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I was going through something and noticed that my husband has paid for 6months gold subscription to tinder last month. We have a little baby. I have been thinking on how to confront him about this. I cant believe he would do something like this when I am struggling with sleepless night with a baby. I will confront him once I get enough evidence even though I won't be able to trust him ever again.
NB. We live outside Nigeria

Do you live in Nig. I'm curious cos it's rare for Nigerians to be on tinder. Guess we are evolving daily ni

He might be there for another reason. Might be trying to make both end meet.

damdam995:
He might be there for another reason. Might be trying to make both end meet.

What? As a male ashewo?

budaatum:
What? As a male ashewo?

Some issues get to nairaland and get worsened

Gloriagee:
Do you live in Nig. I'm curious cos it's rare for Nigerians to be on tinder. Guess we are evolving daily ni

Nope. We live outside Nigeria

damdam995:
He might be there for another reason. Might be trying to make both end meet.

With this your post her sleepless nights just increased...

jess2019:
I was going through something and noticed that my husband has paid for 6months gold subscription to tinder last month. We have a little baby. I have been thinking on how to confront him about this. I cant believe he would do something like this when I am struggling with sleepless night with a baby. I will confront him once I get enough evidence even though I won't be able to trust him ever again.
NB. We live outside Nigeria

maybe a yahoo boy used his card . Humans never learn. Trust no one

You can always humour him that u have seen that he has joined Tinder and that u want to join too... that he should teach you what to do and how to subscribe.. That u are willing to start his tutorial immediately

Hmm. Elders pls come. This one get as e be.

What is Tinder and what is it about?

OP, I think your relationship with your husband is not in top shape. Come on, if you guys are into each other. call, send texts, while away in the office/work, talk when together, do things together with good sex, chances that he will venture into such will be very slim. Chances are that he's seeking attention etc.

So, i'll advice don't make trouble out of it, if really value your union and wish to make it work. You both need to sit down and critically do a forensic check up on yourselves, tell yourselves what is failing and pray together to God to help you. Cheers!

What's Tinder?

What other evidence do you need apart from the confirmation of payment of 6 month gold subscription? Don't confront him in an aggressive manner tho. I've been there 3 months post partum n soooooo freaking sleep deprived and quite easily aggravated.

Girl, don't wait for him to act on his tinder membership. Ask him what he's doing on tinder n tell him even if he claims its mere flirtation, that it is unacceptable to you. Hes wasting family resources too n hope you've heard, na from clap dem dey take enter dance. In other words, nip all manner of crap in the bud.

Foodqueen:
What's Tinder?

dating site/services

Why will he be on Tinder?

1) He's trying to, or already committing adultery

2) He's a yahoo boy

3) One of the above

Now, investigate it quietly by getting his user name, register an account and contact him through Tinder, good luck

You what are u doing in tinder

Gloriagee:
Do you live in Nig. I'm curious cos it's rare for Nigerians to be on tinder. Guess we are evolving daily ni

Did you join before coming to this conclusion?
You must be joking.

There's an entire community of Nigerian users on Tinder, and at least 50% of the women on it state it clearly on their profiles that they're looking for hookups (with payment of course).

budaatum:
What? As a male ashewo?

I don’t really know what Tinder is (guess it’s some kind of meet/hook up site), but this seriously cracked me up!!!

I needed this now, thank you!

You know what, tease him a little and tell him that there is a new app a friend introduce to you and it's called Tinder, tell him you want to join and watch his reaction.

But as a wife and a mother, it's your duty to take control of your house, if you see an app like tinder and other dating/sex app on his phone, it's your duty to delete it.

Once he finds out that you have deleted the app, if he really loves you, he will come and apologise to you or do something that will make you happy, because he knows you have caught him already.

Waoh, all the peeps I know that are on tinder are outside the country including the Op. Most respondents on this thread also seemed unaware too. I never join o as I dont want my husband to open his own thread na

Yuck to those looking for hookups after payment. Glorified prostitution

crackkhaus:
Did you join before coming to this conclusion?
You must be joking.

There's an entire community of Nigerian users on Tinder, and at least 50% of the women on it state it clearly on their profiles that they're looking for hookups (with payment of course).

Gloriagee:
Waoh, all the peeps I know that are on tinder are outside the country including the Op. Most respondents on this thread also seemed unaware too. I never join o as I dont want my husband to open his own thread na

Yuck to those looking for hookups after payment. Glorified prostitution

Lol.. you never yuck finish.

You will be doubly surprised when you see some people you know around you after you register and turn on your phone's location which allows it to search for males/females within your location.

Something that was meant for casual dating by the developers, Nigerians have turned it into an exclusive hoe market for those on Gold or Plus subscription.

Na real wa

crackkhaus:
Lol.. you never yuck finish.

You will be doubly surprised when you see some people you know around you after you register and turn on your phone's location which allows it to search for males/females within your location.

Something that was meant for casual dating by the developers, Nigerians have turned it into an exclusive hoe market for those on Gold or Plus subscription.

What were you looking for when you found his subscription and where? And what exactly is your objective for confronting him? Go ahead and pour fuel on the fire. Single motherhood beckons.

*chuckle*

Gloriagee:
Waoh, all the peeps I know that are on tinder are outside the country including the Op. Most respondents on this thread also seemed unaware too. I never join o as I dont want my husband to open his own thread na

Yuck to those looking for hookups after payment. Glorified prostitution

i was once there all the babes in my areas on the island seem to have union price. 50k a night lol. Was only there to observe

Observer toh bad...

ednut1:
i was once there all the babes in my areas on the island seem to have union price. 50k a night lol. Was only there to observe

Kindly face take good care of yourself and the kid, don't give yourself hypertension please...

Vyolet:
What is Tinder and what is it about?

I think it's a dating app.. I'm not sure..

Men will always be men. Most of them cheat even if you are the best wife in the world. Don’t even beat yourself up about it, it happens to most women even if you look like Beyoncé.

What I will advise is, take care of your child and try to take care of yourself. Focus on you. If you have any male friends that you can confide in, to distract your mind then do it. Try to look after your appearance. Don’t make yourself miserable, getting premature wrinkles and making yourself old before your time for this man. Be happy and joyful. Eventually he will use his mouth to confess what he’s been up to.

Gloriagee:
Do you live in Nig. I'm curious cos it's rare for Nigerians to be on tinder. Guess we are evolving daily ni

U think
There are millions of Nigerians on Tinder
As a matter of fact Tinder us an ashawo app here in Nigeria
If U need call girls, just go to Tinder
Olosho wey dey there reach 10Billion

A married man has no business being on Tinder. Shameful.

Vyolet:
What is Tinder and what is it about?

It's a dating site/app with the reputation of being a "hookup" app, designed to facilitate sexual encounters.