluvlife:
No

Give him a chance.. For a man to be on ur neck for 2 years isn't little. Later u will marry the wrong man and be crying foul.. A good man is waiting n u wil ignore him....

Later, u go dey cry all men are wicked

You can give it a try girl! You never know what life has in store for you...

Davash222:
Nawao. Some men dey mumu o.

What's your point exactly. Are you saying she should have slept with him?

2 years Na swear ne

What's your physical challenge? You have to give love a chance someday. We all need someone and you should be happy someone is crazy about you. Many people don't have people crazy about them. Take the risk and give the relationship a chance