Crying because you are having another daughter is a sin. Appreciate the daughters God gave to you. Train them, girls can do anything boys can do. If you continue to have children because you want a male child you are putting your life at risk. If anything happens, your husband will marry another woman. There are women out there praying for children but they do not have. Do not join society to devalue girls as though we are not important. You are not God, so tell you man as per biology he is responsible for what you give him. I pray that God will grant you safe delivery, and protect your girls.

Next time you guys want to make babies, tell him to Bleep with his shoes on. Thank me later

I prefer watching all these marriage bullsh*ts from afar, rather than to be part of it; the whole arrangement is stupid and nauseating.

Is it a crime to be a woman? Are women naturally designed to be properties for (stupid) men or society brainwashed them to think so? Is it a 'must' to be a wife?

How can a mentally healthy man blame a woman for such thing as this? How is it her business? Is it not enough stupidity that a man claims ownership of a baby? What kind of injustice is that?

I don't respect or subscribe to any culture of subjugation and neither do I respect anyone that promotes or surrender to it. How can you be living your life to please someone?; a flesh like you.

What kinda advice can one give in situation like this? If you can't make your husband change his barbaric mentality; you will either remain a baby factory until a male child arrives (disgusting) or he'll get another woman to do it (frustrating).

Ask yourself, why am I doing this?
Your reasons will be your strength, but I'm sure most of your reasons are likely borrowed or inherited; all those cultural and religious buuuullshits.

As a man, I can only hope your husband start reasoning like me; it will at least solve this one problem.

Good luck

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

That's what biology theories tell you. The same man could as well impregnate another lady and deliver a baby boy. I've witnessed several cases whereby a man whose wife couldn't conceive a male child, but immediately he married another woman, male children started coming. So stop blaming only the man dear feminist. It could be spiritual or genetic factor.

God will surely bless you with a male child but let your husband be aware that he is reaping what he sow. You don't expect to sow cassava and reap up cocoyam. You are giving birth to what your husband deposited in you. Two of you need serious change of mindset and prayer.

DexterousOne:


Your daughters carry your gene
Just like your sons.

So your lineage and DNA still Carries on.
Whether Male or female

But then
We see things differently sha
That's the beauty of the world

my bro, wat do u expect when u live in patriachal society like africa where d girlchild is undervalued

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

My dear sister, weep no more!

You and your husband can determine the sex of your child!

Google and read about Dr. Shettle: How to determine the sex of your child!

Or get the book! Here's the book cover!

Madam you are the cause. Your beauty makes your husband to rush you every evening he returns from work. There is time and season for everything. You don't plant all crops at the same time on your farm land. Male children have time and female children have time as well. Tell your husband to change his sex timetable, he often meets you when he sperm is weak. He should make adjustment and fire you more from 5am in the morning. This is holy secret.

kunletexs:

Are you sure you are mentally stable? To abort is a grave sin, 2, if osohala (the female footballer) was aborted, what would become her future
3, she can die on the abortion table.

Ma, disregard this drunk fellow and delete his statement from your mind.

Peace be to you Ma


Thank God for your children jo, na so wen fruit of children start coming, your mockers would be there to see them but taste na you go determine who would.

olodo what about if buhari had been aborted, or shekau, or madueke ND the other evil people of the world....typical Nigerian sentimental shallow thinking....whats special about a foetus?? madam abort till you get a male....abortion is a sin not greater Dan lying as long as you ask for forgiveness before dying you will make heaven before this cement head talking rubbish

There are ways to choose the sex of a baby by timing when intercourse is done during ovulation. Its knowledge on the internet I have tried.

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Let him go and sit down! Doesn't he know it's his department to determine the sex of a child. I'm � sure his performance in bed is weak. Rubbish!
Nb: I'm here day dreaming and hoping for a female child soon... abundance of old age care.

Mumu, so who do you find at every "oloshoic centres" patronising these oloshos? It's not men right?

OlawaleBammie:


They have started, as if its not female child u wil find at every oloshoic centers across cities..

Madam Psalme91 u wil b ok wen u realise that its God dat is determining everything in this life irrespective of ur prayers, will, prospects, zeal, dedication, and all..

Laslas wen cant choose for God as ur prayer, cry, dedication, zeal cant change His plan, He's the masterplanner.

And for ur husband, dont worry, he wil come bak home after he must have gba kamu.

It's the timing of intercourse during ovulation. If properly timed, the baby's sex can be predetermined

James289:
Technically, the man decides the sex of the baby... not the woman. You can only contribute an X since you are XX and the man's sperm contributed either an X or a Y - thus deciding the sex.
So, he wasn't able to give himself what he wanted, lol - no reason for you to feel guilty.

lifemate89:
you are the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband.
My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay

baby girl no be pickin shebi

asshole

DMerciful:
It's the timing of intercourse during ovulation. If properly timed, the baby's sex can be predetermined

story...

Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

You and your husband are not serious.
Am sorry
When some are even crying to have one,you are looking for a boy.so wlfor what purpose o?
And just remember that if you dont have the wherewithal,you dont turn urself to baby factory.
Producing producing producing.
Continue u hear,you soon understand when ur body has been overused

Tried it 3 times, got what I wanted 3 times!

Moralgladiator:
story...

Na who u tell say female cant play a role of a Male even better than d male . If na name e get how dem dey do am .. na your hubby go decide which pikin you go carry no b ur fault ooooooo

Sorry o. but you married a very stupid man.
I will advice you print a copy of how the sex of a baby is determined biologically and let him read.

At this time and age some people are still bothering themselves about the sex of a child SMH.

I'm not yet married though but I plan on having just one child when I do.

Be it a boy or girl I don't give a rat's a55.

After all my family had all 4 boys and 2 girls and yet the family broke up shattered by the both clueless Parents.

Keep crying no sorry for you from my end.

You are very silly. You think everyone is as myopic and silly as you? Which silly lineage are they continuing? Does the female child have less of her father's DNA because she is female?

I can not really fault you. it is not like you have anything to give to this world other than your cheap seeds. I understand if your myopic thinking revolves round having a male-child.

Hypocritical ko hypocritical ni.

LIVINGICON:


What is ridiculous about it?? You are an African for crying out loud. So tradition and cultural values are still held in high esteem. Fine, a baby, be it a boyor girl is important. But at the same time u can't rule out the fact that a baby boy is very important to continue his father's lineage.

Do you think families with all their children as females are really happy? Do you think they never wished to have a baby boy??

Enough of all the hypocritical thinking.

Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

its yor fault...why did u born girl!!!!

Girls take care of their parents far better than boys at old age. Your husband is just ignorant. Dangote does not have a sun neither does Obama. Is your husband better than obama or reacher than Dangote? Rubbish . You case is even better than that of Bola146, she has not burn a single children since she married



Dominique forget me not

Go and read a post i made on how to sperm-spot to target how to have a male child. I pray it works for you after this one.

Its his fault if you're having females because its what he puts in you that will determine what you'll have.
The men have x and y chromosomes where y is a male chromosome and x is female. while we women have on xx which are both female. So if he releases the X, it combines with yours to produced
A female. But if he releases the Y, it combines with yours and becomes XY to produce male. We women are not a determining factor to that but the men.
Thou you can actually Target when to have a male and both of you need to follow the plan to avoid mistakes.

The boys will come.



I do interstate charter from port Harcourt to neighboring states, see my signature.

Midas01:
Mumu, so who do you find at every "oloshoic centres" patronising these oloshos? It's not men right?

Dey der dey compare ursef with men

Wen it comes to dignity of the body u wil tell me if its we men the society revere more or women.
Mumurity.

It should not matter. What should concern you are your kids! What are you doing to make your life and their lives better. You cannot fix your husband's family of your husband. Focus on yourself and your female children.

God help you if you choose to have more kids because you want to please silly people. I hope you are earning a 7-figure salary sha for the ones you have already. At the end of the day, you will be responsible for almost every damn thing. Then you will really understand what it means to ON YOUR OWN.

Psalme91:
please forgive me for speaking like an ungrateful person, I am not ungrateful to God, I am really grateful to him for blessings me with my daughters, I was frustrated because of my husband behaviour that why I spoke like an ungrateful but I can never be ungrateful to God, my husband families, they treat me badly with all all kinds of bad names, the mother of prostitutes, it really hurts my heart, even my husband supports his mother and his sisters for maltreating me , I know when they will be aware that this baby it’s another a girl, I can imagine how they will be treating me even worse than before. my heart is bleeding a lot. my husband hasn’t returned since yesterday, he doesn’t pick up his phone and he doesn’t want to answer my text, I feel bad, I couldn’t sleep at night, I cried a lot and thinks too much, I’m at work and I can’t even concentrate. I'm really sorry for all the bad things I said out of ignorance , I can never be ungrateful to God. thank you very much

The ones committing majority of the evils in this world, are they also women too?

So would you rather your male child to be kidnapper then your female child to be prostitute? Both options don't sound good at all. However, we all know with whom we would rather find ourselves with at the end of the day.

OlawaleBammie:


They have started, as if its not female child u wil find at every oloshoic centers across cities..

Madam Psalme91 u wil b ok wen u realise that its God dat is determining everything in this life irrespective of ur prayers, will, prospects, zeal, dedication, and all..

Laslas wen cant choose for God as ur prayer, cry, dedication, zeal cant change His plan, He's the masterplanner.

And for ur husband, dont worry, he wil come bak home after he must have gba kamu.

freecocoahubby:
This is absolutely ridiculous!

People still care about the gender of a baby in this day and age? This is why Nigeria will never progress - full of backward apes with silly mindsets

Just remember, Bobrisky is also a "male child"

Guy, why you dey vex

lifemate89:
you are the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband.
My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay

Prayerful kwa? To have a baby boy
It is well!

Your husband is very ungrateful ,l know couples married for 12years without no child ,...rubbish