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JONNYSPUTE:
.. Exactly what criminals say. They keep blaming hardships for their selfish acts. So it's not a new thing.

you reason right? How does this relate to the topic at hand?
Do married men cheat and have kids outside? Yes or No?

I always find it funny when your kinds suddenly remember the Bible to use to back up infidelity, you forget that polygamy was practiced in the old testament, in the new testament, a man is supposed to marry one wife. Besides, it's amazing you are blind, and did not come across men like Isaac, Absalom, Abraham, etc, who all practiced monogamy. Abraham, only remarried after his wife died, as for hilgar whom he impregnated, it was his wife that gave him go ahead to do that. Biblical men lived for as long as centuries, they lived for very long years, yet you foools with a short life span expectancy of 50yrs, want to wastes your strengths on frivolities, thats why marriage to a Nigerian man is a scam, ladies need to be wise. Stipends which people call bride price, isn't a ticket for men to be promiscuous, it's very silly to even bring bride price into the discussion.

anslem04:
Sorry my lil dear, you don't get to dictate the terms here, not until women start paying groom price, provide housing, foot d bills and give there name as surname then maybe women can dictate.
If you like rant from now til tomorrow naa man go put you 4 house, even in the bible men married more than one wife, abramham, david ,solomon all had more than one wife ... these are men God called friend & took delight in. as for the promiscuous wives where did they see example. our fore fathers married more than one wife n had peace that a young man that married a 2020 model wife can only dream of.

MJBOLT:

if ladies keep their legs closed maybe the dicks will stay in one place

if the legs are closed men will force it open,deny them jobs,under score them in exams etc to make it open.

They now lace ladies drink with Spanish fly

Michellekabod2:
you reason right? How does this relate to the topic at hand?
Do married men cheat and have kids outside? Yes or No?

.. Read it again and see what I implied. Hahahaha. An adage my dear.Be wise.

You all are cheats, and you boast of it here all the time. I am glad some countries do not allow paternity tests, it's also good majority of you Nigerian folks are so broke and cannot afford it. , So the ''bad game'' of wives bringing bastards to you all will continue for a very long time. If 99percent of black men are cheats, what's the need deliberating on the 1percent faithful ones. Dipsticks like you like to personalize every argument, I wonder why you should talk about my personal life.

Martinez39s:
Faithful men and unfaithful men have all been victims of paternity fraud. Regardless of whether a man is faithful or not, a father has the right to take a DNA test on his child(ren) and it's no man's responsibility to take care of a child that isn't his. Whether a man is faithful or not, a woman who cunningly makes a man father another man's child without his knowledge is guilty of fraud.

So your argument that men aren't entitled to a DNA test because they are unfaithful is outrightly not a thoughtful on and it falls flat. What about the faithful ones? The reason why you think all men are cheats is because you are a cheat and you know your fellow ladies are cheats so you natural project yourself on men just like other ladies do. No innocent human is ruffled or upset with security measures.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Exactly what criminals say. They keep blaming hardships for their selfish acts. So it's not a new thing.

You seem not to get my point.
I believe DNA test should be performed on couples (men and women).

My issue here is, he who is blameless should cast the first stone.
I never endorsed having another Man's kid. All I am saying is that a man with an extra marital child should not cry foul over a wife with one.
But you missed the point.


Of recent I noticed guys on this forum don't understand posts before they quote me. That is how I made a post on walking away and not staining your hands by beating an unfaithful wife so the court has nothing against you but many took it as though I was shielding the woman from beating and starting quoting me upandan.

LilMissFavvy:
You all are cheats, and you boast of it here all the time. I am glad some countries do not allow paternity tests, it's also good majority of you Nigerian folks are so broke and cannot afford it. , So the ''bad game'' of wives bringing bastards to you all will continue for a very long time. If 99percent of black men are cheats, what's the need deliberating on the 1percent faithful ones. Dipsticks like you like to personalize every argument, I wonder why you should talk about my personal life.

Cut the crap. Whether you like it or not, all men are entitled to paternity test. Countries where DNA tests are forbidden have gynocentrism and the weakness of men to thank. Hoes shall be exposed. Good day.

All men are entitled to paternity tests, yet some countries are banning it, while many of you cannot afford it? Of what use is it being entitled to something without having access to it? Continue with your delusions in your foools Paradise.

Martinez39s:
Cut the crap. Whether you like it or not, all men are entitled to paternity test. Countries where DNA tests are forbidden have gynocentrism and the weakness of men to thank. Hoes shall be exposed. Good day.

Both male n female shouldn't be promiscuous.

Chuknovski:
Hypocritical or not, women are forbidden(Religious, cultural, Tribal,) on all grounds to be promiscuous

Michellekabod2:
You seem not to get my point.
I believe DNA test should be performed on couples (men and women).

My issue here is, he who is blameless should cast the first stone.
I never endorsed having another Man's kid. All I am saying is that a man with an extra marital child should not cry foul over a wife with one.
But you missed the point.


Of recent I noticed guys on this forum don't understand posts before they quote me. That is how I made a post on walking away and not staining your hands by beating an unfaithful wife so the court has nothing against you but many took it as though I was shielding the woman from beating and starting quoting me upandan.

.. Don't try to be smart here. You said something and I concured by telling you that it's only a thief that is afraid of security measures.

What did you do? You quoted me and said that we men should keep our dicks one place,when I replied you that, that's exactly how criminals reason,you said I didn't get you.

Somethings are not meant to be said straight,just deduce the implications and you are good to go.

In the thread you claimed you were advising guys,did you at any point condemn her actions before dishing out your so called advice?.

MissGodOwn:
Both male n female shouldn't be promiscuous.

.. You are right.

Michellekabod2:
My issue here is, he who is blameless should cast the first stone.
I never endorsed having another Man's kid. All I am saying is that a man with an extra marital child should not cry foul over a wife with one.
But you missed the point.

You are missing the point. This is not an issue of moral uprightness but an issue of rights and responsibilities.
— All men, regardless of infidelity, have the right to conduct a paternity test on their supposed kid(s).
— It's not the responsibility of any man, regardless of infidelity, to take care of another man's seed.

▪︎ If a man has cheated and made another woman pregnant, the woman must hand the child over to the biological father to fulfill his responsibilities. Paternity fraud is not complete until the woman takes the child to another man to raise as his own without his knowledge. In this regard, paternity fraud takes the combined effort of a man and woman.
▪︎ If a man is refused the right to a DNA test, then he has no obligation to take care of his supposed child(ren).
▪︎Any women that makes a man take care of a child that isn't his without his knowledge is guilty of fraud regardless of the man's infidelity.

Michellekabod2:
you reason right? How does this relate to the topic at hand?
Do married men cheat and have kids outside? Yes or No?

Some do, but do they bring the child home and try to convince their wives that it's their child?

LilMissFavvy:
That's your current mental state, isn't it? You are sicckkk that's why you view phillandering by men in marriage as a norm, your morals are dead, most red pills are gays, so why are you on a thread that concerns paternity test/marriage. Continue to troll, stupiddd buffon.

Wow. This is very low of you. You get short of words to defend what you think is right and you result to calling names? Does that show your level of intelligence?

LilMissFavvy:
So because a man pays bride price, it gives him the license to be promiscuous, I am not surprised, but if you think your ideaology is right, and that the modern women should accept it, then you are living in a foools Paradise. I can now understand why some wives fight, wound, dupe or even kill your kinds who have such mindset.

You are talking from both sides of your mouth.
1. Yes,a man has the license to be promiscuous because he purchased the African woman as his property.She wouldn't have married him without his money nor would her family agree to give her for free.So if he desires to purchase another African woman with his money,how is that bad?

2.You can't call your kind "the modern woman" and still cling to the african custom and tradition when it comes to relationship and marriage rites.Modern women are those in advanced first and second world countries and they do not sale their love nor do their parents collect dowry and bride price.

3. You African woman can't eat your cake and have it.Dump African tradition marriage rites if you truly want equality.

I do not expect you to see the first mention he sent to me, where he insulted me, how can a partially blind red pill like you see clearly or be impartial to a female?

Omar09:
Wow. This is very low of you. You get short of words to defend what you think is right and you result to calling names? Does that show your level of intelligence?

DAramis:
I used to watch this channel. The level of fraud going on will make you to shiver.

There is an incident of a guy being roped in by the woman but they guy insisted on DNA test though the baby is less than 5 months old. It turned out that he is not the father.

The annoying part is the issue of Legal father and biological father. Imagine signing a birth certificate because someone was convinced that the child is his but the DNA test proves otherwise. The court still mandate that person to keep on paying child support and being the legal father, just because he penned his name on the document.

Such can never work in Nigeria. Also, so many men may not survive the earth shattering truth that comes out from such DNA test coupled with the public embarrassment it causes.

My brother, I have watched different episode and I can't imagine myself being in that situation. Like lefulefu said, I doubt if the Govt. is ever going to support the paternity test because of the outrageous outcome it will bring to this nation. We are just in a pitiable state in this country. The worst is what you have sated that in U.S you continue being the legal father as long as your name is on the birth cert. even when you are not the biological father.

Due to the messed up society we found ourselves today even though we created the mess ourselves. Every man deserves to know if that child is truly his. We will get there even if it takes eternity to achieve.

LilMissFavvy:
I do not expect you to see the first mention he sent to me, where he insulted me, how can a partially blind red pill like you see clearly or be impartial to a female?

So calling all red pills gay is cool cause you are in a hot argument with all of us at the same time. Have sense sis.

LilMissFavvy:
All men are entitled to paternity tests, yet some countries are banning it, while many of you cannot afford it? Of what use is it being entitled to something without having access to it? Continue with your delusions in your foools Paradise.

Finally you have made some sense.At times one can get vital strategic information from the enemy or criminal as the case may be.There is a need to push for men's right to free or subsidized DNA paternity testing in Nigeria .

The African man is a daft foool who does not want to dump ancient cultures, most of these cultures were simply created to oppress women. So, yes we ladies accept modernity, we also accept traditions, ie traditions that are fair/humane.

I see the way you all keep ranting about bride price, you sound like bride price amounts to millions, are you all broke? Try and find out the amount paid as bride price in different cultures, and you will agree with me that such amount of money is nothing but stipends, paying bride price does not mean a man bought a woman, rather bride price is like a kind of APRRECIATION/COURTSEY which a groom pays to his father in-law.

Besides, some ladies/brides family support a groom financially, in planning their marriage, yet you lots keep insulting women. I guess all of you must have been blind, not to see a thread in family section where a guy asked his gal shares marriage expenditures 50:50, his kinds will still come online to say nonscence about women. I wonder the part of the world you live in, hence you do not see supportive brides.

veteranExboy:
You are talking from both sides of your mouth.
1. Yes,a man has the license to be promiscuous because he purchased the African woman as his property.She wouldn't have married him without his money nor would her family agree to give her for free.So if he desires to purchase another African woman with his money,how is that bad?

2.You can't call your kind "the modern woman" and still cling to the african custom and tradition when it comes to relationship and marriage rites.Modern women are those in advanced first and second world countries and they do not sale their love nor do their parents collect dowry and bride price.

3. You African woman can't eat your cake and have it.Dump African tradition marriage rites if you truly want equality.

LilMissFavvy:
The African man is a daft foool who does not want to dump ancient cultures, most of these cultures were simply created to oppress women. So, yes we ladies accept modernity, we also accept traditions, ie traditions that are fair/humane.

I see the way you all keep ranting about bride price, you sound like bride price amounts to millions, are you all broke? Try and find out the amount paid as bride price in different cultures, and you will agree with me that such amount of money is nothing but stipends, paying bride price does not mean a man bought a woman, rather bride price is like a kind of APRRECIATION/COURTSEY which a groom pays to his father in-law.

Besides, some ladies/brides family support a groom financially, in planning their marriage, yet you lots keep insulting women. I guess all of you must have been blind, not to see a thread in family section where a guy insisted his gal shares marriage expenditures 50:50. I wonder the part of the world you live in, hence you do not see supportive brides.

.. Must you always start your submissions with insults? Let's be civil while discussing please.

Have you seen guys on this forum mention me without insults? I know them all, they may dribble around, but I know throwing jabs is their entire aim. I cannot understand why you did not see all the insults thrown at me.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Must you always start your submissions with insults? Let's be civil while discussing please.

LilMissFavvy:
Have you seen guys on this forum mention me without insults? I know them all, they may dribble around, but I know throwing jabs is their entire aim. I cannot understand why you did not see all the insults thrown at me.

. You can insult them back directly, nobody will call you out. But insulting others because some guys insulted you is what I don't understand.

DAramis:
I used to watch this channel. The level of fraud going on will make you to shiver.

There is an incident of a guy being roped in by the woman but they guy insisted on DNA test though the baby is less than 5 months old. It turned out that he is not the father.

The annoying part is the issue of Legal father and biological father. Imagine signing a birth certificate because someone was convinced that the child is his but the DNA test proves otherwise. The court still mandate that person to keep on paying child support and being the legal father, just because he penned his name on the document.

Such can never work in Nigeria. Also, so many men may not survive the earth shattering truth that comes out from such DNA test coupled with the public embarrassment it causes.

Is that not what I said in the other thread about paying child support whether the kid is yours or not and some ignoramuses were calling me names and claiming its not possible to pay child support,I just left them in their delusions.

LilMissFavvy:
The African man is a daft foool who does not want to dump ancient cultures, most of these cultures were simply created to oppress women. So, yes we ladies accept modernity, we also accept traditions, ie traditions that are fair/humane.

I see the way you all keep ranting about bride price, you sound like bride price amounts to millions, are you all broke? Try and find out the amount paid as bride price in different cultures, and you will agree with me that such amount of money is nothing but stipends, paying bride price does not mean a man bought a woman, rather bride price is like a kind of APRRECIATION/COURTSEY which a groom pays to his father in-law.

Besides, some ladies/brides family support a groom financially, in planning their marriage, yet you lots keep insulting women. I guess all of you must have been blind, not to see a thread in family section where a guy asked his gal shares marriage expenditures 50:50, his kinds will still come online to say nonscence about women. I wonder the part of the world you live in, hence you do not see supportive brides.

As usual and typical of the Nigerian female,always living in self denial of even empirical facts.

Michellekabod2:
Is that not what I said in the other thread about paying child support whether the kid is yours or not and some ignoramuses were calling me names and claiming its not possible to pay child support,I just left them in their delusions.

I am not in USA to know if the child support payments varies from state to state, but from the channel, most of the videos I watched, it was explicitly stated by the judge that they must pay the child support.

She was even the one that was educating men to take the DNA test immediately the child is born before penning down their name on the birth certificate..

The videos are eye opening. There is other channel called Couples court or something.. That one is more funny and entertaining, even though it involves real life incidences. Strictly about couples.

DAramis:
I am not in USA to know if the child support payments varies from state to state, but from the channel, most of the videos I watched, it was explicitly stated by the judge that they must pay the child support.

She was even the one that was educating men to take the DNA test immediately the child is born before penning down their name of the birth certificate..

The videos are eye opening. There is other channel called Couples court or something.. That one is more funny and entertaining, even though it involves real life incidences. Strictly about couples.

Exactly the picture I was painting in thread,without understanding they have being mentioning me and calling me names.

Michellekabod2:
Exactly the picture I was painting in thread,without understanding they have being mentioning me and calling me names.

Well, nobody knows it all and knowledge is transient. For example, I was unaware of such information till I came across the videos and picked one or two information from them.

To me, not knowing is not a crime, but refusing to be open minded and see things from other point of view is the sin and crime.

All in all, we learn everyday.

Michellekabod2:
Exactly the picture I was painting in thread,without understanding they have being mentioning me and calling me names.

Goan hire an artist to paint for you. You don't know how to paint.... Yen yen yen. Artist ko pant ni

LilMissFavvy:
Why should a woman agree to submit her children for paternity tests? Except a man hides to do such paternity test on the kids, no woman should ever succumb to that rubbish. If women learn to stand their ground disregarding the outcome of their actions, compulsory paternity test will never turn out to be a norm. It is even wrong for a woman to share the same doctor with her husband, marriages of today is a scam, 99percent of men are cheating dogggss, yet they wouldn't want their wives to breathe.

What Nonsense did I Just Read, 99% Men Cheat? You are obviously a Joker lol.....You've obviously bleached your brain away lol...