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She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 5:56pm On Jan 03
House, I met my current girlfriend in 2016 when she was in 100 level. I asked her to date me but got turned down. After several attempts to woo her, I gave up and decided to delete her contact because I hate being friend zoned.

Her reason was she had a boyfriend who was in another state schooling. Within 2016 and 2018 she called me twice and was not happy that I didn't have her number (I kept on asking who was speaking the two times she called) but I never stopped telling her I'm not going to be her friend because that's not what I want from her. I want a relationship.

Fast forward to may 2019, we met coincidentally and I got her contact again. I asked for a date, she agreed. We met at the joint, but she came along with a friend (after asking me 5 minutes before we met, I agreed). After the lunch (not a date anymore), we spoke at night and she agreed to date me after I asked again. She was single by this time.

Some of my male friends think I'm crazy because it took her all that time before she agreed to date me but I feel she was right not to double date and she said she didn't have any feelings for me then.

Please House, am I crazy because I still had interest in her after 3 years?

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by maynation(f): 5:59pm On Jan 03
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by iPrevail(m): 6:01pm On Jan 03
At least there's some degree of assurance she won't double date while with you. And yes, you are crazy, but at least you won't be ending up in a psychiatric ward

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by donstan18(f): 6:02pm On Jan 03
I don't know if you are crazy or not, but one thing I'm sure of is that it will be very annoying to find out that she isn't worth the stress and patience you passed through while waiting for 3 years.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:02pm On Jan 03
Okay I'm shy right now

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by 2special(m): 6:03pm On Jan 03
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by favoryte33: 6:04pm On Jan 03
In as much as i wish you good luck on your new relationship,i would ask that you take your time to observe her. If a woman rejects u for that long,then she doesn't have u in her plans. 3 fuking good years? she must have been left shattered those years.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Upton: 6:04pm On Jan 03
Hehe. Which kain queshun? My brother if you still feel anything for her. It shouldn't be an issue. Just be sure that she loves you.

Did your friends really expect her to leave her ex because of you? She was single when she agreed to date you and I think that's not an issue

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:04pm On Jan 03
Thanks, though you sound like my pals right now.
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by apidum(m): 6:04pm On Jan 03
how do I explain this to you

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:06pm On Jan 03
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.

Oga you're not crazy, any other question?


Okay I'm shy right now

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:08pm On Jan 03
At least there's some degree of assurance she won't double date while with you. And yes, you are crazy, but at least you won't be ending up in a psychiatric ward

Thanks, though you sound like my pals right now

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:10pm On Jan 03
Likely she might dump you if she settles with her ex boyfriend but who knows?

I hope not, though you never know with women
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 03
apidum:
how do I explain this to you

In one sentence please
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:11pm On Jan 03
Gaskiya, if you can channel all the energy you used in typing this post to something productive, you will become a "mentor".

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Froshloaded(m): 6:11pm On Jan 03
You ain't crazy
You can now the bleep the hell out of her nau grin grin
Well what do I know

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:12pm On Jan 03
Upton:
Hehe. Which kain queshun? My brother if you still feel anything for her. It shouldn't be an issue. Just be sure that she loves you.

Did your friends really expect her to leave her ex because of you? She was single when she agreed to date you and I think that's not an issue

Thanks
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:13pm On Jan 03
justnock:
Gaskiya, if you can channel all the energy you used in typing this post to something productive, you will become a "mentor".

Yeah right, I'm already a mentor in another way

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by donbachi(m): 6:14pm On Jan 03
U already have a badge of honour as a veteran ex boyfriend....so,go and cap it.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:15pm On Jan 03
Froshloaded:
You ain't crazy
You can now the bleep the hell out of her nau grin grin
Well what do I know

She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Froshloaded(m): 6:17pm On Jan 03
veteranExboy:

She's never tasted the forbidden fruit... don't ask how I got to know
Chai
You can make her taste it now

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 03
favoryte33:
In as much as i wish you good luck on your new relationship,i would ask that you take your time to observe her. If a woman rejects u for that long,then she doesn't have u in her plans. 3 fuking good years? she must have been left shattered those years.

Yeah right she did get hurt... I wasn't chasing her all the 3 years.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 6:21pm On Jan 03
Froshloaded:

Chai
You can make her taste it now

Bad Boy spotted

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Froshloaded(m): 6:24pm On Jan 03
veteranExboy:

Bad Boy spotted
Lol, I ain't a bad boy, after waiting for 3 years, u gats bleep her oo..
But no go rush things make she no dey think say you dey after her body grin

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Omar09(m): 6:32pm On Jan 03
maynation:
Nairaland and wonders be like 5 and 6.
Oga you're not crazy, any other question?

E tire me pass you.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by habsydiamond(m): 6:35pm On Jan 03
Contract relationship... Ogaa oo grin grin grin.. if you still want her after the 3year then draw up another contract now if she's fine with it good for u.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Cholls(m): 6:51pm On Jan 03
My brother The LORD is my shepherd; We shall not want.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by YorubaPrince: 7:07pm On Jan 03
sad
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:38pm On Jan 03
Froshloaded:

Lol, I ain't a bad boy, after waiting for 3 years, u gats bleep her oo..
But no go rush things make she no dey think say you dey after her body grin

I wasn't actually waiting for her those 3 years.I just happen not to be in a relationship at the moment she agreed to date me.

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Froshloaded(m): 9:39pm On Jan 03
veteranExboy:


I wasn't actually waiting for her those 3 years.I just happen not to be in a relationship at the moment she agreed to date me.
Oh OK

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Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Nobody: 9:40pm On Jan 03
habsydiamond:
Contract relationship... Ogaa oo grin grin grin.. if you still want her after the 3year then draw up another contract now if she's fine with it good for u.

I'm lost
Re: She Agreed To Date Me 3 Years After I Asked Her Out by Lamanii22(f): 9:42pm On Jan 03
You're not crazy Hun.. My now boyfriend waited 7 years... Not like I didn't like him then but I was waving off that feeling... I was like God forbid I can never be in love with this kind of guy... You won't believe all the relationship I had never lasted... Although we started dating recently... But he told me he's been dating me for seven years... Imagine... He said he has never stopped loving me and that he'd never.. So I don't think you're crazy...

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