Hello showitnaija

Please I want my identity hidden i have a very serious problem right now I need your candid advice on the next step to take.

Am a married woman with 2 beautiful kids, have been married for 6 years now.
The issue is before we got married I observed that my husband is very careful with his phones
Like using password, switching the phone off when we are together or he is at home, I complained to him about it especially the offing of phone cos sometimes his office will need to call me if they can't get him on phone
he said is nothing that he is just use to it he don't want disturbance sometimes I said ok
So I let it go and I became use to it too.
He asked me to please give him my phone to log into his account and check a massage sent to him cos his battery was flat.
I gave him the phone he did what he wanted to do and gave it back to me, when I went online later I realized it was his account he forgot to log out.
And massages started coming in
What my eyes saw was something I have never imagined my husband will do.
He has been chatting, dating and exchanging nude pictures with a married woman,so i took my time to check who the woman is and I realize she is also married with kids
They have been flirting for a while.
When I saw my husband's nude pictures my head spin.
I confronted him and he bluntly denied everything even when I have all the proof.
When he notice I was not ready to give up till I get to the bottom of the issue, immediately he sent the woman a massage that his wife knew about them they need to slow down then she replied him saying there is no need to slow down if I disturb him or make trouble he should give me the beating of my life or he should leave the house for me, the most painful part of the whole thing for me was that my husband went as far as telling this woman some hidden secrets about us.
I was reading there massage on my phone. I
Confronted him again still he denied this woman even when am seeing their chats and all the proof.
Right now am confused I just need someone to talk to hopefully this pain will go away
How do I tell his family or my family this
I need you to advise me.

Not again. Agbonkamen I catch you. Today you must comment

Choi

WTF
Ask him his reasons for telling all your secrets and cheating on you with a married woman...
If he doesn't have genuine reasons, then go straight to your family secretly and explain all what you saw with your eyes and seek advice from them.....
Not that you are denying him of sex or are you?
Please don't change from your ways. Always prepare food and do all other things as usual

Cheat on him with a married man

Or file for divorce and have your peace.

Some Nigerian men are useless they do not apply discretion in their cheating, no respect for wives and if the women end up killing them now Dem go say women are evil. Plz my dear pray to God to give you wisdom to handle the situation so that you don't end up killing him.

Poison his food or use him for money rituals

He has been chatting, dating and exchanging nude pictures with a married woman,so i took my time to check who the woman is and I realize she is also married with kids

Try again

What do you do ? Do the do, post the nude lets perv in the house authentify your complaint and salivate to it and lets see whether your husband will still deny his agbaya dicktator and his adulterous mistress going viral

Kill him.

healthserve:
Not again. Agbonkamen I catch you. Today you must comment

but why do some men choose to make their partner cry, is it fair? can't they just cheat without hurting other person.

What were you looking for in his phone?

I think you need to learn to mind your business and stop reading text messages or emails that were not sent to you

By the way I'll never understand why people send out their nude pics!

agbonkamen:
but why do some men choose to make their partner cry, is it fair? can't they just cheat without hurting other person.

The man was being discreet until his wife went and spoilt everything with her busy body.

It's almost impossible for a virile guy to stay with just on pússy for life therefore if he is careful about it his wife should look the other way

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija

Please I want my identity hidden i have a very serious problem right now I need your candid advice on the next step to take.

Am a married woman with 2 beautiful kids, have been married for 6 years now.
The issue is before we got married I observed that my husband is very careful with his phones
Like using password, switching the phone off when we are together or he is at home, I complained to him about it especially the offing of phone cos sometimes his office will need to call me if they can't get him on phone
he said is nothing that he is just use to it he don't want disturbance sometimes I said ok
So I let it go and I became use to it too.
He asked me to please give him my phone to log into his account and check a massage sent to him cos his battery was flat.
I gave him the phone he did what he wanted to do and gave it back to me, when I went online later I realized it was his account he forgot to log out.
And massages started coming in
What my eyes saw was something I have never imagined my husband will do.
He has been chatting, dating and exchanging nude pictures with a married woman,so i took my time to check who the woman is and I realize she is also married with kids
They have been flirting for a while.
When I saw my husband's nude pictures my head spin.
I confronted him and he bluntly denied everything even when I have all the proof.
When he notice I was not ready to give up till I get to the bottom of the issue, immediately he sent the woman a massage that his wife knew about them they need to slow down then she replied him saying there is no need to slow down if I disturb him or make trouble he should give me the beating of my life or he should leave the house for me, the most painful part of the whole thing for me was that my husband went as far as telling this woman some hidden secrets about us.
I was reading there massage on my phone. I
Confronted him again still he denied this woman even when am seeing their chats and all the proof.
Right now am confused I just need someone to talk to hopefully this pain will go away
How do I tell his family or my family this
I need you to advise me.

Fake story

Romeo3:
Cheat on him with a married man

That's wrong.

Romeo3:
Cheat on him with a married man

Or file for divorce and have your peace.

2 simple but very perfect decision to choose from....trust me

Cheat on him with married man


Kill him

Chose one

kill him, ur two children, the woman and finally yourself. fake story with iota of truth.

Madam just take those chats as proofs to the station and arrest him and his lover that is advising him to beat you cos your life is in danger as she may one day suggest to him to take you out of the picture completely..(kill you).

Go by this weekend. And make sure they both jailed. Then leave the marriage.

Find out the woman's husband and tell him.Inform your husband's family.

From the look of things,it seems tbe woman is not ready to leave your husband right now. Pleas don't fight him ...put cool fire on his head by being very caring and submissive to him. He will come around !

u know wat to do

She wants to destroy your marriage and even advised your husband to beat you up! Nne find out who her husband is and take all those chats and other evidences you have to him and let her own husband settle the case. If you keep quiet, she will drive you out of your matrimonial home and she will still be with her own husband while sleeping with your husband. You have her details, track her and get in touch with her husband. Don’t confront her oooooo!

Secondly, sit your cheating husband down and have a discussion with him. Find out why he’s doing what he’s doing, make it clear to him that you will file for divorce if he continues! If possible get your family involved! Some people are just useless in this life

i'm confused.....this is beyond me......what I can say categorically is that your husband is a fool for treating you in this manner......he should have channel all his energy to taking care of his family and better himself not by necessarilly cheating on you emotionally and physically.

Let him see you sharpening a knife. Shakara him

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija

Please I want my identity hidden i have a very serious problem right now I need your candid advice on the next step to take.

Am a married woman with 2 beautiful kids, have been married for 6 years now.
The issue is before we got married I observed that my husband is very careful with his phones
Like using password, switching the phone off when we are together or he is at home, I complained to him about it especially the offing of phone cos sometimes his office will need to call me if they can't get him on phone
he said is nothing that he is just use to it he don't want disturbance sometimes I said ok
So I let it go and I became use to it too.
He asked me to please give him my phone to log into his account and check a massage sent to him cos his battery was flat.
I gave him the phone he did what he wanted to do and gave it back to me, when I went online later I realized it was his account he forgot to log out.
And massages started coming in
What my eyes saw was something I have never imagined my husband will do.
He has been chatting, dating and exchanging nude pictures with a married woman,so i took my time to check who the woman is and I realize she is also married with kids
They have been flirting for a while.
When I saw my husband's nude pictures my head spin.
I confronted him and he bluntly denied everything even when I have all the proof.
When he notice I was not ready to give up till I get to the bottom of the issue, immediately he sent the woman a massage that his wife knew about them they need to slow down then she replied him saying there is no need to slow down if I disturb him or make trouble he should give me the beating of my life or he should leave the house for me, the most painful part of the whole thing for me was that my husband went as far as telling this woman some hidden secrets about us.
I was reading there massage on my phone. I
Confronted him again still he denied this woman even when am seeing their chats and all the proof.
Right now am confused I just need someone to talk to hopefully this pain will go away
How do I tell his family or my family this
I need you to advise me.

I for say make u trace d woman husband tell am,,but d woman be like person wey no get husband or she dey beat her husband....


I ain't getting married lai lai

Kobicove:
I think you need to learn to mind your business and stop reading text messages or emails that were not sent to you

By the way I'll never understand why people send out their nude pics!

Please how can she unseen what she has seen?
Lies of the heart

Talentempire:
Hello showitnaija

Please I want my identity hidden i have a very serious problem right now I need your candid advice on the next step to take.

Am a married woman with 2 beautiful kids, have been married for 6 years now.
The issue is before we got married I observed that my husband is very careful with his phones
Like using password, switching the phone off when we are together or he is at home, I complained to him about it especially the offing of phone cos sometimes his office will need to call me if they can't get him on phone
he said is nothing that he is just use to it he don't want disturbance sometimes I said ok
So I let it go and I became use to it too.
He asked me to please give him my phone to log into his account and check a massage sent to him cos his battery was flat.
I gave him the phone he did what he wanted to do and gave it back to me, when I went online later I realized it was his account he forgot to log out.
And massages started coming in
What my eyes saw was something I have never imagined my husband will do.
He has been chatting, dating and exchanging nude pictures with a married woman,so i took my time to check who the woman is and I realize she is also married with kids
They have been flirting for a while.
When I saw my husband's nude pictures my head spin.
I confronted him and he bluntly denied everything even when I have all the proof.
When he notice I was not ready to give up till I get to the bottom of the issue, immediately he sent the woman a massage that his wife knew about them they need to slow down then she replied him saying there is no need to slow down if I disturb him or make trouble he should give me the beating of my life or he should leave the house for me, the most painful part of the whole thing for me was that my husband went as far as telling this woman some hidden secrets about us.
I was reading there massage on my phone. I
Confronted him again still he denied this woman even when am seeing their chats and all the proof.
Right now am confused I just need someone to talk to hopefully this pain will go away
How do I tell his family or my family this
I need you to advise me.

Pls calm down before you throw away the baby with the bath water

Just don't be violent tell him the risk involved in what he is doing and the possibility of him dividing his home over a married woman

With patience, the relationship will fizzle out but if you use force on him, you lose him and lose the marriage

Men can be carried away by another pussy easily while women have the ability to suppress their urge, even when they come across a man of their taste

Madam,all u need is a Bleep revenge to get back at the worthless man...He doesn't respect u and ur union...Pls,get someone too outside that is willing to make u feel better so ur Husband would know our it feels... It's 1:1.