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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Nobody: 3:57pm On Jan 28, 2020
Awon oloshi dede angry
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Edusouls(m): 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2020
Wahala women everywhere, haba what’s happening, at this rate of headache, troubles and misery for men we will soon go extinct, the women won’t even see husband to marry again..
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Nobody: 3:58pm On Jan 28, 2020
Please give the girl my number,I’m not getting any younger and need a wife

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by lavylilly: 4:01pm On Jan 28, 2020
cool
eni4real:
Fo how long do you intend to make your husband to be like this??
Maximum 2 years, his eyes will be opened!!!
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Dayg88(m): 4:03pm On Jan 28, 2020
Most of you guys are not getting his message. He said his wife has the habit of always running to her parents at the sight of small challenges.

This is what I will advise you. You need to consider what she wants also, considering what you want to spend on honeymoon. You will still have the discussion with her folks and I feel you should let them know what your budget for the wedding is. If they decide to help, don't reject the offer. It is a win-win situation for you. Most importantly, discuss with your intended. Let her know that you guys need to face your issues by yourself and not looking for a safe haven to run to. If she makes it a habit of always doing that and she is not willing to change, you guys will have a lot of things to argue about in marriage.



Marrying into a rich family is a problem, you only need to have an understanding with whom you are getting married to, so as to get the respect you deserve. Marrying into a poor family is worse

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Reference(m): 4:05pm On Jan 28, 2020
Rather marry from a wealthy family. A family of values.
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Keiyadosh: 4:05pm On Jan 28, 2020
Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!
u re the mumu....So it is only virgin women that deserve something good??like the man that wants to marry is a virgin Himself....He 'd rather spend money giving his wife the best treatment than spend it feeding gluttons that don't give a Bleep about him and his marriage...How is he a mumu for that logic??

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by tunize(m): 4:06pm On Jan 28, 2020
Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!
Bros i tink sey na only me see am oooh.
This one is not low key na
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Afrikween(f): 4:07pm On Jan 28, 2020
Oga your friend is in for doom, they’re not married and she’s already behaving like this. I seriously pity your friend....
bamangar:
Story shared on Twitter by @the_onismate

I was talking with a friend few days back and he said anytime I'm ready to get married, I shouldn't marry any woman from a very rich family with so much attachment to her family. I asked why, he began narrating his wedding journey ordeal.
He's about to wed his woman. He only has N4m but intends spending N150 (court wedding and then feeding the 50 guests they are inviting. Then use N2m for honeymoon in Dubai. But bride no gree. She wants a big wedding.

Upcoming wife said either a big wedding or nothing. And her estimate for the big wedding is N5m.
Upcoming wife said if my guy can't bring out money for the big wedding, she would meet her dad for support. Well, she came from a rich family, her dad will be willing to roll out the cash. But my guy has refused. It would be a crash and dent on his image for upcomingwife to request money from her dad for their wedding.
Few closed family & friends had asked him to yield to up-coming wife's demands for her dad to sponsor the wedding. But my guy said from inception of the relationship, any slightest challenges, she always runs to her dad for solutions and he doesn't like it. He wants to start limiting her going to her parents to seek for solutions to every problems they have.

The girls parents are willing to foot wedding bills just to give their daughter her dream wedding. My guy has refused. Wedding preparations is on hold. My guy no gree, upcoming wife and her rich family no gree.

https://mobile.twitter.com/The_Onismate/status/1222036512394620928

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Isoduwa(m): 4:07pm On Jan 28, 2020
Fish with bone

Na you know
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Ebenezar2020(m): 4:08pm On Jan 28, 2020
Awon depe arindin!
Idiotic talk.
All i see here is one low budget ass broke guy with a huge ego bigger than his head.
Iranu oshi

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Nobody: 4:08pm On Jan 28, 2020
Money, you dont have. Yet you have pride.

Why spend 2m for honeymoon and peanut on wedding. Such crazy level of reasoning is why he is poor in the first place.

The lady shouldnt marry such a disaster. Wedding should be perfectly as the lady wants and the father-in-law will gladly sponsor the honeymoon.

Guy doesnt have sense.

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Alekai: 4:09pm On Jan 28, 2020
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Ebenezar2020:
Awon depe arindin!
Idiotic talk.
All i see here is one low budget ass broke guy with a huge ego bigger than his head.
Iranu oshi
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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Mypeople2(m): 4:09pm On Jan 28, 2020
bamangar:
Story shared on Twitter by @the_onismate

I was talking with a friend few days back and he said anytime I'm ready to get married, I shouldn't marry any woman from a very rich family with so much attachment to her family. I asked why, he began narrating his wedding journey ordeal.
He's about to wed his woman. He only has N4m but intends spending N150 (court wedding and then feeding the 50 guests they are inviting. Then use N2m for honeymoon in Dubai. But bride no gree. She wants a big wedding.

Upcoming wife said either a big wedding or nothing. And her estimate for the big wedding is N5m.
Upcoming wife said if my guy can't bring out money for the big wedding, she would meet her dad for support. Well, she came from a rich family, her dad will be willing to roll out the cash. But my guy has refused. It would be a crash and dent on his image for upcomingwife to request money from her dad for their wedding.
Few closed family & friends had asked him to yield to up-coming wife's demands for her dad to sponsor the wedding. But my guy said from inception of the relationship, any slightest challenges, she always runs to her dad for solutions and he doesn't like it. He wants to start limiting her going to her parents to seek for solutions to every problems they have.

The girls parents are willing to foot wedding bills just to give their daughter her dream wedding. My guy has refused. Wedding preparations is on hold. My guy no gree, upcoming wife and her rich family no gree.

https://mobile.twitter.com/The_Onismate/status/1222036512394620928
The title of this passage is PRIDE ..and it kills faster than HIV & AIDS

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Nickymichy(m): 4:11pm On Jan 28, 2020
He should allow d girl to have her way.. But after d wedding.. He needs to sit wix d father and make him see reasons why he objected to him footing d bill in d first place...he also need to tell d father DAT he would not always b der for d daughter...she should b contented wix whatever d husband gives her...I just believed he needs to speak with d father more..because women no dey reason well when dey know der is option somewhere...
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Nobody: 4:12pm On Jan 28, 2020
I support ur frd all d way.
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by 234GT(m): 4:13pm On Jan 28, 2020
I am confused here. Very confused. Who organises a wedding? Is it the bride's family or the groom himself?
I think the bride's father is the one to organise the wedding based in his capabilities, and the grooms family is to provide financial support to the brides parents.
If my thoughts are wrong, someone should PLEASE enlighten me.

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Qadaffi2idiamin: 4:18pm On Jan 28, 2020
Buhari sef grin
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by eteba(m): 4:19pm On Jan 28, 2020
The only problem i have with this story is that it begins with......."a friend of mine"
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by excel001(m): 4:20pm On Jan 28, 2020
234GT:
I am confused here. Very confused. Who organises a wedding? Is it the bride's family or the groom himself?
I think the bride's father is the one to organise the wedding based in his capabilities, and the grooms family is to provide financial support to the brides parents.
If my thoughts are wrong, someone should PLEASE enlighten me.
Bride's father organises wedding? which part of the country are you from? that will help us in answering your question.

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by SlimzDboss(m): 4:21pm On Jan 28, 2020
The bride’s family mostly takes care of the wedding with little support from the groom. I don’t understand what is going on here

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Jaqenhghar: 4:22pm On Jan 28, 2020
Davash222:
Upcoming husband is a mumu man!
You have 4M and you want to use 2M for honeymoon
Upcoming wife fit no be virgin and you want to spent 2M for honeymoon.
You want low key wedding but high class honeymoon. Didirin!
So na only virgin dem dey spend money for. SMH
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by excel001(m): 4:23pm On Jan 28, 2020
Vortex369:
Money, you dont have. Yet you have pride.

Why spend 2m for honeymoon and peanut for wedding. Such crazy level of reasoning is why he is poor in the first place.

The lady shouldnt marry such a disaster. Wedding should be perfectly as the lady wants and the father-in-law will gladly sponsor the honeymoon.

Guy doesnt have sense.
Did u say someone that worth 4m is poor in this Buhari's regime? You never see poverty be dat
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by juman(m): 4:24pm On Jan 28, 2020
Nah fake story joo.
In wedding, its the ladys family that is sending their daughter out to her husband, so the wedding expenses are on them.
So they do the wedding according to their capacity. If they desire big wedding, the expenses are on them.

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by 234GT(m): 4:26pm On Jan 28, 2020
excel001:

Bride's father organises wedding? which part of the country are you from? that will help us in answering your question.

I am yoruba from Ogun state.

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Tchange1(m): 4:28pm On Jan 28, 2020
bamangar:
Story shared on Twitter by @the_onismate

I was talking with a friend few days back and he said anytime I'm ready to get married, I shouldn't marry any woman from a very rich family with so much attachment to her family. I asked why, he began narrating his wedding journey ordeal.
He's about to wed his woman. He only has N4m but intends spending N150 (court wedding and then feeding the 50 guests they are inviting. Then use N2m for honeymoon in Dubai. But bride no gree. She wants a big wedding.

Upcoming wife said either a big wedding or nothing. And her estimate for the big wedding is N5m.
Upcoming wife said if my guy can't bring out money for the big wedding, she would meet her dad for support. Well, she came from a rich family, her dad will be willing to roll out the cash. But my guy has refused. It would be a crash and dent on his image for upcomingwife to request money from her dad for their wedding.
Few closed family & friends had asked him to yield to up-coming wife's demands for her dad to sponsor the wedding. But my guy said from inception of the relationship, any slightest challenges, she always runs to her dad for solutions and he doesn't like it. He wants to start limiting her going to her parents to seek for solutions to every problems they have.

The girls parents are willing to foot wedding bills just to give their daughter her dream wedding. My guy has refused. Wedding preparations is on hold. My guy no gree, upcoming wife and her rich family no gree.

https://mobile.twitter.com/The_Onismate/status/1222036512394620928


Well this is the problem and always will be

1. Your guy is doing the right he shouldn't accept the offer let the girl leave asap
2. The young man should marry someone with vision
3. Wedding can't and never will be called marriage.
4. The lady is not ripe for marriage.
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by Mizwisdom(f): 4:28pm On Jan 28, 2020
N150 fr wedding? bro your destiny is in need of supernatural change. Say no to poverty in your life

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Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by midnighter(f): 4:31pm On Jan 28, 2020
The girl is stupid...why do you insist on embarrassing your husband smh

But on the other hand, it's not a crime for the parents to contribute to the wedding/honeymoon. Or even pay for a car.

It's actually normal for them to gift you with these things as a gesture of goodwill since you are just starting your life as a married couple.

I'm more concerned about the fact that she has a habit of rushing to her parents for money when the man clearly doesn't like it
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by seangy4konji: 4:31pm On Jan 28, 2020
donstan18:

honey moon ko??

Sugar sun ni.
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by jeff1607(m): 4:31pm On Jan 28, 2020
mezarddinny:
that man must be a fool. you wife's father wants to sponsor your wedding and you are angry? instead of you to pocket your money and let him spend his, invest your money well and when the gain comes, you will have your own respect and probably refund his money if you care to.


while some men are looking for a wife whose family can help their success you are forming strong head, don't you know that marrying into a rich family has more advantages than disadvantages? oh i think i get the kind of man he is, the one that wants his woman to worship the ground he walks on because of his money, since the wife is also from a rich family, he won't get that and he is insecure.


my brothers use your heads o, the rich are getting richer because they make smarter decisions, every decision they make is about how they can multiply their money, they don't let emotions or anything becloud their judgement, they must make money even if it is by letting their wife's family think lowly of them, once they make the money they are looking for, they challenge their in-laws and take back their respect. osinbajo married into an influential family but now he is the vice president and his in-laws cant say shit to him


Are you married?
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by mmsen: 4:32pm On Jan 28, 2020
In other parts of the world the bride's family pays because everyone understands that it is women who obsess over weddings and not men.

Let the bride's father pay for this mess and unburden yourself.
Re: He's Having A Problem With His Wife To Be And Her Rich Parents by miqos02(m): 4:32pm On Jan 28, 2020
stobery:
I support the guy 100%

I rather do spend all 4m on d wedding than allow him sponsor my wedding

I will then make him chairman of the occasion so he can donate big for honey moon


Sense will not kill me grin
what if he no donate cash for the ceremony? Some people can be wicked

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