Hey house,
This is a follow-up to the subject above. I initially had doubts about posting this, but changed heart.
Before anything,I Quite the relationship.So here's what transpired...
Inspired by the discoveries of Ubunja, I began to develop some concrete emotional barricade to protect my heart and psychological state and to further serve as a shock absorber in the event that my quest for the true status of my relationship with this girl happen to reveal truths that might hurt.
During the span of 7 months while we dated, never for once did I hold her phone( at least until the day I broke up with her), though we have had discussions about it and agreed to total transparency, even with gadgets and social media.She always claimed that she had nothing to hide.So, I got a hint from someone very close to her about her having another relationship that has been going on even before she agreed to date me. I got the guys name, searched him among her friends on Facebook and discovered pictures of them together at his final year dinner,the same day she told me she had severe stomach upset and thus, couldn't make it to see me.
On the faithful day,we scheduled to meet so I could take her outing.When we met,I asked her to give me her phone, which she did,her WhatsApp had password so I asked for it,then she delined. I reminded her of our decision to be transparent, still she declined.So,I told her that she was sending nudes to guyz, and that's why she is declining;she said " if that's what you believe,then fine".. so I showed her the pictures she took with her boyfriend on the day she lied about stomach ache.She was caught off guard.She later opened her WhatsApp...She had almost a hundred ongoing chat with guys.The first on the list was this dude.i opened their chats,damn come and see love. I was so calm and unupset, even smiling that she started beging and asking why I ain't angry.

It's up to you guys,as for me... love don't make no sense.

abeg someone should summarize this in one sentence

So sorry. I can tell how you feel. We've been there. Thanks for being mature. Big ups

LOGOBELT:
abeg someone should summarize this in one sentence

He is now a redpill guy... Nothing hurts him no more

Auntyesther:
He is now a redpill guy... Nothing hurts him no more

Now its more confusing.... please someone should summarize auntyesther's sentence in one word

veteranExboy:
Hey house,
This is a follow-up to the subject above. I initially had doubts about posting this, but changed heart.
Before anything,I Quite the relationship.So here's what transpired...
Inspired by the discoveries of Ubunja, I began to develop some concrete emotional barricade to protect my heart and psychological state and to further serve as a shock absorber in the event that my quest for the true status of my relationship with this girl happen to reveal truths that might hurt.
During the span of 7 months while we dated, never for once did I hold her phone( at least until the day I broke up with her), though we have had discussions about it and agreed to total transparency, even with gadgets and social media.She always claimed that she had nothing to hide.So, I got a hint from someone very close to her about her having another relationship that has been going on even before she agreed to date me. I got the guys name, searched him among her friends on Facebook and discovered pictures of them together at his final year dinner,the same day she told me she had severe stomach upset and thus, couldn't make it to see me.
On the faithful day,we scheduled to meet so I could take her outing.When we met,I asked her to give me her phone, which she did,her WhatsApp had password so I asked for it,then she delined. I reminded her of our decision to be transparent, still she declined.So,I told her that she was sending nudes to guyz, and that's why she is declining;she said " if that's what you believe,then fine".. so I showed her the pictures she took with her boyfriend on the day she lied about stomach ache.She was caught off guard.She later opened her WhatsApp...She had almost a hundred ongoing chat with guys.The first on the list was this dude.i opened their chats,damn come and see love. I was so calm and unupset, even smiling that she started beging and asking why I ain't angry.

It's up to you guys,as for me... love don't make no sense.

Nice one bro..no love lost no love found. According to Ubunja post, never commit your heart to any girl until she proves to be worthy of it.

AWALT

Auntyesther:
He is now a redpill guy... Nothing hurts him no more

The thought of being used still hurts whenever I remember her.

healthserve:
So sorry. I can tell how you feel. We've been there. Thanks for being mature. Big ups

This girl claims to be a sister always participating in church activities..she was even on a fasting program at the time.

LOGOBELT:
abeg someone should summarize this in one sentence

1.Always trust your guts about your relationship.
2. If you want a serious relationship,never agree to privacy of social media.
3. Don't let any girlfriend blackmail you with the " your insecure" syndrome.Most times your intuition is right.
4.Stop dating broke ladies.

Olawrites:



Nice one bro..no love lost no love found. According to Ubunja post, never commit your heart to any girl until she proves to be worthy of it.

At this point, I'm done chasing ladies I have feelings for...

veteranExboy:


This girl claims to be a sister always participating in church activities..she was even on a fasting program at the time.

Woooow

veteranExboy:


The thought of being used still hurts whenever I remember her.

we all have been used at some points in life but las las we all will be fine! You hear?

veteranExboy:


1.Always trust your guts about your relationship.
2. If you want a serious relationship,never agree to privacy of social media.
3. Don't let any girlfriend blackmail you with the " your insecure" syndrome.Most times your intuition is right.
4.Stop dating broke ladies.

Thank You Mister! Auntyesther up there almost confused me!

Awwww..... Just try and heal alright...

I Pity boys when still dey do outing. I have made up my mind that any girl when I like, I go let you know say e no pass fvck cos i no get power for nonsense

Lamanii22:
Awwww..... Just try and heal alright...

I'm glad I dodged a bullet.This too shall pass.

Apination:
I Pity boys when still dey do outing. I have made up my mind that any girl when I like, I go let you know say e no pass fvck cos i no get power for nonsense

Look what these ladies have turned us into.