With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

Okeytus:
With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

Since we don't know if you are married or not and if you are even married if you have a good home worthy of emulation... Then keep your impotent advice to yourself. Go and sort your life out rather come her to dish out what you are not doing.

Mr hypocrite

The lady above me is funny

Okeytus:
With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

I like the 2nd part of your post. If she has taste then she should contribute to it. She can’t be having standards that depend on another person’s money.

Naija women have ego issues. She will only beg when she thinks she has no choice and there is nobody to cheat on you with. Anyway, it’s a good indicator for her readiness.

Naija women should also embrace the practice of kneeling to propose to their men. But they can never agree to it. They’d rather die than do that. Foolîsh pride.

Ladylite:


Since we don't know if you are married or not and if you are even married if you have a good home worthy of emulation... Then keep your impotent advice to yourself. Go and sort your life out rather come her to dish out what you are not doing.

Mr hypocrite

you are not married; are you?

You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

I keep saying it


Throw rings, the one who is hungry will accept the proposal

Ladylite:


Since we don't know if you are married or not and if you are even married if you have a good home worthy of emulation... Then keep your impotent advice to yourself. Go and sort your life out rather come her to dish out what you are not doing.

Mr hypocrite

Because you enslaved any man doesn't mean others can be enslaved too.
We refused to be manipulated by disguised malicious ladies in pretence of love.

Petyprincess:
You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

I rather be a baby daddy and live long, than get married to an evil woman.

Baby daddy all the way,PS4 will be my wiffy!

Petyprincess:
You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

Nothing Abacha no go thief for Nigeria

Okeytus:
With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

Agreed, except for the outdated 50:50 clause. Just contribute what is comfortably affordable to you and insist that if she and her family are not satisfied and want more lavishness, they can put in all the rest.

You wanna contribute 50/50 for a girl you want to marry........ Sense no common

Ridiculous

Petyprincess:
You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

At 70 years, a man would marry 4 of the your type and insist you swear an Oath of allegiance sef. There is nothing you can do. That's what Ned did to Regina.

Ikio:
You wanna contribute 50/50 for a girl you want to marry........ Sense no common

It is not fight.
Let her wait for someone willing to contribute 100% while all she brings are bills. After all, in India, women pay dowry to marry the men.

Those girls who make the most demands are usually poor. When going to their husband's house, they don't have anything to carry as their own. Pots, pans and everything are bought by the man. They move in like employees.

dicknopause ... nawa o , that one self dey ?

Wickedfacts:


At 70 years, a man would marry 4 of the your type and insist you swear an Oath of allegiance sef. There is nothing you can do. That's what Ned did to Regina.

It is finished! Case closed!

Na even virgin Ned marry.

Petyprincess:
You never ready when you reach dicknopause we go see your post seeking for a lady to marry on nairaland!

Dicknopause? No such thing.

czarr:
Dicknopause? No such thing.

There is.
Her father has it.

Wickedfacts:


It is not fight.
Let her wait for someone willing to contribute 100% while all she brings are bills. After all, in India, women pay dowry to marry the men.

Those girls who make the most demands are usually poor. When going to their husband's house, they don't have anything to carry as their own. Pots, pans and everything are bought by the man. They move in like employees.

it's is the stupidest thing I've ever seen.....



If you are not ready for marriage don't go in to it Biko.....

It is the responsibility of the guy to take care of the family.

Ikio:
it's is the stupidest thing I've ever seen.....

If you are not ready for marriage don't go in to it Biko.....

It is the responsibility of the guy to take care of the family.

Stop typing like a parasitic beggar. It is the man's responsibility to take care of the HIS family. HIS family.

If the girl comes from a Poverty-stricken family where they can't afford to contribute to her wedding, that is her family problem. Let her not infect the man with her family poverty.

Wickedfacts:


Stop typing like a parasitic beggar. It is the man's responsibility to take care of the HIS family. HIS family.

If the girl comes from a Poverty-stricken family where they can't afford to contribute to her wedding, that is her family problem. Let her not infect the man with her family poverty.

Even the Bible thinks you are talking shit

Well continue...... If you can't provide for your family then don't have one.

Wickedfacts:


Stop typing like a parasitic beggar. It is the man's responsibility to take care of the HIS family. HIS family.

If the girl comes from a Poverty-stricken family where they can't afford to contribute to her wedding, that is her family problem. Let her not infect the man with her family poverty.

if you can't provide for your family then don't have one


Do you wonder why I guy will consider giving a lady money but not to a guy


Because as a guy if you can't do what you should do then you are not suppose to be a guy

Chaiiiii....@Wickedfacts, you are truely wickedt...

Why u wicked??

Ikio:
it's is the stupidest thing I've ever seen.....



If you are not ready for marriage don't go in to it Biko.....

It is the responsibility of the guy to take care of the family.

You type like a financially dependent one that has never spent on a relationship. As a man, Satisfying your partner's selfish extravagant desires is what you call "a responsibility" to show care.
May what you wish for befall you.

Story, how many billionaires do we have in Nigeria, you think any old man can marry a girl of class just like that? . In a country afflicted with poverty, underdevelopment and starvation?

Wickedfacts:


At 70 years, a man would marry 4 of the your type and insist you swear an Oath of allegiance sef. There is nothing you can do. That's what Ned did to Regina.

Okeytus:
With the increase in broken marriages these days especially after much expense on weddings etc by the man, My advice to men is to avoid going into marriage if your partner didn't beg for it and also if your partner(female) wants an expensive wedding, the finance contribution should be a 50:50 one from both sides.

B4 nko. I no fit use my money do church wedding. Na contribution especially here in Jos

Ladylite:


Since we don't know if you are married or not and if you are even married if you have a good home worthy of emulation... Then keep your impotent advice to yourself. Go and sort your life out rather come her to dish out what you are not doing.

Mr hypocrite

Sister abeg no vex. Him mean say if Dem don pay for dowry. De church wedding una two go hustle de money. By so doing u self go value ur home n de man go value u

Buh seriously he is making some sense, apart from the area of 50 50 contribution. He would have conditioned it, by considering If the woman is working or not n depending on the partners salary. I believe he meant church wedding which is no compulsory after de dowry has been paid fully by de man alone

THis answer is savagely mad o

Wickedfacts:


Stop typing like a parasitic beggar. It is the man's responsibility to take care of the HIS family. HIS family.

If the girl comes from a Poverty-stricken family where they can't afford to contribute to her wedding, that is her family problem. Let her not infect the man with her family poverty.

Hard core man on nairaland
But chasing girls up and down in real life