Coolcalmcollect:

ask yourself do people read those books?
even marriage counselling people don't attend anymore, dey just feel omo we love each other let's hear word.... lol

AshiraWealthy:



What a way to reason. Change your mentality.
Is it not obvious that the same reasons this guy is giving now was the same reason that her unmarried till now? Mtchew..

Graxie:
Idiots that will marry oyibo woman of 57 with a speed of light, not minding how many kids and body count are here sounding old. Foolish being begging oyibo grandma to be sucking their shrank pussy are here claiming 33 years is old. I hope you guys don't give birth to girl child in life. I just hope you will not bring cause on innocent kids.

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

lonikit:
my brother, i wish to but scared of our present financial status. Thanks for your contribution.

bonnyhope:


Girls in that age bracket always want to be humble to attract male counterparts

Abfinest007:
i hope she won't reveal her true color later bcus i see, she is trying to rush u into marriage by saying d doctor said this .since u said she is good go n see her parents .u people can do lowkey marriage if possible court wedding

lonikit:
my brother, i wish to but scared of our present financial status. Thanks for your contribution.

FarFromAverage:

Brother you can't test somebody completely until you guys stay under the same roof for a long time.

You begin to accumulate more experience about life as you age, and gosh! . .
She knows how to play the game perfectly.

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

sofiscatedmoron:
U completed ur service at the age of 33?

proclinician:
20 to 25..... Whoring stage, very stubborn and sexploiting

27 -30 and above.. ... Calm and calculated. Time is running out. All men matters.

lonikit:

i know pple that attended conferences on marriage. i have even seen pastors who wrote books on marriage yet they have problem with their marriages.

no perfect injunction for marriage bro.

zoeycherie:


olabrinks, I've been up since 12am reading your posts and I want to say that you're amazing.

You're just so positive and your posts are always so empathetic and encouraging. Reading your posts makes me really happy. If you're anything like your comments in real life, then I'll say your family is blessed to know someone like you.

Please don't ever change. I remain a big fan. Thank you.

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

AstroG:
Ah no go talk,cus ah knw that u will still come back and open thread on how she has changed,disrespecting u upandan and not willing to commit. Na dah time ah go insult ur life comot ur body.


U leave Better gals,come dy marry old cargo that has life patches on her :-

Omar09:


Yes because she's 33 and older than him, op is settling for less. And it is not the average Nigerian man mentality.

Yes getting married to a younger woman will not guarantee happiness and neither is getting married to an older woman. How can op get married to someone 2yrs older than him? How can she be submissive to him? There things that will happen, the woman will want to prove to him that she was 2yrs before he arrived into this world. You don't things like this and later blame devil or the woman if later she doesn't submit to him. Most times when you think you've picked the perfect shoe, you find out you will out grow it quickly. I agree with the next line and last paragraph.

Graxie:
Idiots that will marry oyibo woman of 57 with a speed of light, not minding how many kids and body count are here sounding old. Foolish being begging oyibo grandma to be sucking their shrank pussy are here claiming 33 years is old. I hope you guys don't give birth to girl child in life. I just hope you will not bring cause on innocent kids.

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

proclinician:
20 to 25..... Whoring stage, very stubborn and sexploiting

27 -30 and above.. ... Calm and calculated. Time is running out. All men matters.

Dexlomo:


To think you are a medical student and write in such a stupid manner is dumbfounding. I guess you need to relax and learn more as your type is now common in practice. An example is the idiot telling a woman to leave her husband because he has low sperm count in this day and time when there are lifestyle modifications and drugs to help boost semen production.

Tony142:





She is not the best bro, she is only pretending to be the best because age is no longer on her side, if u doubt me, marry her, and come and give us update after 1yr



@iLegendd , @ubunja

lonikit:

abi my sis. as if aging is a crime. i know her age bfr i even started anytin with her and she knew mine too. age or beauty is never my consideration when. it comes to relationship. i look out for character. peace of mind is paramount

proclinician:


Hey relax. I am not a student well at least i no be academic student. What i said is a hypothesis like saying the earth is flat. A lot of ppl have read this and pass because it corroborates their life experience okay and some have taken it personal because they think they can talk to anyone anyhow they like. this is the summary of what my uncle experienced getting married so pls next time u come here and associate me with the word stupid i will be very angry.

Dexlomo:


Which hypothesis? The one your ignorant mind coined right? Anyways, I am not sure it is worth wasting our time trying to talk about what isn't necessary since we all have choices to our beliefs.

doggedfighter:

Hold your gem very well. Try everything you can and wife her . Get to work, money will come. Some of these guys are teenagers while some are bitter babies in the body of men.
If you lose her because of their silly talks, a man who appreciates her will take her then you will know what it feels like to lose a gem. I wish both of you a beautiful life together.