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.. by praiseneo(m): 8:06am On Feb 24, 2020
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Re: .. by cRobo: 8:08am On Feb 24, 2020
So you are the guy that won





Go get prepared for your work, I don't want u to be late

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Re: .. by namiji2598: 8:10am On Feb 24, 2020
angry
Re: .. by XhosaNostra(f): 8:11am On Feb 24, 2020
Smh.
Re: .. by slimjohn2k5: 8:12am On Feb 24, 2020
Be grateful to her for leaving but don't go back to the relationship
Sometimes rejection brings the best out of us

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Re: .. by delishpot: 8:13am On Feb 24, 2020
praiseneo:
Hello Nls...
Happy new week to everyone!!
I’m here to share my little story please I’m not a good writer so I’d plead you accept my typos and grammatical errors with love grin

So I have this babe I’ve been dating for the past 2 years...we were so in love with each other, inseparable, we had plans to get married and have kids. Everything was going fine she is very ambitious hardworking and never settle for less. On my part I am trying my best too in terms of hustling and performing my duties as a guy in the relationship. My girl friend was very supportive financially whenever i get broke she make sure I never lack I also do the same too.

Along the line I started noticing changes in her attitude towards me( this time I was extremely broke) she doesn’t do any chores at home whenever she’s around she will watch me cook, wash the plates, sweep the house (even carry leg up for me) while she sit and chat. I never took it personal at first, after all it’s not a bad thing if I do these things. But it became a constant thing and I told her but she started yelling and telling me it’s my right to do it what if she’s not around. That’s when I knew something is wrong somewhere. My girl friend lost her respect for me gradually because I couldn’t cater for her needs anymore she was the one spending....one day I stumbled on her phone and saw her chat with her best friend where she reported me to her and insulted me blue black telling her friend how she’s tired of me, how she’s never gonna settle down with me, how she is thinking of dating a married man to take care of her, how I’m useless etc. I saw these things and kept quiet I didn’t show it that I saw anything. I still played and gist with her if she’s in the mood.
Fast forward to one day she chated me on whatsapp saying she want an end to the relationship and we are not good for each other because I’m lacking behind and she’s no more a kid. She needs to make reschedule her life and take right decisions, then we spiting was on of her right decisions. She blocked me and warned me never to call her line again. I was pained I cried I was extremely hurt because I didn’t have anyone else I felt like shiit I became depressed and fvcked up totally. My friends came to my aid stayed with me and helped me to stop thinking....thankfully it worked cos I was spending time with them we go out drink, have fun, gist laugh etc. it was exactly four weeks after she left I played a bet 9ja game staking 500naira just 15 games to win 5.6million naira. Lo and behold the game ticket won. My people I wan mad I won N5.6m that was my 5th time of playing it I’m not really a player like that except I’m forced to. I went to their office and I was credited I sat down in my house with broad smile always knowing I’m a millionaire. I thought of calling her but my friends wouldn’t allow me then I thought of what she did to me and decided to lock up and I was like fvck it. I don’t know if taking her back is a good option or should I just move on with my life.
(She doesn’t know my status yet)

Nothing new in this story. Males dump women and females dump males. Good on you that you won that money. Pls move on with your life and don't take her back. Invest your winnings wisely.

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Re: .. by kurupt1: 8:14am On Feb 24, 2020
5.6 m and ur a millionaire?ur just starting boy but at least you have made some money

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Re: .. by praiseneo(m): 8:17am On Feb 24, 2020
kurupt1:
5.6 m and ur a millionaire?ur just starting boy but at least you have made some money
abi wetin dem de call millionaire correct me if I’m wrong

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Re: .. by bluebay(m): 8:17am On Feb 24, 2020
Better laylow because 5.6M is big and still small too. It can go down the drain in seconds. It's best you plan your life at the moment and kickoff coz I believe if you make your ex know your status, she will definitely.try come back coz she got your mumu bottom and she can say she's the one who motivated you to make money. All those funny excuses. Oga, use your head, no time for say *Make I Bleep her dump her this time* you'll be the one to loose ooo

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Re: .. by daddytime(m): 8:19am On Feb 24, 2020
Good boy!

Please, take her back.

No be everybody millions dey fit.

Where this your own come from sef come be suspect again.

Abeg call the babe make she send you back to your destiny before she waka leave you again.

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Re: .. by praiseneo(m): 8:26am On Feb 24, 2020
bluebay:
Better laylow because 5.6M is big and still small too. It can go down the drain in seconds. It's best you plan your life at the moment and kickoff coz I believe if you make your ex know your status, she will definitely.try come back coz she got your mumu bottom and she can say she's the one who motivated you to make money. All those funny excuses. Oga, use your head, no time for say *Make I Bleep her dump her this time* you'll be the one to loose ooo
na wetin I wan hear be this thank u so much I would have loved it if you were more harsh like abuse my life dye so that my heart go strong more lol

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Re: .. by Aboks(m): 8:32am On Feb 24, 2020
daddytime:
Good boy!

Please, take her back.

No be everybody millions dey fit.

Where this your own come from sef come be suspect again.

Abeg call the babe make she send you back to your destiny before she waka leave you again.



grin grin

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Re: .. by seankafor(m): 8:34am On Feb 24, 2020
How about you show me a love of 20k? undecided

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Re: .. by Newguyhere: 8:35am On Feb 24, 2020
common $15,000 undecided
For your mind now you don get money.. grin

better lay low for now and work on your life
That money no reach do anything

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Re: .. by Aboks(m): 8:38am On Feb 24, 2020
seankafor:
How about you show me a love of 20k? undecided


You wan play try your luck too

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Re: .. by Martinez39s(m): 8:39am On Feb 24, 2020
Let me not say I doubt your story but as someone born into a very wealthy family, I can tell you that having 5.6 million naira doesn't mean you have arrived. Do not let anyone deceive you. If you like, start foolishly living big and don't cut your coat according to your size, you will end up broke in less than 18 months. My two cents.

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Re: .. by mine85(m): 8:42am On Feb 24, 2020
You were broke for 2 years and she was with you. I think she tried, na village people make her miss her destiny...

Forgive her since she was a good gal until poverty made her to start thinking of married men.

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Re: .. by proclinician: 8:45am On Feb 24, 2020
kurupt1:
5.6 m and ur a millionaire?ur just starting boy but at least you have made some money
Do you know what it means to be a millionaire? Use your dictionary.
Re: .. by proclinician: 8:46am On Feb 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
Let me not say I doubt your story but as someone born into a very wealthy family, I can tell you that having 5.6 million naira doesn't mean you have arrived. Do not let anyone deceive you. If you like, start foolishly living big and don't cut your coat according to your size, you will end up broke in less than 18 months. My two cents.

He said he became a millionaire and not he arrived? Have you in your entire life had 5m of your own? From this ur thinking i don't think so.

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Re: .. by Skmoda360(m): 8:46am On Feb 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
Let me not say I doubt your story but as someone born into a very wealthy family, I can tell you that having 5.6 million naira doesn't mean you have arrived. Do not let anyone deceive you. If you like, start foolishly living big and don't cut your coat according to your size, you will end up broke in less than 18 months. My two cents.
op you better listen to this......
Re: .. by NobleDeSage001: 8:48am On Feb 24, 2020
She will certainly realise her mistake and want a come back. God just use style style liberate you from a devil who would have made life miserable for you in marriage.
Move on and never look back. In fact, run. Wetin I dey talk sef, fly far far away.
Then invest your money wisely and enjoy the dividends.

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Re: .. by praiseneo(m): 8:48am On Feb 24, 2020
Newguyhere:
common $15,000 undecided
For your mind now you don get money.. grin

better lay low for now and work on your life
That money no reach do anything
15k dollars no common ma gee

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Re: .. by praiseneo(m): 8:49am On Feb 24, 2020
Martinez39s:
Let me not say I doubt your story but as someone born into a very wealthy family, I can tell you that having 5.6 million naira doesn't mean you have arrived. Do not let anyone deceive you. If you like, start foolishly living big and don't cut your coat according to your size, you will end up broke in less than 18 months. My two cents.
I never said I’ve arrived jeez

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Re: .. by chinchonglee(m): 8:50am On Feb 24, 2020
Nigga... Focus on starting a business with that money.

Calling her back would take away atleast 1.5m out of that money. Which could also be injected in ur business or could easily get u a land in some parts of lagos.

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Re: .. by praiseneo(m): 8:50am On Feb 24, 2020
mine85:
You were broke for 2 years and she was with you. I think she tried, na village people make her miss her destiny...

Forgive her since she was a good gal until poverty made her to start thinking of married men.
read again I wasn’t broke for 2 years

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Re: .. by chinchonglee(m): 8:53am On Feb 24, 2020
proclinician:


He said he became a millionaire and not he arrived? Have you in your entire life had 5m of your own? From this ur thinking i don't think so.
Do u knw him personally
How do u knw he doesn't have that kind of money in his acct. U think because u ve bin broke all ur life, every other person u meet online is also broke

Change that mentality if not.... Am sure u re from one timid village

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Re: .. by gbami(m): 8:54am On Feb 24, 2020
praiseneo:
Hello Nls...
Happy new week to everyone!!
I’m here to share my little story please I’m not a good writer so I’d plead you accept my typos and grammatical errors with love grin

So I have this babe I’ve been dating for the past 2 years...we were so in love with each other, inseparable, we had plans to get married and have kids. Everything was going fine she is very ambitious hardworking and never settle for less. On my part I am trying my best too in terms of hustling and performing my duties as a guy in the relationship. My girl friend was very supportive financially whenever i get broke she make sure I never lack I also do the same too.

Along the line I started noticing changes in her attitude towards me( this time I was extremely broke) she doesn’t do any chores at home whenever she’s around she will watch me cook, wash the plates, sweep the house (even carry leg up for me) while she sit and chat. I never took it personal at first, after all it’s not a bad thing if I do these things. But it became a constant thing and I told her but she started yelling and telling me it’s my right to do it what if she’s not around. That’s when I knew something is wrong somewhere. My girl friend lost her respect for me gradually because I couldn’t cater for her needs anymore she was the one spending....one day I stumbled on her phone and saw her chat with her best friend where she reported me to her and insulted me blue black telling her friend how she’s tired of me, how she’s never gonna settle down with me, how she is thinking of dating a married man to take care of her, how I’m useless etc. I saw these things and kept quiet I didn’t show it that I saw anything. I still played and gist with her if she’s in the mood.
Fast forward to one day she chated me on whatsapp saying she want an end to the relationship and we are not good for each other because I’m lacking behind and she’s no more a kid. She needs to make reschedule her life and take right decisions, then we spiting was on of her right decisions. She blocked me and warned me never to call her line again. I was pained I cried I was extremely hurt because I didn’t have anyone else I felt like shiit I became depressed and fvcked up totally. My friends came to my aid stayed with me and helped me to stop thinking....thankfully it worked cos I was spending time with them we go out drink, have fun, gist laugh etc. it was exactly four weeks after she left I played a bet 9ja game staking 500naira just 15 games to win 5.6million naira. Lo and behold the game ticket won. My people I wan mad I won N5.6m that was my 5th time of playing it I’m not really a player like that except I’m forced to. I went to their office and I was credited I sat down in my house with broad smile always knowing I’m a millionaire. I thought of calling her but my friends wouldn’t allow me then I thought of what she did to me and decided to lock up and I was like fvck it. I don’t know if taking her back is a good option or should I just move on with my life.
(She doesn’t know my status yet)
Good for you... Congratulations for wining 5.6m...However that might be the beginning of your problem...But let me advise you...
Don't call her back...
Don't go spending...
Continue to live the way you lived before you mad 5.6m
Don't buy a car yet
Don't go buy phones, large screen TV etc..
What you should do is to learn a trade or a handiwork..
Invest the remaining in assets( Lands)
Start your handiwork or any business that you've learnt for 6months or more...
5.6m looks like a big money...but if you don't know how to manage it... That's nothing...
By the way...You are not a millionaire...You can think like one, but don't act like one...

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Re: .. by proclinician: 8:55am On Feb 24, 2020
chinchonglee:

Do u knw him personally
How do u knw he doesn't have that kind of money in his acct. U think because u ve bin broke all ur life, every other person u meet online is also broke

Change that mentality if not.... Am sure u re from one timid village

A nonentity ranting. Loud and empty.

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Re: .. by Martinez39s(m): 8:56am On Feb 24, 2020
praiseneo:
I never said I’ve arrived jeez
Why then did you feel the need to open this thread if not to indirectly insinuate and bask in the notion that your girlfriend made a bad and regrettable decision in dumping you? The nollywood rhetoric of "she left me when I was broke, now i am rich" is affecting you. What exactly was your aim in opening this thread? undecided

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Re: .. by chinchonglee(m): 9:04am On Feb 24, 2020
proclinician:


A nonentity ranting. Loud and empty.
Empty like ur brain!!
Poverty has done a great damage to your brain
Re: .. by proclinician: 9:04am On Feb 24, 2020
chinchonglee:

Empty like ur brain!!
Poverty has done a great damage to your brain

Okay noted. Have a nice day.

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Re: .. by Omar09(m): 9:05am On Feb 24, 2020
praiseneo:
smiley
All we need now is the artists to put this into play. I like the storyline.

Modified

Nice way to advertise your correct score. I didn't see this at first. Hope you are enjoying the PMs. cheesy wink

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