[quote author=funmisticqueen2 post=86608781]eleyi gidi gan!!!

You need deliverance[/quote ahn she needs that and a mental institution. It is this stupid thug life she will that her child, to talk without sense. It is a pity.

funmisticqueen2:
Ubunja, come and carry your waste of space wife o.


Your case is hilarious.

dont mind the goat she could channel this energy in comedy her responses are just funny, but she is too dull for anything meaningful other than thuggery.

Ifyjos:
Miss toad that’s the only word you know and u have been repeating it from page 1 to 45 apart from that word what else do you know ? Hahahahahaha shame on you queen of multiple fake account stop advising yourself because that account also belongs to you fool go treat your mental health problem

that word befits you that’s why. Useless toad.

This is your other fake account you are advising yourself hahahhaha what shame I never knew mental health was real until I saw your case one person with multiple account talking to herself with her other account as if she were talking to other people hahahahahhah please admin take this mad woman away she need help as soon as possible schizophrenia is real ooo

[quote author=Ehibiggirl post=86609430][/quote]

You are the goat and your witch grandfather sexual object


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Ehibiggirl:
dont mind the goat she could channel this energy in comedy her responses are just funny, but she is too dull for anything meaningful other than thuggery.

[quote author=Ehibiggirl post=86609430][/quote] it's sad, that she is going to transmit poverty and ignorance to her daughter.

Let her case serve as a lesson to us. This is why we need to make better choices of who we allow into our hearts, our lives, our vaginas, our wombs and whose children we birth into this world

Leave my child out of this am not the one that made you not to have a man in your life and childless because my child is better than your stupid fake life , she is happily living with us her parents and we are training her better so she will be greater than me and her father so shut that dirty mouth of yours. Which better choice you will make when you have nowhere to escape because your witch grand father had been manipulating your life all your life and you are just waiting for you own death to come so you will be expired from this world . See the way your are liking your own comments with your other fake account if the admins were paying for the likes you get under your post , imagine 1 like for 1 millions I bet you would have become a multi billionaire by now hahahaha shame that you are not getting a kobo from it and at the end of the day you will go and beg money to buy foods and data what a shame. Ehibiggirl, funmisqueen and midnighter, nchwor one person living a different lifestyles on social media with fake accounts.

funmisticqueen2:
it's sad, that she is going to transmit poverty and ignorance to her daughter.

Let her case serve as a lesson to us. This is why we need to make better choices of who we allow into our hearts, our lives, our vaginas, our wombs and whose children we birth into this world

Ifyjos:
Leave my child out of this am not the one that made you not to have a man in your life and childless because my child is better than your stupid fake life , she is happily living with us her parents and we are training her better so she will be greater than me and her father so shut that dirty mouth of yours. Which better choice you will make when you have nowhere to escape because your witch grand father had been manipulating your life all your life and you are just waiting for you own death to come so you will be expired from this world . See the way your are liking your own comments with your other fake account if the admins was paying for the likes you get under your post , imagine 1 like for 1 millions I bet you would have become a multi billionaire by now hahahaha shame that you are not getting a kobo from it and at the end of the day you will go and beg money to buy foods and data what a shame. Ehibiggirl, funmisqueen and midnighter, nchwor one person living a different lifestyles on social media with fake accounts

Lol! Leave your child out of this but you cant leave me out of your psychotic posts? Did you see me quote you anywhere today

Looks like Im actually your own oxygen and not the other way around, have a nice day sweetie

Hahahahha ehibigirl now u have switch to your other fake account midnighter shame oooo , my post is your oxygen because for you to stoop so low by using all your fake accounts just to insult me it means that you cannot live without my post . I’m like your God the giver of your life at the moment . It feel good to know that there is one person with multiply fake account that cannot live without replying my post will all her fake posts hahahahaha , bitch you are a fan keep it up . Now switch back to your funmiwueen account then your ehibigirl account then you will switch back to midnighter what a low life you have

midnighter:


Lol! Leave your child out of this but you cant leave me out of your psychotic posts? Did you see me quote you anywhere today

Looks like Im actually your own oxygen and not the other way around, have a nice day sweetie

Ehibiggirl:
dont mind the goat she could channel this energy in comedy her responses are just funny, but she is too dull for anything meaningful other than thuggery.

you forgot that instead of offering advice many were offering blame before she started her rudeness.you don't know what it is to have a toxic sister that torments you for years,the psychological impact.

Most people attack her because she choose to stay with her man. Their anger here is they feel all this is for a man. They should leave the young naive girl alone.

I don't know what it is to be approached by a broke guy,have no experience in it,but I believe every dating is part of growing up. Its part of making mistakes and learning from it. Each failed relationship draws us closer to our life partner.
People condemning her may have done worse for guys.

If he were a rich guy will they attack the couples as they do? Take it from me,the judgemental comments she gets is not because she wronged her sister,but because the guy is broke.
We ladies can be selective on who we call desperate/pickmesha. If desperation/obsession is done for a rich dude,its deemed worth it. But if its done for a broke dude you are called names. Its not about your self dignity but his pocket.

There is a case of one moniker named ca.salinda that has been opening threads upon threads for a guy that clearly isn't in love with her but has been opting for how to dispose her,nobody calls her pickmesha/desperate even when she begs him to stay. Why? Because he is rich!

No one is asking how the baby is doing or asking her to write jamb as she is still young . all we are interested in is insulting her because of her broke boyfriend.

Ifyjos:
Hahahahha ehibigirl now u have switch to your other fake account midnighter shame oooo , my post is your oxygen because for you to stoop so low using all your fake accounts just to insult me it means a lot that you cannot live without my post . I’m like your God the giver of your life at the moment . It feel good to know that there is one person with multiply fake account that cannot live without replying my post will all her fake posts hahahahaha , bitch you are a fan keep it up . Now switch back to your funmiwueen account then your ehibigirl account then you will switch back to midnighter what a low life you have

babe its time you delete this thread and move on. It has served its purpose already. I guess you have gotten the advice you need or not.
You can't continue with this exchange of words especially with your fellow. Now focus on your daughter and if possible write jamb(you are still young just 21). That should be your concern now not replying people.

How us daughter? How is she doing ? And your sister?
I want to send you a PM to check up on you from time to time.

MurphyG1:

I followed your thread from beginning till date and I must commend your courage. I could tell that you love your boyfriend and your daughter so much that you can give up anything for them.

I'm not a judgemental person and will never judge you for what you did to your sister. At that time, you were younger and wanted to get back at her for all she did to you. Unfortunately you hit her too hard and the consequences of her maltreatment towards you is what she has seen today. I'm sure she herself has learnt a bigger lesson.

It's a good thing that you confessed and I hope it's not too late for her relationship to work again if they are truly meant for each other. Your action might even be a blessing in disguise who knows?
Did her fiance even try to confirm if the allegations were true? Or if it was a set up?

Anyways, back to you. Have you seen your mum's pastor to beg your people? How did you get your child back? How is your sister now and her fiance? Any luck? (Maybe your cousin will be able to hint you)

Last last, your people will reconcile with you. As you expected it won't be easy but they will. The did is done already and you all need to move forward.

Finally do take care of your daughter and yourself

Are you thinking what am thinking? That the issue of her sister split with her fiance is a blessing in disguise? How can a man hear shit about a lady and decide to act on it? You don't trust the Lady you wanna walk down the aisle with? Her sister really dodged a bullet

Nchedos:


Ehibiggirl, it's a good thing you didn't reply this. She said "by the way even if he kills me with beating it is not a new thing or big deal". If there was any doubts about this girl's stupidity she just cleared it. May God never give me a sibling or child like this, this one na Efulefu.. I will notwaste my time here again cause this might be a fiction, I don't believe it's possible that anyone can be this stupid

I understand why she is going berserk,the ladies she expected to give her hope and advice took up ferocious attacks on her.
Don't forget she is also young. They kicked her so hard and the only way she can fight for her love and child is by replying them. This is more like a reaction.
I just hope she and her daughter are doing fine,that's my concern

Thanks for asking my daughter is doing perfectly well, she is in school working hard and making me and her dad so proud. I don’t know about my sister because we are not longer staying together. Ok no problem you can send me message and thanks for the advice

Michellekabod2:
babe its time you delete this thread and move on. It has served its purpose already. I guess you have gotten the advice you need or not.
You can't continue with this exchange of words especially with your fellow. Now focus on your daughter and if possible write jamb(you are still young just 21). That should be your concern now not replying people.

How us daughter? How is she doing ? And your sister?
I want to send you a PM to check up on you from time to time.

It’s you that will die because the condition that you are suffering schizophrenia and the useless fake life you are living will lead you to death soon , by the time u realise u are barren, u never had a man in your life and you face is covered with a old people face u look 98 years old to man that’s why no man approaches you by then you will commit suicide just wait and see soon you will be buried and forgotten . Now that you are back online soon your other fake accounts will be online too and you will be switching accounts like tv channels I’m waiting for you and your fake accounts . You are peeping the post and waiting for me to be offline so u can come and reply your stupidity hahahaha I have seen you don’t worry keep peeping . Shame

Ehibiggirl:
it is you and your daughter that deserve to die
Useless toad
Your wickedness will put you and your daughter in irredeemable trouble.

Wow!!! Have been following this thread from sometime now and honestly i think y'all should let her be at least its her life!! What matters is she has confessed to her sister which was the reason for opening this thread in first place,the purpose of this thread has been achieved!! If she wants to continue her relationship with her baby daddy it's her choice and no one has right to condemn her or tell her what to do!! My advice is just take care of your daughter and please try as much to have your own room even if it's face me and slap you,because it is really not healthy for your daughter to be living with with strangers in where you are squatting nd in this era of molestation, please protect and guide that innocent girl!!

Ifyjos:
It’s you that will die because the condition that you are suffering schizophrenia and the useless fake life you are living will lead you to death soon , by the time u realise u are barren, u never had a man in your life and you face is covered with a old people face u look 98 years old to man that’s why no man approaches you by then you will commit suicide just wait and see soon you will be buried and forgotten . Now that you are back online soon your other fake accounts will be online too and you will be switching accounts like tv channels I’m waiting for you and your fake accounts . You are peeping the post and waiting for me to be offline so u can come and reply your stupidity hahahaha I have seen you don’t worry keep peeping . Shame

Why not close this thread and rest

Thanks we will move when the right time comes and our daughter is well protected with us , she is my handbags Whenever she is not at school I’m always with her 24/7 and my guy friends are like her uncles they have no bad intentions of harming her , so nobody can harmed her as long I’m still alive.

Petyprincess:
Wow!!! Have been following this thread from sometime now and honestly i think y'all should let her be at least its her life!! What matters is she has confessed to her sister which was the reason for opening this thread in first place,the purpose of this thread has been achieved!! If she wants to continue her relationship with her baby daddy it's her choice and no one has right to condemn her or tell her what to do!! My advice is just take care of your daughter and please try as much to have your own room even if it's face me and slap you,because it is really not healthy for your daughter to be living with with strangers in where you are squatting nd in this era of molestation, please protect and guide that innocent girl!!

Ifyjos:
Thanks we will move when the right time comes and our daughter is well protected with us , she is my handbags Whenever she is not at school I’m always with her 24/7 and my guy friends are like her uncles they have no bad intentions of harming her , so nobody can harmed her as long I’m still alive.

Please trust no one!!! If you read and see what is happening now you will trust no one with your daughter not to talk of your baby daddy friends, I wish you all the best!!!

Petyprincess:

Please trust no one!!! If you read and see what is happening now you will trust no one with your daughter not to talk of your baby daddy friends, I wish you all the best!!!

Thank you

Michellekabod2:
you forgot that instead of offering advice many were offering blame before she started her rudeness.you don't know what it is to have a toxic sister that torments you for years,the psychological impact.

Most people attack her because she choose to stay with her man. Their anger here is they feel all this is for a man. They should leave the young naive girl alone.

I don't know what it is to be approached by a broke guy,have no experience in it,but I believe every dating is part of growing up. Its part of making mistakes and learning from it. Each failed relationship draws us closer to our life partner.
People condemning her may have done worse for guys.

If he were a rich guy will they attack the couples as they do? Take it from me,the judgemental comments she gets is not because she wronged her sister,but because the guy is broke.
We ladies can be selective on who we call desperate/pickmesha. If desperation/obsession is done for a rich dude,its deemed worth it. But if its done for a broke dude you are called names. Its not about your self dignity but his pocket.

There is a case of one moniker named ca.salinda that has been opening threads upon threads for a guy that clearly isn't in love with her but has been opting for how to dispose her,nobody calls her pickmesha/desperate even when she begs him to stay. Why? Because he is rich!

No one is asking how the baby is doing or asking her to write jamb as she is still young . all we are interested in is insulting her because of her broke boyfriend.

I called her a pickmesha.

Michellekabod2:
you forgot that instead of offering advice many were offering blame before she started her rudeness.you don't know what it is to have a toxic sister that torments you for years,the psychological impact.

Most people attack her because she choose to stay with her man. Their anger here is they feel all this is for a man. They should leave the young naive girl alone.

I don't know what it is to be approached by a broke guy,have no experience in it,but I believe every dating is part of growing up. Its part of making mistakes and learning from it. Each failed relationship draws us closer to our life partner.
People condemning her may have done worse for guys.

If he were a rich guy will they attack the couples as they do? Take it from me,the judgemental comments she gets is not because she wronged her sister,but because the guy is broke.
We ladies can be selective on who we call desperate/pickmesha. If desperation/obsession is done for a rich dude,its deemed worth it. But if its done for a broke dude you are called names. Its not about your self dignity but his pocket.

There is a case of one moniker named ca.salinda that has been opening threads upon threads for a guy that clearly isn't in love with her but has been opting for how to dispose her,nobody calls her pickmesha/desperate even when she begs him to stay. Why? Because he is rich!

No one is asking how the baby is doing or asking her to write jamb as she is still young . all we are interested in is insulting her because of her broke boyfriend.

You did NOT read the entire story from the beginning. I would urge you to do so, even though it is quite lengthy....and you would see what led to this debacle.

Her older sister is disappointed in the choices she has made. She is not toxic. After all, that same sister has helped out with food, clothes and school fees for her child, on more than one occasion.

That same sister is also the main breadwinner of the entire family.

Her sister's anger stems from the fact that the guy got her pregnant, and made her a mother when she was barely 15 years old. Now, what does one call that? The guy is a paedophile.

Assuming she had turned her back on the guy, and focused on building a better life for herself, either by going back to school or acquiring vocational skills, I believe her sister would not have been so hard on her.

But what did she do? She continued to hang out with the same person who messed up her life at 15, and she continues to repeat her mistake of carrying on an affair with him! What if she gets pregnant again, in the same squalid condition she currently lives?

Put yourself in her senior sister's shoes, and tell me if you wouldn't have reacted the same way.

Assuming the guy was rich, the situation would still not have improved, if he was irresponsible.

If she had put all that time and energy she spent in destroying the sister's life, into improving her own life, her story would have been different.....

CeterisXVII:
You did NOT read the entire story from the beginning. I would urge you to do so, even though it is quite lengthy....and you would see what led to this debacle.

The thread has become so long that a lot of the details that led to its current state have been forgotten. Making it sound as if everybody randomly attacked the boyfriend just because he is not wealthy and shifting the blame to everybody except the OP is misleading; however I think your comment is also missing the mark a little. More objectivity is needed.

1. Her family refused to send her back to school after she fell pregnant.

2. She makes hair as a vocational skill, so she is not idle.

3. The dad told the sister to stop insulting that guy (even if he deserves it). If she doesnt regard OP, she could at least listen to their father.

4. Her sister had no right to scold her to the extent she described here. She could have castigated her out of frustration (because shes a very ill-mannered lady and Im sure she wasnt totally innocent when it came to hurling insults) but some of the stuff she reported here was crazy!

Remember that when the nappies finished the lady would say "Did I tell you to open your legs" and begin to rant. I dont even think thats an appropriate thing to say in the presence of a baby, hian! And its psychologically damaging to be spoken to in that way.

Providing somebody with food or money doesnt automatically give you the right to talk to them anyhow you feel like; after all the same person could still be the one to help you tomorrow.

I think the elder sister could have done better even though she was disappointed.

If she was bitter about the situation she could have called a family meeting to state her case. After all, they would have to at least pay attention to her since she is the breadwinner of the house.

This is not to excuse the terrible attitude of the OP, but I dont think defending the elder sister wholeheartedly (or condemning her fully) is the answer.

Actually both the sister and the boyfriend are secondary issues; the problem is OP herself and how poorly she managed the bad relationship between the 2. Bringing the dude to the house just to get insulted for the billionth time didnt make any sense, and conspiring with her boyfriend against her own blood sister also didnt make any sense...!

I am not saying this to ignite a further exchange of words but I disagree with the way people are bouncing between 2 extremes, either totally blaming OP or trying not to blame her at all...neither are correct...she has some blame, but not all...or she is innocent, but not totally...any one you prefer is okay...

CeterisXVII:

You did NOT read the entire story from the beginning. I would urge you to do so, even though it is quite lengthy....and you would see what led to this debacle.

Her older sister is disappointed in the choices she has made. She is not toxic. After all, that same sister has helped out with food, clothes and school fees for her child, on more than one occasion.

That same sister is also the main breadwinner of the entire family.

Her sister's anger stems from the fact that the guy got her pregnant, and made her a mother when she was barely 15 years old. Now, what does one call that? The guy is a paedophile.

Assuming she had turned her back on the guy, and focused on building a better life for herself, either by going back to school or acquiring vocational skills, I believe her sister would not have been so hard on her.

But what did she do? She continued to hang out with the same person who messed up her life at 15, and she continues to repeat her mistake of carrying on an affair with him! What if she gets pregnant again, in the same squalid condition she currently lives?

Put yourself in her senior sister's shoes, and tell me if you wouldn't have reacted the same way.

Assuming the guy was rich, the situation would still not have improved, if he was irresponsible.

If she had put all that time and energy she spent in destroying the sister's life, into improving her own life, her story would have been different.....

The guy should have been arrested for statutory rape. It seems we are blaming the victim here. There is no justification for the constant harassment for five good years (plus the gestation period). Like you all are making the sister a saint now and she the villain. You will never comprehend the concept of a female bullying a fellow bully(I am a victim of such bullying). If she committed suicide or did something terrible to herself what will we say?
What manner of offense will make you lock up your own blood in prison?

She pushed her sister back to the arms of the baby daddy with her constant harassment. If she didn't become a tormentor of her sister,and showed her love while the guy was locked up then she will not find her way back to his arms(where she finds solace).

She only had sex and got pregnant at 15,she didn't kill anyone or steal from anyone.

I have followed the thread from the beginning and noticed the straw man posters (sadly mostly from women)are creating . I even commented earlier on scolding her for her actions against her sister.
What will be in your mind after being imprisoned by your own blood? Warm embraces and love for your sister?

It is obvious the OP's future isn't as vital to the sister as hating the couple. Its one thing to curse the darkness and another to light up a candle. She isn't interested in her furthering her education, setting her up in a petty business or trade(all of which would have made her forget about the baby daddy) but only interested in separating the couple and bullying them.

In as much as I personally support the idea of her moving on from him,no matter what happens he is the father of the kid and will still visit his child. Nothing can separate him from his child. He didn't deny the pregnancy (the condition I feel should deny any man from seeing his child)

I am glad she has apologised,and learnt her lesson. I hope she moves on from this whole drama ,reconcile with her family and go to school.

midnighter:


The thread has become so long that a lot of the details that led to its current state have been forgotten. Making it sound as if everybody randomly attacked the boyfriend just because he is not wealthy and shifting the blame to everybody except the OP is misleading; however I think your comment is also missing the mark a little. More objectivity is needed.

1. Her family refused to send her back to school after she fell pregnant.

2. She makes hair as a vocational skill, so she is not idle.

3. The dad told the sister to stop insulting that guy (even if he deserves it). If she doesnt regard OP, she could at least listen to their father.

4. Her sister had no right to scold her to the extent she described here. She could have castigated her out of frustration (because shes a very ill-mannered lady and Im sure she wasnt totally innocent when it came to hurling insults) but some of the stuff she reported here was crazy!

Remember that when the nappies finished the lady would say "Did I tell you to open your legs" and begin to rant. I dont even think thats an appropriate thing to say in the presence of a baby, hian! And its psychologically damaging to be spoken to in that way.

Providing somebody with food or money doesnt automatically give you the right to talk to them anyhow you feel like; after all the same person could still be the one to help you tomorrow.

I think the elder sister could have done better even though she was disappointed.

If she was bitter about the situation she could have called a family meeting to state her case. After all, they would have to at least pay attention to her since she is the breadwinner of the house.

This is not to excuse the terrible attitude of the OP, but I dont think defending the elder sister wholeheartedly (or condemning her fully) is the answer.

Actually both the sister and the boyfriend are secondary issues; the problem is OP herself and how poorly she managed the bad relationship between the 2. Bringing the dude to the house just to get insulted for the billionth time didnt make any sense, and conspiring with her boyfriend against her own blood sister also didnt make any sense...!

I am not saying this to ignite a further exchange of words but I disagree with the way people are bouncing between 2 extremes, either totally blaming OP or trying not to blame her at all...neither are correct...she has some blame, but not all...or she is innocent, but not totally...any one you prefer is okay...

exactly my point.
I even started out by calling her out for her actions towards her sister.

Why it seems people are condemning her because he is broke is because few condemned his actions with an underage as statutory rape,the lines used in rebuking the couple was mostly his financial state. .

In issues like this is hard to get a balanced view. If we had this balanced view all this words exchange will not occur. The thread is indeed long and has served its purpose,I just hope she reconciles with her family and move on with her life.
At least we can teach our kids lessons from this: the dangers of premarital sex and how not to act out of anger

I dont think people realise the deviousness it takes to set/frame someone up. Not just by telling lies upon them, but to go out of your way, employ people to orchestrate such a plan.
The bigger picture shows the man and woman in question can actually frame others up for murder, fraud even without batting an eyelid under the pretence that they deserved it because of one slight or the other.
I'm almost sure what they have also done is a criminal offence. Where are the lawyers and the law enforcement guys here? Malicious intent could possibly be one of the charges, and harassment of the sis fiance is another
And some of you expect any sensible person to support their action?
Its same way people compare physical violence to verbal violence. but the law doesn't see them comparable.
While I couldn't give a rat's ass about OP and her shenanigans, there is no justification whatsoever for what she did and that's not because I care so much for the sister either

Michellekabod2:
exactly my point.
I even started out by calling her out for her actions towards her sister.

Why it seems people are condemning her because he is broke is because few condemned his actions with an underage as statutory rape,the lines used in rebuking the couple was mostly his financial state. .

In issues like this is hard to get a balanced view. If we had this balanced view all this words exchange will not occur. The thread is indeed long and has served its purpose,I just hope she reconciles with her family and move on with her life.
At least we can teach our kids lessons from this: the dangers of premarital sex and how not to act out of anger

I see where youre coming from but to be honest, I think your comment yesterday was misleading. It was when I saw somebody answering you and opening the whole "sister debate" up again that I decided to talk because both of you were moving towards unnecessary extremes.

We are not condemning her because he is broke. We ended up trading insults with her, some of which included the fact that he is broke. Those 2 actions are not the same thing.

They actually condemned her because of her horrible attitude and her refusal to come up with any kind of concrete plan that didnt involve leeching from her sister. The entitlement was too much.

The underage stuff was mentioned quite a lot but was not as relevant to the topic because the point was, what are you going to do now? The "broke" aspect came up because of the lack of direction she displayed now that she has decided to continue the relationship as an adult.

Even when somebody advised that she gets the man to do a low-key introduction to give them some small self-respect, she began to attack the person. Does it make sense?

Yesterday in another thread the OP was in a relationship with an abroad-based man for 10 years with no plan for their future; she was still insulted even though we dont know what the man does. It is disingenuous to claim that everybody just piled on top of this babe solely because the man doesnt have money.

No, it was due to the way she answered everybody back. Being poor, being a carwasher, or squatting with friends are not crimes but they became ammunition for people to knock some sense into her head because of all the nonsense she was writing to people here.

If the dude was wealthy and she began to insult everybody who tried to advise her, the same thing would have occurred so I personally dont support this narrative youre pushing of women being so money-hungry that they are unable to call a spade a spade.

Michellekabod2:

The guy should have been arrested for statutory rape. It seems we are blaming the victim here. There is no justification for the constant harassment for five good years (plus the gestation period). Like you all are making the sister a saint now and she the villain. You will never comprehend the concept of a female bullying a fellow bully(I am a victim of such bullying). If she committed suicide or did something terrible to herself what will we say?
What manner of offense will make you lock up your own blood in prison?

She pushed her sister back to the arms of the baby daddy with her constant harassment. If she didn't become a tormentor of her sister,and showed her love while the guy was locked up then she will not find her way back to his arms(where she finds solace).

She only had sex and got pregnant at 15,she didn't kill anyone or steal from anyone.

I have followed the thread from the beginning and noticed the straw man posters (sadly mostly from women)are creating . I even commented earlier on scolding her for her actions against her sister.
What will be in your mind after being imprisoned by your own blood? Warm embraces and love for your sister?

It is obvious the OP's future isn't as vital to the sister as hating the couple. Its one thing to curse the darkness and another to light up a candle. She isn't interested in her furthering her education, setting her up in a petty business or trade(all of which would have made her forget about the baby daddy) but only interested in separating the couple and bullying them.

In as much as I personally support the idea of her moving on from him,no matter what happens he is the father of the kid and will still visit his child. Nothing can separate him from his child. He didn't deny the pregnancy (the condition I feel should deny any man from seeing his child)

I am glad she has apologised,and learnt her lesson. I hope she moves on from this whole drama ,reconcile with her family and go to school.

Madam, I have no wish to engage in a back and forth with you.

You claimed that "She pushed her sister back to the arms of the baby daddy with her constant harassment. If she didn't become a tormentor of her sister...."

I do not agree. This girl was determined to stay with the guy, no matter the odds or the cost. Her sister didn't push her into anything.

In fact, her sister's constant admonishing, was meant to make her take stock of her life and apply the brakes, on that relationship.

Your excuse of her sister pushing her into the guy's arms, sounds a lot like the excuses given by cheating spouses, when they are caught with the other party, they are messing up with.... "Oh my wife/husband pushed me to cheat." All lies.

You also said the sister was her tormentor. How strange. Do you know what the girl constantly said and did, that caused her sister to react so negatively each time? She is painting herself as the innocent party.....no one has heard the sister's side of the story.

Even from her utterances here, you can see she is such a warped individual that spews out venomous remarks, at the drop of a hat!

If she had been dishing out the same vile attitude to her sister, don't you think the sister would have reacted negatively?

This is a girl who slapped her older sister and joined her boyfriend to beat her up, o!!

And you are saying the sister didn't show her love? Some people are just unloveable. There is no point breaking your head and heart, in trying to change their mindset.

Finally you claim, "It is obvious the OP's future isn't as vital to the sister as hating the couple...."

You can only help people who show a desire and a commitment to change for the better, once that help is rendered. Not someone that will ensure your help gets wasted by their twisted preferences, wrong living, and sordid lifestyle.

I would NOT give a drug addict money if asked, because I know it would only go into getting his next fix.

This same sister helped a cousin, with money for that person's business and support she needed. Doesn't that tell you something?

If anything should happen to your sister remember kama will find you sooner or later. Better look for her fiancé and correct what you started

Well there will not be karma for me because I already did the biggest part by confessing to my sister and it’s up to her to go amend things with her fiancé and as a woman that had spent years with him , she knows his weakest point so she has to use her power to get him back if she is interesting in the marriage again after all the marriage were supposed to be held today so it might be later or not but I don’t think it’s my duties to go sort out things with him.

James289:
If anything should happen to your sister remember kama will find you sooner or later. Better look for her fiancé and correct what you started

Ifyjos:
Well there will not be karma for me because I already did the biggest part by confessing to my sister and it’s up to her to go amend things with her fiancé and as a woman that had spent years with him , she knows his weakest point so she has to use her power to get him back if she is interesting in the marriage again after all the marriage were supposed to be held today so it might be later or not but I don’t think it’s my duties to go sort out things with him.