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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by henryobinna(m): 7:24am On Feb 20, 2020
EVILFOREST:

Please are you the BOY...?
Yes and he's useless
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Orpe7(m): 7:26am On Feb 20, 2020
The Female child don suffer o
What is wrong in having a female child?

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Zane2point4(m): 7:26am On Feb 20, 2020
travelland:
This is what you stand to gain if you train them well, show your in laws this photo and make sure you use your husband's money to invest in their education
I hope all of them are married and answering another mans name elsewhere, the home of there parents will be empty and bored as hell.
I understand how men feel when they're yet to have male kid,nevertheless both male and female is very important. But ppl have there own reason for wanting male child.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Christmasdon(m): 7:28am On Feb 20, 2020
GOOD GOD PLEASE GIVE THIS LOVELY FAMILY A BABY BOY PLEASE I PRAY .I UNDERSTAND THE SITUATION AND PLIGHT OF THIS BEAUTIFUL FAMILY, GOD PLEASE NAH, ABEG ,YOUR CHILDREN ARE IN YOUR HANDS O GOD OF NAZARETH. IN JESUS NAME AMEN
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Buffalo2(m): 7:29am On Feb 20, 2020
SHEY YOUR HUSBAND NO GO SCHOOL NI? ABI HE NO KNOW SAY NA HIM DEY DETERMINE THE GENDER OF THE PIKINS DEM

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by West2019(m): 7:30am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
let him go and seat down are you the cause or u be God .barracks Obama has only 2 daughter still be happy upon all dey money him have my uncle working in NNPC have 3 daughter no boy are dem.not happy .madam dnt let that to bother u ok God is in control

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sarang(f): 7:30am On Feb 20, 2020
freecocoahubby:



Like I said, Nigeria is full of backward apes... and you must be one of them grin

Aswear grin
Imagine the clown!

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Reference(m): 7:32am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

Your offence is poor courtship where all these issues are discussed and AGREED. Where you discuss amongst many other things, children, how many, what spacing, etc and troubleshoot to gauge tolerances such as conception delays, health challenges, etc and the all mighty Nigerian question of the sexes of the children.

You ask the questions, seek the response, analyse his/her opinion, temperament and then decide whether you can make a union with the man or woman. The better your courtship the better your chances of having a successful, crises free marraige.

On the matter at hand, it is clear you married a traditionalist and a man with modest vision and little understanding of how life actually is from many perspectives to numerous to mention here.

But what I suggest you do is project the position of a man around the house by doing some of the things men do and bring up your girls like boys would while you work on his psyche turning his attention away from his concerns.

Having a boy baby is scientifically easy these days but I am not always for finding cheap solutions to life challenges. Your husband has a fundamental challenge God perhaps wants to root out. Work it out.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by henryobinna(m): 7:32am On Feb 20, 2020
Omoboricash:
You and your hubby are ingrate. Millions of people are crying for fruit of the womb be it girl or boy, you are crying for baby boy. I guess you're from eastern part of the country. My dear,train your daughters well and see how your old age become fruitful. I have two girls and I'm pleased with them.
It wasn't ur fault neither ur hubby. That what God design for you. A girl child take good care of parent in the old age than the male child. I'm talking from experience.
Would parent of Ngozi Nwella, Aminat Muhammad, Diezeni Maduekwe, madam Awosika, Mrs Alakija and other prominent Nigeria women not be proud of them ?
Train them to the highest level of education and watch how they become who is who in the country.
it seems to insult people from the Eastern region is a hubby for you. You must ne very stupid sha
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 7:34am On Feb 20, 2020
Jim99:


Hahaha. You know if should start my own list, we'd both grow old on this thread together.

There would be no technological advancement in the world today if not for men.

And here you are discouraging her on getting a male child.

The world needs more men please. I currently have 3 wonderful boys. Hoping to get more boys grin

The real men and women here understand the value and importance attached to a Male child.

Smh
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Mizwisdom(f): 7:36am On Feb 20, 2020
I don't think this is a real story. You don't even know if your husband has been kidnapped or killed o, you think only one way. You're having kids despite lack of money still asking for triplets. I just feel this is another made up story by the mods
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by lonelydora: 7:36am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

You worry a lot. I can count so many families with all girls, and they are doing very well.

Don't give yourself high BP because of something you cannot control.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sarang(f): 7:37am On Feb 20, 2020
Righteousness89:


Do you believe in Miracles!

If you do believe like I do believe..

Them hold on to this little prayer.,


FATHER In The Name of JESUS, Tonight I Change the Baby in Psalme91 to a baby Boy. Amen..

Record today's date!
I will Hear your Testimony!



Nwokem
God does not discriminate against gender abeg

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 7:37am On Feb 20, 2020
henryobinna:
it seems to insult people from the Eastern region is a hubby for you. You must ne very stupid sha

I don't see it as an insult

The entire country knows us for what we do in that respect
Sp we cannot even hide it, or pretend about it

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DexterousOne(m): 7:39am On Feb 20, 2020
Zane2point4:

I hope all of them are married and answering another mans name elsewhere, the home of there parents will be empty and bored as hell.
I understand how men feel when they're yet to have male kid,nevertheless both male and female is very important. But ppl have there own reason for wanting male child.

My parents had boys and girls


But as we speak
Their nest is empty
Everyone has found their square root

So what difference does it make?

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by ghettochild4u(m): 7:39am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
If u carry boy or girl... Its ur husband's fault n why is he being sad for what he did.. And what's wrong in having female kids... This idea of male kids better than females must stop... Plus I would rather have females that I would train to school than have a son who may turn out to become wayward or refuse to go to school...
I read a book in jss 2(1996) beyond expectations.. Two friends wale and George..
If u know, you are a legend
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by henryobinna(m): 7:40am On Feb 20, 2020
DexterousOne:


I don't see it as an insult

The entire country knows us for what we do in that respect
Sp we cannot even hide it, or pretend about it
I don't give a sh..it what you think or say about it.

Especially as am very aware of your activities on Nairaland. Everyone who knows your useless moniker knows you're not from the East, so shift.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by adanny01(m): 7:40am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:


thank you very much for the words of encouragement, I also have 4 daughters and pregnant with the fifth. this baby supposed to be our last ,cause of financial problems, that's why my husband is not happy

Madam, you are a rich woman. You are going to be very happy in your old age. You better don't worry yourself.

The only benefit of a man having a boy is his name and bloodline. Boys don't take care of their parents like girls do, so you are in good hands.

If your husband still wants a boy and you feel you cannot continue, it is not out of the ordinary to ask him to try somewhere. Its just your mindset that needs to adjust. Be contented and help him to be contented with God's gifts. It is not a right for him to have a boy.

Trust me, even if he gets a boy, those girls will make him more proud. Talk, encourage him and focus on giving the girls your best.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sarang(f): 7:41am On Feb 20, 2020
henryobinna:
it seems to insult people from the Eastern region is a hubby for you. You must ne very stupid sha

What is your problem?
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by DavidEsq(m): 7:41am On Feb 20, 2020
lifemate89:
you are the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband.
My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay
People still do this in this time and age? Are children no more gifts from God? I need to slap some cups of sense into that husband's foolish head angry

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Nobody: 7:41am On Feb 20, 2020
lifemate89:
you are the cause of you giving birth to baby girls, it's your husband.
My dear, cry not,the Lord is in control...my elder sister was in the same shoe with you,she gave birth to four baby girls...just last week,she gave birth to a baby boy...Just be prayerful okay
Your husband didn't donate Y chromosome, so she can't have a boy.
The husband failed to know female children are assest

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Sarang(f): 7:42am On Feb 20, 2020
3rd world countries una problem plenty haba!

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by pwityjj: 7:43am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please

You better thank God for your girls. Ask those with only boys who are all grown ups howfar.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Mizwisdom(f): 7:44am On Feb 20, 2020
Jim99:


Stop giving her false hope.

Check out the list of the world's billionaires, out of a hundred there are only a handful of women that make the list (of which some of them had inherited it from their husband's and fathers)

Checkout the most successful and important people in the world, i can bet there are not more than 10 women on that list.

My point is, with proper guidance, a male child will always attain greater heights than a female child. I'd choose a Male child anyday anytime over a female child.


They are the driving force of any thriving economy today.

The future is Male, believe it or not.


Me I will chose female child over male any day. I told my fiancé if you're not ready to accept all female family, I can never marry you grin he agreed sharp sharp. I guess she didn't discuss it earlier on. Secretly, I know that if I don't have a female child I will be very very sad so I understand how people feel when they have only one gender but for the sake of the kids, we should learn to act maturedly and appreciate what God gives
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by suchmuch: 7:45am On Feb 20, 2020
Coldie:
It can be corrected. But it would require lots of condoms and a good doctor.

Every time ur husband has sex the sperm from the condom should be given to a doctor to check if its male or female. If its female discard but if its male it should be used on u. To produce a male child
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by henryobinna(m): 7:49am On Feb 20, 2020
Temple1288:
Ndi Isi Oji!!! Black people from Black Africa... Very useless and stupid to the core; coupled with the fact that they live in a British Zoo makes it worse!


The only race on Earth to be traded and priced like onions.

There's this stupidity that lives in the brains of Ndi Isi Oji that makes them think a male child is more important!
Tomorrow when the female child turns out to be a corrupt government official AKA Looting Machine or maybe a full-fledged Instagram scammer, the stupid sperm donor will gladly call her MY DAUGHTER!


No wonder people are buying bleaching creams just to turn white....
If you think only black people were ever traded as slaves then your ignorance is so much that you should be seriously avoided.

All over history virtually all races were involved in and victims of slavery at different points of human history and during those times so slaves were also sold and/or exchange for goods and services.

So stop being stup..id and ignorance at the same time all in a bid to insult black people, last time I checked calling black people all sorts of names does not make you white nor asian rather it makes you an ungrateful as well as uselesss black cretin.

Next time focus on insulting yourself than insulting the entire black people on the planet. Intelligent dumbo
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Jim99: 7:51am On Feb 20, 2020
Mizwisdom:



Me I will chose female child over male any day. I told my fiancé if you're not ready to accept all female family, I can never marry you grin he agreed sharp sharp. I guess she didn't discuss it earlier on. Secretly, I know that if I don't have a female child I will be very very sad so I understand how people feel when they have only one gender but for the sake of the kids, we should learn to act maturedly and appreciate what God gives









Lol and you weren't worried how he agreed so easily? Hmmm

Someone that already has at least 2 male children from different women waiting for him outside and you dey here dey brag. No wise up

Did you see the joy on Davido's face when he heard he was having a boy through Chioma?
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Zane2point4(m): 7:51am On Feb 20, 2020
DexterousOne:


My parents had boys and girls


But as we speak
Their nest is empty
Everyone has found their square root

So what difference does it make?
They difference is this,the men will always be around,might leave elsewhere but is available, the ladies will be at the mercy of there husbands,meaning if he decides she doesn't step out she cant.
Many reasons tho.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by Ulunne777(f): 7:53am On Feb 20, 2020
Fogman:


Miracle abounds and in some cases, scan result fails. My friend had 2 daughters and wife was pregnant for the 3rd baby and scan result showed baby girl, but she gave birth to a boy. My advice go down on your knees and pray. Good luck dear

Did he tell you he wants more. 5 children never do?
Go on your knees and send the fertility dust to all the childless couple around u.
Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by colestephan86: 7:53am On Feb 20, 2020
Psalme91:
It is almost 4AM my husband hasn’t come home yet, just because we found out that I am carrying another baby girl. I’m in pains. I don’t know what I have done to deserve all this .

Please help me beg God if I offended him unknowingly to please forgive me and blessed me with baby boys ( triplets). Please
Tell your retched husband to focus more on making a good life for his own, rather than thinking of how to pass on poverty from one generation to another .
Tell him I said he is a dingbat.

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Re: Husband is disappointed that we are having another girl by henryobinna(m): 7:53am On Feb 20, 2020
Sarang:


What is your problem?
Are you dumb?

Didn't you see the message I quoted?

If you can't read, aunty pleade shift and continue facing front

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