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Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Beth2000: 9:19pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
A 22-year-old Lady had shared on Reddit about her fiance asking her to "allow" his father to check her hymen on the eve of their wedding day. She wrote: "Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love," said the 22-year-old Lady. According to her statement, her fiance had once told her that it was the tradition and a norm that his father check the virginity of the brides in the family, the night before weddings. She furthermore narrated; "No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still 'pure'," wrote the woman. She wasn't having any of it though. "I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him." Her fiance then pointed to his mother undergoing the sexist practice to make his case. "He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin," wrote the woman. Continue reading here http:///s7c71f76d200220en_ng
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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:23pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
what type of nonsense is this?! but the dude did tell the babe that this was his tradition (however disgusting it may be)....so she can accept or bounce! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Skmoda360(m): 9:30pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
what sort of Rubbish is this now? 3 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Beth2000: 9:30pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Don't you think the lady should have accepted knowing the fact that it is a tradition? Here's the whole story sha http:///s7c71f76d200220en_ng MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 9:35pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Skmoda360: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Freestainworld(m): 9:36pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
what kind if stupid tradition is that, if it was his mum, its even better, but father, hell no, the guy sef na real time mugu, how can my precious food by exposed for flies ? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 9:43pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
You haven't read the whole story, have you? She isn't exposing it at the market square! Freestainworld: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:05pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Beth2000: she has the right to decide if she wants to go through that awkward test or not... but they should have confirmed earlier that she was ok with it. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by uboma(m): 10:47pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
She thought the Groom and father were trying to play a fast one on her Culture cannot be looked I would do same if I was the bride. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by godofuck231: 10:47pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
He must be igbo, na them de know fake and genuine goods |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Sixfeetbelle: 11:25pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
BethRichie: Even at that, it's wrong. I can accept if the mother was asked to check, but another male is out of the question. And how do you know what the procedure would entail? Will he not penetrate her using his dick? Now imagine a girl's first time sex would be with her father-in-law. I disagree completely. 2 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fejimummy: 11:32pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
babanla ritual setting |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BabbanBura(m): 11:37pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
Beth2000: Some.cultures have refused to evolve! |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Coolcalmcollect(m): 11:44pm On Feb 20, 2020 |
she's stupid, since she was told of the tradition at the beginning why back out when the time came to act? she's an idiot. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by TomMary(f): 7:45am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Stupid tradition ... The father should have slept with her to confirm it not just checking.... Rubbish |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Bigmanpickin: 9:52am On Feb 21, 2020 |
godofuck231:Your brain is on vacation 2 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by babakelove: 11:26am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Agreement is an agreement . 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by godofuck231: 11:31am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Bigmanpickin:lol |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 12:27pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
But time waits for no one especially you Ladies Getting another man can take extra years; if you're ugly that's will be uboma: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 12:31pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Kai that man fit be your uncle ooo Una go dey do the same thing godofuck231: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by rafindo(m): 1:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
MrBrownJay1: Not when millions have been invested. 2 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:16pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
rafindo: come on bro! anyone has the right to walk away, for whatever reason, no matter how much money/time/effort has been invested. 6 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 1:25pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
She can; only when he pays back for expenses the guys have done so far! I won't tolerate she walking out the relationship like that MrBrownJay1: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:36pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
BethRichie: bro, as much as it certainly aint ideal, would you rather force someone to marry you, even though they didnt want to do so any longer?!?!?!? changing your mind about marrying someone isnt something that would be taken lightly.... the fact that your sole concern would be financial says a lot about your state of mind.... i would be much more concerned about losing the woman i was ready to spend the rest of my natural life with. i guess we see things differently. |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:08pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
I don't blame her. 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:11pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
BethRichie: Hello, the father and brothers are market square, they are flies. 4 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:13pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Coolcalmcollect: Did you read where she's said she thought he was joking? Meaning he first told her jokingly, you are the idiot here. 4 Likes |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 2:23pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Is it not checking just the heymen or are they going to insert something there? What if she's in the hospital won't the doctors and nurses see vagi... too or are they not humans? Fountainofyouth: |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:02pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Wow, if all the brides there would act like this, the evil tradition would be wiped out. 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Coolcalmcollect(m): 5:57pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Fountainofyouth:the elders of your village and family are idiots. what's the meaning of he told her jokingly? a guy will tell you that and you think it's joke... fish brain |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Adgideon(m): 6:38pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Why not the mother, you didn't say how the father Will do the checking, your man must b from 1860 1 Like |
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Nobody: 7:02pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Beth2000:which whole story? we already got what we want here. no one will click that link. the part we got is enough for us to argue and abuse ourselves a little 1 Like |
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