Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

Of course, we all know how women love to play victim , even when they are killing you.... my advice is that you owe no one anything but yourself...... just do whatever makes you happy.... don't listen to all these old rags here ..... most of them are hopeless and will want you to be in their shoes...... Never accept a cheating girlfriend.....it will always end in tears...... and please remember this .... for guys only.." life begins at 40" .......enjoy your day bro and be happy


Ciao

See eh
If u can't marry her
Let her go
Tell her
U r 40
U r no longer a baby
The earlier d Berra
Start looking for someone asap
Likewise ur babe
Peace

My guy you don suffer. She's desperate if your story is true o.

Yes, she is pressuring me too much to marry her... I don't know why the pressure is too much but I av to be honest with her.. Too much.

U guys shud always learn the truth b4 u start pouring blames on me.... You can tell her to move on.. After all, she has her own mind too and I av never forced her to be with me eve after she broke up several times with me.. Even Slept with one of my friend when we had issues. Imagine?

I will be mentioning people dt gave comment on her thread and my first account.

Xhosanostra sassygem101 lefulefu
funmisticqueen2 riele ariza Michellekabod2

We guys knew. Ladies are never truthful while complaining, they will always picture the story to favour themselves.

Phenomenal16:
See eh If u can't marry her Let her go Tell her U r 40 U r no longer a baby The earlier d Berra Start looking for someone asap Likewise ur babe Peace

She can go, I am not forcing her.. I am not 40

Simply let her go then. You too also sounds too childish for your age.

ProfDview1:


She can go, I am not forcing her.. I am not 40

Even if you are 40..... and so What, you are a man and can father kids until you die ....... it's women that should be concerned abt age..... cos once they are 40, that's the "end of discussion for them...... so please bro , don't allow all these hoes confuse you into marrying their kind



Ciao

ProfDview1:


She can go, I am not forcing her.. I am not 40

..Ineedto heal....u don hear am from d horses mouth..
Babe move on...
I can't imagine my boo being on naira land

Fear women ooh!!!!!!!!!

My guy listen to olamide womado you go dey alright.
I didn't even believe her self

ProfDview1:
Yes, she is pressuring me too much to marry her... I don't know why the pressure is too much but I av to be honest with her.. Too much.

U guys shud always learn the truth b4 u start pouring blames on me.... You can tell her to move on.. After all, she has her own mind too and I av never forced her to be with me eve after she broke up several times with me.. Even Slept with one of my friend when we had issues. Imagine?

I will be mentioning people dt gave comment on her thread and my first account.

Xhosanostra sassygem101 lefulefu
funmisticqueen2 riele ariza Michellekabod2

Like I said, I don't blame you. I blame.her for acting like her whole world revolves around you. Let her be sensible enough and move on already.

ProfDview1:
Yes, she is pressuring me too much to marry her... I don't know why the pressure is too much but I av to be honest with her.. Too much.

U guys shud always learn the truth b4 u start pouring blames on me.... You can tell her to move on.. After all, she has her own mind too and I av never forced her to be with me eve after she broke up several times with me.. Even Slept with one of my friend when we had issues. Imagine?

I will be mentioning people dt gave comment on her thread and my first account.

Xhosanostra sassygem101 lefulefu
funmisticqueen2 riele ariza Michellekabod2

She slept with your friends when you guys had issue ? . Hmm . Did you or did you not invite 3 different girls to your father' burial ? .
Is it also true that you're serial womanizer ? .

She's pressuring a 40 year old man to get married and you're not happy about it ? .

Your mates have children in secondary schools Oga ! .

She have slept with one of your friends but you still went back to the relationship . Why ? .

make una go church o

LilMissFavvy mjbolt placeofallure chinchonglee
sexylassie2 ineedtoheal hopeforcharles

Why wud she beg me to end it with her, can't she End it herself...

She has her own mind, I av never forced her to love me... Never and I wud never do that

GraGra247 sisisioge elitedude pocohantas crackkhaus @healthserve I am not a bad person as she painted me.

See 36 and 30 behaving like kids. Truly age is just a number

planetx13:


Even if you are 40..... and so What, you are a man and can father kids until you die ....... it's women that should be concerned abt age..... cos once they are 40, that's the "end of discussion for them...... so please bro , don't allow all these hoes confuse you into marrying their kind



Ciao

He's a Community d*ck . His type deserves the best of Ho.es !

Riele:


She slept with your friends when you guys had issue ? . Hmm . Did you or did you not invite 3 different girls to your father' burial ? .
Is it also true that you're serial womanizer ? .

She's pressuring a 40 year old man to get married and you're not happy about it ? .

Your mates have children in secondary schools Oga ! .

She have slept with one of your friends but you still went back to the relationship . Why ? .

Lemme make it clear.. 2 were my ex and they offered to come pay respect to m dead father..shud I av said no?

She begged me in the name of seeking comfort... Slept with my frnd but w av gone too long, just forgave her like I use too, so many times...

Riele:


He's a Community d*ck . His type deserves the best of Ho.es !

U r even judging me base on her own post.

Ladies always defend their own even when it's wrong.. I am not surprised at all

Sixfeetbelle franchasng safarigirl

Some ladies should just have sense in this life .

ProfDview1:


U r even judging me base on her own post.

Ladies always defend their own even when it's wrong.. I am not surprised at all

Lol . You're also judging the whole situation base on your own post .

Men always defend their own even when it's wrong . I'm not surprised at all .

ProfDview1:


U r even judging me base on her own post.

Ladies always defend their own even when it's wrong.. I am not surprised at all

bro, you dont need to give explanations to anyone here. Just forge ahead with your life

planetx13:
Of course, we all know how women love to play victim , even when they are killing you.... my advice is that you owe no one anything but yourself...... just do whatever makes you happy.... don't listen to all these old rags here ..... most of them are hopeless and will want you to be in their shoes...... Never accept a cheating girlfriend.....it will always end in tears...... and please remember this .... for guys only.." life begins at 40" .......enjoy your day bro and be happy


Ciao

Thanks for ur understanding.. It's a pity that ladies here believe all her lies just to be seen as good and paint me bad.


What a world!!!!

Well, I've learned never to judge from one person's story alone, especially women. I was one of those who advised her to opt out of the relationship based on what she wrote, but now, I feel like she may have exaggerated a bit, as it is typical of women...

Either ways, na una life... I get my life to live.

Gallant12:
Simply let her go then. You too also sounds too childish for your age.

She can go if she wants too. I av never held her down

Phenomenal16:
See eh
If u can't marry her
Let her go
Tell her
U r 40
U r no longer a baby
The earlier d Berra
Start looking for someone asap
Likewise ur babe
Peace

He said he's 36

SassyGem101:



Like I said, I don't blame you. I blame.her for acting like her whole world revolves around you. Let her be sensible enough and move on already.

She can go but I can't be pressured into marriage... I know what I need, if she wants to marry, let her go and marry but for me, it's a no.. Told her several times without numbers

Riele:


Lol . You're also judging the whole situation base on your own post .

Men always defend their own even when it's wrong . I'm not surprised at all .

N how is he judging based on his post? Nawa for some pple o

Riele:


Lol . You're also judging the whole situation base on your own post .

Men always defend their own even when it's wrong . I'm not surprised at all .

Can't be arguing with a 16 yrs old lady. Pls not an insult okay

Phenomenal16:
[s]See eh
If u can't marry her
Let her go
Tell her
U r 40
U r no longer a baby
The earlier d Berra
Start looking for someone asap
Likewise ur babe
Peace[/s]

Stop all these yeye feminist one sided judgement and wailing.