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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by ikevictor: 7:54pm On Feb 20, 2020
YngDenzel1:
Lol... Wetin man go do. Condom yapa na grin

Aah! Condom ke! I no trust that thing o...unless I go wear 5 @ once...lol
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Obodo999(m): 7:54pm On Feb 20, 2020
bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.

You should have said a worthwhile girlfriend. The problem is most girls are leeches looking for men to devour.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nnemuka(f): 7:55pm On Feb 20, 2020
Papanwamaikpe:
You and who
The one you love to hear from.
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Ca4real: 7:56pm On Feb 20, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Don't be deceived niggarz by those sermons up there

Real niggarrrz don't do girl friend
Real niggarrrz huzzle some dope money, drink some beer, smoke some weed And real niggarrr bang enough pussies because they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don'ton't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.


Bro u nailed it.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by pocohantas(f): 7:57pm On Feb 20, 2020
That a guy is single doesn’t mean he is sexually inactive.

Some will claim they don’t need a woman in their life, yet they’ll be disturbing someone’s gf on Whatsapp. When you don’t respond to them, they will say Naija girls can’t chat well.

Oga, why would we chat well?
Don’t you know we would respond to you when our bf is busy/sleeping? grin

Go find your own babe jare. Even alfa males are in relationships with the only good girls in Nigeria.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by BrainSanitizer: 7:58pm On Feb 20, 2020
I've been on both sides of the divide long enough. Trust me, guys will be better off without a girl hanging in their soul.
You probably haven't been in the hands of a girl who takes nothing less gan 3 hours on the phone every evening. That's exclusive of morning and afternoon calls. Any day you get off the phone earlier than 00:00, then you have a reason to go for thanksgiving.
No one should even start the "you needed to have talked to her" sermon. I tried and I didn't work.
Where do some people get the good girls from?
Someone should please refer me.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Mypeople2(m): 8:01pm On Feb 20, 2020
bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.
My guy, go and join comedy because you are a comedian .How can someone having a babe an achievement? Can she use her money to cook for one week without pulling down your ego as a man? She go announce am for NTA .So babe Na achievement na ?You too funny

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by sofiscatedmoron: 8:03pm On Feb 20, 2020
As hustling young guy all u need is a fwb aka Bleep mate,, u dont really need a girlfriends it drains much from u, both emotionally and physically,,

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nnemuka(f): 8:03pm On Feb 20, 2020
ikevictor:
This your story no make sense...

But true true, me I need babe for this my life!!

Before konji go impregnate me one day!
There's a difference between olosho and girlfriend
From what you wrote up there, you need a kajad olosho
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Divay22(f): 8:04pm On Feb 20, 2020
marvelous000:
A better heap of crap have never been written.

I've been single for the past 18yrs and it would be vulgar trying to put into word the amount of bliss I've experienced taking into cognisance the gruelling task it take to service a relationship and in Nigeria most especially.
Old age is settling in o sad
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by MartinsD12(m): 8:06pm On Feb 20, 2020
bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.
Nothing good about having girlfriend they are parasites living in a host if you know what I mean, they will drain you financially and put you into emotional mess, if you like kill yourself for a girlfriend if she sees someone who has more money than you your case na sorry, girlfriends are in for the money and the highest bidder but then am not saying there are no good girlfriends that will stay with you and build from the scratch but the truth is its very hard to find, the ones way dey nowadays na olosho

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by abdullkabar(m): 8:08pm On Feb 20, 2020
@Op, its your opinion

Somebody else might think otherwise


Lastly(maybe Op just got a new gf/bf)
Come turn motivational speaker undecided



Modified: See as singles self dey find points to justify their singularity (different rules for different folks tho)
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by fattprince(m): 8:14pm On Feb 20, 2020
Anneka101:
I'm here to read comments. Please the guys what do you have to say ??
Will you go out with me
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by nextstep(m): 8:19pm On Feb 20, 2020
Single life is actually quite exciting. You get to go where you want, when you want, and meet anyone you want. You want to chill by yourself, no problem. Want to watch football? Easy. Go clubbing and you see a new chick? No worries.

Work all day and night to further your career or business? Done.

No drama-filled stories of what happened at the office, with her friends, or family.

No dependent who requires money for hair, textbook, settling lecturer, sick mother.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by mistijude: 8:20pm On Feb 20, 2020
luvyaself95:
For your mind now you have speak with sense.
For your mind now too, you have spoken correct English

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by smiliyB(f): 8:23pm On Feb 20, 2020
MrBrownJay1:

em or any of the above you wrote.
that's why op said good woman...you both ended up saying the same thing.
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Jeffreylynx6(m): 8:24pm On Feb 20, 2020
MrBrownJay1:

You've said it all mrbrownjay1 I completely agree with you grin


not everyone is made to be with someone, not everyone CAN be with someone... some men out there are just good at fukcing around, and so be it. some women out there are good for nothing, and bringing them into your life would just be a waste of time/life.



very true... but i highly doubt there is pressure to be with a good woman, unless you talk about konji, because its best to be alone than with the WRONG woman.
btw, just because a man doesnt have a woman does NOT automatically makes him LONELY



any man whose desire for success in life is DUE TO WOMEN, is not worthy to be called a MAN... and is no better than a mop!



i am sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but back in the days you were simply a DIRTY UNCIVILIZED dude...and sadly, the minute you get comfortable with that new babe, thats exactly who you will become again.



how can having a babe boost your confidence and self esteem?! confidence in what exactly? is having a woman such a feat today that having a babe is viewed as a life achievement?!?!?!?

sadly, you seem to believe that dating ANY women is good, while unless she is a good woman, all would be a waste of time. a man dating the neighborhood wh0re wont have any self esteem or any of the above you wrote.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by gentlegenius(m): 8:25pm On Feb 20, 2020
Anneka101:
I'm here to read comments. Please the guys what do you have to say ??
What I have to say is ...
Everything the OP wrote up there is possible only when a guy get involved with a GOOD girl, not just any girl.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by ChilamNk(m): 8:33pm On Feb 20, 2020
Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr

Don't be deceived niggarz by those sermons up there

Real niggarrrz don't do girl friend
Real niggarrrz huzzle some dope money, drink some beer, smoke some weed And real niggarrr bang enough pussies because they see women as swimming pool
They don't give a fuckkkkk if the swimming pool have never been used
They don't give a fuckkk who have been swimming before they started swimming
They don'ton't give a fuckkkkk who will swim after they are done swimming their own
And they don't give a fuckkkkk who is even swimming with them as they are swimming
They just swim their own sharpely and move on.



Na only person way wan die quick be that

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nobody: 8:36pm On Feb 20, 2020
What you people don't understand is that there is a lot of difference between Solitude and Loneliness!!!

Single life is the best!!!

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Ademoore07(m): 8:37pm On Feb 20, 2020
OK, I've read all your points. I need a girlfriend. Can u get me one?
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nobody: 8:42pm On Feb 20, 2020
Nnemuka:
At the end if the day, we all need that one person who cares enough to ask "how was your day".
love is a beautiful thing...
Have you eaten?? grin
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by donem: 8:43pm On Feb 20, 2020
Munzy14:

It's different stuffs for different folks.

I av this girlfriend of 5years now counting, it is best 5yrs of my life...

The issue with relationship is the fact that not every man will be lucky to get a good girl.

If u can't get agood girl, u better remain single bro it's way better.
Girlfriend of 5yrs now and counting, u deh talk am with confidence without shame u no go find way marry am?

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nobody: 8:45pm On Feb 20, 2020
BarrSly:
You see the first guy so na confirm motor he sit down put before he start to kiss person daughter.

You see the second guy so na yankee dem dy wen dem dy play love.

You see the third pic so d babe hold better wad of cash dy take pics.

You see the fourth pic I bliv una sabi who dem be...


Why did I point all of these out? Good I’ll tell u why.

Those people up there have the money going for them, u with your cheap shirt and cheap shoe in your one bedroom apartment that you think you’ve arrived because you put wallpaper for back of TV go com dy find gf? I pity you!!

If you don’t have money forget the love e no go teh.. she will tell you how broke you are to your face and you can’t argue cause it’s true..

Gf is not important money is important and when you do have money please don’t go and get a gf rather get a list of female friends who will readily be available to make u happy and who won’t always be around so when the money go you won’t blame anybody for fake love.

And if you feel lonely get a baby mama to give you a child. Life goes on...


I respect your view bro. What we need are female friends who stick around during the hard times

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by dederocs(m): 8:47pm On Feb 20, 2020
Nonsense
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nthrone(m): 8:48pm On Feb 20, 2020
OP you forget to add that, they drain the pocket, abi no bi Nigerian girls again?

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Anneka101(f): 8:49pm On Feb 20, 2020
fattprince:

Will you go out with me

To pluck Mangos or oranges?
Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by jaxxy(m): 8:50pm On Feb 20, 2020
Not having a gf is also quite good if u know how to Spend ur time and utilize it well. Having a gf is only good when u find one with good enough sense even if not perfect bt shud be close.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by golddare: 8:51pm On Feb 20, 2020
bigpriik:
Living a single life can be boring most times. You see, we humans are wired to need someone. There is always a vacuum in our lives that needs to be filled by someone special, that's the reason why people make a lot of unnecessary sacrifices just to be love.

Sometimes we go below our standard just to keep them even though they may not worth it. Well it's because life and love has no manual. We are left to learn the hard way.

Every guy needs a good girlfriend if not you can't be truly happy no matter how you try to cover up with friends, hustle, computer games e.t.c. Even if you can, you can't stand the test of time you will still be lonely it is just the law of nature. Nature knows we can die anytime so there is this pressure to find a mate and pass your genes before death occurs.

There are many ways having a good girlfriend will better your life

1)Determination to be successful

let's say you have a new pretty girlfriend, she loves you truly but as hustling guy you don't have an apartment of your own so you guys can have all privacy you need, suddenly you will notice you have this drive to work harder and get an apartment for yourself and most times it works out, you will discover you manage your finances and a step ahead better, a girl can be that powerful

2) Strife to be a better man

I remember 7 years back I used to be a very dirty boy with poor dress sense. I wore one boxer for three days. My first girlfriend was this very neat Akwa Ibom girl (those women are very neat) she always insulted me until I blended and improved with my neatness and dress sense and secondly my social life changed too. The way I interact with people, I became more civilised. This trait still live with me today.

3) Confidence boost and self esteem

Having a beautiful woman in your life will boost your confidence and self esteem better than when your were single. If she truly loves you, you always feel wanted, loved and wanted.


You better change it to having a good girlfriend and besides many have done all these things without a girlfriend.

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nobody: 8:52pm On Feb 20, 2020
Divay22:

Old age is settling in o sad
He will age like a wine!!!
I know many ladies on Nairaland that love matured men!!! He should enjoy his single life as much as possible.. YOLO

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Re: Reasons Why Having A Girlfriend Is Good For You . by Nnemuka(f): 8:55pm On Feb 20, 2020
eni4real:
Have you eaten?? grin
That is one question I hate
I don't reply sef if anyone asks...

But you see this "how was your day" question eh it turns me into a talkative.

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