Kemight15:
This is why I'm scared of marriage
I'm 25 and I don't think of marrying anybody


Please leave that man ASAP before it's too late

Shut the Bleep up.

Men talks dirty, request for nude and fling if they like, men are promiscuous in nature, they can have side chicks and still love only you. don't frustrate the man's life, he's just being a man by nature, The only part i don't like is that he's no longer treating you nice which i think might be your fault. King solomon had 700 wifes bla bla bla, do you understand? some men are from the linage of that king so if you remember hereditary in biology, its the transmission of characteristics to progeny.

Just give him some break but don't breakup , he's brain will reset and you can continue pushing it. marriage is all about pushing it .

Caseless:

This is a man with this moniker.

what happen to the moniker attention seeker?

ahnie:
Lets wait for the elders to arrive.

Hahahaha

You scared of him? confront him gently and let him know it annoying and insulting and embarrassing.

@ op this is the kind of advice u should expect since you don’t know right channel to take ur case to....ur cAme to seek advice on Nairaland..... better still try LIB or write to joro..........

Do u know the number of single parents in this world now.....join them at ur own peril

Offpoint:
Your husband is a public díck, he's got passion for boobs and big nyanshes, you've approached him to addressed the issue but his dîck is "bizy body"....

My piece of advice, don't wait until he comes home and give you free STD...
And don't think of leaving him for now, look for your ex or find a new man who can chat dirty and send you his dîck pictures (Don't send yours, you can sort)

Intentionally leave your phone for your husband go through, if he saw it... His reaction should let you know your next steps.
Let him feel what you've been feeling too. If he wants divorce, divorce him... Bible support divorce if adultery is involved.

If he lays hands on you, drug him and chop his dîck off....


Thank you...

By the way, who says Messi is not a Goat?

Offpoint:
Your husband is a public díck, he's got passion for boobs and big nyanshes, you've approached him to addressed the issue but his dîck is "bizy body"....

My piece of advice, don't wait until he comes home and give you free STD...
And don't think of leaving him for now, look for your ex or find a new man who can chat dirty and send you his dîck pictures (Don't send yours, you can sort)

Intentionally leave your phone for your husband go through, if he saw it... His reaction should let you know your next steps.
Let him feel what you've been feeling too. If he wants divorce, divorce him... Bible support divorce if adultery is involved.

If he lays hands on you, drug him and chop his dîck off....


Thank you...

By the way, who says Messi is not a Goat?

Wrongest advise ever killer spotted.. Your advise call kill any of them if not both wicked fellow

Kemight15:
This is why I'm scared of marriage
I'm 25 and I don't think of marrying anybody


Please leave that man ASAP before it's too late

let's talk I can be of help

This is so funny.

Your own brothers, your blood brothers (like my people would say) told you he wouldn’t treat you well, yet you dismissed their warnings.

Okay na. Shebi they were yarning dust? You see yasef?

Ladies should know something. Guys know bad guys.

Once a guy, who is not romantically involved with you and has not made any move towards you, gives you a warning about another guy, PLEASE HEED.

Nothing you can do to change him. Just endure or leave.

RisenPhoenix:
Free the man jaare. Is it your eyes he's using? All men look at other women. ALL. No exceptions.

Maybe the gay guys won't

You caused it all, looking at a partners phone is wrong, no body without dirt. U dig out problem for yourself

Judybash93:


Maybe the gay guys won't

I guess you're right. Didn't think of that.

Are gay guys even guys?

RisenPhoenix:


I guess you're right. Didn't think of that.

Are gay guys even guys?

Biologically, yes

Reminds me of my friend's husband who wanted a relationship with me. He has no respect for his wife. Had to tell her before he turned it against me. He was highly abusive. Learnt he was on drugs. My friend later left him.

Harunabisanti:
If you need peace in your marriage, stop posing your nose unto what was not disclose to u or else you find what WILL not pleased you

Op is talking about marriage and not bf/gf things. They should not hide anything from each other if they don't have coacroaches in their cupboard.
I support checking phones by spouses especially in a situation where either the man or the woman is always locking the phone and forbids one another from getting close to it.
This issue of not poking nose is seriously affecting some people, if they don't even lose their life in the process.
What if the husband is a ritualist? Will you continue to look away till you become a victim?

womanscorned:
Before I got married to my husband we had a kind of perfect relationship. I just thought he was the perfect guy. He always checked on me. I did feel like he was marrying me for ulterior motives and everyone else just thought so too. My brothers warned me that he is not going to treat me right but I just feel drawn to him. I thought he just really cared about me. He seemed different.

I introduced him to my dad and my dad asked if I was sure and yes at that moment I was. Then shortly before the wedding his true colors started to come out. I never checked his phone but then a friend caught her boyfriend cheating so I decided to just check it. Guys I understand people say that if you go looking you will find something but I actually don't really believe that why is there always something that is the main point. I checked his phone and found one boob pic and pics of his old exes. I was SO shocked. Honestly, I never thought I would find anything. He told me that he recently got his phone updated and the pic was a pic of a celebrity. But I was smarter than that I saw that it was actually an "Auntie" that sent the pic so basically one of his contacts. I was so shocked, didn't know what to do. I told my brother he told me to just pray and I did and I felt like he was still the one he apologized and assured me that he was going to change.

Fast forward to a few months later I see a girl's pic in his phone his good friend's girlfriend and he was commenting on her looks very gross-like. I lost it and we fought but he assured me it was just guy talk.

Then again I recently found him talking to his good friend about another girl's boobs and he never tells me he loves me any longer. Never really truly cares. He even brought up divorce if I wanted to do it. So I am just kind of stuck. I do want to get a divorce honestly if my parents and his would not get involved. But we have a child together. I am not sure what to do right now. Why would he do this to me? Why get married if you don't love the person. I understand that people say guys will be guys and locker room talk but if you don't love that person deeply and truly then why marry them and make a vow before God.

Now I don't know what to do. He is always so rude in the way he talks. I can't remember the last time he took me out and even if he did I am sure it would be a dry conversation. I think he really is just worried about what people say and not really losing me any longer. He has this thing where he wants to always look like a nice guy. So my question is if you were in this position how would you leave? Oh he also looks at my friends and claims he never was when it is pretty obvious. He drank a little and then started winking at my friend.

You married a playboy but its a reward you got for ditching some good guys. You are regretting leaving your ex already.

Kemight15:
This is why I'm scared of marriage
I'm 25 and I don't think of marrying anybody


Please leave that man ASAP before it's too late

Lol. Of course. What other suggestion would you give, coming from a single lady who is scared of marriage with no intentions of marrying.

Kemight15:
This is why I'm scared of marriage
I'm 25 and I don't think of marrying anybody


Please leave that man ASAP before it's too late

Why should she leave him, is he beating her? All she should be telling him to do is use a condom when he wants to meet with her.

Marriage isn't for immature minds. If you see the signs and decide to marry the person, then you must stay. But if you didn't, you can look for a way to live with it and have a peaceful home.

Since you decided to make his phone ur phone then don't complain anything u see bear it, I don't know why u ladies can stay away from ur Hubby phone

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Why're you scared of marriage?[/quote


Because of story like this

Tajbol4splend:



Tule tule

Did I say anything wrong?

iCauseTrouble:

Just tell us you are ugly and guys are not calling you. Don't tell us you are scared of marriage

Please don't cause trouble here
And I'm not ugly cos everything God created are beautifully and wonderfully made.


Men should please stop making women cry.

I hope you are not doing the same to your wife too Mr trouble maker .

Kemight15:


Please don't cause trouble here
And I'm not ugly cos everything God created are beautifully and wonderfully made.


Men should please stop making women cry.

I hope you are not doing the same to your wife too Mr trouble maker .

Sorry dear.... Even if you are ugly, you have a beautiful heart. Happy Sunday

Enemyofpeace:
liar. Na your ugliness no make men look your market jo

Funny

I know you can also do the same to your wifey
You Bera stop it and cherish her like she deserves.

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Until you meet an extremely gentleman like me. I will never tell you to keep quiet when you are talking.

And plus including , I am not related to BuBu so , don't expect and kind of RUGA behavior from me.

Please you can give me a trial. Thank you and God bless you in need.






I mean indeed.

Funny Man

rentAcock:
So long as he's not cheating on you, my dear don't think about divorce right now. I love big boobs; I have always been a boobs guy ever since my cousin allowed me to touch hers when I was 5yrs old. But my wife doesn't have big boobs. Do I look at girls with big boobs sometimes? Yes. But I only look and it ends there. I don't look in her presence either. But for what my wife lacks in breast size, she makes up in every other way and I can't imagine myself being married to anyone else.

Be strong, let him know how you feel and work on your marriage.

The most sensible reply I have read on NL about a very long time

idonhammer:
Really? I want to ask you a question, are you married? If yes, did your husband married you as a virgin? If no,then bleeping pssy wey different dicks don dick Taya will never make me live long or make me rich.As a rich dude,the only sweet thing about marriage is testing different fresh yanshes.i can't come and kill myself for a scam called marriage.

den remain single na okpo

Akwuna

Rozaytee:
den remain single na okpo

Kemight15:


Funny

I know you can also do the same to your wifey
You Bera stop it and cherish her like she deserves.

yinmu

Smh

Originalsly:
In his eyes.... you are history. You went digging... how can you say you didn't expect to find dirt?... weren't you digging expecting to find something? Then you transformed to a digger... digging at every opportunity... and overreacting to your findings... no matter how small or innocent. Don't you think you were putting a strain on the relationship?...on the marriage? Some men can't stand drama and you are very dramatic... a drama queen. That's not what he bargained for... so basically... he's out. You seem to be the type who do not consider advice... but do things the way you see fit. Such people learn the hard way. Blame yourself for marrying someone because you were in love with him only. Younspilt the milk.... why be crying? My advice... get a mirror...look into it.

Oh give us a break.So catching a cheat who took vows with you & said till death do you part is now being over dramatic? So it’s okay for the man to go fooling around & the woman is supposed to give him a pat on the shoulder & congratulate him for a job well done? Digging for dirt or not, if he said during his vows that he’d forsake all others, then dirt shouldn’t have been found to begin with.Comments like yours keep re-victimizing women & make them feel as if they are out of their minds for wanting out of abusive relationships.By the way marriage is not alpha & omega.It’s not a trophy, we have many single women doing great things.I don’t know why you are trying to sanitize a demon in disguise by accusing the lady of being “over dramatic”. The days of our grandparents where they had to endure abusive relationships because they had no choice, those days are long gone.Wake up & smell the coffee.Women are more empowered now more than ever.Your comments wreak the hallmark of an abuser!