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lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

MissGodOwn:
How do u know that's what would happen?
What kinda childishness is that referring to someone as old cargo.

proclinician:
Just know a hypothesis can be anything. Pray life doesn't teach you. When a man refuses to learn from the experience of others, life may be kind enough to give him his own experience to learn from. If he calls it a bluff he is doomed.

Dexlomo:
Oga, do you know my experience? Do you know my age or how old I got married and how old my wife was? Do you know many marry young and at that they had challenges? All you have just written is a biased way of life and lacks objectivity.

iLegendd:

lonikit:
i will focus on my career and i will not leave her cus of age too. she remains the best based on my experience.

You better drop this ego and listen to the advise of senior men on this thread.

doggedfighter:
[s]
Hold your gem very well. Try everything you can and wife her . Get to work, money will come. Some of these guys are teenagers while some are bitter babies in the body of men.
If you lose her because of their silly talks, a man who appreciates her will take her then you will know what it feels like to lose a gem. I wish both of you a beautiful life together.[/s]

Raalsalghul:
You better drop this ego and listen to the advise of senior men on this thread.

AstroG:
Is she not an Old Cargo ??

Op,this ur case is a case of Misplaced Priority

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

Sirvingeo:
You are really funny oo. The white lady is access to good life nah. At least they are after money and passport . In this case the guy will still spend his money . Is it not better he get his taste since he is the one spending the money .

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

excessmon:
The only thing I expect op to think about is how to start life small and pray to become great......
Bible says godliness with contentment is a great gain



And to those of you seeing only evening newspapers

Is it not better to be kept till evening and read by great men when relaxing like vanguard or guardian than to be bought in the morning like complete sports and by afternoon it is not relevant again except to wrap suya



So many go into marriage within 20s and lose it in the 20s and many goes into in 30s and it stays forever

Martinez39s:
Single mothers and evening newspapers are always nice until you marry them.

AstroG:
Is she not an Old Cargo ??

Op,this ur case is a case of Misplaced Priority

excessmon:
The only thing I expect op to think about is how to start life small and pray to become great......
Bible says godliness with contentment is a great gain



And to those of you seeing only evening newspapers

Is it not better to be kept till evening and read by great men when relaxing like vanguard or guardian than to be bought in the morning like complete sports and by afternoon it is not relevant again except to wrap suya



So many go into marriage within 20s and lose it in the 20s and many goes into in 30s and it stays forever

SweetCunt97:
Too many Male wizards on this thread sha.... Haba! Why are we sooooooo negative! None of you gave the op a concrete advise but wanna drag him done the lane of confusion and loneliness

Martinez39s:
The op is free to marry anyone he wants. We are only advising him to avoid single mothers and evening newspapers when it comes to dating and marriage.

lonikit:
i tink many factors could have been the cause.

but judging from her last relationship that i witnessed,

her humility and submissiveness were taking for foolishness by her ex.

SweetCunt97:
Pls shutt up. You seriously very childish

FarFromAverage:
She's 33 and you like her character?
Brother run... You're joking with a green snake in a green grass. Though I'm not against you, but the thing is what stopped her from getting married when she was in her twenties?

lonikit:
i will be very brief with the narrative. i met the girl 2years ago when she was already 31. we started as friends but her character made me to fall in love and also had to leave my former young rude more educated and virgin gf (i love peace of mind).
without missing words, my new gf is the best compared to any other girl i have met. though, she is older than I by 2yrs but that is not my problem.
my problem now is that both of us are not really doing anything serious. she is managing in a private school. i have not gotten any job since i completed my service yr last year hence, managing in a school too.
considering our financial status, we are not ready for marriage now. we are hoping for better jobs.
please, i don't want to loose her and she is now 33. she is considering her chances of giving birth if she marries late like 35yrs bcus a doctor friend told her that women fertility has to do with their age, the older they bcom, the less they are fertile. please advice me on how to convince her. she is so unique.
please help a brother.

biafraisdead:
From ur write-up what her level of education? I asked cos u compared her level of education to ur former gf. To the topic, nairaland is a wrong place to bring such matter to, i am pretty sure that with lots of negative comments here u may be contemplating dropping ur gf but i say don't even consider that cos most people talking rubbish here are just plain stupid and they know nothing, most of them have unmarried sisters in their thirties. My advice is if u love her to the extent that u think she is good for u as a wife then go ahead. She is still very ok and young.

lonikit:
u may have a point but sincerely, i av tested her in so many ways.i think she is my ideal woman. i have peace of mind

to ur 2nd question, i tink many factors could have been the cause. but judging from her last relationship that i witnessed, her humility and submissiveness were taking for foolishness by her ex.

lonikit:
thank u sir. i am grateful. To ur question; she is a degree holder.

LilMissFavvy:
What do you mean by she is aged? Such a shameful thing to say about a lady of 33-34. I don't know if you are immature or if you do not love your lady enough. All the guys above, writing negative things may be entangled in bitter relationships with younger ladies, they may be people who are so rude that love may never find them. They have never been in love. Listen to them at your own risks.

Registery marriage isn't expensive, so you can pay her bride price, then do Registery marriage. In future you both can do anniversary.

Menopause differs in women, most ladies experience menopause at 45yrs. Poor nutrition/lifestyle can trigger menopause to happen earlier than normal no doubt.

There was a thread in family section where a guy was in love with a 39yrs old lady, he was 5yrs younger. He was mature, unlike you, you sound childish,The guys family said no, the guy stood his ground, the guys mum said she will only agree if the girl gets pregnant, but the guy/girl/brides family said that the girls church do not wed pregnant brides. That guy updated that thread, according to him, she gave birth to twins, she got pregnant shortly after marriage. I am not saying you should continue to waste your gals time, go for Registery marriage.

LilMissFavvy:
What do you mean by she is aged? Such a shameful thing to say about a lady of 33-34. I don't know if you are immature or if you do not love your lady enough. All the guys above, writing negative things may be entangled in bitter relationships with younger ladies, they may be people who are so rude that love may never find them. They have never been in love. Listen to them at your own risks.

Registery marriage isn't expensive, so you can pay her bride price, then do Registery marriage. In future you both can do anniversary.

Menopause differs in women, most ladies experience menopause at 45yrs. Poor nutrition/lifestyle can trigger menopause to happen earlier than normal no doubt.

There was a thread in family section where a guy was in love with a 39yrs old lady, he was 5yrs younger. He was mature, unlike you, you sound childish,The guys family said no, the guy stood his ground, the guys mum said she will only agree if the girl gets pregnant, but the guy/girl/brides family said that the girls church do not wed pregnant brides. That guy updated that thread, according to him, she gave birth to twins, she got pregnant shortly after marriage. I am not saying you should continue to waste your gals time, go for Registery marriage.

Martinez39s:
Single mothers and evening newspapers are always nice until you marry them.

Martinez39s:
Single mothers and evening newspapers are always nice until you marry them.

lonikit:
u may have a point but sincerely, i av tested her in so many ways.i think she is my ideal woman. i have peace of mind

to ur 2nd question, i tink many factors could have been the cause. but judging from her last relationship that i witnessed, her humility and submissiveness were taking for foolishness by her ex.