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Champneys:
Ok.

First class madness

After quoting the long story, na just OK u fit use complement am

kill the bitch..

"HMMMM"

SEX IS FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY;

SEX IS MEANT FOR MARRIED COUPLES ONLY, IF YOU ARE NOT YET MARRIED FORGET ABOUT SEX. SEX OUTSIDE MARRIAGE IS A CURSE TO ANYONE WHO INDULGE IN IT.
BUT REMEMBER: WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND.
IF YOU ARE IN NEED OF SEX, THEN GET MARRIED.

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

just die. It's easier that way.

SangoOlukosoOba:
Iku Ogun ni pa akinkanju
Iku Odo ni pa Omuwe

Na Ogun go kill you las Las.

After using your penis to fvck her well and ejaculate inside her, you now came to Nairaland to seek advice.

Sango will visit you definitely.

Better carry your cross and move on.

Better topics need to be discussed.

Haba, Babalawo. Take am easy now. Na your sister im impregnate?

Well I think you gotta have to tell noni, but she won't kill u, she's just joking and most importantly, u gotta show how regretful u re.
I believe she won't walk away (65%) cuz family members knowing bout u guys already . And it's a plus if you re close to her sister or probably a close friend of her, u could talk through such person ( often works,seen few of it around here)
But if she gets to know by other means, then nah wahala Sha.

IcraveLove:
You don't even sound remorseful for what you have done. So I will say it's good this happened, you would have cheated later on. Better she finds someone else that respect and love her.
How can you say you are planning to get married and you are cheating?
I caste and bind men like you from coming my way IJN amen.

Going by your last statement I am sure you are not married yet. I am not sure why you are so bitter but I assure you of a good man if you yourself can change this your apprehensive nature and allow yourself inner peace.
A

my advice for you is simple, if u re still in d compound she knows move out, change ur number mk ur self unavailable to her, go off social media, she will terminate it herself bt if she still has access to u n u try to engage ur bae my brother u loose, i have been in dis situation twice in d past n now am happily married, if u allow dis girl to use u n toy with ur life n relationship na u sabi

"HMMMM"

DEAR BOYS, BE THE TYPE OF GUY YOU WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE WITH.

Typical Nigerian raised street dude: This one too will have the mouth to discuss women matter. Who’s a virgin and why abortion is a sin.

Bro the mistake is made already so the plan truth is now for you to come openly to you girl friend, truth can,t fail you, it it does fine. Please don't compound your problem by hiding your foolish mistake. Someone said something I grab a broken relationshiop is better then a broken marriage thus if you conceal the truth today you will may have a broken home later. Lesson men control that man inbetween.

"HMMMM"

WOMEN ARE SUPPOSED TO BE BEAUTIFUL AND HARD TO CATCH, LIKE BUTTERFLIES. BUT MOST OF YOU ALL ARE LIKE MOSQUITOES, ANNOYING AND EASY TO SMASH.

"HMMMM"

LOVE IS PATIENT AND KIND; LOVE DOES NOT ENVY OR BOAST; IT IS NOT ARROGANT OR RUDE. IT DOES NOT REJOICE AT WRONGDOING, BUT REJOICES WITH THE TRUTH. LOVE BEARS ALL THINGS, BELIEVES ALL THINGS, HOPES ALL THINGS, ENDURES ALL THINGS.

The plan is to keep milking you. Use ur brain.
She will come asking for another money.
But you messed up.
Tell your GF and apologize and move on with your life if she agrees.
Watch out for the girl wen she's carrying the pregnancy to the point of birth to ascertain if you really have a baby with her.

Scare the hell outta with some family traditions thing, tell her ur first child being a son must be born in a village, with some traditional things attached. She can't allow another man on her for 7 year after birth or both of them die. You can't marry her with pregnancy or baby else both of you will die poor

chigoizie7:
When I have the strength, I will come back to advice you.

Meanwhile let me discharge this girl that came over, I no Bleep again. Your story touch me. Few minutes of ecstasy with lifetime regrets and guilts. I no get babe ooh.

Take this as a warning sign.

Bros you Don enter scammer syndicate, sha dey wait for another billing soon

franchasng:
You better enjoy it now that you are single oh because once you marry eh, some madam can be more dangerous than FBI, Cremlin and MOSSAD combined!

No woman can be strong on me. None. Not even one created woman

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

Apologies to everyone for quoting this long BS. But guyman you fuc.k up. Dude I'm fucking 35, got a great high paying job, have multiple streams of income including a fucking company and I will happily give up an arm and a leg for what you've got, a good well-behaved working class girl minus the attitude baggage and you had to let your prick control your brains? While all I keep getting are shallow slay queens in need of gratification and you freaking struck gold and threw it to the pigs? Well bear your cross, since you couldn't afford 100naira condoms to protect undesirably spreading your seed everywhere you see fertile land(make I forget HIV sef, since nobody dey fear am again). My advice, you are a cheat and you will continue cheating even after marriage. So bear your cross, try to learn your lesson and be more descrete when playing away matches. Tell your woman the truth and bear the consequences of your actions.
By the way for safety and sanity sake, pack out of that apartment, if you don't know why by now, you no well.


Guys are always deceived by beauty, just know that once a woman is above 35years, her beauty starts fading and she'll need lots of creams and makeups to hid the imperfections, but men can still look young and fit even at 60. So being deceived by a woman's beauty shows how childish and unexposed you are as a man.

]Fear of giving an ugly girl belle dey fear me o. My guy u De game,dats way I no dey look any babe wey wowo

Let her give birth first. You might not be the father after all. She may have other lovers she was dating collecting 100k from 10 of you that's 1million. It's a good business oo.

Jeffmonti:
My concern is what my girlfriend will do to herself, if she leaves I’ll have my self to blame and move on. if i have my way i will pay child support to for the child when he/she come out after a DNA test of course. But I’ll never marry a desperate woman. I was thinking of calling Lola on another phone and set up a meeting to let her i know I’ll pay child support. But not sure if i should wait for the child to be born first or just do it today. I have been really restless for many weeks.

Brothers learn from my demise abeg

"HMMMM"

LADIES!! STOP THE LAYING,PLAYING, DELAYING AND START PRAYING**** ANY MAN WHO IS SERIOUS ABOUT YOU CAN PATIENTLY WAIT UNTIL U BECOME HIS BRIDE. GOING TO BED WITH HIM WILL NOT MAKE HIM TO END UP MARRYING YOU. A SERIOUS MAN WILL ALWAYS LUV AND RESPECT UR WISH SO STOP GIVING URSELF SO CHEAP!. THE MORE U LAY WITH THE MAN,THE MORE HE PLAYS WITH YOU AND THE MORE YOU DELAY UR MARRIAGE. ANY MAN WHO IS TRULY SERIOUS ABOUT YOU, WILL ALSO BE VERY ZEALOUS TO MARRY YOU. IF HE CONSIDERS YOU AS MISS RIGHT, HE WILL DO WHAT IS RIGHT.

The deed is done no reversal. Come out clean and try to prove to her you will never make such mistake again. Dedicate yourself to building a happy family with her (if she agrees difficult but not impossible).

1. Don't tell your girlfriend.

2. Look for something to complain about the apartment and move out.

3. Change your phone no and look for and keep a low profile on social media.

4. Still don't tell your babe even after marriage.

5. She is still holding to the signed agreement that she won't disturb you anymore. Let her be!

6. The baby might not be yours after all or she might put it the boyfriend's head.

7. Watch out for the woman you marrying cos she might kill you in the future when you cheat on her. For real.

8. Go for HIV test and stop this stupidity.

IcraveLove:
Please break up with your girlfriend and focus on your baby mama.

There’s nothing to focus on with his baby mama besides the child when born. He doesn’t want her bt his gf.

He has two options, tell the truth or lie and tell her after the marriage. It’s terrible bt that might be the only way he can still marry his gf and she can later forgive him when married, that’s if she doesn’t make good her threat and kill ur ass. Lol

3rd option is breakup with his gf for no reason and later explain the reason. If she forgives fine and if not let’s all move on peacefully. Life goes on. He will learn a hard lesson.

When u hv a great gf don’t go around fvcking every thing in skirt it makes no sense. Moreso with unprotected sex with a gal in the marriage age bracket and u want her to terminate it. She most likely won’t.

get yourself tested for hiv and consider marrying Lola

You guys have strength o.

That so-called NDA you signed will be thrown out in a court in 3 seconds.

If you think the matter has ended, think again. Unless your mistress marries her bf or terminates the pregnancy, that baby will forever be yours.

Your mistress played you and had every right to. As for your fiancé, I truly believe that she would kill you in your sleep.


Now for all my team no sex before marriage, here is yet another proof that that nonsense will not work. You don't starve a lion and keep said lion in a pen of goats.

Jeffmonti:
About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help!

This might turn out to be a lengthy read, please bear with me. The bashing and insults will be unnecessary as i have already told myself hurtful things a thousand times over.

So i am 29 and have a girlfriend who’s 25 we are both graduates; she’s a nurse and i am a practicing engineer and we’ve been dating for 3+ years now and preparations are underway to tie the knot this year God willing. Something happened last year, she suggested i move to a bigger apartment so that we can start buying household items and everything necessary to start a home as we are looking to get married soon which we did; i got a bigger place, met her parents she met mine. In a nutshell everything seems to be going well, we even started a business together and set to take on the future together before the devil struck (i take blames for my actions as i am not overly religious)

Around June last year, i met a girl (very fine girl) in the new area i moved to, although i have been seeing the girl around but one day as i was driving in i saw her hiding somewhere close to my compound avoiding the rain with her friends so i took them in until the rain subsided we exchanged contacts and started texting on WhatsApp a few days later. And soon after we started having sex (protected sex), prior to that time i never cheated on my girlfriend.

The sex continued, up to 2 times a week sometimes 3 as it was relatively easy as she lived very close and my girlfriend only visits on the weekend and never sleeps out (she’s from a very good and wealthy family with proper moral upbringing). Most evenings when return from work conji just do me one kind i don cross street other times she calls until we became comfortable having unprotected sex

So late October 2019, the new girl (I’ll call her Lola) texted me that’s she’s not feeling too well and i asked her to visit the hospital to run a test to know what to treat. She came back with a pregnancy test result proving she’s already 3 weeks pregnant, i was sure it was mine but i didn’t panic as she had a bf and i have my gf we were just for the sex at least that’s what we told each other.

So i asked her to remove the pregnancy, but got the shocker when she said she’s never going to remove the pregnancy that she’s 27 and have no desire to marry me or stay with me but she’s going to have the child. Omo my heart flipped. I begged her for like 3 weeks until she got mad and stopped taking my calls, she even moved away from her apartment. So i texted her and arranged a meeting, we sat down and discussed at length but she was still bent on keeping it, i got furious and told her i am not ready to be part of the child’s life if she’s going through with it as i see no reason why she wants to have my child when she knows we are NEVER going to be together, that was when she said she had already told her family that i am not interested in the child and they support her to keep it and let the child bear their family name. I discussed the matter with two friends a boy and a girl and the asked me to let her have the child first.

One month passed fast forward to early December, Lola called 6 times i was so shocked. I couldn’t take her calls. She texted that she’s ready to terminate the pregnancy since i am wicked and unconcerned she rained all manner of derogatory words but i was only concern with her decision to let go. I called and we agreed to meet the following day, I skipped work that day and met with her and her elder sister and elder sister’s friend. The sister and her friend were so mean but i was unmoved; i don already fuckup and ready to take anything to let it all go away because the knowledge of things will destroy my girlfriend.

So Lola entered my vehicle and we drove out, on our way to the hospital for her to terminate the pregnancy plus treatment she’ll take afterwards and for the damages i have caused her. She’s going to need 150k from me, i was furious and told her i don’t have that kind of money talk less of handing it over to her for something like this (i sure don’t know what i cost but i know it’s not up to 50k). She said if i don’t give her what she want she’s going to have the baby and that i should be thankful that she’s coming up with this that if she had listen to her friends advices she would have moved to my house with all sort of troubles (she was right) but i didn’t give in just yet. I dropped her off and ask her to have the child that am not going to give her the money as i don’t have it (I get the money sha).

So two days passed, she called again and after many arguments we agreed at 100k, made her to sign a NDA not to bother me again and all, I transferred her the 100k that night, she confirmed receipt and promised to go with it the following morning and that was the last I have heard or seen or her since then, until 3 weeks ago when another of her sister called from Canada and was asking if i am Me, that she’s been seeking my contact for a while now that Lola friend had to steal the number Lola’s phone and pass it to her as Lola has been hiding my phone number from the rest of the family and she doesn’t know the arrangement i have had with her but i should know that she’s having the child, she just thought i should know that i have a child somewhere when the baby eventually drops.

Knowing fully well that i am a shitty person to have done something terrible to myself and my girlfriend and all our future plans because of cheap sex, but I’ll be a more terribly bad person to have knowledge of a child somewhere and not be in his/her life. I called Lola but she didn’t take i texted her about her sisters call she called back to know who called and was furious, she ended the call (I guess to call her sister back) and called back again in about 20mins and asked me not to ever call her line again. I replied her text she should tell her family not call me as well. I have dodged to her apartment building a coupe times but she’s not been around for weeks as i was made to believe.

So i bought a ring to engage my girl few weeks ago but had to hold first to see how things play out, i can’t go ahead and marry my girlfriend with this kind of secret untold; that will be wickedness from the pit of hell and i still don’t know how to break it to her, it will destroy her.

I jokingly painted a similar scenery to my girlfriend; her response was: she will not marry me because if she does she will kill me in my sleep. That everybody is expecting us to get married this year, she now have high respect from her family because of me and this kind of thing happens both of us will die. Omo fear catch me.

Fellow Nairalanders, this is my predicament please advice a stupid brother. Insults are welcome as I hope to pick a thing or two from your comments. MODs please push this up biko.

healthserve:
No woman can be strong on me. None. Not even one created woman

Beware of Maryam Sanders colleagues, they are too many, and worst of, some operate when you are deep asleep, respect your wife even if you are a lion, that's if you want to live long to terrorize more dens

But let the truth be told,the op no try at all

It's a super story, a real super story, I hope you are prepared for my rant.

First of all I want you to take a good hard look at yourself, you have a fiance, you are preparing to marry her, you moved in together but it didn't take you 2 weeks to start knacking another woman. I don't think you should be in any relationship at all .

This isn't some Js2 relationship your d!ck has ruined but your fiance and you still want to be with her. If I'm being honest no sensible girl will want stay with you after that because how can she trust you not to sleep with every Aminat, Abimbola and Adaeze you see?