I'm sure this OP no get sense at all, get a good girlfriend? 9ja girls wey don tia eyes for money and material things, I don't have a girlfriend, na girls them dey rush me cuz i gather sugar (money) make money b4 u make honey, who dressing sense eep?

bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.

Guy na lie.. nonsense!!! money builds your confidence and self esteem. you think a broke man with a woman is confident?

Poverty makes you strive to be a better and successful man hunger never beat you b4.

Haven't had a woman In my life for about 4yrs now, and i am a better man now than I was when I had one.

@ OP

Repent.

At the end if the day, we all need that one person who cares enough to ask "how was your day".
love is a beautiful thing...

olaboy33:
Don't let the guys above me deceive you, they're the odd ones.

Alcohol, weed and all that won't fill the void left by the absence of a woman. You'll still find them in brothels and with first class harlots looking for what they claim is not missing.

A gentleman should get a good girl and live a happy life.

false.. Living happily ever after is a faux.. Get real!!

Reason why having a snake is good for you.

Nnemuka:
At the end if the day, we all need that one person who cares enough to ask "how was your day".
love is a beautiful thing...

Leave them up there forming hard guys online, i am currently living that single life and it's not fun. The op is right, we're not wired to be on our own

YngDenzel1:
Leave them up there forming hard guys online, i am currently living that single life and it's not fun. The op is right, we're not wired to be on our own

Hustle, buy a car, load your account and see how fun it is

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Don't be deceived niggarz by those sermons up there

Real niggarrrz don't do girl friend
Real niggarrrz huzzle some dope money, drink some beer, smoke some weed And real niggarrr bang enough pussies because they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don'ton't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.

Damnnnnn u have said it all Damnnnnn

There are a lot of us here who don't want to marry because of the mountainous problem involve in having a girl friend or problem attached to marriage. It more blessed to be a single guy than to marry all these naija troublesome ladies.

Its true sha :-P

EnterpriseMan:


Hustle, buy a car, load your account and see how fun it is

Lol... What makes you think am broke?

You will party with friends, drink, fvck olosho.. you will still go home alone.

You will have fun, then it will hit you when the fun stops

Being a single guy legit for me....I speak for myself. I can't welcome unnecessary headache from any woman abeg.

If as a man you need a woman to give you confidence and the drive to succeed, then you are no man. Those are things that should come inbuilt in a man. It’s our alpha instinct. You only need a woman for companionship though. So I agree with that one.

This your story no make sense...

But true true, me I need babe for this my life!!

Before konji go impregnate me one day!

I'm thinking right now on how to sell my cars on nairaland.

Let me take care of my mom and siblings first.

Oga op take time oh.

I sell good cars in Lagos.

Too lazy to read that

marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.

It's different stuffs for different folks.

I av this girlfriend of 5years now counting, it is best 5yrs of my life...

The issue with relationship is the fact that not every man will be lucky to get a good girl.

If u can't get agood girl, u better remain single bro it's way better.

God When?

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Don't be deceived niggarz by those sermons up there

Real niggarrrz don't do girl friend
Real niggarrrz huzzle some dope money, drink some beer, smoke some weed And real niggarrr bang enough pussies because they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don'ton't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.

Come back in ten years to this post; if you are not ashamed of it, then something is obviously wrong with you.

PS: in ten years max

ikevictor:
This your story no make sense...

But true true, me I need babe for this my life!!

Before konji go impregnate me one day!

Bro, I tell you, we all need companionship. It's not even about konji, runz girls yapa everywhere, i know, cos i don smash dem tire

But how gf go give me confidence?

EnterpriseMan:


Hustle, buy a car, load your account and see how fun it is

You still need love In your life.

boiz with ambition don't go after love

I have never had a girlfriend. Girlfriends are liabilities, they cage you and impose unnecessary conditions on you.

As a young guy, you need freedom to explore every facet of life. And when it comes to your romantic life, you can easily find a friend with benefits.

The good thing is that you can find as many as you want -without any guilt or commitment. Most girls are not to be trusted; I deflowered a girl recently, she has a boyfriend who she's denying sex.

That day, the boyfriend even sent her 5k to buy shoe. I haven't spent up to 100 naira on the said girl. There are so many other cases like this. You don't need no girlfriend to be any of those bullshit the OP mentioned. You just need to believe in yourself and you need to be successful in your own little way.

Nnemuka:
At the end if the day, we all need that one person who cares enough to ask "how was your day".
love is a beautiful thing...

You and who

YngDenzel1:
Bro, I tell you, we all need companionship. It's not even about konji, runz girls yapa everywhere, i know, cos i don smash dem tire

Bro, na the companionship sure pass. I no do runs o, before dem give me corona virus!!

We go.find better babe for NL no worry. This is our year!

ikevictor:


Bro, na the companionship sure pass. I no do runs o, before dem give me corona virus!!

Lol... Wetin man go do. Condom yapa na

I ain't for or against what the Op has listed.
But I sure need a girl friend.
Been bored for a while now
We might even take it slowly and in ur own terms.
So if you stay around Ikoyi, Lagos island, Lekki and it's environs
And you are interested, let us hook up.
I'm 25, igbo, dark, 5.9 tall etc.
I no be ajebo ooo
I hustle jejely

Nnemuka:
At the end if the day, we all need that one person who cares enough to ask "how was your day".
love is a beautiful thing...

Hmmm, this is deep.

complete trash



ALL WE NEED IS P☆SSY,, MONEY AND WEED

marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.

Lord of Singles. I salute you