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vinceobe:
Congratulations for finding a good wife. A good wife is hard to find. But they are available but very few. Take care of her and never you break her heart and disappoint her. I know some Nigerian men. Once they have few wads of disposable naira waffling in their pockets and there is a fine car with tinted windows, they will start running after heavily painted slay queens with fake big boobs and asses. Remember, Shakespeare said and I quote "hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".

You are completely right, I now have the above mentioned but It is totally impossible for me to lay with another woman, many slay queens have tried but failed. I advise those who care to listen, it is an advantage to have lived that kind of life in the past. I just discovered that I am not moved by another woman no matter how beautiful

Let me use opportunity to advertise here , please o I am looking for husband o.

Ikjosh04:
Well, to an extent you're right.

Just negodu!

Hmmm... you make me yarn for marriage despite my fears! I will say Congratulations Bro. indeed, U are blessed among many! I pray i get the same blessing in the years to come.

Lest i forget, Happy birthday Ma, more years of to you happiness. U deserve more than everything! Hv fun!

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Congrats and how did you get out the Queen of the slayers out of the so called Slay Queens?

Wow, this is sweet, i pray God bless me with a woman as good as your wife. Happy birthday ma! God bless you and your household .

Awww .. May God bless your marriage sir..It is good to know there are beautiful marriages out there compared to what we read here everyday..


Your wife is beautiful oo

Awwww. Can imagine the joy in your heart.. To every woman out there, both married and unmarried... Please make it in your habit to be your hubby's PEACE.. Once you are his peace,, you will see him hovering all over you all the time to the point that people might think you are using something on him but then they won't still understand.. Once you nag alot,, man will always see excuse of not being with you all the time.. Might choose to be with friends in a bar or might just hang out alone in a bar waiting for sleeping time to come back home simply because he can't have peace in his home.. A virtuous woman is hard to find but you can choose to make yourself one..(I am hot tempered ooo buh then I can't allow it to spoil my forever cos I know I won't be seeing nobody like him again) people will always ask me why I call my husband baby... And my response is always "cos he is my son he will forever be my baby... The children will leave both of us to settle elsewhere in the future but two of us ain't going no where".. I equally see him as a father cos he has stood by me all these years... I count him as my blessing... Cos he is indeed and the only way to reciprocate is to be all that he wants in a woman.... So OP please enjoy your wife... Good women and Men are hard to find.. So once you find one don't do the mistake of loosing them.. Happy birthday to your wife

Natudu:
Hmmn! When you are lucky, abi?

Seriously I mean if she ever says YES to be in a relationship with you

Happy birthday beautiful...God bless ur new age

ezenwajosh:
Can I bet you married from Nsukka in Enugu State

Am not from there though but their girls are beautiful, hard working, fair and faithful

GOD DEHM IT

She is a Lagosian from Badagry, she's mixed Coutonou/ Badagry.

Whoever is cutting onions here should stop okay.....

Beautiful words have never been said like this.

Congratulations.


God blessed me with that type of lady also and my own story will be written in the sky

Had to stop reading not because its boring or too long but because i couldn't stop day dreaming about finding this kind of blessing the Op has...
Happy birthday to ur woman she deserves nothing but the best of everything.

Viz iz how God made life to be. Full of testimonies. This womans life is a book of its own. I hope all these arrogant females on nl will learn. Happy birthday dear. We love you.

Nice one

Congratulations and happy birthday to her... God bless your union for eternity!

Happy birthday to your beautiful wife and well done for appreciating what you have and the sacrifices she has made in the marriage.

I guess you showed her so much love that made her tolerate your misbehavior.

Thank God you have realized your mistakes and taken correction .

God bless your home and continue to add more love into it

Continue to pray together, it is the secret to prosper and be victorious in you marriage

Happy birthday, long life and prosperity!
This story almost moved me to tears.
Do we still have such women in Nigeria?
I get the impression many are all for what they get these days. If it is exhausted they search for their next victims .

May God help those of us that are still single.

As I join others to wish your wife happy birthday,I also tap into your success story.

Happy Birthday to a virtuous woman. A wife of noble character is her husband's crown, but she who causes shame is like decay in his bones.

Searchingforbae:
Let me use opportunity to advertise here , please o I am looking for husband o.

I for apply but I am 29 and jobless lol. Wish you good luck anyway but this opens you up to criticism, just beware.

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

What a beautiful woman...

Only that your write up has no name.
She is worth celebrated

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

Error . You just exposed your source of happiness, whatever comes after Mr man take it Oooh.

Enjoy.

LagosBoi2:
It is your birthday my darling wife, I have to make public this letter because you are the best thing that ever happened to my life and I can't keep silent anymore.

My friend and lover of 16 straight years, It is usual for husbands to appreciate their wives in the name of marriage but it is unusual to state reasons for the appreciation.

I think you don't just love, there should be genuine reasons to love, I will purge out my thoughts on the reasons you should be the most celebrated wife on earth.

As a young man, if all you ever wish for is to meet your partner a virgin, I personally NEVER wished for it but women who still keep their virginity against all odds for the right man should be specially celebrated in today's crazy world. Amazingly I can confidently say that I am the only man in her life for 16yrs until date, she is a completely faithful wife.

We have never had any issues over infidelity on her part during our courtship and marriage till date, I have been the one misbehaving through the years, growing up was crazy, I was the one exploring life and doing all I could but she submitted her life to me.

As a multi talented young lady, she submitted her career and life to me, believing in me despite all my mistakes, she is the only person that understands me even without an explanation to my human mistakes.

I can not easily forget her usual lines after giving her piece of advice, she will say "I do not see you as my husband, I see you as my own son, If my son should do this same thing you have just done, will i disown him?", "you are still young, you will outgrow these behaviours and be the best man for me"

I lost my biological mother 11 yrs ago but If I call you my mother, I have a genuine reason to do so because you stood by me in a way that only a mother can.

The 16yrs wasn't all rosy, about 9 of the 16 years was full sufferings and poverty, even when I lost hope in myself, you continued to have high hopes in me without any iota of doubt.

We were homeless on two occasions in our lives and then with 2 kids, you endured with me, staying with your mom while I stay with a friend, you even came to live with me in my friend's place.

Despite the humiliation, you refused to give up on me, you absolutely signed off your whole life to me. At a point you wore your best cloth to a company where I asked you to help me submit a proposal, a young lady tapped you to inform you that your dress is torn at the back.

If you have ever had to wear a cloth that is so used up and begins to split into two from the back, you will understand what this means, my wife came home and narrated the issue to me, she actually saw the dress before wearing it, she wore it because she had no better one to wear

I couldn't control my emotions, I began to cry like a baby, I can never forget what she told me that faithful day, she said "Baby, don't worry, the same me wearing torn cloths today will have enough to wear tomorrow, I will even be giving out because it will be excess" Behold 7yrs after her words came to pass, cloths and female accessories are the least of her worries.

Your wisdom is extraordinary even me your husband can not match, your heart so pure that you forgive the unthinkable. Your ways so pure that you find it difficult to tell a lie. You gave me a girl and 2 boys. 12yr, 6yr and 2yr respectively.

You stood by your promise to see me through to success, If you look for a woman who gives in everything into a relationship without blinking, that is my wife.

You politely correct me when I am wrong, you warmly advise me and leave me to make my final decisions, you respect me as a father not as a husband.

Your culinary skills are the best I have ever known, friends and family can testify to this, you are the best mother to our kids, your daughter calls you the best mom in the world, I also call you the best wife and mother in the world. They say no perfect human but you are near perfect. You are so beautiful that people who do not know you conclude that you must have several men in your life spending money on you to look younger and beautiful even after 3 kids.

I can go on and on because there is a lot to talk about you that is not open to others, you live a private life without desperation for anything in life, You are a woman of honor, dignity, value with undying strength to carry on and remain focus against all odds.

I promise to guide our union with my life, protect our family with my strength and celebrate you for the rest of your life.

Happy birthday my darling wife!

You are indeed the best!

Please help move this to FP today 26 Feb to celebrate a good woman's birthday.

Add: On your request, I have added pics.

Thank you.

You are one lucky person, I'm going through those hard phase of life myself, I hope it gets better soon, Happy birthday iyawo, age gracefully.

Happy birthday to your wife she is one in a million. also kudos to you cos after this type of suffering with a man some will not still appreciate her and still dump her there are many men like that.

I pray God keeps you all away from evil.

Nairaland bitter leaf FC feminists are not happy. This woman is certainly not a member of their club.

vinceobe:
Congratulations for finding a good wife. A good wife is hard to find. But they are available but very few. Take care of her and never you break her heart and disappoint her. I know some Nigerian men. Once they have few wads of disposable naira waffling in their pockets and there is a fine car with tinted windows, they will start running after heavily painted slay queens with fake big boobs and asses. Remember, Shakespeare said and I quote "hell hath no fury than a woman scorned".

I don't think good wives are that hard, it's our men that makes us bad.
I'm yet to see men who can say I've been married for 16years without cheating.
I've been married for 16 too and my husband cheated severally... It made me treat him wickedly cos anytime I remember it I feel there's no reason to be kind to him. Though I never cheated.
It's just of recent I'm beginning to support him.

Things will never be the same though..